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Made a mistake? God has said: 'Lust is your greatest enemy'. Here is healing for you the soul. How to recover from past Karma, sin or mistakes? The way to Self realisation and Self transformation. Original Email Received in January 2019 I did a sin. I am in love with my best Friend who has a girlfriend. I just can't see him sad. I feel jealous of their togatherness. Day before yesterday we shared an intimate moment. We hugged and he kissed and rubbed his cheek on my cheek. How could I allow him for this! He kissed on my forehead too. I am feeling like a culprit. I disowned myself. I cheated on my parents and his girlfriend. I broke my vow of not being intimate with someone other than my future husband. Please advice me how can i forget all these things and my bestfriend too? I want to move on but don't know how. I want to be pure again. Please please advice me. I have done the 7 days rajayoga course and started practicing meditation also, but still am thinking about it. Please advice me a way so that i will not repeat these type of mistakes. Wish I could be pure again. Please help. Thank u Our Email Response To: Monali (and Everyone Reading this) Good morning Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response. You subjected the letter as 'sin'. But you must first know if it is really so. It is difficult to accurately understand the accounts of karma - what is right action (punya), what is wrong action (sin) or what is in-action (that which does not give any fruit). God sits and explains. In essence, those karma (action) which gives you and others 'peace of mind', which gives inner-satisfaction, is the right Karma. You have judged and concluded that it is a sin. But it is not. It is instead a ''mistake''. Mistake may lead to a sin - so be aware. Mistake s when you first encounter a new experience. Then you judge if that is right or not. This is essential so that you understand completely the way you want to live. Every soul is here is experience what it is. Soul has virtues of Peace, Purity, love, bliss and powers. But these all are in merged form. When we make use of these, they come emerged. Life is making choices at every step. However choice you will make, you will become. Great thing is that the creator (GOD) is so great that he placed 2 choices after every choice - that is - even if a Soul makes a mistake, still you will have a chance to re-create. You will have this choice till the end. God is soo great. Shiv baba has come. To understand the essence of this divine knowledge, you first have to take the 7 days course. You can take this course at any NEARBY cente OR online. Whatever happens is always for benefit. See here also, as you made a small mistake, you came towards God, towards us and now you are more stable in purity. Baba has given the first shrimat - Purity. This is our last birth. It is last birth for all the souls. The play will last until the end. World drama is of 5000 years. ''I want to forget him completely and dedicate my life towards spirituality...'' Answer: In such a situation, advice is given that you should direct your mind towards something productive. Learn something important to keep mind busy in spiritual knowledge. I am sharing you how I started the journey - step by step. Hope you will find inspiration. There are many good ways to start. Here are a few: 1. Start by knowing the history of Yagya - here is a playlist on SoundCloud where the history is told in Hindi (audio): https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/history-of-brahma-kumaris 2. Then watch these videos - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos - Videos not only is easy to understand but also is useful to bring clarity in Gyan (knowledge) 3. Now you have received an introduction of God - our spiritual father. Hence now we can understand the Murli. It is time to study. So I started listening to Murlis everyday and also taking important points in a notebook. Murli website: babamurli.com Mobile apps (MUST install and see) - http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps 4. Making a chart every day before sleep - On Shiv baba's direction's i started making a 1 page small chart for my daily activities. - Did i make any mistake today? - confession. - What did baba say in today's murli? - What service did i do today? - What new i learned? 5. When you complete all 4 stages of Purusharth, you will become a mature child of Shiv baba. You don't need guidance from me. When you start, email us. As you go ahead in this journey, you shall find divine inspirations from Shiv baba and Drama. You will become what you ''will to''. Always remember - 'This is the only time when we can 'create' our fortune for many many coming births...' Good wishes --- Useful links (do 'save' on phone/PC) --- About Us - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us 7 days course online - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course EXPLORE THE SITEMAP - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything? Search on BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com namaste In Godly World Service 00

There are many newcomers who wish to properly know the process or precedure to get "surrendered" in the Yagya and become a Brahma Kumari/Kumar and live permanently at a centre. The 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 of this should be pure and elevated. Living in God's home would be a great responsibility and one is required to follow the 𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚙𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚙𝚕𝚎𝚜 and 𝙱𝚊𝚋𝚊'𝚜 𝚜𝚑𝚛𝚒𝚖𝚊𝚝 completely. Skip to 3 Steps or Skip to Rules & Shrimat 🌻Your intention should be greater than merely getting to live at a BK centre >> Your intention should be to get this spiritual knowledge, connect to God, enhance your life, and to service others >> Now the following is our complete guidance with STEPS for anyone who wish to surrender & live permanently at our BK RajYog center. Steps to Surrender The following are the three categorised steps, following which, you will become a BK (Brahma Kumar/Kumari) and shall be able to be permanently surrender to the Yagya. STEP 1 It is advised for everyone to first take the RajYog 7 days course 'online' or by visiting your local BK centre. Then after, stay connected to your local BK centre (RajYog Sewa Kendra) and study/read/listen to Baba's Murli regularly... A minimum of 6 months of daily studying Murli should be given to properly understand all points of Gyaan. Only after that you should think of “surrendering to the Yagya” 🌷Everything is mentioned and explanied in-detail on our official guidelines page: How to Join Us STEP 2 After taking this our introductory RajYog course & becoming a "godly student" > you can approach your regional BK centre and ask the incharge sister to give you the 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕔𝕖𝕤𝕤 & 𝕣𝕖𝕢𝕦𝕚𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕤 to be followed in order to surrender (stay) at that centre. To get fully surrendered (to live at a BK centre), you must complete at least 6 months in Gyan and get a signed permission letter from your parents/family/gaurdian if you are a minor. Even otherwise, permission from family is required in most cases. Take this signed permission letter and give it to the ‘centre incharge’ of your local/regional BK centre. Ask the centre-incharge sister to guide you ahead. STEP 3 (optional) Read and sign this "𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿" & send it via email to sbsteambk@gmail.com with email subject “𝚂𝚞𝚛𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛 𝙻𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚎𝚛” OR send the letter through post to our Mount Abu HQ (or give it to your regional BK centre) The "Surrender Letter" in English ➤ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/The-Surrender-Letter-for-BK-souls.pdf (improved) or in Hindi ➤ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Surrender-Letter-to-Shiv-Baba-Hindi.pdf NOTE: Print above PDF, then sign, then Scan or take Photo & send us via email. Otherwise, print & submit it to your regional centre or directly send it to Mount Abu. ——————————— Rules & Shrimat After being accepted as a member and allowed to stay at a local BK centre by a regional authority or an incharge sister, you must follow complete "𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 (𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗯𝗮𝗰𝘆)" and other Divine Guidelines called "Shrimat" which is given directly by Shiv Baba (god) every day through the murlis. 🌱Generally, there are only 2 requirements: 1. You should have taken the 'course' & are studying the daily 'Murli' 2. You are following the 'Shrimat' (the first shrimat is "purity in life") The shrimat is simple, but one needs a clean & clear mind to understand; and WILL POWER to follow the daily routine from Amritvela (4am) to night. The first shrimat is of purity (cleanliness of body, mind & spirit) which is the base of our Brahman (BK) life. Learn about Murli 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/what-is-murli Read our Rules & Guidelines 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/post/rules-and-guidelines and Shiv Baba's 108 Shrimat article 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/post/shiv-baba-and-bapdada-108-shrimat (to read or print) Godly Gifts Get daily sustenance through our Online Services & get all things at ONE place on Godly Resources section. 👆 Save (bookmark) these 4 links on your phone to visit any time later whenever you need. Follow the given 3 steps to fully surrender and live at a BK centre (to Join Permanently as a BK brother/sister) "𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙬" You are in our connection, and you have taken a course into 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚢 and 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐭𝐨𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐆𝐨𝐝. "𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙; 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙛𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚" "just keep going" 🌷Everything is mentioned and explanied in-detail on our official guidelines page: How to Join Us Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴

We get many questions on HOW the world drama and our life, the events in life are all predestined. And we have explained it bit by bit, since the topic is very wide and the spiritual secrets are deep to understand. Now on this post we are mainly focussing on the three said aspects in life: "Birth, Death, Marriage" and you will learn how and WHY they are pre-planned even before taking the birth. Note: Much of what is explained here is derived from my learnings from the Near Death Experiences (NDE) shared by people/souls who came back to life after leaving their body. They shared what they saw and experienced on "the other side" so to speak. Also read: Is Life & Drama Predestined? Title: “𝑰𝒔 𝑩𝒊𝒓𝒕𝒉, 𝑫𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒉, 𝑴𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝑷𝒓𝒆𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅?" (must read) ✶𝓐𝓭𝓶𝓲𝓷: 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘴 𝘢 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘢 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. ✤ Note: 𝖳𝗁𝖾 𝖿𝗈𝗅𝗅𝗈𝗐𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗂𝗌 𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖻𝗋𝗂𝖾𝖿 𝖺𝗇𝗌𝗐𝖾𝗋 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗅𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗋 𝗂𝗌 𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗂𝗇-𝖽𝖾𝗍𝖺𝗂𝗅 𝗀𝗎𝗂𝖽𝖺𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝗈𝗇 "𝗐𝗈𝗋𝗅𝖽 𝖽𝗋𝖺𝗆𝖺"👉 ★𝗔𝗡𝗦𝗪𝗘𝗥: There is another dimension to understand when we say that most of the events of our life are predestined >> the word here does not mean that someone else controlled our life... no ... the hidden meaning here is that WE CHOSE our destiny 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗵𝘆𝘀𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱 (take birth) 🌴𝐀 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭: We CHOOSE our situations, relationships (family) & circumstances in order to LEARN, EXPERIENCE, & GROW (spiritually) Therefore, we get attracted to the souls with whom we had a karmic account in a previous birth. We come together to “settle” the debt (account). In doing so, the “relationships” like husband, wife, friend, etc are created. But of course, the SOUL enjoys free-will as no one is forced really, but this happens naturally if a karmic account is involved between the souls. ☘️and in this way... most of the events that would happen in life, are also destined by our own higher self even before we take birth. This in order to fulfil the "𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎" the soul has set to achieve (learn or experience) Is Death predestined? 𝓐𝓷𝓼𝔀𝓮𝓻: Generally speaking, YES... As long as someone does not meet an 'unplanned/undesired' 𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕚𝕕𝕖𝕟𝕥, just as birth (entering the body) was pre-planned, even death (leaving the physical body) is fixed. Just as the soul completes/achieves its 𝕡𝕦𝕣𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕖 𝕠𝕗 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖, it chooses the "natural way" to leave the body. This is most common for all, unless there is a 𝕂𝕒𝕣𝕞𝕚𝕔 𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠𝕦𝕟𝕥 to be settled through a diseases, etc. In the ultimate truth, nothing happens by accident. All 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 and all 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚜 of life are pre-sent (pre-created) and attracted by YOU in order for you to experience, learn and grow. ♾️ All this is nicely explained on our below full response on this topic >> 𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙢𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙞𝙨 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙋𝙧𝙚𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙? 𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙈𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙛𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙒𝙤𝙧𝙠? (must read. very useful) The worthy question is: "𝘪𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 (𝘥𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘢) 𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦, 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘧𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬?" 🌴The topic of DRAMA and individual soul's LIFE being "predestined" (fixed) is a little complicated and wide. So let's use the simplest words to explain you using points: ➥ World Drama is said to be "predestined" > what happens to the entire world is overall predestined (fixed) > but an individual soul's life (journey) is fully our own 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹... You can choose to experience any feeling, and you can attract any experience or person or event in your life. This is our FREE WILL given by the creator. ✶𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲: Take how our body function >> "how much our height would be" is almost pre-destined with our birth (comes from genes).. but our weight is entirely in our hands. LIFE is designed in such a beautiful balanced way. ᗯᕼY ᗯE ᑕOᗰE ᕼEᖇE? ➥ To understand "why" and "how" is our life story planned by us (even before we take birth), you have to first understand in the first place, the 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 of life! We come here to '𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎' what WE ARE >> so that we have a 𝕗𝕣𝕖𝕖-𝕨𝕚𝕝𝕝 to choose what to become, instead of having no other choice (so as to speak) ➥ When we are up there, in our soul world (home), we have no other choice, but to be who we are... Yes we are divine, complete, all-knowing spiritual beings who can create "reality" out of thin air... and we already are 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗲, 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹, 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹 & 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 children of God (great creator) >> but there is no way for us to understand what this even means... unless, we come in this rome/world (dimension) where the 𝗼𝗽𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗲𝘀 of love (fear) peace (peacelessness), purity (impurity/vices) exist. ➥ It is only when we come across 𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗸𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 that we can even understand what 𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 is. This is a well-known concept now called 𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓲𝓹𝓵𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓡𝓮𝓵𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓿𝓲𝓽𝔂. It simply states that "𝘈 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘦𝘹𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 '𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦' 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨" Now coming to your question of 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 what we desire and want in life👉 🌿As explained, at any point of life, we always have OPTIONS to choose >> and this is our chance 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁 our inner desire... The job of the universe is to provide you opportunities to progress towards the goal you have set for yourself. 🌷Universe will (without fail) shower you with opportunities. The more you put your thought (sankalp) on it, the more you attract it. But ofcourse, you must not miss the CHANCE/OPPURTUNITY when it is given. Tip: Must read our beautiful guidance on How to Manifest our Thoughts (forum) ✱ 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗩𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗼𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗬𝗼𝘂 ✱ 𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕣𝕤: BK sister Shivani, Sandeep Maheshwari, Sadguru 1. Everything on Manifestation (by Sadguru) ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwGSgJytufY 2. Law of Attraction explained by Sandeep M ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gu-J9HpG2g 3. HOW does "𝕝𝕒𝕨 𝕠𝕗 𝔸𝕥𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟" work ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5YsPrkX3v0 (Bk Shivani) 4. How to Get what you Desire ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=km-on1coUak 5. Affirmations to ATTRACT what you want ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP7Ez-R7rXM ☝️Please watch ALL the above provided 𝟱 𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗼𝘀 one by one... to get maximum clarity and guidance. 𝔸𝕝𝕝 𝕍𝕚𝕕𝕖𝕠𝕤 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕀𝕞𝕡𝕠𝕣𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕥. This should cover all you need to know. Also read: Is Life & Drama Predestined? 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈.. Oᑎ GOᗪᒪY SEᖇᐯIᑕE, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

This post addresses a parent's profound concern for their adult son, who is trapped in a self-destructive cycle of anger, job loss, and anxiety triggered by workplace conflicts and perceived slights. It reframes his behavior as pain beneath anger, emphasizes control over one’s response rather than others’ actions, and encourages silence, self-reflection, pausing, meditation, and journaling. Our response provides a compassionate and spiritual framework for understanding that this anger is not the core issue but a symptom of a deeper emotional wound. It offers practical guidance on how to help the child shift their focus from trying to control others to developing self-awareness and emotional regulation, steering him toward a path of inner healing and sustainable peace. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Title: A Parent's Guide to Helping a Son Manage Anger, Regulate Emotions and Respond to Workplace Criticism Constructively 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝗿𝘆: 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘮 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘯, 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘪𝘴 𝘶𝘱𝘴𝘦𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘰𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘤𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦? 𝘏𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘳𝘺, 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘣𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘨𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘶𝘱 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘫𝘰𝘣𝘴. 𝘏𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘸𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴. 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘹𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥𝘭𝘺—𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘤𝘬 𝘩𝘪𝘮. Response Your son is somewhere deeply hurt, and his anger is a mask which hides that pain. As a spiritual guide, I offer this to you, and perhaps through you, to him: 1. Pain Behind the Anger Tell him, “When someone scolds you, it doesn’t mean you are worthless. Often, people act out of their own frustration. But when we react with rage, we add fuel to a fire that could have gone out.” He must learn to see beyond the words—to not take every harsh tone as a personal attack. 2. Control Over Self, Not Others Explain that we cannot force others to speak kindly, to reply to our messages, or to understand us. But we can control how we respond. If he keeps reacting with harshness, the world will keep shutting its doors. 3. The Power of Silence & Space Ask him gently: “Can you sit with your discomfort without exploding? Can you give space to others and allow silence to speak?” People don’t always respond because they may be overwhelmed, unsure, or afraid of confrontation—not necessarily because they wish to hurt him. 4. Healing the Deeper Wound Often, such repeated need for answers, validation, and justice comes from an old wound—perhaps of not being heard, seen, or respected. Encourage him to look within: What is he truly seeking? Not just justice—but probably acknowledgment, love, and peace. 5. Your Role as a Parent You can validate his feelings, but not his reactions. Tell him, “We understand your hurt, but we cannot support your anger turning into abuse. You deserve respect, but so do others—even those who wrong you.” ➤Get ALL our posts on '𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠' https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+parenting 6. A Gentle Suggestion for Him Perhaps he can begin a daily practice—5 minutes of silence, breathing, journaling (writing diary) his emotions before reacting. Over time, this can change the inner pattern. SUMMARY This is not just a job issue—it is a soul lesson. About emotional regulation, self-worth, and letting go of needing control over how others behave. Guide him not by fighting his battles, but by helping him grow the strength to not let the battle define him. 'Peace' comes not when others stop hurting us—but when we stop letting them change who we are. Recommended posts: ➤ Parenting a child with Anger issue ➤ Overcome Anger Forever ➤ Advance Emotional Healing Share on WhatsApp⇗ 𝔹𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤… On God Service, Manager, Samadhan, SBSI

Money is not just currency—it carries the weight of intention, action, and consequence. Every rupee, dollar, or pound we earn is intertwined with the choices we make and the 'values' we uphold. When we look at income through the lens of karma, the question is not simply how much we earn, but HOW and WHY. “Earning with conscience” means aligning our livelihood with integrity, ensuring that our actions do not harm, and using the excess income to uplift, heal, and serve. In this way, money becomes more than material comfort—it becomes a tool for "spiritual growth" and "positive impact" to the world. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Title: "𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙮, 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙘𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚, 𝘿𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙖" Question: I work for an international company who also participates and sponsor wars. I am against it, but the directors of the company make the decisions. Does this contribute to my karma, and is the money i earn be called blood-money? The Response This is a profound and difficult question, and it touches on karma, intention, and conscious participation. Spiritual Guidance When we earn in harmony with 'moral' and 'spiritual' values, our income carries peace, dignity, and blessings that nourish both body and soul. Honest earnings strengthen "trust" in the self and align us with dharma—making money a medium for GROWTH rather than guilt. On the other hand, money gained through dishonesty or harmful means leaves subtle stains on the mind—it breeds restlessness, fear, and inner conflict, which obstruct (hinders) spiritual progress. True prosperity is not measured by wealth alone, but by the purity of the path through which it flows. Therefore, the question is not whether the money you are earning is 'blood money' but whether you are earning it 'honestly' and that your 'intention' of using it it positive. 🍀There are 4 pillars of the spiritual perspective to your situation: 1. Intention Matters In spiritual understanding, it is not only what you do, but WHY and HOW you do it. If you, as an employee, do not intend harm, and your role does not directly contribute to violence, your karma is "different" from those making decisions to support war. ((you are not making that decision for your company)) 2. Your Responsibility We live in a world where many systems are entangled with suffering—governments, banks, corporations. If we label every connection as “blood money,” we may find no place to stand. Instead, we must ask: ➙Am I contributing to harm knowingly? ➙ Is my role causing direct suffering? ➙Can I use what I earn for good, to offset what I cannot control? 3. Act with Awareness Live life delberately, not just for the sake of surviving. Have a purpose. Keep asking yourself—Am i doing right? Is my intention right? How is my karma influencing the people around me (and the world)?—this will keep you walking on the path of Dharma (धर्म). The discomfort are perhaps feeling is not a curse—it is 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 '𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞' 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞. Ultimately, your own inner-conscience is your true judge and master. Reflect your choices based on your inner-conscience: 𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟: ➙Is there a more ethical path for me? ➙Am I compromising my 'peace' for material comfort? Tip: Read our post on 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 & 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 4. Purifying the Income First, evaluate and decide based on the first 3 points... Then if you choose to stay, but "unsure" whether it is right for you>> then you can dedicate a portion of your salary to life-affirming, noble causes—𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭, 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠. In many traditions, and especially in our Indian tradition, this is a way to spiritually "purify" our earnings. Tip: See a list of 10 most trusted 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 in India: https://www.teameverest.ngo/blog/genuine-charity-organizations-in-india Also read: ➤ Money & Spirituality (a detailed exploration) ➤ Dharma vs Desires (eternal wisdom) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Foreword: The quest to find one's purpose is a timeless and deeply human endeavor. It is the silent question that echoes in moments of reflection, urging us to seek a life of 'meaning' rather than mere existence. This journey is not about discovering a single, hidden answer but about a continuous process of aligning our passions, values, and actions. The following exploration offers a 3-step insight to help you navigate this essential quest—not as a destination to reach, but as an ongoing process of self-discovery that can transform how you approach each day with "intention" and "clarity". ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— ★ Finding the Purpose of Life ★ Yes, what you have heard and understood, is profoundly true. Every soul chooses to return to Earth, to take a physical form, for a PURPOSE. But this purpose is far grander and simpler than the world has taught you to believe. The soul's purpose is not to achieve a specific job, gain a certain amount of wealth, or even to learn a particular "lesson" like a student at a school. We are already WHOLE and complete. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝘀: To remember Who You Truly Are, and then "to choose" and "express" that Divinity in your physical reality. In doing so, 𝐰𝐞 𝐫𝐞-𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 who we are. Here is the process in brief: What we think, we do... what we do, we express... what we express, we experience... and what we experience, we BECOME... all life is a process to BECOME what we are. Tip: Read our Manifestation Guide Understand this: Finding the purpose of life is less about chasing a grand revelation and more about uncovering meaning in the small, consistent moments. It is discovered when we 'align' our passions with service, when our actions reflect our deepest values, and when GROWTH matters more than mere gain. Purpose isn’t something waiting far away—it is something "we create" through living with awareness, intention, and love. 3 Steps to Finding Life's Purpose You will not find your soul's purpose in a book or by listening to another person. It is not a secret hidden from you. It is a fire that already burns within you. There are 3 things to consider: 1. 𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 Your soul does not speak in words; it speaks in the language of 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬. Pay attention to what brings you the highest feeling of 𝚓𝚘𝚢, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚊𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗. What makes you feel most 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞? What activity makes you lose all track of time? 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐞, 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥'𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬, pointing directly towards its chosen expression. It is your inner guidance system. In 𝚜𝚒𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎, you can listen to your intuition more clearly. 2. 𝗔𝘀𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗥𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Stop asking the world, "What is my purpose?" The world will only give you answers based on its own limited ideas. Instead, 𝐠𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟: ➙Who Am I? ➙Who do I choose to be, right now, in this moment? ➙What is the grandest version of the grandest vision I have ever held about myself? Your purpose is the answer to that last question. Your purpose is to become that grandest version of yourself. 3. 𝗖𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗧𝗘 (𝗗𝗼 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗦𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵) You must understand this: Your soul's purpose is not something you find, as if you are on a treasure hunt. It is something you 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞, 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐰 in every single moment. 🌸When you are faced with a choice, simply ask: "𝚆𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝙻𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚍𝚘 𝚗𝚘𝚠?" The answer to that question, when acted upon, will always 'align' you perfectly with the purpose of your soul. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: Do not worry about the "higher purpose", because you will always achieve that. Simply focus on 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐣𝐨𝐲𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 in this present moment, right now. As you do that, your life will unfold in a way that perfectly expresses the unique and beautiful purpose for which you have come here. MUST READ: ➤ The Common Purpose of Life ➤ WE ARE ONE! Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

This life-changing post brings timeless wisdom and practical guidance for anyone wrestling with negative thoughts, मोह (attachment), and माया (illusion). Understanding that spirituality is not a battle to suppress the mind, but as a journey to recognize our true nature—the witnessing "awareness" (consciousness) beyond thoughts. In this beautiful post, drawing primarily from the eternal teachings of the Bhagavad Gita and ancient Indian philosophy, we present you the TWO solutions to control negative thoughts, Moh, and Maya➙ONE: becoming a detached observer of the mind (साक्षी भाव) and TWO: engaging in selfless action (निष्काम कर्मयोग). This post is a brief guide to 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚜𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 and 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚖𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚢. Index Foreword (Intro) The Question The Nature of Mind Moh and Maya explained The 2 solutions (*) The path to mastery Title: "𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 & 𝙏𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙨𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙉𝙚𝙜𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙨" Subtitle: 𝚂𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝙼𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚢: 𝙰 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚕𝚎𝚝𝚎 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚗𝚎𝚐𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜 { MUST READ } ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Question: How to control the negative thoughts? How to overcome the मोह (attachment) and माया (illusions)? The Response You now stand at the threshold of a great inner discovery. The questions you ask—𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘔𝘰𝘩 𝘔𝘢𝘺𝘢—are not separate inquiries. They are two doors leading to 𝚒𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚛 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚍𝚘𝚖 and spiritual mastery. And this message contains our complete guidance, the key to unlock those doors. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱 To hold the grasp of this eternal wisdom, even spoken in The Bhagavad Gita, one must first understand the 𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦 (प्रकृति) of the mind. For even the God of the Gita accepts that the mind (मन) is playful (चंचल), and to control it is like controlling the wind. The human mind, by its very nature, is a river of 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜, 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚖𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 (संस्कार). It is चंचल (chanchal) - restless and 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫-𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠. The mistake we make is to believe that we are this flow. We identify with a passing negative thought and say, "I am sad," or "I am angry." This is the fundamental error. 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗔𝗠 𝗜? You are not the thought. You are the silence between two thoughts, the "awareness" that remains when there is no thought. The fabric in which the thought appears and disappears. This is you, the eternal consciousness, the SOUL. Even according to the ancient Indian philosophy, आप विचार नहीं हैं, आप विचारों के साक्षी हैं। (You are not the thought, you are the 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 of the thoughts) Video: 𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐀𝐌 𝐈 (English) 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙘𝙡𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 And therefore, the goal of meditation (राजयोग) is not to stop (dam) the river (which is a constant struggle), but to learn to "be a witness" and 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐛𝐲 without being swept away. 𝗠𝗼𝗵 𝗠𝗮𝘆𝗮 (मोह माया) It is the intricate web that creates this prison of negativity. Let's uderstand the both: 𝙈𝙤𝙝 (मोह) is the deep-seated 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 we feel towards people, outcomes (result), possessions, and even our own self-image. 𝙈𝙖𝙮𝙖 (माया) is the grand 𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 that presents this physical world appear as "permanent and real", appealing us to seek lasting happiness in things that are bound to change and perish. The Two Solutions ONE साक्षी भाव: 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙖𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙤 𝙁𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢 The ancient wisdom provides us with timeless tools to untangle this web and calm the restless mind. When a negative thought arises: ➙𝐀𝐜𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐭 without resistance. Simply note internally, "A thought of fear has come." ➙𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 by observing it. See it as a cloud floating across the vast sky of your consciousness. You are the sky, not the cloud. ➙𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬 without judgment or engagement. Do not feed it with more mental energy. A thought, when simply observed, loses its power and dissolves. 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝗮𝗸𝘀𝗵𝗶 𝗕𝗵𝗮𝘃 Every morning as you wake up, sit for 10–20 minutes in 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞. Keep your spine 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭. Focus on every 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡. Whenever a negative thought arises, label softly: “𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐… 𝚏𝚎𝚊𝚛… 𝚓𝚞𝚍𝚐𝚒𝚗𝚐…” and return to breath. Just observe, do not engage. AND You may even chant a 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙖 (मन्त्र). For example: ॐ (OM) chanting, etc; to remove your mind from distractions & bring it to focus. Tip: Refer to our post 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 & 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 for more clarity on the same. TWO निष्काम कर्मयोग (𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻) As you would observe, a lot of those negative thoughts are born from our 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬 (including attachment to the outcome of our karma). The timeless wisdom of The Gita is our guide again. 𝘈𝘳𝘫𝘶𝘯𝘢 was struggling to control his thoughts and emotions. Krishna did not ask him to supress them, but to engage the mind in निष्काम कर्मयोग (Selfless Action) through which Arjuna can attain 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚖𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚢. Gita verse: कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन। मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भूर्मा ते सङ्गोऽस्त्वकर्मणि॥ Meaning: We are entitled to act, but not to control the results (consequence). We should perform our duties with sincerity, without being driven by 'reward' or 'fear' of failure, and without slipping into laziness or avoidance. True freedom lies in focusing on effort, not outcome. Lesson: The root of those negative thoughts is 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. You want praise, you fear failure, you expect a certain result. God's guidance is to pour your entire being into your actions—your work, your relationships, your duties—but to completely surrender the results to the higher power. When you are no longer anxious about the fruit, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦, 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝 & 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞. You act from a place of 𝐝𝐮𝐭𝐲 (धर्म - 𝐃𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚) 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, not from a place of fear and desire. Must read this post: 𝐊𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐘𝐨𝐠 (𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤) and Must watch 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐢𝐭𝐚 𝐔𝐩𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐡 (Hindi original series, full playlist) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFPJRCFRDARSRskyLvVn6ukSQvLq2c_iy 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗧𝗼 𝗠𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘆 It is a perfect balance of "selfless karma" and "yog (meditation)" that can leap you to spiritual mastery. योग (meditation to god) is very important, as the 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐠𝐨𝐝 that we develop, and the energy we receive through this योग, eases our path of निष्काम कर्म. That is: when we have a close connection with the divine, we can easily "surrender" our karma to god, and free ourself. ➤𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙘𝙡𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 Nishkama Karma prepares the field by removing the ego, desire, and attachment. And योग (meditation) then plants the seed of '𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚊𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜' in that purified field, allowing it to blossom into the full realization of the Self. Life becomes a blessing. Next to read: Testing times are Blessed times ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Subtitle: Settling Karmic Debts Within a Painful Marriage: Path to Strength, Detachment, and Peace When the sacred promise of marriage becomes a source of profound pain, leaving one feeling trapped, exhausted, and emotionally shattered, the soul begins to cry out not for a solution, but for strength. Determined to reclaim dignity and inner strength. Rooted in remembrance of the Supreme and the wisdom of karmic accounts, it invites you to step out of fear and into soul-conscious power: to stabilize in peace, detach from drama, and settle past bonds with love rather than pain. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Query: 10 months into my arranged marriage, I am exhausted by my husband's dishonesty and emotional neglect. He maintains contact with his married ex-girlfriend, lies constantly, and gaslights me when confronted. I have tried to leave, but his false promises and my concern for my parents have kept me trapped. I no longer have feelings for him; his presence brings me distress, yet he blames me for the tension. My dreams are shattered, but I want to take responsibility for my own life and not be miserable. I want to be unbreakable, take responsibility for my life, and end this karmic chapter with strength. The Response Om shanti Sister, I can truly understand the challenges you are facing. Always remember — Shiv Baba is constantly with you, giving you light, power, and peace. As Baba’s children, we already carry infinite powers — love, patience, peace, and strength. But because of our old sanskars and attachments, we are unable to feel these treasures within us. This world is a divine DRAMA. Every soul is an actor playing its role on the world stage, and everything is already scripted. The only reason we feel pain or confusion is because we forget our connection with the Supreme Soul. Also remember: • Every soul we meet is because of past karmic accounts. • Some bonds are sweet, some are bitter, but all are settling of old give-and-take. • By staying connected with Baba, we settle these accounts with dignity and peace, without creating new sorrows. • When we finish karmic debts with love and patience, we become free and light. When we practice staying connected with God, we become aligned with our true self. Then, no matter what storms come from outside, inside we remain stable, peaceful & happy. This is the relationship we need to re-build with Baba. Process to follow daily: • Amritvela Yog (early morning remembrance of God) • Listening and imbibing Murli (God’s wisdom) • Meditation practice • Dharna (implementing virtues in life) • Seva (selfless service) • Affirmations (soul-conscious thoughts) Changes will not come overnight, but slowly, every day, you will start feeling a shift within yourself. These inner changes will keep you moving forward with faith and strength. And with time, your "pure vibrations" will also begin to influence the situations around you. Along with connecting to Baba, keep your self-respect strong — “I am a pure, powerful soul.” When we stabilize in our swamaan, no one’s words or actions can shake us. Play your part in this drama with detachment, as an actor, and let Baba be the true companion of your heart. Always remember, The outside world may test you, but your inner world is in your hands. When you choose peace, no one can take it away. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ Blessings... Response given by: Sumit (member of the SBSI) Edited by: Manager, SBSI

Subtitle: Healing Beyond Forgiveness: A Complete Guide to Releasing Energetic Imprints and Physical Memories After Emotional Recovery Healing is not a straight line—it’s a sacred spiral that returns you to old rooms with new light. If you’re reading this, you’ve already shown rare courage: you faced your shadows, chose responsibility over blame, and opened your heart to transformation. What follows is a gentle, grounded companion for where you are now: a reminder that lingering sensations and echoes of pain are not failures, but invitations to release, rewire, and renew. Through soul-level perspective, clear intention, and compassionate energetic hygiene, you will learn to honor your body’s signals, bless your past, and free your future. This post is for anyone who is struggling on the path of forgiveness and healing. Index Introduction The Context Foreword Main Response (*) The Healing Process Prayer to Heal ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Context of the question: This healing guide addresses the profound experience of a person who has already undertaken significant inner work—courageously examining their own shadows of jealousy and possessiveness, taking full responsibility for their actions, and choosing the path of forgiveness and spiritual growth. Despite this mental and emotional progress, they are experiencing unexpected physical sensations, particularly around the sacral chakra/womb area, along with feelings of "clumsiness" during interactions with a person from their past. Foreword: In our response, we explained how this body's natural way of releasing stored emotional memories and energetic imprints that the mind has already forgiven. The guide provides a three-part healing framework combining soul-level perspective work, intentional interaction practices, and energetic cord-cutting meditations, along with a daily "prayer" for complete healing and freedom—addressing the truth that true healing encompasses not just mental forgiveness but the "full release" of past attachments from all levels of our being. The Response I admire you for the profound journey of healing you have already undertaken. To look at your own shadows—jealousy, possessiveness—and take responsibility, shows yours 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 and 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲. You have already done the hardest work! What you are experiencing now is not a failure or a step backward. 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 '𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬'. The mind may forgive, but the body and the energetic field hold memories. The old memories must be replaced with NEW and more beautiful ones. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗵𝘆𝘀𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗦𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 There are 7 energy centres in the human body. The "clumsiness" and the "unwanted feeling in your womb" that you mentioned signifies something deep. The womb, or the 𝙨𝙖𝙘𝙧𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙠𝙧𝙖 area, is a center of 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱-𝘴𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴. When we have intense emotional experiences, especially ones involving pain or possessiveness, the energy can become stagnant or "stuck" there. 🌸This feeling is simply 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐚𝐥 from your body, asking for a 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞. It is the echo of the old pain, and it simply wants to be heard and lovingly LET GO. So release the hurt, the pain. Forgive and heal. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 We are summarising the process of healing in the following 3 parts: 1. 𝗦𝗼𝘂𝗹-𝗟𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗹 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸 Your practice of seeing both yourself and this person as "divine/eternal souls" is beautiful and powerful. This perspective helps transcend the ego-level hurts and resentments. Seeing yourself being the SOUL immediately frees you from the fear and hurt. Read our post: 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭, 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐉𝐨𝐲 and 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞, 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞, 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞 & 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥 2. 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Before interacting with them (or anyone in general), set a clear intention in your mind: "i wish to heal this relationship, empower this soul" 𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 (blessings) before starting conversation. This will greatly influence the interaction. Tip: Follow our Sakash Guide to learn how to send 'intense positive vibrations' to heal any relationship. Affirm & remember: "𝘐 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦, 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘥𝘰𝘮, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘭𝘭" 3. 𝗖𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗠𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Energetic cords are formed in relationships. The cords of your past relationship were likely entangled with possession and dependency. While you have mentally forgiven, the energetic tie has still remained. Now lovingly and gently 𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚜𝚎 these cords: 🌿Follow these 𝟕 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬 during meditation: ➙Visualise the person as a soul standing before your eyes. ➙See energetic cords connecting you both (with those 7 energy centers). ➙Thank the relationship for the 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 & the 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 it provided. ➙Imagine a beautiful 'sword' of white/golden light. With gratitude and 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, cut the cords. Say: "𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘺. 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴. 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘮 𝘮𝘺 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦." ➙Visualise both souls (you & them) receiving "positive healing energy" from god (the Divine). ➙Visualise both of you being separated. ➙Enclose yourself in a protective, shimmering bubble of loving & powerful light. ✶ 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗲𝗿 𝗧𝗼 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹 ✶ Here is a prayer you can 're-affirm' every morning during your meditation... a prayer "to bless" your-self and the person... a prayer to HEAL and empower. Divine source, Universe, We place these two beautiful souls, myself and {Person′s Name}, into your loving care. We ask for the complete healing of all past hurts, misunderstandings, and karmic ties between us. May all that is not love be dissolved in your divine light. Bless me with the "strength" to remain in my center, grounded in my own self-worth and "peace". Bless him on his own journey, with his own HEALING and his own JOY. Empower and guide his soul to go ahead. May we be free from the negative energy of the past. May our interactions be guided by 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘦, 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵, 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘥𝘰𝘮 & 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦, allowing us both to fulfill our purpose. We release each other with love, and we move forward in freedom. "𝙰𝚖𝚎𝚗. 𝙾𝚖 𝚂𝚑𝚊𝚗𝚝𝚒" Also read and follow: 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐛𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩) and 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐇𝐮𝐫𝐭 & 𝐒𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐰 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Life is often compared to a journey, but it rarely comes with a clear map. We navigate through twists, turns, and unexpected detours, constantly making choices that shape our future. In this process, the quiet, persistent question, "Am I on the right path?" can be a source of anxiety and self-doubt. While we might look for external signs of success—a promotion, a major milestone, or public approval—the most meaningful indicators that you're heading in the right direction are often much "internal" and subtle. They are a sense of inner peace, a feeling of purposeful growth even during challenges, and a quiet confidence & sense of alignment in your daily life. Index The 3 Factors General Wisdom Essence ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Title: How to Know You Are Going in the Right Direction When the soul is aligned with truth, divine love, and inner joy, life feels like a sacred flow. You don’t need external approval. Your inner world becomes your compass. These are the 3 foundations: 1. LOVE: The Nature of the Soul • When you are going in the right direction, love flows effortlessly. • You feel love for yourself – not egoistic pride, but deep acceptance. • You feel love for others – even those who once hurt you. Compassion replaces judgment. • You feel connected to the Divine, to nature, to life itself. • You stop chasing love – because you’ve become a source of it. Inspiration: “Where there is true love, there is no fear. There is only freedom, forgiveness, and peace.” 2. JOY: The Signature of the Soul’s Path When you’re on the right path, joy becomes natural, not conditional. • You smile for no reason. • You feel light even during challenges – because something inside you is stable. • Your heart celebrates growth, truth, and progress, even if it’s slow. • You are joyful not because life is perfect – but because your soul is awake. Inspiration: “The soul dances in joy when it walks the path of purpose.” 3. TRUTH: The Light That Guides You Truth is not just about honesty; it’s living in alignment with your higher self. • You no longer pretend to be someone you’re not. • You listen to your inner voice over outside noise. • You let go of people-pleasing and start walking in self-respect. • You become clear – in thought, speech, and action. Inspiration: "Truth may feel uncomfortable at first,but it brings the deepest peace.It sets the soul free." General Wisdom Know You Are Truly on the Right Path when: ● Your actions align with your values: what you do daily matches what you say matters. ● Clarity increases over time: goals sharpen, decisions get easier, and trade-offs feel cleaner. ● Energy trends upward: even with effort and amidst challenges, you feel more 'supported' and 'uplifted'. ● Opportunity quality improves: better options appear, more opportunities will come knock your door. ● Setbacks teach, not paralyze: you recover (from setbacks) faster, learn the "lessons", and GROW in your consciousness. ● Your future self would approve: your choices of "today" feel reasonable and 'aligned' with the person you wish to be in future. ● Relationships strengthen: trust and love deepen, and FREEDOM increases in every relationship. And you will be connected to people who are more aligned to your energy, who resonate with your soul. Essence: • You feel 'peace' even in uncertainty. • You 'trust' the Divine Timing. • You choose 'kindness' without losing boundaries. • You wake up with 'purpose', not just plans. • You don’t beg for results – you flow in 'surrender' and keep doing your karma. 🌟 Soul Reminder 🌟 If your heart feels love, your spirit feels joy, and your actions echo truth — then know this:*you are not just walking the right path. You are becoming the path. Also read: ➤ How to Always Do the Right Karma? ➤ BALANCE: Purusharth & Daily Life ➤ KarmaYog: Path to Liberation ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, Originally posted by: Sumit, member of SBSI Edited by: 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

One of the most asked questions there would be in this time is—Since i have come late in Gyan, can i reach high level in spirituality? Can i achieve the same growth and progress? It is a common and often disheartening experience on any spiritual path to compare one's own progress with that of others who seem more advanced. This feeling of 'lagging behind' creates a significant internal conflict, especially when spiritual teachings themselves promise that even latecomers can achieve great heights. The following guidance directly addresses this challenge, reframing the idea of spiritual effort, or purusharth, not as a measure of time, but as a function of humility, consistent remembrance, honest self-review, Shrimat-aligned living, self-discipline, and loveful-selfless-service. Must read the following post to understand its depth. Title: "𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝: 𝙇𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙎𝙤 𝙁𝙖𝙨𝙩, 𝙎𝙤 𝙁𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩" Subtitle: 𝙴𝚜𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚙𝚘𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚑𝚎𝚕𝚙 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝙿𝚞𝚛𝚞𝚜𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚑, 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚑𝚎𝚕𝚙𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚜 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: 𝘖𝘮 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘪, 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩. 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘪 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘢 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 "𝘭𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵, 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵." 𝘐 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴, 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘴 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴. 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘪 𝘥𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴. 𝘗𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘦:) The Response I am happy to see that you shared your feelings so honestly. Your question touches the heart of 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝 (spiritual effort) and humility. Here’s a thoughtful, practical guide that aligns with baba's murli and general spiritual wisdom. 𝗟𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗦𝗼 𝗙𝗮𝘀𝘁 Baba (Shri Baba) emphasizes humility and steady, sincere effort rather than rushing or feeling superior because of time spent in knowledge. Spiritual progress is personal: 𝐄𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐬, 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬. The focus is on "inner transformation", not external milestones. ✶𝗠𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴: You can become 'first' (great purusharthi) even if you are late... because 'time' is NOT the deciding factor... it does not matter when you come in gyaan, but how 'intense' your Purusharth is... how quickly you understand the gyan & 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 it in your every day life... For example: you can be 50 years in gyan, but do not fully understand or practise the gyan. But someone new immediately brings the Shrimat in their life. 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐇𝐮𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 Even the most advanced souls maintain beginner’s humility. This is a sign of 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚖𝚊𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚢. Humility helps you grow and inspire others. 𝗥𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿, 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲 𝗬𝗮𝗮𝗱 Set a consistent time for remembering Baba (e.g., early morning 4am or evening 7pm), even if for a shorter duration. Quality matters more than length. Use accurate, positive thoughts: “𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘢 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭, 𝘢 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘉𝘢𝘣𝘢, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘷𝘪𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘦.” ——————————— 𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗨𝗦𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗛 At the end of the day, note one or two moments where you remembered Baba and one moment where you slipped. Think whether you made any mistakes, and 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 honestly in your daily letter (dairy) to baba... See patterns, and choose BETTER the next time. ● 𝗪𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗮𝗹 (𝗗𝗶𝗮𝗿𝘆) Write diary every day... be honest on your purusharth, and write everything to baba. Date, feel/experience, lesson learned, intention for tomorrow. ● 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗦𝗵𝗿𝗶𝗺𝗮𝘁: * Practice truth, love, non-violence in words and deeds. Small positive & kind acts (karma) accumulate great 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳 * Reduce wasteful or negative company; cultivate associations that uplift and inspire you in Baba’s knowledge. ● 𝗘𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲 Selfless service, with the purpose to help, heal, guide, and uplift others. Engage in service as a means to remember Baba, not to earn praise. Let service be a sincere 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞. 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥: 5–10 minutes of remembrance, then read/listen to the Today's Gyan Murli...then a short high-quality task (positive thought, positive action). 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: 5 minutes of silence, self-reflection, affirmations, Yog—followed by a couple of lines in your journal (write it) about lessons learned today, and what you would like to do tomorrow. 𝐖𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐜𝐤: Set a time to reflect on purusharth: 𝘋𝘪𝘥 𝘐 𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵, 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘦𝘤𝘩, 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯? 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘦? Seek guidance from Baba and, if appropriate, a trusted elder in the BK family. 📖Read books & watch videos on 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐡, 𝐲𝐚𝐚𝐝, 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐞𝐬 (truth, peace, love, happiness, purity) ● 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝗹𝗶 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗬𝗼𝗴 Regular study of Murli with a focus on the essence: Baba’s promises, the self-respect of being a child of the Ocean of Knowledge. ➤Read our post on 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐌𝐮𝐫𝐥𝐢 & 𝐘𝐨𝐠 to learn more ➤𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞: 𝐏𝐮𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐡 & 𝐃𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 (very helpful wisdom) ➤Get our monthly 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗠𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 (life-changing) ➤𝐖𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐑𝐚𝐣𝐘𝐨𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (a brief guide) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

We often face a profound spiritual challenge when confronted with the misbehavior of others. While our spiritual knowledge (Gyaan) may tell us to respond with love and compassion, the immediate emotional response is one of hurt and resentment. This creates a difficult internal conflict: why is it so hard to bless those who cause us pain, even when we understand intellectually that it is the higher path? The following post delves into this very question, distinguishing between simply having "knowledge" and possessing the "inner power" to apply it. It reframes the dynamic of hurt, suggesting that true strength lies not in our reaction to others, but in our connection to a divine source—the spiritual power, or Yog, that allows us to see both our "true self" and others through a lens of compassion. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Question: 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘰 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘤𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘶𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘵 𝘶𝘴? 𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘰𝘳 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘴𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘢𝘴𝘩, 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘎𝘺𝘢𝘢𝘯? Answer First of all, remember: with Gyaan alone, we cannot achieve spiritual growth. True spiritual progress requires a balance between 𝙂𝙮𝙖𝙖𝙣 (knowledge) and 𝙔𝙤𝙜 (connection with god). 👉Gyaan shows us WHAT to do, but Yog gives us the POWER to do it. 👉The level of purusharth we make on a daily basis decides how we respond to situations. 🍎Gyaan is only fruitful when we are able to implement it—and implementation is only possible when the soul has gained strength through constant purusharth in 𝙔𝙤𝙜. No one else can truly hurt you—unless you allow yourself to get hurt, unless you call it onto your-self, and absorb it. 👉When you remain in the awareness “I am a divine, pure soul and so is the other,” you naturally respond with kindness. Gyaan teaches us: • Every soul is originally pure & divine. • Some souls are yet to awaken—their 'divine time' has not come. • When you see them with mercy and compassion, forgiveness becomes easy. The Essential Understanding Offering love and blessings does not mean tolerating harmful behavior. Clear, compassionate boundaries protect dignity—for you and them—while you continue to hold a vision of their original purity. ● Process the emotion before the response: When triggered, pause. Breathe, step back, and stabilize in Yog before engaging. A short practice—slow exhale, gentle attention at the center of the forehead, remembrance of the Divine—transforms reactivity into a mindful response. ● See it as a Test: View the situation as a spiritual test. Will you react based on your old sanskars (ingrained personality traits) of anger and hurt, creating a new karmic debt? Or will you respond from your soul-conscious stage, settling the account with peace and good wishes? ● Pause & Radiate: The moment someone misbehaves, instead of reacting instantly, pause. Take a breath and connect with your inner self and your connection to the Divine. This pause is where you reclaim your power. Consciously decide to be a radiator of positive energy (sakash), not a sponge for negativity. Visualize light and peace flowing from you towards the other soul. Heal them, to fully heal your-self. ● 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫: "What one gives, they experience it first" and "What we give, we become" 👉If someone gives out anger, they burn in it before it reaches you. 👉Their misbehavior shows how much suffering they are already carrying inside. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 '𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞' '𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬' 𝐚𝐧𝐝 '𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠' (not judgement, anger or hatred) Essence: • Gyan shows the path, Yog gives the power to walk it. • See yourself as a soul, others as souls walking the path of life. • Misbehavior is not their truth—it is their sanskars and suffering. • By staying connected to Baba, you can radiate 'sakash' (positive vibrations) instead of absorbing hurt. • The level of purusharth (spiritual effort) we make on a daily basis decides how we respond to challenging situations. "Give them back to themself" 𝐌𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠: They are not bad or less---they have merely 'forgotten' their truth... and we all do, at least for once, we all do. 🌱So 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦, as you would re-mind your-self... by reminding them of WHO THEY ARE, you do them the greatest service... for once the soul finds its seat, all the kingdom follows. as the scripture said: "𝙱𝚞𝚝 𝚜𝚎𝚎𝚔 𝚏𝚒𝚛𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚍𝚘𝚖 𝚘𝚏 𝙶𝚘𝚍, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚝 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚋𝚎 𝚊𝚍𝚍𝚎𝚍 𝚞𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚢𝚘𝚞." “Do not give hurt, do not take hurt. Stay in Baba’s yaad, and Maya can never defeat you.” Also read: ➤ Freedom from Hurt & Sorrow ➤ Self-love, Heal Hurt ➤ How to Tolerate, Face, Forgive & Heal ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ Blessings...✨ Summarized by Manpreet Kaur Edited by Manager, SBSI (me)