Subtitle: Settling Karmic Debts Within a Painful Marriage: Path to Strength, Detachment, and Peace
When the sacred promise of marriage becomes a source of profound pain, leaving one feeling trapped, exhausted, and emotionally shattered, the soul begins to cry out not for a solution, but for strength. Determined to reclaim dignity and inner strength. Rooted in remembrance of the Supreme and the wisdom of karmic accounts, it invites you to step out of fear and into soul-conscious power: to stabilize in peace, detach from drama, and settle past bonds with love rather than pain.
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด (๐ง๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐บ/๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด). ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ,ย ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จย & ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ๐ด๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ด. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhanย WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context.
Query:
10 months into my arranged marriage, I am exhausted by my husband's dishonesty and emotional neglect. He maintains contact with his married ex-girlfriend, lies constantly, and gaslights me when confronted. I have tried to leave, but his false promises and my concern for my parents have kept me trapped.
I no longer have feelings for him; his presence brings me distress, yet he blames me for the tension. My dreams are shattered, but I want to take responsibility for my own life and not be miserable. I want to be unbreakable, take responsibility for my life, and end this karmic chapter with strength.
The Response
Om shanti Sister,
I can truly understand the challenges you are facing.
Always remember โ Shiv Baba is constantly with you, giving you light, power, and peace.
As Babaโs children, we already carry infinite powers โ love, patience, peace, and strength. But because of our old sanskars and attachments, we are unable to feel these treasures within us.
This world is a divine DRAMA. Every soul is an actor playing its role on the world stage, and everything is already scripted. The only reason we feel pain or confusion is because we forget our connection with the Supreme Soul.
Also remember:
Every soul we meet is because of past karmic accounts.
Some bonds are sweet, some are bitter, but all are settling of old give-and-take.
By staying connected with Baba, we settle these accounts with dignity and peace, without creating new sorrows.
When we finish karmic debts with love and patience, we become free and light.
When we practice staying connected with God, we become aligned with our true self. Then, no matter what storms come from outside, inside we remain stable, peaceful & happy. This is the relationship we need to re-build with Baba.
Process to follow daily:
Amritvela Yog (early morning remembrance of God)
Listening and imbibing Murli (Godโs wisdom)
Meditation practice
Dharna (implementing virtues in life)
Seva (selfless service)
Affirmations (soul-conscious thoughts)
Changes will not come overnight, but slowly, every day, you will start feeling a shift within yourself. These inner changes will keep you moving forward with faith and strength. And with time, your "pure vibrations" will also begin to influence the situations around you.
Along with connecting to Baba, keep your self-respect strong โ โI am a pure, powerful soul.โ When we stabilize in our swamaan, no oneโs words or actions can shake us. Play your part in this drama with detachment, as an actor, and let Baba be the true companion of your heart.
Always remember,
The outside world may test you, but your inner world is in your hands. When you choose peace, no one can take it away.
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด (๐ง๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐บ/๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด). ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ,ย ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จย & ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ๐ด๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ด. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
Blessings...
Response given by: Sumit (member of the SBSI)
Edited by: Manager, SBSI
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