Balance: Purusharth & Daily Life

Introduction: After coming in Gyan, one realises the importance of "purusharth" for the spiritual progress. We might begin to feel that the 'outside world' and the 'daily chores' have no meaning, and does no good to the soul. But again, you need to do them, perform your karma, in order to survive and help another to survive. Thus, you need to find a BALANCE between your Purusharth (spiritual study, remembering baba) and your daily life (chores, routine, work). This special post is for you. Here, we have not only explained you the best way to find this balance, but also offered you the wisdom which will support you in following this path. Plus, find more guidance, through our other posts (links given under Helpful Links)

Title: "𝘽𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚: 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝 & 𝘿𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚"

Subtitle:

𝙰𝚕𝚕 𝙻𝚒𝚏𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚂𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕. 𝙷𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚍𝚊𝚢, 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝙶𝚘𝚍

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Index

Introduction

All Life is Spiritual

Wisdom & Empowerment

The 3 Principles

Helpful Links

✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"

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The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in June 2025. So please read the following in the same context.

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Divine Soul,

You are reading this message, not by accident, but 𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚙𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗. We will gather all things around for you to read, understand, and follow. This would be a brief and detailed response (on how you see it), but surely 'insightful' and 'inspiring'.

☘️You want to find a 'balance' between your present 𝐣𝐨𝐛, taking care of your 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 (particularly giving time to your baby), and your 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐡. And we tell you this:: there is no need to balance them... they all are parts of your life... they all togetherly give your life 'meaning' and 'purpose'... So what you do is '𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞' (𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐝) 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.

Yes just as the food is processed in our stomach. You may eat nuts, fruits, vegetables, chapati, and drink a soup... and you eat them all seaparately. But your tummy doesn't house them separately... Instead, they are all blend together. And in this process is created "energy" and "nutrients" that sustain your body. Life is like this.

"𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙄𝙨 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡"

We may think that the JOB to work, the FAMILY to care for, and the spiritual PURUSHARTH to make—are all separate aspects of life... but for the soul, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚 '𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭' 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲. The soul is not looking for the soup or nuts, or the vegetables in particular—but the blend (mixture) of all of it. 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬; your soul "evolves" not just by the 𝘗𝘶𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩 you make in quiet, but the sound your soul sings when surrounded, the way you 'handle pressure' during the work, and the 'love' with which you care for your family. Whether it is 𝐜𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 food for them when you yourself are cooked, or giving 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐮𝐩𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 to your child—in all of this you are displaying WHO YOU ARE, and how you show your love.

🌈All aspects of life are but 'pieces' of the same puzzle. 𝐉𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥. 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐞. The work is making you 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 and 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠, the time around your family is the time when you cover yourself & others with 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 (those are the moments you will always remember)... and 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 during the morning hours is the "golden time" when you 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐧-𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐜𝐞 (𝐠𝐨𝐝). And suddenly you realise that god is not 'out-there' but 'in-here' (within me).

🍁And i tell you this—𝐢𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧'𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝟑 𝐭𝐨 𝟓 𝐚𝐦 (although this time is best). You can call your spiritual father at your service any time. God does not need to see you just when you wake up, but also when you 𝚠𝚊𝚕𝚔, 𝚝𝚊𝚕𝚔, 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚔, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚜𝚕𝚎𝚎𝚙. God says: "𝘽𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙙, 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙢𝙮 𝙩𝙤𝙪𝙘𝙝. 𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙘𝙝 𝙤𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝘼𝙈 𝙖𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚"

Wisdom & Empowerment

⭐The universal force that is YOU, is 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 than any earthly force, any work-pressure, and any illusion. All worries begin when we forget WHO WE ARE... But only if we could always remember that I HAVE CREATED THIS LIFE (with guidance of the divine/god) even before coming here, taking this birth... it is all perfectly planned for my highest good and i am here now only "playing it out"... then our FAITH can never shake. You know that 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝. Because we know that "𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘧𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘪𝘮"

𝗗𝗼 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗿𝘆 if you cannot wake up during Amritvela (early morning), and do not worry if your responsibilities come overwhelmingly. 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐮𝐫. Even that which seems to harm you, will ultimately 'build' and 'strengthen' you.

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☝️Hope this has dispelled your doubts. That you can connect to Shiv baba not only in the morning, but when you are working, walking, sitting, and relaxing. Just make sure to live your life with these 𝐟𝐞𝐰 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬:

The 3 Divine Principles

● 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆 (𝗕𝗿𝗮𝗵𝗺𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝘆𝗮)—When you stay completely aloof from the 𝘔𝘢𝘺𝘢 (vices and corrupted thoughts), your 𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚕 𝚋𝚎𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚜 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚎... and a pure soul is naturally 'attracted' to the surpeme soul. Yaad (remembrance/meditation) will become natural.

● 𝗛𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆 (सत्य)—Live with honesty, not only be truthful to god, but to yourself, your conscience. Check every karma and ask yourself—"𝘐𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘦? 𝘐𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘧 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘪 𝘢𝘮?"—When you 'align' all your karma to your highest self, you will progress very quickly.

● 𝗦𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲 (दान)—Another very important tool for your spiritual progress is 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬. Helping others in their journey, 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠/𝐮𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 them with your 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜, 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚍𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎. This is called दान (giving your light & sharing your abundance with those who need)

Conclusion

All that is shared above is essential to be taken in your heart, and those said 'principles' to follow as a part of life. This will make 𝙔𝙤𝙜 (meditation) 𝐚 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠. That is; you will always feel 'connected' with the divine (Shiv Baba), and that is all you need. Let your work-pressure dissolves in his magnetic presence, let your family be enfolded in baba's light and love. Your purusharth will no longer be a struggle, when you 'surrender' your life to god and just focus on 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐣𝐨𝐲.

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