Made a mistake? God has said: 'Lust is your greatest enemy'. Here is healing for you the soul. How to recover from past Karma, sin or mistakes? The way to Self realisation and Self transformation.
Original Email Received in January 2019
I did a sin. I am in love with my best Friend who has a girlfriend. I just can't see him sad. I feel jealous of their togatherness. Day before yesterday we shared an intimate moment. We hugged and he kissed and rubbed his cheek on my cheek. How could I allow him for this! He kissed on my forehead too. I am feeling like a culprit. I disowned myself. I cheated on my parents and his girlfriend. I broke my vow of not being intimate with someone other than my future husband.
Please advice me how can i forget all these things and my bestfriend too? I want to move on but don't know how. I want to be pure again. Please please advice me. I have done the 7 days rajayoga course and started practicing meditation also, but still am thinking about it. Please advice me a way so that i will not repeat these type of mistakes. Wish I could be pure again. Please help.
Our Email Response
To: Monali (and Everyone Reading this)
Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response.
You subjected the letter as 'sin'. But you must first know if it is really so. It is difficult to accurately understand the accounts of karma - what is right action (punya), what is wrong action (sin) or what is in-action (that which does not give any fruit). God sits and explains. In essence, those karma (action) which gives you and others 'peace of mind', which gives inner-satisfaction, is the right Karma.
You have judged and concluded that it is a sin. But it is not. It is instead a ''mistake''. Mistake may lead to a sin - so be aware. Mistake s when you first encounter a new experience. Then you judge if that is right or not. This is essential so that you understand completely the way you want to live.
Every soul is here is experience what it is. Soul has virtues of Peace, Purity, love, bliss and powers. But these all are in merged form. When we make use of these, they come emerged. Life is making choices at every step. However choice you will make, you will become.
Great thing is that the creator (GOD) is so great that he placed 2 choices after every choice - that is - even if a Soul makes a mistake, still you will have a chance to re-create. You will have this choice till the end. God is soo great.
Shiv baba has come. To understand the essence of this divine knowledge, you first have to take the 7 days course. You can take this course at any NEARBY cente OR online.
Whatever happens is always for benefit. See here also, as you made a small mistake, you came towards God, towards us and now you are more stable in purity. Baba has given the first shrimat - Purity. This is our last birth. It is last birth for all the souls. The play will last until the end. World drama is of 5000 years.
''I want to forget him completely and dedicate my life towards spirituality...''
Answer: In such a situation, advice is given that you should direct your mind towards something productive. Learn something important to keep mind busy in spiritual knowledge. I am sharing you how I started the journey - step by step. Hope you will find inspiration. There are many good ways to start. Here are a few:
1. Start by knowing the history of Yagya - here is a playlist on SoundCloud where the history is told in Hindi (audio): https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/history-of-brahma-kumaris
2. Then watch these videos - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos - Videos not only is easy to understand but also is useful to bring clarity in Gyan (knowledge)
3. Now you have received an introduction of God - our spiritual father. Hence now we can understand the Murli. It is time to study. So I started listening to Murlis everyday and also taking important points in a notebook.
Murli website: babamurli.com
Mobile apps (MUST install and see) - http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps
4. Making a chart every day before sleep - On Shiv baba's direction's i started making a 1 page small chart for my daily activities.
- Did i make any mistake today? - confession.
- What did baba say in today's murli?
- What service did i do today?
- What new i learned?
5. When you complete all 4 stages of Purusharth, you will become a mature child of Shiv baba. You don't need guidance from me.
When you start, email us. As you go ahead in this journey, you shall find divine inspirations from Shiv baba and Drama. You will become what you ''will to''.
Always remember - 'This is the only time when we can 'create' our fortune for many many coming births...'
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