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Introduction: Experiencing every relationship with God is a journey of the heart, where 𝕕𝕚𝕧𝕚𝕟𝕖 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 with god (the source) becomes the foundational support of all our life-ventures. He is a friend in moments of solitude, a parent in times of need, a guide through uncertainty, and a constant companion in both joy and sorrow. We may see god as the sun and the moon, both of which moves with us, everywhere we go. To walk with God is to embrace trust, and surrender to his divine ways and divine timing... It is discovering that His presence transforms ordinary moments into sacred experiences—a whisper of intuition guiding you in the quiet, a force stoping you from making a wrong choice, a feeling of peace amidst chaos, a balm in pain. Through prayer, gratitude, and stillness, we learn to see His love not as distant or abstract, but alive in every breath, relationship, and challenge. In this dance of FAITH, every struggle becomes a lesson, every joy a shared celebration, and every act of love an extension of His grace. Here, we find not just a higher power, but a home—a boundless, intimate relationship that roots us in peace, purpose, and assurance that we are never alone. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ★ Experiencing Every Relationship with God (Supreme Soul) ★ Your question partly answers itself... Remembering Shiv Baba in different ways is a good way to keep renewing the love and affection every day. How To Do That? Simple... We can experience every close human relationship with god/creator/shiv baba. And you can start this in the morning >> it is the best time for 'new beginnings'. So during your amritvela (morning meditation), you can create a thought: ➙my beloved baba ➙my beloved teacher ➙my beloved friend ➙my beloved lover ➙my beloved child ➙my beloved guide shiv and so on... 🌷You can pick any ONE relationship every day... and affirm it during morning meditation >> and then keep that in mind throughout the day. This will help you naturally feel the 'connection' with the supreme soul in the form of a parent, a friend, a child, a teacher, a guide. 🌈The key to experience every connection with the divine (god) naturally, is "GRATITUDE" ✶Meaning: Find the gifts you have received in your life... then 'categorise' those gifts into: Gifts from Shiv baba: as 'father' as 'mother' as 'teacher' as 'friend' as 'lover' as 'guide' 🪻Then you can THANK him for every gift, and experience 'closeness' to god with every relationship mentioned above. For example: Today, you can thank shiv baba for the KNOWLEDGE (gyan) that you have received from him as a TEACHER... So you are experiencing 'closeness' to him as your TEACHER. ➥Then tomorrow you can thank shiv baba for all the love, blessings & help that you have received from him as your PARENT. 🍀We hope you have understood the picture now... Go on and practise this every day (plant the 'seed' during morning meditation) ✶Recommended post: Restoring Faith in God ✶Recommended Audio playlist: MUST listen to this crafted audio playlist of selected audiobooks & speeches that can 'inspire' and 'invoke' the best in you: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/motivational-faith-feeling Video: STRONG relationship with god ('Awakening' episode by BK Shivani) Strong Relationship With GOD: Ep 75 Soul Reflections: BK Shivani (English Subtitles) Video: CREATING a 'personal' relationship with god (a class by BK Shivani) Create A Personal Relationship With God : Sister BK Shivani I Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Introduction: This article post introduces you to the FOUR parts of the soul: Heart, Intellect, Mind, Senses... "In the quiet spaces between our thoughts and the unspoken yearnings that guide our choices lies the essence of what it means to be truly alive—the heart of the soul. This deepest core of the soul, and older than memory—pulses with the rhythms of our truest selves, shaping how we love, grieve, dream, and connect. We all have that inner core—the part of us that feels deeply, hopes fiercely, and sometimes wrestles with doubts or fears. It’s what we might call the “heart of the soul,” the quiet center where our truest self lives. This isn’t about grand philosophies or abstract ideas; it’s about the raw, everyday stuff that shapes how we love, cope, and make sense of life. Whether it’s the joy that lifts us or the pain that weighs us down, understanding this part of ourselves can change how we navigate relationships, challenges, and even the quiet moments in between. Let’s talk about why this “heart” matters and how to listen to it and make better choices. ★ The Heart of Soul ★ You wanted to know "how is heart related to the soul". You do understand that it is only the SOUL who is the ultimate master... Soul, the 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜, operating and experiencing LIFE using/through the sensory organs (इन्द्रियाँ), the mind (मन), and intellect (बुद्धि) ⭐Imagine: Visualise a point of light (or 'a ball of light')... and the light is radiating out... The further you go from the centre of this light, the lesser its 'intensity' becomes. 🍁Now, what we call HEART, is the closest component of the soul... the deepest part of the soul (the 'essence' THAT YOU ARE) which always knows and is informed through feelings >> "feeling is the language of the soul" and what we call HEART receives and transmits these feelings. It is the heart that "remembers" and "recalls" what the soul always knew and experienced even many lifetimes ago. Heart is the depth from which our intuition (𝚍𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚒𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚛 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠𝚒𝚗𝚐) is born. Then comes intellect (बुद्धि) 👉 a deeper faculty of the soul through which the soul discriminates (judge what is GOOD and what is BAD, what is RIGHT and what is WRONG) and thus, what to DO and what NOT to do. As you can understand, the intellect is a very important part of human experience, as it separates us from animals and birds... We can THINK and CHOOSE between good and bad, even between good and better. 🪻Then comes the mind (मन) 👉 another part of the soul through which the soul can THINK (create thoughts) >> and you know that thoughts hold creative energy >> hence it is through the faculty of mind that we CREATE our life, our reality. The furthest faculty is sensory organs (इन्द्रियाँ) 👉 through which the soul 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕, 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎 & 𝚘𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚎 the physical body. This includes the 5 senses (see, hear, touch, smell, taste) Conclusion We have explained the 4 faculties of the soul (heart, intellect, mind, senses) and how they relate and function. ☘️Now putting this into a perspective: ➙When you touch someone with your hand (a physical touch), you are touching the soul through its "senses" ➙When you touch (or influence) someone with your thought (intellectually), you are touching their "mind" ➙When you touch someone with deeper feelings & emotions you are touching their "heart" ➤Recommended post: Soul & Soul-consciousness and The Healing Embrace of God ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Introduction: The eternal dance between duty (dharma) and passion (the heart’s call) lies at the core of human existence, a dilemma as ancient as philosophy itself. Dharma, rooted in traditions of Hinduism and Buddhism, embodies the moral principles and cosmic order—the responsibilities, ethics, and roles that bind individuals to society and the universe. Yet, equally compelling is the heart’s calling, an inner pull toward authenticity, creativity, and purpose that defies rigid structures. This dichotomy raises a profound question: Must we sacrifice personal longing for collective obligation, or can these forces coexist harmoniously? From Arjuna’s crisis in the Bhagavad Gita to modern existential dilemmas, humanity has sought pathways to honor both the soul’s fire and the weight of earthly duty. This article post beautifully explains how aligning dharma with passion is not a compromise but a sacred integration—a journey to live fully and responsibly. Title: "𝘿𝙪𝙩𝙮 (𝘿𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙖) 𝙫𝙨 𝙋𝙖𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 (𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩'𝙨 𝘾𝙖𝙡𝙡)" Subtitle: 𝙱𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝙱𝙰𝙻𝙰𝙽𝙲𝙴 '𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚢' 𝚊𝚗𝚍 '𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗' 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚑𝚕𝚢 '𝚍𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚜' { MUST READ } Index Post Introduction Foreword Dharma (duty) Arthat (wealth) Kama (purpose) Career Advise Purusharth & Spiritual Growth Actionable Steps ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Foreword This would be our most helpful guidance given on 'finding a balance' b/w life and spirituality. Please read this with utmost attention. Read it again and again till it fully dissolves in your heart. This will feel relevant to many and most of you, so please 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝 this message to others. Managing family responsibilities (earthly duty), personal aspirations (heart's call), and spiritual growth (life's purpose)—requires a 'balanced' approach. Your situation is quite pivotal. What you choose now will impact your 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 & 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚓𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚎𝚢. Hence, in order to give you a complete & helpful guidance, i am going to use the THREE basic principles of life as mentioned in the ancient Indian scriptures: 𝗗𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗮 (धर्म - 𝗗𝘂𝘁𝘆) Supporting your family during a financial crisis aligns with the principle of DHARMA (धर्म), as it embodies the moral principles and cosmic order—the responsibilities, ethics, and roles that bind individuals to societal order and the universe. Dharma is your 𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎’𝚜 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎. Spiritually speaking, a human being's DHARMA is mainly divided into 4 parts: • सत्य (Living with Truth, in your speech and vision) • अहिंसा (Non-violence in your actions/behavior & thoughts) • प्रेम (Selfless love for all beings) • दान (Charity/Generosity to the needy) 𝘿𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨: "Talk". Open a heartfelt dialogue with your parents to understand their perspective and needs. They may value your emotional well-being over immediate financial contributions. See if they need your help and ask them HOW. 𝗔𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗮 (अर्थ -𝗪𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵) Money is surely important, as it ensures a comfortable survival and a financial freedom. At times, money helps you in fulfilling your dream and even in helping others. Artha is 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚞𝚒𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚠𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚝𝚑, 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚕𝚢 𝚜𝚞𝚌𝚌𝚎𝚜𝚜. 𝘿𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨: Consider 'practical steps' to contribute—such as 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵-𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬, 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘦 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 (e.g., graphic design, digital arts, or art therapy). These fields offer income while keeping you connected to your passion. This is called balancing the heart and the mind. Refer: Manifesting Wealth 𝗞𝗮𝗺𝗮 (काम-𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲) 𝙹𝚘𝚢, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚒𝚛𝚎. The persuit of your desire (heart's calling and life-purpose) is all embodied under this third Purusharth of human life. Kama (desire) is the pursuit of emotional, sensory, and aesthetic fulfillment, encompassing love, pleasure, creativity, and the enjoyment of life’s beauty. When you listen to your inner voice, your intuition, the heart's calling—you are going with the natural flow of life. Living this way, you source your joy from the process, live in the moment, and learn to enjoy every scene of life. As they say: "Do what you love and enjoy" 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲 Since you are at early stage of life, we can advise you on career options that can help you 'balance' your passion, and also ensure a good income. Let's call it a 'hybrid' path. ➤𝗛𝘆𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗱 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗵 Pursue art (listen to your heart's call) while also developing popular 𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐡𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐤𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐜𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠—to enhance employability. Use the internet to earn money 'displaying' and 'selling' your art: 𝙾𝚗𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚏𝚘𝚕𝚒𝚘𝚜, 𝚜𝚘𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚊 & 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚜𝚒𝚝𝚎𝚜. Part 2 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝘂𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗵 & 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 Understand that spirituality does not ask you to give up the earthly duties. But indeed, when you become more 'aware' of your spiritual identity, when you GROW spiritually, you also become more 'aligned' to your 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎-𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎 and—life will become simpler, struggles will begin to end, and you will grow out stronger & wiser from every experience of life. Therefore, BE BRAVE... Do not see life's struggles as an 'obstacle' to your spiritual growth, but they are catalysts. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 '𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫'. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 '𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐫'... 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐡! God has never left you alone, and never will. You only need to "surrender" and let the 𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚌𝚎 guide you through the lights and shadows of life. "LET GO & LET GOD" ➤ 𝙏𝙍𝙐𝙎𝙏: Trust that you are always safe. There is no way you will miss your 'spiritual growth' in trying to provide for your family, or in chasing your dream... 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦, 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞. That is why you are here. Trust that IT WILL HAPPEN, no matter what struggles otherwise suggest. According to the ancient Indian philosophy, there are four main Purushārthas for a human being: • Dharma (धर्म) – "𝚈𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎’𝚜 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎." Like the North Star, it keeps your actions just, your word true, and your heart aligned with cosmic order. • Artha (अर्थ) – "𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚞𝚒𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚠𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚝𝚑, 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚕𝚢 𝚜𝚞𝚌𝚌𝚎𝚜𝚜." Not greed of wealth, but honest prosperity—so you can feed your family, do charity, support community, and save for the time. • Kāma (काम) – "𝙹𝚘𝚢, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚒𝚛𝚎." From the laughter of children to the poetry of romance, it reminds you that life without 'pleasure' is a song without melody. • Moksha (मोक्ष) – "𝙻𝚒𝚋𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚢𝚌𝚕𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚋𝚒𝚛𝚝𝚑 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚑." The ultimate exit door, where the soul flies free of all earthly bondages (the cycle of birth & death) and merges back into Brahman (the infinite 𝚜𝚞𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚖𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜). "𝙏𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝘽𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨" It is when the soul is tested to its limit that it GROW beyond the limit... And you will feel the 'closest' you ever did to god during these times. You will feel 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝, 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐝, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝. When you follow this path, amidst chaos you will be 'at peace' and that god will do all your work, bring you out to the light. This is the holy promise. 🍀So go on, 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐮𝐭𝐲, 𝐛𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 '𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬' 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞. Trust that there is 'light' at the end of this tunnel, awaiting the BEST OF YOU... And that this 'process' of life is blessed to awaken THE BEST IN YOU. Tip: Read our post Testing Times are Blessed Times (after reading the current article) ———————————— 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽𝘀 Here are our practical suggestions you should immediately follow: 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙧𝙩-𝙏𝙚𝙧𝙢 Explore flexible income sources (𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚊𝚛𝚝, 𝚝𝚞𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝚍𝚒𝚐𝚒𝚝𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝) to 𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 the financial-stress without giving up your passion (long-term goals). 𝙇𝙤𝙣𝙜-𝙏𝙚𝙧𝙢 Research creative industries with 'growth potential' and build a 𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐨. Find inspiring people in 𝐚𝐫𝐭 and stay connected to 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲. Connect with like-minded people through social media and forums. 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 Dedicate time daily to 'meditation' (RajYog). Self-empowerment, connecting with the supreme, giving Sakash to your family, following spiritual principles—this is your priority. Everything else is second. Through meditation, seek 𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 & 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞. Bring out 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 into your creative work (job) to merge art and spirituality. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Family, the cornerstone of our lives, can also be a source of profound emotional turbulence. Anger—whether sparked by misunderstandings, unmet expectations, or unresolved past wounds—can fracture even the strongest bonds, leaving loved ones feeling isolated and disconnected. Yet, within this tension lies an opportunity—not only to 'heal' but also to 'strengthen' the bond. Healing relationships is not merely done through words, but more with positive thought/intention and willingness. This article-post gives guidance on a specific family situation, where a grand-daughter feels for her grandfather, and enters into a conflict with her uncle and rest of the family. She approached us for guidance to overcome her anger issue, heal herself, and mend the relationship. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Title: "𝙎𝙤𝙡𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖 𝙁𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙎𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣" Subtitle: 𝙸𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚘𝚗 '𝚊𝚗𝚐𝚎𝚛' 𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚞𝚎 & 𝚘𝚗 '𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐' 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏 & 𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚑𝚒𝚙𝚜 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗 𝚏𝚊𝚖𝚒𝚕𝚢 ———————————— Original Query >> Om Shanti 🙏🏻 Today morning....I saw my grandfather who was requesting my uncle to connect the fan connection through an inverter so that he could sleep...my uncle and aunt who were awake yet pretending to be sleeping..... My grandfather kept calling out his name...so I went and knocked on the door to come out but they didn't come...when my grandfather came downstairs my uncle came out and said the inverter couldn't take the load of two fans. I was there to offer morning tea to baba...I suggested baba to buy an inverter for himself and not to rely on anyone.....as he is already getting a good amount (around35000/-) as pension then he showed me a bank slip in which uncle took all the money from his account (around 2.5 lacs) and he has just 2700 left in his account. At the same moment he gave three statements for what reasons he took money. I don't know why...I just said "chor hai sb" and came out of the room. Then Uncle was blaming my grandfather that you have me the money and forgot and she is saying me 'chor' (a theif) I don't know why but I wasn't able to control my anger in that situation... And I argued with everyone who was coming to call me down. All day long I'm crying...and not be able to keep myself calm down... though I'm very peaceful person never ever get involved in anything but this happened today. Please help me to come from this 🙏🏻 The Response Firstly, it is good that you have wrote down your feelings... This itself would make you feel light and free. Now, 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 yourself what has happened. You saw a scene, and it did not please you seeing that your grandfather was not treated with the 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 & 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 he deserve. You saw this as "injustice" and this immediately sparked emotions in your heart... This then trailed long and caused you anger. ((Anger is the final outcome whenever you become too emotional.. no matter what emotion is in the beginning, but it would all lead to 'anger' in the end)) Because anger has many open doors to enter... Observe this >>Whatever makes you unhappy, and whenever you are 'agitated' or 'feeling helpless' or especially when something doesn't happen as per your expectation or will—this will lead to disappointment and anger... and anger takes away "clarity" in thinking. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: One cannot make the best decision (in a given situation) in favour of 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 & 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, when their mind is covered by anger. What is the Solution? ANSWER: "𝘾𝙡𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙮 & 𝙋𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚" ...and these both reciprocate each other (if you find 𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 you will attain 'peace' & 'patience'... and when you keep 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 you will also gain 'clarity' with time) 🌳Hence all we need to keep is "patience" when dealing with situations or people. Just 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲>> that is all you need. 𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 and then process it using your 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦 & also be open to the 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭. 𝗜𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: What you missed here, was an opportunity to see the other side... Maybe it is not what you THINK it is... as there are things that you do not know (and cannot see)... The kind of relationship they both (your grandpa & uncle) share is their own 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐜 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭 >> we cannot judge that without having the "complete picture" (which only god have) 🍁"𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘺"... A big picture makes no sense when only a small part of it is seen. 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝗽𝗶𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 isnt it. We see but a small part of it at once... 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 will make a complete sense when you will see it as WHOLE... Same is true for every life of every person alive. "Think" 𝗦𝗢𝗟𝗨𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 Practically, yes suggest your grandpa to buy an inverter for himself (or anything cheaper that ensures he gets 'cool air' during summer)... And spiritually, you can help yourself to HEAL, to find PEACE... and to heal the relationships within your family. (Perhaps this is the purpose why you got connected to this divine platform 'Samadhan') 🌈We have detailed written guidance already published on our FORUM... So please read & follow the below-given posts one by one: How to Tolerate, Forgive, Face & Heal? Specific: Overcome Anger Forever Healing from Past & Living in Awareness 🌟We highly recommend you to start practising "Sakash" meditation for your family & yourself: SAKASH: Heal body & soul ➤➤ 𝙈𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 Testing times are 'blessed' times Finding Motivation & Faith Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

In today’s age and time, smartphones have become a part of daily life—even for children. While these devices offer educational and social benefits, excessive screen time can lead to phone addiction, impacting a child’s social skills, emotional well-being, and cognitive development. Every parent should be conscious of this. Parents and guardians often face the challenge of 'balancing' technology’s advantages with its risks. This article explores practical suggestions & insight to help children build healthier relationships with technology and devices, developing mindfulness, positive habits, encouraging offline engagement, and creating a supportive environment where technology serves as a tool for personal overall growth—not a distraction from your life and purpose ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. We understand, as this is a very common problem with the new generation of children, who are born and brought up around technology (mobile phone, computers, and more) 🌳It is very easy to get addicted to social media, seeing what others are doing...and thus get distracted from your own natural life... your goals and purpose. Even natural talents hids or fades away when not recognised, used and exercised... So while technology is supposed to be used for making our life better (comfortable) and work easier, if not used for this purpose, it brings "dependency" and quickly become a habit. 🍁While we understand that 'phone' and 'computer' is needed to do school work and research, and even for entertainment... but it must be done under self-discipline and following a timetable >> Prepare a timetable for HOW LONG should phone or computer be allowed and FOR WHAT purpose... This way, develop discipline in your child... make him/her understand the meaning and importance of such discipline in life... by giving moral wisdom, being an example, and even exploring helpful videos (related videos on 'phone-addiction' and 'importance of discipline' >> please search by yourself on YouTube). Parents should limit their own screen time, especially during family interactions. "Inspiring is the highest way of teaching" 🌈A very simple but effective way of overcoming dependency on technology (phone, computer, etc), is that—we deliberately spend ONE DAY every week without using any of it... This has to be done consciously with the 'purpose' to experience the natural life (go for a walk, exercise, paint, read a book, spend time with family..) 🪴We also understand that at this age, your child is also going through mood swings due to her/him going through "puberty". They will behave 'agitated' and 'rebellious' during these years. You need to remember this while helping. ———————————— Helpful Links We highly suggest you to go through & follow these 4 POSTS to gain more clarity & get more 'detailed' guidance on this same topic: ➤ Helping Someone to Overcome Phone-addiction ➤ Overcoming Phone-addiction ➤ Improving Focus (concentration) ➤ Guidance on STUDY and EXAMS Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Karma is often misunderstood as a cosmic scoreboard of reward and punishment, but its essence runs far deeper—it is the 'living energy' of our choices, rippling through time and space. Every thought you create & hold, every word you speak, and every deed you act—sends off a ripple to the universe, which them comes back to you. The "intention" behind the karma is what decide its result. This article/post explains the idea that karma is not fate, but a dynamic force we co-create with every thought, word, and deed. Drawing from ancient wisdom and spiritual understanding derived through various sources—we will explore how aligning with karmic energy can transform patterns of suffering into opportunities for growth, and mainly that "how does karma come back to you" The following was written in response to a question we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2024. Question: I have heard that the souls with whom we have the deepest karmic accounts often returns to us in this life as 'spouse'. So my question is: What if i decide not to marry in this birth? Would it stop the karmic cycle? and if no, then how else would my karma be settled? Answer We are going to make everything very clear to you, in this brief response: Lets begin from KARMA: "The energy you send out to the universe is returned to you" (This is what people call "law of karma" in common view) That returning energy can come through people in your connection. And it could be anyone (doesn't have to be a spouse or children). Human being here becomes a medium for that energy to come back to you. Now imagine you separate yourself from everyone, literally. Do you know what would happen?---You will still receive the energy back (you always do), but this time it would be directly to your door. Your mind and heart will go through those emotions and feelings (which you given out to others in past). And this could be both POSITIVE and NEGATIVE. When it is 'positive' it is all good... but when negative experience visits you when you are living alone, you would not even realise WHY this is happening. Because you cannot see the 'source' of it... This is the secret why people go mad (loose their normal sense) when they live alone for a long time. Because the energy is returning, but invisible. (When that energy was coming through a person, it was visible and made sense. Even the intensity is lower, as the medium absorbs some of it) This is why relationships are the greatest gift from god. Only we human beings have this gift. Good and healthy (positive) relationships with everyone around can make your life a living 'heaven' ----------------------- Part 2 MARRIAGE Now we come to your enquiry on 'marriage'. No, marriage is not a compulsion. Whether for man or woman. What is important is that you correctly understand the 'purpose' of marriage. It is not for a man to find 'stability' and the woman to find 'security'---but for both of them to find a lifelong companion with whom you can SHARE your abundance, to whom you can express yourself fully, and you can support, helping eachother to navigate life with joy and growth. Marriage is indeed a HOLY COMMUNION, if you could keep it that way. But yes, there is another aspect of marriage >> "household responsibilities" >> that can certainly deviate you from intense purusharth (spiritual journey) >> But with time as you keep on the spiritual path, you will see how situations become easier and you become STRONGER... Those responsibilities are not meant to deviate you, but to bring you back >> Not meant to take a part from you, but to complete you... Sometimes challenges come, not to break you, but to strengthen your trust (faith) and to make you completely dependent on GOD alone... ➤We have explained this on my post 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙤𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙'𝙨 𝙀𝙢𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙚 (must read) ➤But more accurate and relatable guidance can be found on our post: BALANCE: Spiritual & Family life ➤Explore all our posts on "KARMA" (settling karma, healing relationships, etc): https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+karma More Related Posts: ➤ Testing Times are Blessed Times ➤ End all Struggles & Embrace God ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

End of hurt, sorrow, and struggles with this spiritual knowledge, this knowing... and discover a NEW way of thinking, being, and living. This post is lifechanging, as it gives a beautiful perspective on life—to embrace all scenes and situations of life as a part of 𝚊 𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚗—a preparation for your spiritual growth. "All happens for a good cause". In moments of brokenness, when life weigh us down, there exists a love deeper than despair—a divine embrace that mends fractures of the heart, mind, and spirit. The Healing Touch of God’s Embrace is not about escaping pain, but discovering sanctuary and a divine purpose within it. Whether you are navigating grief, doubt, or feeling lost, this article-post explores how faith can transform suffering into sacred ground, where god's grace whispers 'strength' into our weakness. Read this and find hope, strength, love, and wisdom. Title: "𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙀𝙢𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙" Subtitle: 𝙴𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚑𝚞𝚛𝚝, 𝚜𝚘𝚛𝚛𝚘𝚠 & 𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚐𝚐𝚕𝚎𝚜 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚠𝚊𝚢 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 { MUST READ } Index Introduction Foreword Healing the Past Changing Perspective Life Resolves Itself Direct Advise Helpful Links ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 This one message gives you a glimpse into all wisdom you need to live life joyfully. You must read this message with a 𝚌𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚛 & 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚖 mind. So stop reading now and come back to it in the early morning time. Wake up, wash your face and then read this. And this read again and again until 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕠𝕗 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕞𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕒𝕘𝕖 fills you with the 'wisdom' and the 'power' you need to cope up and overcome this situation. This is one of the most enlightening post we have written. Lastly, must follow the "helpful links" given at the end. Begins » Glad to read that you have found help and guidance through this group earlier, and you always will. Now today, we make this clear to you: The following message does not promise you any external miracles, but rather 𝐚 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦... Freedom from every hurt and worry... Remember: 𝘎𝘰𝘥'𝘴 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘴𝘰𝘭𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘦. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦 you will hear now, will 'shine' every corner of your heart, and can 'upgrade' every aspect of your life. Healing the Past Understand—that what they did or what you did a few days, months, or years ago does NOT matter NOW. The past is only in your memory, while the 'blessed' PRESENT moment is running away... Therefore, by holding on to hurt-feelings—you are 𝐫𝐞-𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 now what was already 'over' many days, months or years ago. Tip: Read our post Healing a Past Experience Changing Perspective I tell you this—Every moment of life either bring us a "blessing" or an "opportunity". A blessing that fills you with 'joy' and helps move 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝 in your life-journey; or an opportunity 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥, 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐭 𝐠𝐨, 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰. For no wound can pain forever, and there is no pain on Earth that 'heaven' cannot heal... We are but only '𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬' 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞. God and time can heal the deepest of wounds. And indeed, if you 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 with this wisdom completely, then you would not be wounded at all. For what you now see as hurt & pain, is 𝐚 '𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧' 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡. "Every scene of your life is preparing you for the next scene". Those challenging times/moments are not a punishment, but a preparation. To make you stronger and wiser than you ever thought you are... For GROWTH happens not when everything is fine and sweet, but 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧. You come to God not when everything is okay, but when you are broken, feeling lost, and need help. "𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙝𝙞𝙙𝙙𝙚𝙣 𝙙𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙝𝙨." 🌈Every moment of life is bringing you either a blessing, or an opportunity to 𝚛𝚒𝚜𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕. Now and then, you may experience hurt or pain because of some or other reason. But pause for a moment and ask—𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝗜 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻?... and take it from me—"Once you LEARN the intended lesson, the situation will fade and disappear" "𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚𝙨 𝙞𝙩𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛, 𝙞𝙣 𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨" When you do nothing more than you must/should, when you touch every soul POSITIVELY, and when you hurt no one... "𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖 𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖 𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚" This is a great wonder of life, and a divine invitation—"𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞—even those who you say harms you. Even when you are taken for granted, can you grant them your peace & love?" 🍁This wont be easy, but when practised, promises you 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐨𝐧 𝐄𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐡. There is no better way to "live" than to "love"... Love not only those who love you back, and not for a reason (or a cause)... But love 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 '𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞' and you are expressing yourself... BLESS all because you know that they are hurt themself. They need healing more than you. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: 'The attacker is more hurt than the victim, for the attacker is injured first'. (Only when you are hurt, will you think of inflicting the injury onto another. And you cannot be hurt by anyone for anything, when you are 'complete' and 'healed' by the touch of your inner divinity) 🌸You share what you have in excess, isn't it? So if someone is giving you their hurt, should you take it? or should you give them back what YOU have in excess? What is the natural way? 🍇But WHEN would you have the 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐣𝐨𝐲 & 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞?—The answer is: When you "explore" and "experience" them within, through 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 (𝐠𝐨𝐝) who is a powerhouse. Connecting to him through 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 & 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜, you will receive' the abundance and also 'experience' the abundance you already have within. (Refer to helpful links to find Guide To RajYog Meditation) 🍎So have you heard? Do you now understand that they are not trying to hurt you, but only 'sharing' the hurt they have in excess. But you can experience 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 and 𝐣𝐨𝐲 even at such times. Because what is 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐭 within is much much stronger than what is 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐧 outside. What is inside you, is much greater than what is outside of you >> You can light FIRE inside even when it is RAINING outside (just stay in the house). You can be at PEACE within, even when there is chaos outside (just go within). 𝗗𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗲 Now we come to your exact situation. Here is our direct advise for you: I think this can be solved with a "verbal communication" with your husband, explaining him that 𝐦𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 is the core and base of every relationship, and so he should respect your parents (go into details as per your exact situation). "𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳". Do it with "self-love" and also "respecting his perspective". 🌳But before that, we would highly suggest you to work on this at the "thought" level >> Sending your husband and your in-laws family vibrations of peace and love... "visualise" this... your light & vibrations are reaching them and they are receving it. NOW: Start doing Forgivess Meditation (follow this post) for youself & your in-laws... This is sending thoughts of forgiveness & resolving the karmic bond at the thought level. (THIS WILL WORK... and you will see its POSITIVE result within a few weeks) ———————————— 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 Please visit, read & follow all posts selected for you: ➤𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 "𝐢𝐧-𝐥𝐚𝐰𝐬" 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 (with brief guidance & many 'helpful links') ➤𝐓𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 '𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝' 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 (the wisdom & motivation you need during those challenging times) ➤𝐄𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐆𝐨𝐝 (the end of life's struggles by embracing God's divine plan) We highly recommend you to watch the videos on this YouTube channel: Playlist of Neville Goddard's audiobooks on FAITH, PATIENCE & PURPOSE (very empowering & motivating wisdom). MUST SEE➤ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL85cLlRmfYNy9vw3Cr_ba720T0jVnz41J OR hear the Audio playlist ➤ https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/motivational-faith-feeling Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

"Addiction can feel like an unshakable shadow, weaving itself into every corner of life—relationships, dreams, and even your sense of self. Yet within this struggle lies a quiet truth: "recovery is not only possible, but it’s a journey of profound transformation". Whether you are grappling with substance use, harmful behaviors, or compulsive patterns—overcoming addiction begins with compassion, courage, and the willingness to rewrite your story. This post isn’t about quick fixes or judgment; it’s a roadmap (with practical steps) to reclaim your power. Your journey starts now. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ★ 𝙀𝙡𝙞𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘼𝙙𝙙𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙃𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙮 ★ You have not mentioned any details or even 'what' the addiction is. But that would hardly change our response, as it is more 'generic' and helpful to you in dealing with ANY form of addiction or "facing the reality". The 8 Steps Please follow these 8 steps and practical suggestions and start seeing the results within a few days: 1. 𝗔𝗰𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗹𝗲𝗱𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵 Admit to yourself, without excuses, that the addiction exists. Write down how the addiction harms you (𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚝𝚑, 𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚑𝚒𝚙𝚜, 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎-𝚐𝚘𝚊𝚕𝚜). Facing the facts removes denial. 2. 𝗜𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗳𝘆 𝗧𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿𝘀 Notice WHEN and WHY you crave—is it 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘣𝘰𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘰𝘮, 𝘴𝘰𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘤𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘦𝘵𝘤—and write these down so you can anticipate and "prepare" for them in advance. 3. 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗢𝗯𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 When urges hit, pause and "observe" the sensation without acting on it... Label it “craving” and watch it rise and fall, knowing it’s temporary. DO NOT ACT on the desire as if you "cannot". This way you can eliminate the "desire" that is pulling you towards this addiction. 4. 𝗥𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲, 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 Find healthier alternatives—𝚠𝚊𝚕𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝚠𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚍𝚒𝚊𝚛𝚢, 𝚎𝚡𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚏𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚍, 𝚎𝚝𝚌—so your 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲/𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐬 from running away to actively choosing another path. 5. 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗦𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗚𝗼𝗮𝗹𝘀 Rather than “quit forever,” start with “no use today” or “delay the urge by 10 minutes.” Celebrate each success to build confidence. 6. 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗮 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗦𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺 Share your truth, your situation...with someone you trust—𝘢 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥, 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘱, 𝘰𝘳 𝘢 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘳—so you’re not facing cravings in isolation, and you always remember "I AM NOT ALONE" 7. 𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗮𝗻 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗣𝗹𝗮𝗻 List specific coping strategies for high‑risk moments (“If I feel the urge after work, I’ll…”) and keep that plan handy... FOLLOW the plan every time you are pulled towards that addiction.. and "reward yourself" for doing it. 8. 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳‑𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 Mistakes aren’t failures but feedback. "Acknowledge" what happened, LEARN from it, and TRY AGAIN BETTER—treating yourself with the same kindness you would offer a dear friend. 🌻By facing the reality of your addiction with "clarity" and structured action, you transform avoidance into "empowerment"—and each small victory moves you closer to lasting freedom. ✶IMPORTANT: Explore all our posts on '𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐀𝐝𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧' here👉 https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+addiction (scroll & see which one relates to your situation) Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

We all have experienced those days when 'motivation' seems elusive, when tasks feel undoable, and the allure of procrastination becomes impossible to ignore. Laziness is a complex and deeply human experience—one that can stem from burnout, fear of failure, or even a lack of clear purpose. But what if we approached laziness with understanding and compassion? This post isn’t about shaming you into action or glorifying hustle culture; it’s about exploring practical steps to reconnect with your goals, and cultivate habits that honor both productivity and rest. Let’s reframe laziness not as an enemy, but as a signal—a chance to pause, reflect, and realign with what truly matters. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Practical Steps for Coping Up with Laziness Life’s everyday challenges can feel overwhelming when dealing with 'carelessness' and 'laziness'--but small shifts in every day life (routine) can make a big difference. Please follow these 8 STEPS and see how it works: 1. 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐭𝐚𝐬𝐤𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬 Big tasks feel overwhelming, leading to laziness... So break them into tiny steps that you can easily take & feel accomplished. 2. 𝐔𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 Bring discpline in your life by strictly following a 'simple' timetable/routine: MORNING: Wake up early, drink some water, sit for 10 minute in silence & "meditation"... then make your bed, get ready, and plan three priorities for the day >> follow this routine. 3. 𝐒𝐞𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐬 Work for 15–20 minutes straight, then take a 5‑minute break. The Pomodoro Technique helps overcome procrastination and keeps you fresh. 4. 𝐄𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 Silence notifications, clear your workspace, and put your phone in another room while you focus. To get detailed guidance, please visit our post: Improving Concentrations (Focus) 5. 𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬 Write your goals on sticky notes where you’ll see them (e.g., on your mirror) to keep you 'mindful' and intentional. 6. 𝐂𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 "Reward yourself" for every small accomplishment—go for a walk, have a cup of tea, do anything that feels 'rewarding'. 7. 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟‑𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 Notice when you slip into laziness without harsh self‑judgment. Acknowledge it, forgive yourself, and refocus on your next small step. 🍎By turning big tasks into manageable actions, creating supportive habits, and treating yourself kindly, you’ll find it easier to face life’s challenges with clarity and purpose. Helpful Posts Guide to Success (our complete & detailed guidance on 'finding success' in any field) Finding Motivation & Faith (brief & helpful) Life is Not a Struggle (inspiring & fulfilling) Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Spirituality often feels like a language spoken only by those who worship or quote ancient texts. Yet, at its core, spirituality isn’t about worshipping or strictly following some divine mandates; but it is a search for meaning, connection, and inner peace that transcends belief systems. Whether through meditation, art, community, or simply pausing to reflect on life’s mysteries, spirituality can offer non-believers tools to navigate stress, cultivate resilience, and deepen their sense of belonging in a vast, unpredictable world. The goal isn’t conversion, but invitation: to explore the quiet spaces where wonder and purpose thrive, even without a higher power to name. For a Scientific-minded person: Think of spirituality as the science of your inner cosmos: it’s a method for observing how thoughts, feelings, and a sense of purpose emerge from the brain’s wiring, yet point toward experiences that elude a microscope. Using tools like reflection, meditation, or simple curiosity, you run experiments on your own awareness—tracking shifts in mood, flashes of insight, or moments of deep connection. It may not yield equations, but it offers its own data: a clearer mind, stronger bonds, and a richer sense of meaning that even the most precise instruments can only hint at. ★ 𝘽𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙖 𝙉𝙤𝙣-𝘽𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 ★ Before all the rest, let us gather important points from your message: ● The person is worldly-intelligent and has good knowledge of the outside world---a sophisticated person. ● They do not seem to be interested in spirituality, and anything that favours the "inner world". But he does have a well-reasoned mind. ● You would be glad if we tell you that those who are firm non-believers are often those who become "strong-believers"... this is because they have a reasoning mind... they do not want to believe in god because they fear of god, but needs a 'reason' and a 'personal experience' to support. Observe that many 'great souls' who gave us their own 'spiritual path to god' (religions, sects, books, way of living) were once non-believers and away from spirituality. 🌈One well-known example of our BK organisation is BK sister Shivani, who was a firmly 'scientific-minded person' who would resist every effort of her mother, who was trying to introduce 'spiritual way' 'yog' and 'principles' taught at 'Brahma Kumaris'.... But little by little, as Shivani's questions were answered & she experienced a divine connection during Yog (meditation), she became a firm believer, not only a discipled student, but also a teacher who then brough this light into many lives. ● When they get the reason, their questions are 'answered' and backed by a personal experience (through 'meditation' or a 'miracle' they witnessed in life) their belief become strong. They no longer doubt. ——————————— 👉Now, our guidance for you would depend on many factors.... like how close you both are, and how often do you interact, etc. 🍇What we would suggest anyway, but i am pleased to hear that you already are giving Sakash (𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 '𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞' 𝐯𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬) during your morning Yog. This does help, at the THOUGHT level... You are empowering that soul from within... the root is getting stronger... it does take TIME to reach the fruit, but HAVE FAITH... it is working. ✶Please follow our SAKASH ARTICLE to learn the method & get helpful links. 🍎In this case, i feel it would be much better to give a voice response (a voice 'recording' will be sent to you privately, that you can hear first... and then make sure that the person in mention hears it, with 'a calm mind' & 'focus') (An audio recording was then sent within the next 24 hours) Also read: Faith vs Blind faith Restoring Faith in God ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Faith, a cornerstone of human experience, has long been a source of strength, hope, guidance, and connection to the transcendent. Yet, its shadow—blind faith—often blurs the line between 'trust' and 'uncritical acceptance'—raising profound questions about the role of faith & beliefs in shaping our lives. Faith is often associated with "faith in god" and so knowing that god, the higher power is on our side and that everything will work out in our favour. Thus, faith is our innate trust and alignment with the divine (god) and the divine timing of the universe >> the knowing that everything (all blessings and events) unfolds at a right time for our good and growth. While faith gives purpose and hope, blind faith demands allegiance without questioning, silencing criticism and dismissing doubts. Faith is the 'light' we carry through the journey of life, its glow guiding each step in this journey. Blind faith, by contrast, is like walking this journey but closing your eyes and ears. In this post, we are publishing our response given to a lady who approached us regarding her family superstitious and following blind faith, and how can she help them come into the light of truth and find the truth, the loving true god. Also read: Finding Motivation & Faith ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. "It is not how well the message is received, but how well is it delivered" Whether your intention is to serve and show the "path of truth" or just to make yourself look superior. You asked here: "How should i deal with people around me being superstitious regarding god?" ANSWER: See their "love" for god as the underlying fabric unto which they have build their FAITH and even their BLINDFAITH. 🌻When you see that they truly LOVE god... just as you do, you will feel the 'connection'... Yes, they are yet 'unaware' of many things and they do act under blind-faith... Following a superstition blindly does no good indeed, only subjugate you to those superstitious beliefs. Make you play the victim, feel helpless & beg to god...for what is inherently YOURS! Do not ask god for peace & happiness ... YOU ARE peace, truth, love and joy itself. You are made of what god is made of. 🌺The first purpose of giving KNOWLEDGE is to free the seeker from such subjugations. You are not to be controlled by the rules, YOU ARE THE CREATOR of rules... that God does not demand such superstitious beliefs or doing, nor blind faith. Second 🌳Whenever such a situation appear, first be 'aware' of it... Would your speaking or giving their right knowledge help them? OR are they likely to resist and be hurt? Definitely try to explain it 'politely' and 'wisely' but do not engage in an argument... you are not to prove yourself right here. 🪻Your work here is to simple try and show them the 'path of truth' and explain them that God does not need you to perform rituals and engage in superstitions... God always and unfailingly helps and guided all of us, through many ways >> we do not need to beg for what is already given! 🪴Instead, do good karma, help others in need >> Thats what god would like you to do... Not to donate to wealthy temples, but help the needy, house the homeless, and feed the hungry. Yes, there are some temples and religious organisations who utilise their donation money in feeding the hungry and similar acts of kindness. But there are even better ways to utilise your money. Find them. ☝️This is the way to explain... "Be a messenger, not a debater" Faith vs Blind faith Faith is like trusting the GPS when you’re driving somewhere new—you follow it even if you don’t know every turn, because it’s gotten you places before. It gives you hope when life feels shaky, like believing things will get better after a rough patch or trusting a friend’s advice even when you’re unsure. This kind of faith is flexible; it leaves room for questions, growth, and adapting when new information comes along. It’s what helps people take risks, build relationships, or find peace in uncertainty. Blind faith, though, is like closing your eyes and stepping into traffic because someone told you it’s safe. It’s sticking to a belief no matter what, even if facts, experiences, or your gut scream otherwise. Maybe it’s refusing to question a toxic relationship because “it’s meant to be,” or following a leader’s every word without thinking for yourself. Blind faith shuts down curiosity and can trap people in harmful patterns—staying in a job that drains them, ignoring red flags in ideologies, or clinging to traditions that no longer make sense. Both shape our choices, but in wildly different ways. Healthy faith acts like an anchor—steady but not suffocating. It encourages courage, kindness, and resilience. Blind faith, though, can become a cage. It breeds fear of doubt, stifles progress, and sometimes lets others take advantage of our trust. The key difference? Faith asks us to trust while staying awake—to reflect, learn, and adjust. Blind faith tells us to just stop thinking. In a world full of noise and quick fixes, knowing the difference can mean choosing a life that’s purposeful, not passive Share on WhatsApp⇗ Read next: Finding Motivation & Faith ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)