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This is our general guidance in short for healing relationships of any nature. We do not provide "specific" advise on "relationship" matter for obvious reasons. Most important, that relationship are mostly based on the Karmic accounts a soul has created with other souls. Therefore, we always suggest the best way to get constant guidance is to follow our full series created to give wisdom on "Healing & managing Relationships" in a variety of situations and cases. ✶Series link 1 (Relationships) > https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt551HqVGwRL1hqVi9TQD-03Hp ✶Series link 2 (Relationship Management series) > https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLsc5xwFxdoFzdVvaHu2Uhw2X-k9ecVGlR Watch both series from above shared playlists. All episodes of ‘Awakening with Brahma Kumaris’ are available on this YouTube channel https://youtube.com/bkshivani (BK Shivani) Subscribe to get regular uploads You can find a specific topic episode of a speech of BK Shivani, all available on YouTube. Learn About Us (Introduction) Blessings... On Godly Service, Samadhan, The Shiv Baba Services Initiative

How many times would you have wondered on the mysteries of existence! And how many times you must have questioned about "life and world drama being pre-destined" and we are here merely playing our roles in a drama that is fully planned. 𝔹𝕦𝕥 𝕙𝕠𝕨 𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕦𝕣𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕚𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥? ℍ𝕠𝕨 𝕞𝕦𝕔𝕙 𝕚𝕤 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖 𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕕𝕖𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕖𝕕? 𝕎𝕙𝕠 𝕔𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥𝕖𝕕 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖 & 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕤𝕥𝕠𝕣𝕪? Know all that on this post. And to learn on "𝘐𝘴 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘋𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘢 𝘗𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘥?" please visit this post. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘧𝘭𝘺 𝘱𝘶𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘤𝘶𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘯 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘳𝘦-𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘪𝘳𝘵𝘩. 🌴Firstly, to clarify the point of "meeting strangers" >> "No One is a Stranger in the Soul form" We all know each other as a 'soul' since in our world t̳h̳e̳r̳e̳ ̳i̳s̳ ̳n̳o̳ ̳b̳o̳u̳n̳d̳a̳r̳y̳ and all 𝚒𝚗𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚖𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 is known all the time, since there is also no such element as 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎. It is when we come to this world that we "forget" all that. In the 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦, you wouldn't visibly recognise a stranger, but at times you would meet someone and just 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭, that t̳h̳i̳s̳ ̳i̳s̳ ̳n̳o̳t̳ ̳t̳h̳e̳ ̳f̳i̳r̳s̳t̳ ̳t̳i̳m̳e̳ and you know them since 𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛. This is soul's 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜. 🌈Now, about life being predestined & how much > we have written many times on the "Samadhan" (WhatsApp group) platform. It is explained with good examples on how we decide our life story (𝚋𝚒𝚛𝚝𝚑, 𝚌𝚑𝚘𝚒𝚌𝚎𝚜, 𝚙𝚊𝚝𝚑, 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎, and 𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚒𝚖) even before we take that birth. 🪴Well, just as an 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐭 (𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲) of entire film even before they "sign up" for the film... It is just that in real world. There is "𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚕-𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚌𝚝" which is created by you, me and everyone you see on here... we all have different "contracts" that we create in the presence of God... The role of God here is merely to 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫, while the 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 on what you wish to experience stays with YOU. ✶Source of the above point of knowledge is NDE. Please read about Near Death Experiences (NDE) 🌿Remember, 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗲𝘁𝘂𝗽 (𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁) 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗹-𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲. So that we always reach to our goal even if things doesn't go as planned or you are wrongly influenced by the worldly distractions. So you see... with this 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘁𝘂𝗽, we ALWAYS get and reach where we wanted to. In simple words, "Nothing Happens By Accident, and all is Pre-Planned BY and FOR you" A Beautiful Example You are a 𝚋𝚘𝚊𝚝 swimming in the current of life, that is a river. 🌱The only 2 choices now you have are: 𝟭) Willingly submit (Surrender) to the flow of river. 𝟮) Resist or Oppose the flow & delay your journey. 1) Willingly submit simply means: "TRUST IN THE PROCESS OF LIFE" >> Know that all will happen right, for a good cause. And ultimately, you will surely reach there. The ultimate victory is assured, no matter how many failures you meet in the PROCESS. 2) Resist/Oppose is what many people do when they find no clarity on WHAT and WHY is happening. When the mind is no silent, covered by the dust of ignorance, ego or greed, it cannot find "clarity" in any situation. In that, even a minor situation appears and feels to be a mountain. We resist the flow of life when we fail to see that things are "attracted" to you, by you. In this, one experience 𝚍𝚒𝚜𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝 and a sense of 𝚏𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚞𝚛𝚎, and take a longer time to reach the goal. Tip: Read > Affirmations & Manifestation 🌺Essence of this is >> "TRUTH THE PROCESS, TRUST GOD, TRUST YOUR-SELF" ... Yes, everything is predestined in a way, but it is a bigger truth that YOU have already planned your life this way, even before taking the birth, in order to reach to a goal or experience something you wanted to. 🌷Most importantly, you will realise this soon... Keep Patience and know that life has many gifts for you, if you just keep patience. Useful Links Forum: Is World Drama Pre-destined? (related post) Forum: 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐂𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 (related) Forum: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗧𝗼 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲? (must read) 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Husband puts obstacles and challenges for the wife who just came in Gyan (became a BK) and wife writes to us for a solution. Here is our detailed response with guidance. Original Email written to BK Shivani: Om shanti shivanididi I am married for 27 years and my husband is angry in nature and unpredictable. He has disputes with my family my children, myself, for long time and he doesn't attend most of the gathering with positive approach. He also fight with our friends on small issues. Now he expects that I shouldn't attend to any functions or get together where he is not comfortable. As a wife what is right approach? Is it to be loyal to his emotions or manage all the relations without him. And how to explain him as he starts scolding in a very bad way. I am trying truly from my heart and practice the original sanskars of soul. Please guide me shivanididi. Our Email response (answer and guidance) From: BK Shivani, Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) To: Lina (and everyone reading) Dear Sister Your letter is received and read. You discussed that you have a trouble of sanskar with your husband. You are doing Purusharth to transform your sanskar while your husband is a challenge for you. You should now know that you are now in a different line. You know do not expect anything from others. Now you know that whatever you need, is within you. You are PEACE, you are POWER and you are LOVE. If someone give you sorrow, show them mercy, If someone hurts or anger with you, then give them vibrations of peace. We brahmans who live in family also face such situations. Baba has given us Shrimat on how to handle everything. This is the best advice (advice of God himself) - Learn to tolerate. Life is to learn. Life is there and we have come here to LEARN. You become a child of God and God is your father, and a teacher. So you have a responsibility - you CANNOT give sorrow to anyone, for any reason. Consider everyone equal. Knowledge helps us to understand the reality of life. Why does something happen? When you know that ''Everything happens for a good reason, then you put a smile on face and love this life.'' You know, this is the final moment of World Drama and the cycle of 5000 years is just about to end. Hence all souls shall be liberated. Before this, many changes has to happen. Relationships changes, climate change, change in beliefs, etc. During this, we Brahman souls, whom God is giving the knowledge and we are becoming deity like - would have much service to do for the world souls. We are the direct creation of God (Shiv baba) and hence we are his medium for World Transformation. ADVICE You are new in Gyaan and everyone faces such problem when they first come in Gyan. So be calm and follow the Shrimat given in Murlis. Listen Murli EVERYDAY here: babamurli.com (if you know Hindi, it's better) What is Murli or Shrimat?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli With some time, your husband will begin supporting you. For this, you need to follow the Shiv baba's shrimat. Murli is our food and a guide for life. Always be patient and watch whatever happens. Do NOT have any attachment for husband or anyone else. See them as a victim of Maya (5 vices) and you being a doctor. Clear? Need more guidance? Here is our Question-Answers forum: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers Need anything else? Search on BK Google: www.bkgoogle.com (A personal divine search engine for BKs) Accha namaste In Godly World Service BK Shivani 00

Karma is often misunderstood as a cosmic scoreboard of reward and punishment, but its essence runs far deeper—it is the 'living energy' of our choices, rippling through time and space. Every thought you create & hold, every word you speak, and every deed you act—sends off a ripple to the universe, which them comes back to you. The "intention" behind the karma is what decide its result. This article/post explains the idea that karma is not fate, but a dynamic force we co-create with every thought, word, and deed. Drawing from ancient wisdom and spiritual understanding derived through various sources—we will explore how aligning with karmic energy can transform patterns of suffering into opportunities for growth, and mainly that "how does karma come back to you" The following was written in response to a question we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2024. Question: I have heard that the souls with whom we have the deepest karmic accounts often returns to us in this life as 'spouse'. So my question is: What if i decide not to marry in this birth? Would it stop the karmic cycle? and if no, then how else would my karma be settled? Answer We are going to make everything very clear to you, in this brief response: Lets begin from KARMA: "The energy you send out to the universe is returned to you" (This is what people call "law of karma" in common view) That returning energy can come through people in your connection. And it could be anyone (doesn't have to be a spouse or children). Human being here becomes a medium for that energy to come back to you. Now imagine you separate yourself from everyone, literally. Do you know what would happen?---You will still receive the energy back (you always do), but this time it would be directly to your door. Your mind and heart will go through those emotions and feelings (which you given out to others in past). And this could be both POSITIVE and NEGATIVE. When it is 'positive' it is all good... but when negative experience visits you when you are living alone, you would not even realise WHY this is happening. Because you cannot see the 'source' of it... This is the secret why people go mad (loose their normal sense) when they live alone for a long time. Because the energy is returning, but invisible. (When that energy was coming through a person, it was visible and made sense. Even the intensity is lower, as the medium absorbs some of it) This is why relationships are the greatest gift from god. Only we human beings have this gift. Good and healthy (positive) relationships with everyone around can make your life a living 'heaven' ----------------------- Part 2 MARRIAGE Now we come to your enquiry on 'marriage'. No, marriage is not a compulsion. Whether for man or woman. What is important is that you correctly understand the 'purpose' of marriage. It is not for a man to find 'stability' and the woman to find 'security'---but for both of them to find a lifelong companion with whom you can SHARE your abundance, to whom you can express yourself fully, and you can support, helping eachother to navigate life with joy and growth. Marriage is indeed a HOLY COMMUNION, if you could keep it that way. But yes, there is another aspect of marriage >> "household responsibilities" >> that can certainly deviate you from intense purusharth (spiritual journey) >> But with time as you keep on the spiritual path, you will see how situations become easier and you become STRONGER... Those responsibilities are not meant to deviate you, but to bring you back >> Not meant to take a part from you, but to complete you... Sometimes challenges come, not to break you, but to strengthen your trust (faith) and to make you completely dependent on GOD alone... ➤We have explained this on my post 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙤𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙'𝙨 𝙀𝙢𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙚 (must read) ➤But more accurate and relatable guidance can be found on our post: BALANCE: Spiritual & Family life ➤Explore all our posts on "KARMA" (settling karma, healing relationships, etc): https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+karma More Related Posts: ➤ Testing Times are Blessed Times ➤ End all Struggles & Embrace God ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Does my vibrations reach to them, for whom I think positive or negative? Can such a Soul to Soul communication be possible? Can I convey my message to them without using words? Original Email/question Received OM SHANTI I believe that if we give vibrations to people or things ,it manifests into reality. BUT I WANTED TO KNOW IF THIS REALLY WORKS WITH STRANGERS-to the people we have never talked to but we see each other again and again?? Can we make them feel what we want them to even without talking to them ?? 1) My mother had gone to the centre of Brahmakumaris which made me aware of what sisters/brothers teach. And since then I have been watching online videos of sister shivani :) 2) I wanted to know about vibrations reaching to strangers even without talking to them because I’m an introvert kind of person,that makes me shy and aloof from people to whom I really want to talk. AND SO I WANTED TO KNOW IF MY TRUE INTENTIONS REACH TO THEM EVEN WITHOUT TALKING TO THEM just by seeing them everyday? Om Shanti :) Our Email Response Dear Divine Sister Here is the response to your asked question. Feelings - The real way that souls communicate in deeper level is 'feelings'. You can convey your feeling of love, hatred, care, respect, etc. by merely imaging them in front and creating feelings for them. This is called - 'Subtle world'. So it leaves us to understand that world - REAL worls, where we communicate with words, is only limited. Feelings has no need of words to decribe. Feelings has no language. So the answer is YES. Even when you do not talk, you are sending them vibrations (feelings) on how you feel about them. This creates an internal link between you two. A very nice example -> Since hundreds of years (since 2500 years) we are searching for God. We created feelings for hi that he would come and solve all our problems, he will give us what we wanted, he will support us in time of need, and so on.... We did not know who God is, what is our relationship with him.. But we had a strong bonding. This is called ''faith''. Now when Shiv baba has come, we already have an INTERNAL relationship while we did bhakti (worshipping). So our present ACTUAL relationship will also depend on the INTERNAL relationship I created with God since last 2500 years. Understood?? For instance, if I always prayed or asked for ''peace'', then now also my relationship will be based on the experience of PEACE while I remember Shiv baba (God) - World Drama Cycle Hope this wisdom is clear now in your mind. Who am I (Self Realisation): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Do visit above links :) namaste In Godly World Service 00

Finding true love is a journey that many embark on, yet it often feels elusive and complex. Whether you are finding your true love for the first time, or seeking a deeper connection after past experiences, the path to genuine love can be both exciting and challenging. This post is offers helpful insights, meaning of true love, and practical suggestions on observing the 'signs'. You will understand that by focusing on self-awareness, communication, and authenticity, we are better equipped to build a relationship that is fulfilling, lasting, and rooted in mutual respect and understanding. Let’s explore how we can open our heart to the possibility of true love. Title: "𝙂𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙤𝙣 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 & 𝙈𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙜𝙚" Subtitle: 𝙼𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚛𝚎𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚎𝚍 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚗 𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚢𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚌𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚛𝚎𝚍 𝚏𝚕𝚊𝚐𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 Index Foreword Understanding Love Spiritual Insight Seeing the Red Flags Handling the Family ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Jan 2025. 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 This is a subjective topic. We recommend you to read the following for the purpose of 'exploration' and to expand your understanding. Follow it as per your exact situation. Please note that the following was written in response to a lady's query about her relationship with a boy with whom she desires to marry. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— ☘️Thanks for describing your situation clearly. This is not the first time someone has approached us for this situation. We have given guidance on similar matters time and time again. Understanding 'Love' 🪻Love is such 'strong' feeling that when we are within the experience of love, we see nothing else. So it is rightly said: "𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘪𝘳 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 & 𝘸𝘢𝘳" 𝙒𝙃𝙔? Because both 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐡𝐚𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐝 are strongest of all human emotions. When we are covered by love or hatred/fear, we cannot think of anything else, we do not experience any other feeling. 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 '𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞'. We no longer see the good and bad, and are ready to do what the emotion of 'love' or 'hatred' inspire or make us do. 🌻Therefore, it is utmost important to understand what TRUE LOVE is... and then you can judge with your own observsation and inner feeling, whether or not you both share true and deep love. 🪷I invite you to read our beautiful guiding post on 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞? 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 It was advised to the spiritual seeker Arjuna in the Bhagavad Gita: "𝘚𝘦𝘦𝘬 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘮𝘦". 𝐀𝐝𝐛𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬. There is nothing outside, but only 'seeking'. All the peace & love that we seek and search, 𝕚𝕤 𝕥𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕤𝕦𝕣𝕖𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕔𝕖𝕕 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟. "We are the source of all that we seek". "𝙄𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙚, 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙞𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙖𝙗𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣" 🌼Why is this told to you now? So that knowing this—you prepare yourself rightly. Do not engage in a relationship to seek love and abundance, but 𝐝𝐨 𝐬𝐨 𝐭𝐨 𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞. Remember: "𝙒𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚." Share your 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦, your own wisdom expands. Share your 𝐣𝐨𝐲, you feel more joy. Share your 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, you are surrounded by more love. 🌸Therefore, 𝙨𝙖𝙞𝙡 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙘𝙝 𝙤𝙛 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣. Love for life! And when you learn to SHARE the inner-abundance, all your relationships can be 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚎𝚍 and 𝚗𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚒𝚜𝚑𝚎𝚍. ➤Ultimately, the final purpose of all true love-relationships is "falling in love with yourself"... By falling in love with the 'virtues' and 'qualities' we see in another person, we ultimately learn 'self-love' (unconditional self-acceptance, faith, and respect for who you are, and for your contribution to the world). And this is our final purpose of coming here in this world. We are here to discover & experience WHO WE ARE. Watch this beautiful documentary film WHO WE ARE (by Anthony Chene) Who we are (Documentary) Seeing the Flags You also asked whether how would I notice and learn of any 'red flags' regarding the person with whom you wish to marry. This is simpler than you think. ➤FIRST: 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙧-𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨. 🪴Call it the gut-feeling, the 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 or the 𝐬𝐢𝐱𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞—it never lie. Notice how you feel when you 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 about him, or when you are with him. Compare that feeling with how you feel when you are with your family or a beloved friend. See if you feel safe, loved, and in harmony. ➤SECOND: 𝙊𝙗𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚. 🌱You won't need to fully rely on the inner feeling, as you can observe a few things outside... See how he behaves with everyone around him. Especially 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞𝐝 (a servant, beggar, worker, employee, waiter). ☘️A person can be judged better not by how they behave with their equals and superiors, but by how they treat the lesser previledged. Do they show 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 and 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭? ➤THIRD: 𝙁𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙞𝙣 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙚𝙨, 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙡𝙮 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚. (with the SOUL, not with the BODY) 🌈For this, you would have to spend some quality time together. 𝐎𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐞𝐬, 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐭𝐡𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐬. Observe how he display his 𝚚𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚜, and whether he tries to hide his weaknesses. By this, you can know whether they are "honest" or not. 🌳For any form of relationship to flourish—𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐲, 𝐦𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 are most important roots. You should have no intention to hide anything or show yourself differently to what you truly are. So 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲, 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐥𝐲. Expect and encourage him for the same. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗛𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆? As you said, your family is against this marriage at the moment. But the question of "how to convince them" comes only after you first learn whether you both are truly in love or not. Whether this relationship can work or not. 🍁Therefore, i recommend and highlight the above guidance for you again. Please follow the whole of that—do spend some quality time together, 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐫 & 𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐞 & 𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬. Once you are assured, we personally believe and reaffirm: "True love makes its own way" Meaning: If your love is true, and you both are meant to be and stay together, a way will be created sooner or later. It is meant to be. This is how it works. And if you are not meant to be together, the universe will show you clear signs. So follow your sixth sense, and listen to your intuition. ——————————— "Stay connected" All the help or guidance you may need, can be found through the 𝗱𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗺𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 that i share on all our groups. They are truly 'a guiding light' to all of us. Never miss any, and self-reflect. ➕If you need anything related to us, or have a question, please use our search engine 𝘽𝙆 𝙂𝙤𝙤𝙜𝙡𝙚 👉 www.bkgoogle.org (Save/Bookmark this link) Also Read: ➤Guidance for a Non-married Love relationship ➤One-sided love Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Loukik jeevan (life) me "balance" kaise rakhe, taaki sabhi ki "blessings" mile. Loukik parivar saath rehte bhi, aloukik jeevan kaise banaye? Yaha padhe👉 Note: yeh ek prashna ke response me likha gaya hai. 🌱बड़ा important है यह clear करना की शिव बाबा की श्रीमत क्या है, विशेष हमारे लिए जो हम लौकिक परिवार साथ रेहते है। 🌻जो आपको मेहसूस हो रहा है, व जो choices आपने ज्ञान में आने बाद लिए, ऐसा कईयों की story है। ज्ञान accurately समझने बाद, शिव बाप से connection जुड़ने बाद इस स्थूल (साकार) दुनिया के रीती रिवाज़ meaningless ही लगते है, और ऊँची बुद्धि से देखा जाए तो यह दुनियावी education useless ही है। क्युकी इससे आत्मा को कोई प्राप्ति नहीं। 🌹लेकिन इसके साथ दूसरी बात मुरली में स्पस्ट है >> " बच्चो को लौकिक responsibility पेहले निभानी है " >> अर्थात पेहले जो responsibilities है उन्हें देखो। जैसे की पैसे कमाने लिए तो job चाहिए, और अच्छी job के लिए अच्छा education... यह भी सोचना चाहिए। हम एक और बात स्पस्ट करेंगे अगर कोई आत्मा पूरी ईमानदारी से बाप की श्रीमत को follow करती है और बहुतों की निःस्वार्थ सेवा कर, उनका कल्याण करती है, तो बाप उनको extra मदद देते है, lift देते है >> अनुभव होंगा की >> धीरे धीरे लौकिक सम्बन्ध, situations वगेरा easy होती जाएँगी। अर्थात आपके लिए ब्राह्मण जीवन जीने का रास्ता easy हो जायेंगा। Life बेहतर होती जाएँगी। यह होना इस बात की निशानी होंगी की आप सही रास्ते पर चल रहे हो। सबसे जरुरी है balance रखना अलौकिक पुरुषार्थ तो गुप्त है, लौकिक कर्म भी करना है। BALANCE रखने से सभी की "blessings" मिलती है >> अर्थात बाप की extra मदद भी और लौकिक में आत्माओं की blessings मिलती है। समझा ! 🌳तो अगर मन नहीं करता लौकिक education या job करने का, और बाबा की श्रीमत पर पूरा 100% अगर चल सकते हो तो अपने नज़दीकी centre में समर्पित हो सकते हो। 🌻और पैसे कमाने लिए कोई रास्ता search करते रहो >> देखो अगर कोई business कर सको। इसमें कोई गलत बात नहीं। बाबा केहते है "कर्म भी करना चाहिए, और योग/याद तो natural रहेंगी" >> याद से power मिलती रहेंगी। ☝️यही हमारी मत (advice) है। अच्छा ✱ Links for You ✱ ♪ Listen to this special HINDI audio guidance on "𝗕𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝗵𝗿𝗶𝗺𝗮𝘁 & 𝗹𝗼𝘂𝗸𝗶𝗸 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆" ➤ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/Balance-in-Shrimat-and-Responsibilities.mp3 and ♪ BK Suraj bhai's class on "KARMA-YOG" ➤ https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/karma-yog-ka-balance-bk-suraj-bhai-class-on-14-july-2021 ✶Daily Guided RajYog meditation (Hindi, BK Shivani) ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnT_cOq_Ba8 ✶Awakening episode: Re-Charge Yourself ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWIRmrVbNt4 ☝️Please visit all given links for extra guidance. On Godly Service, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴

One of the most common topics from the queries we receive is "love" and in that, people mostly struggle in understanding what love is, and how to deal with the feeling. Title: "𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙜𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙧𝙪𝙚 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚" (𝙰𝚍𝚟𝚒𝚜𝚎 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚊 𝟷𝟿-𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛 𝚘𝚕𝚍 & 𝙱𝚎𝚜𝚝 𝚍𝚎𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚘𝚏 𝙻𝚘𝚟𝚎) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 & 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦. 𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜. ———————————— 🌴Firstly, i think it would be useful to mention the original query message we received on our Samadhan(https://www.shivbabas.org/services/samadhan-whatsapp-group) WhatsApp group: 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐫𝐲: 𝘚𝘰 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 19 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘭𝘥. 𝘉𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘩𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘭𝘰𝘺𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘴 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘤𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘩 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘦 3 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴... 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘯𝘰𝘵?? 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘴𝘢𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨...𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱 Clearly you are troubling yourself with such unnecessary thoughts... At this age, your attention should be on your 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬, and the 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞. While, the right question is not whether the other person is in love with you, but "𝘈𝘮 𝘐 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦?" ✤𝗧𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆'𝘀 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺✤ While there are many good qualities and skills in yound people today, certainly most of the young people do not understand "true love" as they are exposed to school and college life where the 𝐚𝐭𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 is such. On the top the 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐬 that certainly have nothing to do with pure & genuine feeling of "love" and everything to do with "lust" (bodily attraction) 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗔𝗹𝗹 If you simple remove yourself from the atmosphere of your school/college, stop attending social media (or just see the positive things), and only watch/read good films and literature, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐚 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐞𝐧𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 not only in your-self, but also in your life. TRY THIS for even a week and see how greatly it can benefit you. 🌈Now... here is the most accurate definition what a true love must be like: "𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙀𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙣𝙖𝙡, 𝙀𝙣𝙙𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨 & 𝙁𝙧𝙚𝙚" 👉 These are the three qualities of the love that is genuine and of the highest nature. ● 𝗘𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗡𝗔𝗟 Not dependant on the physical body (which is perishable) & does not change with time, moments & phases of life. Because love has nothing to do with outside appearance or worldly parameters. ● 𝗘𝗡𝗗𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦 Not limited to any degree, for any reason, and to any person... Love is endless stream of light that flows from your soul to every being and every thing that exist. ● 𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗘 It must not bind you to anything. Love is "freedom" itself. If there is jealousy & posessiveness, it is anything but love. True love sets you FREE to experience, enjoy, and enhance your-self. ————————————— 🍁You have heard what "true love" is like & feels like... Now, if you feel that your life has brought you such a person, then 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞, 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭 & 𝐥𝐨𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐥... 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐞𝐬... And if life has not yet brought you to someone your heart feels close... then have "patience" and keep "clarity" in your thoughts. 𝐃𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐛𝐲 𝐩𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬. That will only bring you regret. Marriage should never be thought of unless you find that the love is 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚎 and 𝚐𝚎𝚗𝚞𝚒𝚗𝚎. 🌳𝔾𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕌𝕟𝕚𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕖 to unfold you the best of options and most wonderful of the gifts. 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦: "It is human nature to desire what is lacking... but when it is obtained, the desire is extinguished...you shall no longer feel the same joy you had when you first obtained that desire." Because dear soul... "𝙅𝙤𝙮 𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 & 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙞𝙣 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙜𝙤𝙖𝙡" ⭐𝐀𝐬 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐩𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐭: "𝘏𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘦𝘺𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘥. 𝘏𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘷𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘥" So ENJOY every moment of life... being grateful for WHAT I HAVE rather than going for things you do not. Make use of all your resources & see forward to life. 🌱We suggest the 2 following posts for extra guidance: 1. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗘𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲? 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/how(https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/how-to-enjoy-life)-to-enjoy-life 2. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗟𝗶𝘃𝗲? 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/ho(https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/how-to-live)w-to-live ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈.. Oᑎ GOᗪᒪY SEᖇᐯIᑕE, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

We have an online registration form for BK (Brahma Kumari and Kumar) where you can submit the form with your name in the Godly records as an evident that you now have become a Godly child, a Godly student and a follower of Shrimat (of murli). These are guidelines for anyone who wish to submit their name in this Godly record. Please read the below first. Specially if you live outside India where there is no BK centre near you and you wish to do Godly service, then this post is for you. So here we present a sample of such submitted form where a sister (Madhuri Murlidhar) responds the following upon receiving the confirmation email subjected as: ''Your Name submitted to Godly Record''. This post has many conversations and is intended to benefit those new students (BKs) who have submitted their name and need a guidance. Do SHARE this :) Our Email Response + Guidance To: Kumari Madhuri (and Everyone reading this) You are in Gyaan since only 1 year, yet your Dharna is extraordinary. You have passed in Purity & other Purusharth. As said, Sweden is a place where the message is not yet reached properly. Only 1 centre exist in Sweden. However this is explained - wherever there is more material comfort, there is a lack of belief in God, because they don't need God as they believe they have what they want. Poor souls not even know who gave them all this.. You also need to understand that only those souls who did more Bhakti (worshpping) since the beginning of Bhakti marg (in copper age) shall come to take the inheritance (Gyaan). Those souls will definitely come. They will be attracted towards purity, knowledge or the way of living a life as a Brahman (BK). * HOW CAN YOU DO SERVICE? Baba is called world benefactor (one who does good to all). Service is unlimited. It is not that what you should do, but is how much time can you save for this godly service. Baba gives shrimat - ''4 hours at least you do this service of helping me to transform the world.'' HOW? Yog is the answer. Yog is not only a Purusharth, but also a highest form of service. When we the soul remember Shiv baba, then we are charging the atmosphere around us. The vibrations are spread far far away in all directions. Atmosphere begins to absorb our vibrations. * Why this Service? Answer: This is what is needed in Europe. They will NOT take the Gyaan as they did not do Bhakti (worshpping). But if you wish to create their fortune and give them peace and love, you the soul can. When they experience this peace, purity and love, then they would automatically be attracted towards God, towards the Shrimat of living the life. ~~ About You ~~ You are sent in Sweden for this great service. Can you become a powerhouse, a lighthouse for entire Sweden and surrounding? Lighthouse is a soul who constantly donate the light of knowledge, self realisation, of peace, purity and unconditional love. Powerhouse soul constantly donates the powers derived from Shiv baba. Are you not an angel? This is the job of an angel. As much as you know about yourself, baba knows much more. Do you not recognise yourself yet? You are one of those who were given re-birth. You are in the ''advance party'' Revelations on Advance Party: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/advance-party Then explore the Revelations from Murli section: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations BK Google: www.bkgoogle.com (Our divine 'search engine') -------------------------- Further Conversation Om Shanti dear brother, BK Madhuri writes: Please find my answers inline in red. I must say thank you for taking the time out to reply to my emails in such detail. It is giving me a lot of inspiration to move forward. I am really grateful to you, I am writing so much and you are replying so promptly, I don't know how busy you are. Please don't feel pressured. Reply only when you have time. NOTE: (1) = our email (from Shiv baba service - shivklight@gmail.com and (M) = response from BK Madhuri (Sweden) (1) This time you said about personal relation with Brahma baba. In my case, I feel opposite. I have a personal relationship with Shiv baba. Although in the beginning, Brahma was a medium, but now only Shiv baba is left. I cannot think of anyone else. - (M) Wah, Very nice (1) You can have a personal relationship with every other soul of world - this is a great secret of How Brahma and Saraswati become world mother and world father. They develop a personal connection. As your Yog stage increase, you shall understand. (M) - I think I am beginning to understand what you are saying. One info I missed telling you earlier is that, few months back one Indian brother moved to my city. He works in a tech company called ARM. He is a BK and practicing rajyog since 15 years. We both are the only BKs in this whole city. When the sisters in Copehagen center got to know about this they told me that because of my vibrations, this soul was attracted and came to my city. Could this be true? Is this one of they ways personal connections work? (1) I remember only one. It is not that I never do a mistake. But if make a mistake, being righteous i follow the rule and increase my Purusharth. ''We learn when we experience something'' (M) - This is true. In my case what I have observed is that, whenever I do a mistake I go through a brief period of guilt but once that passes, I am even more strong in my purusharth and that actually bring me one step closer to baba. (1) You want to have happiness? But what is happiness? Unless you are unaware of sorrow, you are unaware of happiness. (This world is only 'relative') - In heaven, we are unaware of sorrow and of happiness. But we have every pleasure of life. All health and wealth. So we are in a stage which is called - 'Bliss' - in this stage, there are few thoughts. --- Advance Party --- (1) - The audio you heard about Revelations on the advance party is just a spark of the real fire. There are 3 category in advance party as you read on the page: Advance part secrets (M) - 1. Planning party - I think I belong here :). Wow, I had never looked at myself like that although I keep seeing old world being destroyed and satyug being establised. It is mind-blowing to realise that I belong in this group and gives a very special place. It also places great responsibilities in my actions and words and thoughts. But I am still trying to digest this concept. So my next question would be how would you differentiate between an advance party soul (planning party) and someone who has just taken this knowledge in this birth, but is obedient and is following srimath right away ? 2. Incognito party 3. 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The essence of this query was "𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘢 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘥 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘵, 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘥 & 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵?" 🌱We have already provided a beautiful 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 on a similar query, on our response How to Deal with Rude people? (forum post) ✤Depending on person to person, emotional hurt can be challenging to overcome, but here are some practical suggestions and daily life practices that can help: 1. Acknowledge and validate your feelings It's important to allow yourself to clearly feel and process the emotions you're experiencing. Recognise them and find out the 'root' emotion which is causing the hurt. Free your mind from attachments and think as a third person. 2. Talk to someone Talking to a trusted friend, a wise family member, or therapist can help you process your feelings and gain a clear and detached perspective. 3. Practice self-care Taking care of yourself physically and emotionally is essential. This can include getting enough sleep, eating well, exercising, and engaging in activities that bring you joy. 4. Focus on the present moment Try to stay in the present and focus on what is happening right NOW. The opportunities and all the good things you have right now. Avoid dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. Avoid getting into loneliness or any such situation which might trigger the thoughts about past. 5. Find meaning Try to find meaning and purpose in your experiences. When you will see that even the hurt taught you a valuable lesson, or made you more self-relaint and emotionally stronger, then the emotional attachment to hurt will vanish. And you will be FREE from the cycle of emotions which caused hurt in the first place. Then you are to keep that 'lesson' for lifetime. Most of the times, difficult situations can teach us important lessons and help us grow emotionally & spiritually. 6. Practice forgiveness Forgiveness can be a powerful way to let go of emotional hurt. This doesn't mean you have to forget what happened or excuse someone's behavior, but it can help you release the negative feelings & move forward to embrace the gifts life has to offer next. 🌳Remember that to completely HEAL a longheld emotional hurt takes time, and it's important to be patient and compassionate with yourself throughout the process. ✱Now we have selected some videos >> You will get more clear and vast knowledge (guidance) on this topic through these videos. Some of them are from our TV program 𝓐𝔀𝓪𝓴𝓮𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓑𝓻𝓪𝓱𝓶𝓪 𝓚𝓾𝓶𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓼 hosted by BK sister Shivani. Videos for You 𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕣𝕤: 𝙱𝙺 𝚜𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚂𝚑𝚒𝚟𝚊𝚗𝚒, 𝚂𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝙼𝚊𝚑𝚎𝚜𝚑𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚒 (HINDI) 1. RajYog Healing Meditation music https://youtu.be/POsDYTf2tCY (play this during meditation to heal) 2. Heal your emotional hurt https://youtu.be/qraj8cIhDx4 (BkShivani) 3. Let Go of past https://youtu.be/EbSSeAUTl9Q (BkShivani) 4. How to HEAL emotional pain? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXL3xF-NDaQ (Sandeep M) 5. HOW to release the past hurt? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFIrvL5mJD0 6. HEAL past pain & Release it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkNt9vSVpHU 7. How to ignore people who hurt you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6gVO7VUBCE 8. HEAL yourself to FORGIVE others https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OH_1YTm5J4M 👆🏻Please watch all the 8 videos one by one for a complete guidance. 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴

We all might have struggled to manage emotions at times during overwhelming situations. The persuit of 'peace' begins only when the 'kingdom' of peace & wisdom ends. Emotions are human being's gift from God. But only when they are used constructively, that they can reward us. Negative or wasteful emotions weakens the soul, while an emotional attachment to someone or some-thing traps the soul and limit its consciousness. Tip ➤ Also read ➤ Overcome Emotional Attachment The following was our response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group. Guidance on Managing Emotions Divine Soul 💫 🌷Everyone has their own unique personality, which is your collection of behaviors, habits, traits, likings, and cognitions. Some of us are born with more intense emotions, carried forward to this birth from our past births/past lives. We can be of service when we listen our inner voice, even when the world is playing another tune. Some quotes "𝐸𝓂𝑜𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃𝓈 𝓈𝓅𝑜𝓃𝓈𝑜𝓇𝓈 𝒯𝒽𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽𝓉𝓈... 𝒯𝒽𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽𝓉𝓈 𝓈𝓅𝑜𝓃𝓈𝑜𝓇𝓈 𝒜𝒸𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃/𝒦𝒶𝓇𝓂𝒶" "𝒲𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓈 𝓎𝑜𝓊, 𝓂𝒶𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓇𝓈 𝓎𝑜𝓊." "𝐹𝑒𝑒𝓁𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈 𝒶𝓇𝑒 𝓈𝑜𝓂𝑒𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒; 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝓈𝑜𝓂𝑒𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒶𝓇𝑒." "𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝓂𝑜𝓈𝓉 𝒾𝓂𝓅𝑜𝓇𝓉𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝒸𝒾𝓈𝒾𝑜𝓃 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓂𝒶𝓀𝑒 𝒾𝓈 𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝑒 𝒾𝓃 𝒶 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝒹 𝓂𝑜𝑜𝒹." 🌻Sometimes, when you have a lot going on, it can be difficult to properly process your feelings about certain things that have taken a toll on you emotionally, causing your emotions to subconsciously build up and then spill over suddenly. To manage and heal this regularly, we highly suggest you to take some time during the day to practise awareness, mindfulness, and meditation. Tip: Learn RajYog Meditation online 🌼 Raja Yog is the 𝕊𝕦𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕖 𝕐𝕠𝕘 (connection or meditation to God, our spiritual father) 𝕥𝕙𝕣𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙 𝕨𝕙𝕚𝕔𝕙 𝕨𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕤 𝕓𝕖𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕒 𝕞𝕒𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕣 𝕠𝕗 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕤𝕖𝕟𝕤𝕖𝕤 𝕓𝕪 𝕤𝕚𝕞𝕡𝕝𝕪 𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕖𝕞𝕓𝕖𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕣𝕚𝕘𝕚𝕟𝕒𝕝 𝕟𝕒𝕥𝕦𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕖𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕟𝕒𝕝 𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕡 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕊𝕦𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕖 𝕊𝕠𝕦𝕝. 🍁 Rather than controlling your emotions, you should learn how to MANAGE them. We cannot always control situations but we can always control our mood, to NOT get affected by every unexpected turn of events. 🌸Take this moment to see how to master your mood to keep happy and peaceful . We highly suggest you to practise the following "affirmations" every day (morning as you wake up, and before sleeping)👉🏻 Affirmations ➥ ℑ 𝔞𝔪 𝔞 𝔥𝔞𝔭𝔭𝔶 𝔟𝔢𝔦𝔫𝔤. ➥ ℑ 𝔞𝔪 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔠𝔯𝔢𝔞𝔱𝔬𝔯 𝔬𝔣 𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔯𝔶 𝔪𝔬𝔬𝔡. ➥ ℑ 𝔱𝔞𝔨𝔢 𝔠𝔞𝔯𝔢 𝔬𝔣 𝔪𝔶 𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔡 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔟𝔬𝔡𝔶… 𝔴𝔦𝔱𝔥 𝔢𝔵𝔢𝔯𝔠𝔦𝔰𝔢𝔰, 𝔪𝔢𝔡𝔦𝔱𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫, 𝔰𝔭𝔦𝔯𝔦𝔱𝔲𝔞𝔩 𝔰𝔱𝔲𝔡𝔶, 𝔡𝔦𝔢𝔱, 𝔯𝔢𝔩𝔞𝔵𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔰𝔩𝔢𝔢𝔭. ➥ 𝔐𝔶 𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔡 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔟𝔬𝔡𝔶 𝔞𝔯𝔢 𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔰-𝔣𝔯𝔢𝔢. ➥ ℑ𝔯𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔭𝔢𝔠𝔱𝔦𝔳𝔢 𝔬𝔣 𝔰𝔦𝔱𝔲𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫𝔰 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔭𝔢𝔬𝔭𝔩𝔢'𝔰 𝔟𝔢𝔥𝔞𝔳𝔦𝔬𝔲𝔯 ... 𝔞𝔱 𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔯𝔶 𝔰𝔱𝔢𝔭 ℑ 𝔭𝔞𝔲𝔰𝔢 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔠𝔥𝔢𝔠𝔨 𝔥𝔬𝔴 ℑ 𝔣𝔢𝔢𝔩…ℑ 𝔠𝔥𝔢𝔠𝔨 𝔪𝔶 𝔪𝔬𝔬𝔡… 𝔦𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔯𝔢 𝔦𝔰 𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔫 𝔞 𝔰𝔩𝔦𝔤𝔥𝔱 𝔡𝔦𝔰𝔠𝔬𝔪𝔣𝔬𝔯𝔱, ℑ 𝔦𝔫𝔱𝔢𝔯𝔫𝔞𝔩𝔩𝔶 𝔡𝔢𝔱𝔞𝔠𝔥 𝔣𝔯𝔬𝔪 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔢𝔫𝔢𝔯𝔤𝔶 𝔬𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔠𝔢𝔫𝔢. ➥ ℑ 𝔡𝔬𝔫’𝔱 𝔩𝔢𝔱 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔠𝔢𝔫𝔢 𝔱𝔬𝔲𝔠𝔥 𝔪𝔶 𝔪𝔬𝔬𝔡 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔱𝔯𝔦𝔤𝔤𝔢𝔯 𝔫𝔢𝔤𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔳𝔦𝔱𝔶. ℑ 𝔰𝔦𝔩𝔢𝔫𝔠𝔢 𝔪𝔶 𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔡 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔩𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔢𝔫 𝔱𝔬 𝔪𝔶 𝔦𝔫𝔫𝔢𝔯 𝔳𝔬𝔦𝔠𝔢. ➥ ℑ 𝔡𝔢𝔠𝔦𝔡𝔢 𝔬𝔫 𝔞 𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔭𝔬𝔫𝔰𝔢 𝔴𝔥𝔦𝔠𝔥 𝔦𝔰 𝔯𝔦𝔤𝔥𝔱 𝔣𝔬𝔯 𝔪𝔶 𝔭𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔢𝔫𝔱 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔣𝔲𝔱𝔲𝔯𝔢. ➥ ℑ 𝔯𝔢𝔱𝔲𝔯𝔫 𝔱𝔬 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔠𝔢𝔫𝔢 𝔴𝔦𝔱𝔥 𝔰𝔱𝔞𝔟𝔦𝔩𝔦𝔱𝔶 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔭𝔬𝔫𝔡. ➥ ℑ 𝔨𝔢𝔢𝔭 𝔪𝔶 𝔭𝔢𝔞𝔠𝔢𝔣𝔲𝔩 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔥𝔞𝔭𝔭𝔶 𝔪𝔬𝔬𝔡 𝔦𝔫𝔱𝔞𝔠𝔱. ➥ 𝔐𝔶 𝔪𝔬𝔬𝔡 𝔯𝔢𝔪𝔞𝔦𝔫𝔰 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔞𝔪𝔢 𝔦𝔫 𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔯𝔶 𝔠𝔦𝔯𝔠𝔲𝔪𝔰𝔱𝔞𝔫𝔠𝔢. ➥ 𝔚𝔥𝔞𝔱𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔯 𝔪𝔞𝔶 𝔟𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔦𝔱𝔲𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫 𝔱𝔬𝔡𝔞𝔶, ℑ 𝔞𝔪 𝔭𝔢𝔞𝔠𝔢𝔣𝔲𝔩. 𝔑𝔬 𝔬𝔫𝔢 𝔩𝔦𝔳𝔢𝔰 𝔬𝔫 𝔪𝔶 𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔡 𝔞𝔫𝔡 ℑ 𝔡𝔬 𝔫𝔬𝔱 𝔤𝔢𝔱 𝔞𝔣𝔣𝔢𝔠𝔱𝔢𝔡 𝔟𝔶 𝔞𝔫𝔶𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔤. ➥ ℑ 𝔠𝔬𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔫𝔲𝔬𝔲𝔰𝔩𝔶 𝔯𝔢𝔩𝔢𝔞𝔰𝔢 𝔞𝔫𝔶 𝔭𝔞𝔦𝔫 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔡𝔦𝔰𝔠𝔬𝔪𝔣𝔬𝔯𝔱 ℑ 𝔞𝔪 𝔥𝔬𝔩𝔡𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔬𝔫 𝔱𝔬. ➥ ℑ 𝔩𝔢𝔱 𝔤𝔬 𝔬𝔣 𝔲𝔫𝔠𝔬𝔪𝔣𝔬𝔯𝔱𝔞𝔟𝔩𝔢 𝔥𝔞𝔟𝔦𝔱𝔰. ➥ 𝔐𝔶 𝔰𝔱𝔞𝔟𝔦𝔩𝔦𝔱𝔶 𝔩𝔢𝔱𝔰 𝔪𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔨 𝔠𝔩𝔢𝔞𝔯𝔩𝔶 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔰𝔬𝔩𝔳𝔢 𝔞𝔫𝔶 𝔭𝔯𝔬𝔟𝔩𝔢𝔪. ➥"ℑ 𝔞𝔪 𝔞 𝔪𝔞𝔰𝔱𝔢𝔯 𝔬𝔣 𝔪𝔶 𝔪𝔬𝔬𝔡.” ☝️ Repeat these affirmation a few times in morning & evening to ensure your inner world is not affected by events in your outer world. Your consistently stable, good mood will improve your happiness, health and harmony. Selected Videos for You Speaker: BK Shivani (Hindi) 1. How to manage your Emotions 👉🏻 https://youtu.be/al_htpbM6Y0 2. Create a stable mind that is Emotionaly Unshakable 👉🏻 https://youtu.be/BdWFkqD5IMs 3. How to Control the Mind 👉🏻 https://www.youtube.com/live/lZW4bPZOHM8 👆🏻Watch the videos one by one for better understanding. On Godly Service, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴

Guilt and grief, two of life’s most profound and lingering emotions, often intertwine to create an emotional weight that can negative impact our thoughts, actions, and sense of self. Whether arising from loss, regret, unmet expectations, or unresolved pain, these feelings can anchor us to the past, clouding the present moment (reality) and dimming hope for the future. In order to move forward in life, we must learn self-forgiveness, self-compassion, and releasing the pain of guilt/regret. Releasing these emotions is not about erasing memories or denying their significance, but about reclaiming our inner world. It requires courage to confront vulnerability, compassion to forgive oneself, and the willingness to embrace imperfection as part of the human experience. This article delves into the transformative journey of letting go, spiritual insights & practical suggestions to overcome any form of regret/guilt and grief, and ultimately, to find a path toward healing, acceptance, and renewed peace. ✶Background: This post is our response to a sister who contacted us, as she was suffering from feeling of guilt and regret, as she witnessed her father's death before her eyes in the hospital, and she could not help. Her father wanted to go back home and not stay in the hospital. Please read this post till the end... this is important for a complete understanding & healing. Title: "𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙂𝙪𝙞𝙡𝙩 & 𝙂𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙛" Subtitle: 𝚂𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠𝚕𝚎𝚍𝚐𝚎, 𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 & 𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚕𝚝, 𝚛𝚎𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚝 𝚘𝚛 𝚐𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚏 𝚞𝚙𝚘𝚗 𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚑 𝚘𝚏 𝚊 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚍 𝚘𝚗𝚎 Index Article Introduction Foreword ONE: Birth & Death Predestined Releasing Guilt & Regret TWO: What Love would do Sakash Healing THREE: 'We Meet Again' FOUR: Journey After Death Helpful Links ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 This is a delicate topic. We all would have (at some point in life) faced this situation where we lost someone from family or any loved one. This message is rather long, but promises 'healing' and 'upliftment'. 🍀Before we begin, remember, the aim and 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎 of this response message is not only to help you release the guilt and regret, but also to show you a way you can send your "blessings" and "thought energy" to that soul (your father who departed from this world) and thus also aiding that soul in 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐧. ——————————— 🪻This being a sensitive topic, i had to think deeply on how it should be addressed. I believe the best way would simply by telling you some 'spiritual truths' and 'connecting the dots'. This knowing should instantly release any guilt or regret. We will use POINTS for it to be most effective and clear: ONE: "𝗕𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵 & 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗣𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲𝗱" Everything has a perfect reasoning, a 𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 to happen. There is a "divine order" in the universe. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞, because every event is inter-dependent on each other. So if one thing fails to happen on time, it affects the 'divine timing' of everything else connected to it... And ultimately, we ALL are connected, spiritually 'in union'. 🪴Bring this wisdom to your situation. Your father's soul came here for a purpose... Just as we all have a 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞-𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞, for which we incarnate in every birth. When he attained that purpose, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞. There is nothing to gain any more by staying here against the divine order. "Delaying the time of death does not enhance your relationship with the person dying, but only fades it away". Because the part is done, and the soul needs 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐨 𝐚𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝, perhaps clear some pending karma with others, or 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞 using another body, at another place. Suggested post: 𝐈𝐬 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 & 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐝? 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲 𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗹𝘁 & 𝗥𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗲𝘁 Let's go back to the moment you described. Your father requesting you to take him away or home. And you believe that if you did that, he would be alive right now. Do you not believe that? or do you believe that 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬, 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬... whether you are at a hospital bed or at home... which one do you think is true? We wont tell you, because you know the answer. 🌱SECOND: Keep in mind—that your father's soul is 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞 of all this... None of us are... As we come here, we choose to "forget" all this... So he did not know that "time has come"... and thus, like any other human being, he exercised his instinct and desired to go away from it. Not to mention the "intense medications and the operation" were not a pleasant experience and naturally he would desire to leave the place. So, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨. TWO: "𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗪𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗗𝗼" Your love is not meant to hold them, but 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 '𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞'... When you love someone truly, you want for them 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝. Their will becomes your will. In their spiritual progress is your joy. Your happiness is no longer in 'holding on' what is running away, but in '𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠' the moments you were together. 🌳You do understand that life is not about days, months & years lived, but 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 you spent together which added meaning to your days upon the Earth. A life is 'glorified' and 'enjoyed' not when it is long, but when it is embraced wholly. Not those who lived longer are remembered dearly, but those 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲. It may be a day, an hour, a minute. Healing with Sakash You can still do your part, send your blessings & love to them... This 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬/𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 is primarily meant for HEALING... and we call it "SAKASH" FIRST: Please learn everything through our post: Sakash (Meaning, Method, Purpose) SECOND: Join our 𝗦𝗮𝗸𝗮𝘀𝗵 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗽, post ONE clear & recent picture of your father... with a 'short message' describing the story & purpose of giving Sakash. Joining link 👉 https://chat.whatsapp.com/C9WpulxNr8g3udw1AftGDc 🪷Spiritually teaches us 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐬. And when they leave, '𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀' 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗷𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗮𝗻𝗱 '𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗵' from the memories... You see, the reason we grieve for those who passed away, is the memories we hold. And then follows the thought that "we will never meet again". THREE: "𝐖𝐞 𝐃𝐨 𝐌𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐀𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧" Let us tell you the most important of all gifts you have received from this message: "We Do Meet Again" We are only here as 'visitors' and playing our part in the 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐚 we have created. When our part is done, we go back to where we belong... 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 (your 'soul-family')... They all are there... None of them is lost... No one is lost forever. You can join them only when your 'purpose' here is done. When your time comes, you will go. 🌈Not only will you meet your loved ones in the 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 (or call it 'heaven') but also back here... 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞... You could be the father and they could be your child. Would you remember this moment? No... Life is designed so that 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 (of past lives) while we are in the physical body... But yes, when the soul is detached from its body, it is back to the high vibrations, where the soul can access all its memories, of all lives. This is called 𝘼𝙠𝙖𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙘 𝙍𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙨 (a library of all memories & experiences of every soul who ever lived) Learn about Akashic Records👉 https://www.gaia.com/article/akashic-records-101-can-we-access-our-akashic-records FOUR: "𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗔𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵" (Knowing this you would be at peace & be happy for the departed soul) 🌸Perhaps what can bring you 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 is this knowing: "𝚈𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚏𝚊𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛'𝚜 𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚕 𝚑𝚊𝚜 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚌𝚎𝚍 𝚊 𝚋𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚓𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚎𝚢 𝚊𝚜 𝚒𝚝 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜𝚎𝚍"... We all do and will... Heaven awaits us... These words are not here just to comfort you, but to bring you to the truth. 🍁Imagine how 'wonderful' the soul would have felt, coming 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧 associated with their physical body... Just as "life" is a gift from the creator, even "death" is such a 𝐠𝐢𝐟𝐭. 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 The soul, which had to lower its vibrations enough to be 'trapped' in a physical body, suddenly becomes FREE from it... Imagine 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 that the soul feels!! Beyond words... From being in pain, to being at 𝐭𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 & 𝐣𝐨𝐲... From experiencing death, to realising the 𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 of life... We can only try to imagine the beauty of this experience, but only those who lived it and yet came back to life feels it all. 🍎Yes, we are talking of 𝗡𝗲𝗮𝗿-𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵-𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 (𝐍𝐃𝐄) shared by millions of people all around the world. There are thousands of 'interviews' where the people who had a NDE recently or long ago, has shared their exeprience on camera. See it through them, how your father would have. ☝️𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬, 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡, 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫. ➕Explore the following YouTube channels for various 𝐍𝐃𝐄 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰𝐬👉 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐍𝐃𝐄 ➤ https://www.youtube.com/@TheOtherSideNDEYT 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲 ➤ https://www.youtube.com/@cominghomechannel 𝐀𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 ➤ https://www.youtube.com/c/AnthonyCheneproduction/videos (video interviews) ———————————— 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 Please visit all the following links one by one to gain maximum clarity & guidance: Recommended post: 𝗗𝗼 𝗪𝗲 𝗠𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵? Learn about 𝗡𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 (𝗡𝗗𝗘) 𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥: Watch this documentary👉 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗪𝗘 𝗔𝗥𝗘 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2AeOfYAJJ8o&list=PLCATdvkgqUV2-P92Xyxv9g1A1hsnFNqjR ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... 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