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Life is an ever-unfolding journey marked not only by moments of joy and triumph but also by those challenges that test our resilience, reshape our perspectives, and demand growth. Whether navigating personal setbacks, societal upheavals, or global crises, adversity is a universal thread woven into the human experience—one that can either unravel us or become the catalyst for profound self-transformation. "Living and Growing Amidst Challenges" explores how struggles, when met with courage and adaptability, can nurture strength, deepen empathy, and reveal hidden paths forward. This article post offerrs and brings out perseverance, spiritual insight, a mindset shift, and unwavering FAITH during uncertainty. Must read till the end. Title: "𝙇𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 & 𝙂𝙧𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘼𝙢𝙞𝙙𝙨𝙩 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙨" Subtitle: 𝙶𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚗𝚊𝚟𝚒𝚐𝚊𝚝𝚎 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚍𝚊𝚢 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚐𝚎𝚜 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚕𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 & 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 🌿This would be a 'point-wise' guidance for every aspect that you mentioned in your original message. And i am happy to see how nicely you have described your situation and asked for guidance. Know that not only today, but you will continue to receive the 𝕓𝕖𝕤𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕘𝕦𝕚𝕕𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕖 and 𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖𝕝𝕪 𝕤𝕦𝕡𝕡𝕠𝕣𝕥 through this group. "𝙏𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘽𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨" The moments when you are tested and when there are challenges, you are closest to god... The father is your 'shelter' and your 'solace'... It only seems difficult if you make yourself alone... so see not what is outside, but what is WITHIN... hear not what they say, but the voice that speaks within you. ➤Recommended post: Testing Times are Blessed Times "𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙥𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙝𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣" if it seems that you are going through a lot, believe that YOU ARE BEING PREPARED for the gifts that you are to receive ahead... for no gift comes without preparation... whole your being will be 'prepared' to HOLD that blessing, that gift... You are being made 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 & 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐫... so do not endure it, but ENJOY it ! ➤Recommended post: Healing Embrace of God Guidance The entire guidance will be grouped in 3 points: Point 1 You mentioned how your 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐲𝐥𝐞 (𝚠𝚊𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚞𝚙 𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚢, 𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, 𝚖𝚞𝚛𝚕𝚒, 𝚜𝚝𝚞𝚍𝚢) does not coalign with that of your roommates. As you are aligning to a satvik life, guided by discipline and meant for your spiritual-welfare. The first thing i would like you to 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰, 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐞 & 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 >> Those are not your enemies, neither are you there to tolerate their presence and contradicting nature (lifestyle)... They are a providing you with a "contrast" which you are meant to use in order to make your own Purusharth faster. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 If everything is 'perfect' and 'aligned' to your lifestyle and liking, then would you do your purusharth as 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐲 as you would, when things around you are 'in contrast' to your spiritual stage... The 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 who challenge you, the 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 that irritates, and the 𝐚𝐝𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 that troubles you—are not obstacles, but 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬. You step on them and make a jump. They are 'catalysts' for your spiritual awakening. So see them not as troublemakers, but as those who are in trouble. 🌈Your presence is meant to touch them POSITIVELY (and not vice versa). You are their 𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐥 that god has sent. When you see yourself this way, 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫. Because you know who is your 'protector' and your 'guide'. All angels are constantly guided by the divine (god)... What force do you think connected you to this platform, so you could get this guidance? Point 2 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙏𝙤 𝘿𝙤? Now that you have taken in the POINT ONE, what you are to do as a solution, is 𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞—wake up early, sit for Amritvela Yog (meditation), followed by 25 minutes of Murli. ➤Get ALL sources of Daily Murli 🪷But with this, also try not to interfere in their way of living... Most importantly, DO NOT THINK about them... Because every thought you create for them, is a ripple that reach them, and 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮... and you do not want that, do you? So the solution is 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐲, 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐡𝐢𝐯 𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐚, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐲. We also recommend you to put a headphone all the time and hear Shiv Baba's songs. ➤𝙎𝙝𝙞𝙫 𝘽𝙖𝙗𝙖 𝙠𝙚 𝙂𝙚𝙚𝙩 Songs Library: https://www.shivbabas.org/songs (online, lyrics & free download) Audio Playlist: https://www.shivbabas.org/bk-songs-playlist (playlist of 130) Point 3 Understanding your situation through your message, it is clear that you are giong through a test on "adjusting" >> All people and situations created around you are not only to enhance your "power to adjust" but also 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐲. I know you feel it within. Every time you successfully pass a day around them, you feel stronger than you were yesterday. Do you see this? This setup is not to pull you down, but 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐮𝐩. When time is less, this is how a soul can become a great purusharthi: "𝐛𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧" >> where the soul is tested in many ways, and in this the soul LEARN and GROW... All of life is a "process" >> so do not see struggles as tests, but rather "preparation" (a process) that is preparing you for what is to come next... You are '𝐞𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠' every day, every moment. ➤Every time you choose LOVE (over fear), PEACE (over chaos), and TRUTH (over Maya), you are evolving higher, and coming closer to god. Directions For You You are advised 'never' to compromise with your divine values of 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐣𝐨𝐲 & 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡. Never loose these qualities. You know this is your 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞... But also, do not attract the negatives by thinking about them... 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐚 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐡... Forget how someone behaved with you yesterday... (We know this may sound difficult to you right now, but this is the way you need to walk... and it will be made easy) Because when you see others with the lens of yesterday, they get your vibrations... and they behave/interact with you in the same way again... So instead, START LOVING, BEING MORE KIND, and SMILE TO THEM... Even when you do this, you should 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝, do not involve in their group talks. This is the BALANCE you need to achieve... a balance of BEING KIND to them and BEING YOURSELF with yourself. ➥See them as those who are suffering from Maya... and 𝐛𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 to them. 𝐁𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦... as you would bless an illness, so it heals. 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 This is a VERY important point. You need to "expect" better treatment from everyone (your roommates, parents, etc). Because 𝐲𝐨𝐮 '𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭' 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 '𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭' >> Remember this, always. Tip: Please read our beautiful post: 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐭𝐨 '𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧' 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 Above guidance was for you to adopt immediately. But you will see that the journey will have its obstacles and challenges, as you are living around such an atmosphere. So this group, this platform will be 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞. Read those "daily messages" i post on our groups. They are meant for 𝚞𝚙𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚝𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝, 𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗. ➤𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 (lifechanging words from god) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹.. Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

The concepts of karma and forgiveness, though rooted in different philosophical and spiritual traditions, intersect in profound ways that challenge us to reflect on the nature of responsibility, healing, and human connection. Karma, often understood as the universal principle of cause and effect, suggests that our actions ripple outward, shaping our present and future experiences. Forgiveness invites us to release resentment and transcend the weight of past harms—whether inflicted by others or ourselves. Yet, how do these ideas coexist? Can the act of forgiving disrupt the karmic cycle, or does it instead deepen our understanding of accountability and compassion? In exploring the delicate dance between karma and forgiveness, we uncover pathways to karmic liberation, spiritual growth, and the transformative power of letting go—while also learning the lessons. ★ Karma & Forgiveness ★ ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Manpreet, you have thought about the karmic patterns. That is good. Here is a brief & clear answer to your question: 🌱There are 2 things you need to understand: ➤𝐎𝐍𝐄: When you forgive someone from your heart, you are putting a FULL STOP to the karmic cycle. There would be no more give and take from here. The pure energy of 'forgiveness' closes the door of your side and 'disconnects' you from the Karmic loop. 🌷Such forgiveness must include understanding the perspective of the other side (the other person or people involved). Only when you see & understand their perspective, can you forgive truly and fully. Then you can see that they had a reason or a motivation for doing what they did. That they were hurt themselves. 🌈Also, you are not forgiving them for their good, but for yours. By forgiving, you make yourself free from the hold of karma & its burdens >> You free yourself from the sorrow associated with that interaction... "Forgiveness therefore, is a gift you give to your-self" ➕All this & more is made clear on our post: Forgiving YourSelf & Others ➤𝐓𝐖𝐎: "Every soul is a creator of its own experience. We all reap our own harvest" An even better way to explain the Karmic law, is that: We receive back what we once sent out The reason you need to understand karmic law in this way, is that the person who did something wrong to you (even if they initiated a new karma in this lifetime/birth), they will receive its result even without you in the picture. Because karma is about the ENERGY you create and send out (and not about the soul/person or the situation). Meaning: They do not need to receive it (the result) through you... As you FORGIVE them purely and fully, you FREE yourself from the picture... Now the energy of karma will still come back to its creator, but *in a different form* >> could be a situation/harship they face, health issues, emotional pains, etc (assuming that the nature of that energy was negative)... If the energy/karma is POSITIVE, understand this accordingly. ➕To understand this nicely, please read our post: Karma is Energy Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹.. Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Dealing with someone who constantly puts themselves first, craves attention, or dismisses your feelings can feel exhausting. Whether it’s a coworker, family member, or friend, narcissistic people often leave others feeling drained, confused, or even guilty for setting boundaries. In this post, we will break down simple, practical ways to 'recognise' a narcissism behavior, protect your energy, communicate clearly, and navigate these tricky relationships without losing your cool or hurting anyone. Title: "𝘿𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝘼𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣/𝙑𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣-𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚" Subtitle: 𝙾𝚞𝚛 𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 & 𝚜𝚞𝚐𝚐𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚘𝚗 𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚗𝚊𝚛𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚜𝚝 𝚘𝚛 𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚊𝚝𝚝𝚊𝚌𝚑𝚎𝚍 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 🍀The situation you describe involves an interplay of 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘥𝘺𝘯𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘤𝘴. Here are some points to consider and our suggestions: 1. Is it Narcissism? Covert Narcissism: Unlike the standard narcissists, covert narcissists often appear "shy, hypersensitive, or self-effacing" but still harbor a deep need for external validation. They may use "niceness" or helpfulness to secure admiration, masking insecurity or entitlement. Key Clues: * Her intense reaction to praise and efforts to seek it repeatedly. * Your feeling drained (suggesting a one-sided dynamic where your energy is depleted to fuel her needs). * While she may not exhibit overt lack of empathy (common in NPD), her focus on validation might overshadow genuine reciprocity. 2. Alternative Explanations Insecurity?: She might rely on "external praise & validation" to counteract self-doubt, not necessarily narcissism. Social Conditioning: Some people are raised to equate worth with external approval, leading to attention-seeking behavior. 3. Practical Guidance Limit Praise: Offer genuine but measured compliments. Redirect conversations to neutral topics (e.g., work tasks, shared interests) when she seeks validation. 4. Protect Your Energy To get detailed guidance on this, please follow our post: 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐍𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 5. Stay Neutral and Professional Maintain courteous, polite but 'detached' communication. Avoid sharing personal details that could deepen emotional ties. ———————————— CONCLUSION By balancing "professionalism" with "self-protection" >> you can maintain a functional relationship while safeguarding your energy. Trust your intuition—if distance feels necessary, implement it with care and respect. Video: How to Deal with topix personality? How to Deal With A Toxic Personality | Sadhguru Post: Dealing with a person having 'Narcissist' behaviour Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹.. Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

In a world that often emphasizes external validation and relentless self-improvement, the concept of "being your own best-friend" can feel radical. Yet, the relationship we nurture with ourselves is the 'foundation' of every other connection we form. This isn’t about vanity or self-absorption; it’s about cultivating a compassionate, supportive inner dialogue that empowers you to navigate life’s challenges with resilience and grace. Imagine treating yourself with the same patience, encouragement, and forgiveness you so generously offer to your friends. This article-post explores how shifting your perspective to self-kindness can unlock greater confidence, peace, and authenticity. This will help you to recognise & celebrate your worth, learn self-love, by following the given insights and practical guidance. Title: "𝘽𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙊𝙬𝙣 𝙁𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙" Subtitle: 𝚂𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚂𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚌𝚊𝚛𝚎... 𝙸𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 & 𝚙𝚛𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚌𝚊𝚕 𝚜𝚞𝚐𝚐𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 (𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚙𝚜) 𝚝𝚘 𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚕𝚢 𝚒𝚗 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚍𝚊𝚢 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Foreword Self-love is not just about 'talking care of yourself' but it has its roots in 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 and the kind of relationship we have with our-self. Do you treat yourself with the same 'kindness' you would treat your dearest friend? This is the question. In this message, you will read our 'practical suggestions' to enhance this experience in every day life. 🌸"Self-care" is the gentle art of turning down life’s volume, so as to hear your own heartbeat. And 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥 means offering compassion when you stumble, while celebrating every little victory, and never letting the inner critic block the growth and progress. Our 9 Suggestions Becoming your own best friend is a journey of self-compassion, understanding, and intentional practise. Here is a structured approach to cultivate this relationship: 1. 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 Replace Criticism with Kindness: When mistakes happen, ask, "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘐 𝘴𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘢 𝘥𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥?" and apply that kindness to yourself. 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐑𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧➛ Acknowledge your feelings without judgment. Use phrases like, “It’s okay to feel this way.” 2. 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲 Routine Habits➛ Schedule regular exercise, nutritious meals, and sufficient sleep. Make this a part of your routine. Set Boundaries➛ Learn to say "no" to things you do not like. Protect and 'preserve' your time and energy. 3. 𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 Journaling➛ Reflect daily on thoughts and emotions you carry. Try prompts like, 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘥𝘢𝘺? 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧➛ Practice 𝚖𝚒𝚗𝚍𝚏𝚞𝚕𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜 to stay in the "present moment" and connected with your inner self. 4. 𝗖𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗯𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 Acknowledge Wins➛ Celebrate small victories, like completing a task, overcoming a fear, or making any small progress. Comfort in Failures➛ Treat setbacks as learning opportunities. Learn from the experience. Support yourself as a dear friend would. 5. 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗚𝗼 Write down past mistakes and consciously forgive yourself. See what you have learned from them, focus on the 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡, take the lesson, and work for the positive change. LET GO of everything that keeps you down (release the burden). 6. 𝗘𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝗦𝗼𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲 Quality Alone Time➛ Engage in hobbies like 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘳𝘵, 𝘰𝘳 𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘭𝘬𝘴. Embrace solitude as an part of life that inspire our spiritual growth. Read our post 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 7. 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 Achievable Goals➛ Break tasks into smaller steps. Celebrate progress (every step of the 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬), not just outcomes. Balance Ambition➛ Strive for "growth" and "betterment" while accepting that making mistakes is a part of the process, and 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 from them is important. 8. 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗸 Affirmations➛ Use personalised mantras like, “I am capable” and “I trust my abilities and good intention” Reframe Negativity➛ Challenge critical thoughts with evidence of your strengths, and move with FAITH in god. Have no doubt on the process, and 'surrender' the result of your karma to god. This is the way. 9. 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 Honor Instincts➛ Make decisions aligned with your 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐬 and 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞. Listen to your heart, your 𝚒𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚛 𝚟𝚘𝚒𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚞𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 (sixth sense) when making important and life-transforming decisions. Use your 'past-experience' as a tool to make better choices now. 𝙁𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙏𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩: Treat this relationship as you would any meaningful friendship—nurture it with 𝚙𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎, 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚢, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎. Over time, this bond will develop 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦, 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘳 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦. ——————————— Videos for You ➤How to be your own best friend? (Sandeep Maheshwari) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lPVFaY1bkA ➤What is 'true friendship' (Sandeep M) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wsPLOMOfQEA ➤ALL VIDEOS on "being your own friend" https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=being+your+own+best+friend MUST READ: 𝟏𝟐 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 (article) https://lonerwolf.com/how-to-become-your-own-best-friend/ ➤Read our 𝐃𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 Follow good pages on 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚 for 'inspiring' content: Facebook➙ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077483870758 Instagram➙ https://www.instagram.com/quotescafeinsta/ ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Introduction: Experiencing every relationship with God is a journey of the heart, where 𝕕𝕚𝕧𝕚𝕟𝕖 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 with god (the source) becomes the foundational support of all our life-ventures. He is a friend in moments of solitude, a parent in times of need, a guide through uncertainty, and a constant companion in both joy and sorrow. We may see god as the sun and the moon, both of which moves with us, everywhere we go. To walk with God is to embrace trust, and surrender to his divine ways and divine timing... It is discovering that His presence transforms ordinary moments into sacred experiences—a whisper of intuition guiding you in the quiet, a force stoping you from making a wrong choice, a feeling of peace amidst chaos, a balm in pain. Through prayer, gratitude, and stillness, we learn to see His love not as distant or abstract, but alive in every breath, relationship, and challenge. In this dance of FAITH, every struggle becomes a lesson, every joy a shared celebration, and every act of love an extension of His grace. Here, we find not just a higher power, but a home—a boundless, intimate relationship that roots us in peace, purpose, and assurance that we are never alone. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ★ Experiencing Every Relationship with God (Supreme Soul) ★ Your question partly answers itself... Remembering Shiv Baba in different ways is a good way to keep renewing the love and affection every day. How To Do That? Simple... We can experience every close human relationship with god/creator/shiv baba. And you can start this in the morning >> it is the best time for 'new beginnings'. So during your amritvela (morning meditation), you can create a thought: ➙my beloved baba ➙my beloved teacher ➙my beloved friend ➙my beloved lover ➙my beloved child ➙my beloved guide shiv and so on... 🌷You can pick any ONE relationship every day... and affirm it during morning meditation >> and then keep that in mind throughout the day. This will help you naturally feel the 'connection' with the supreme soul in the form of a parent, a friend, a child, a teacher, a guide. 🌈The key to experience every connection with the divine (god) naturally, is "GRATITUDE" ✶Meaning: Find the gifts you have received in your life... then 'categorise' those gifts into: Gifts from Shiv baba: as 'father' as 'mother' as 'teacher' as 'friend' as 'lover' as 'guide' 🪻Then you can THANK him for every gift, and experience 'closeness' to god with every relationship mentioned above. For example: Today, you can thank shiv baba for the KNOWLEDGE (gyan) that you have received from him as a TEACHER... So you are experiencing 'closeness' to him as your TEACHER. ➥Then tomorrow you can thank shiv baba for all the love, blessings & help that you have received from him as your PARENT. 🍀We hope you have understood the picture now... Go on and practise this every day (plant the 'seed' during morning meditation) ✶Recommended post: Restoring Faith in God ✶Recommended Audio playlist: MUST listen to this crafted audio playlist of selected audiobooks & speeches that can 'inspire' and 'invoke' the best in you: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/motivational-faith-feeling Video: STRONG relationship with god ('Awakening' episode by BK Shivani) Strong Relationship With GOD: Ep 75 Soul Reflections: BK Shivani (English Subtitles) Video: CREATING a 'personal' relationship with god (a class by BK Shivani) Create A Personal Relationship With God : Sister BK Shivani I Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Introduction: This article post introduces you to the FOUR parts of the soul: Heart, Intellect, Mind, Senses... "In the quiet spaces between our thoughts and the unspoken yearnings that guide our choices lies the essence of what it means to be truly alive—the heart of the soul. This deepest core of the soul, and older than memory—pulses with the rhythms of our truest selves, shaping how we love, grieve, dream, and connect. We all have that inner core—the part of us that feels deeply, hopes fiercely, and sometimes wrestles with doubts or fears. It’s what we might call the “heart of the soul,” the quiet center where our truest self lives. This isn’t about grand philosophies or abstract ideas; it’s about the raw, everyday stuff that shapes how we love, cope, and make sense of life. Whether it’s the joy that lifts us or the pain that weighs us down, understanding this part of ourselves can change how we navigate relationships, challenges, and even the quiet moments in between. Let’s talk about why this “heart” matters and how to listen to it and make better choices. ★ The Heart of Soul ★ You wanted to know "how is heart related to the soul". You do understand that it is only the SOUL who is the ultimate master... Soul, the 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜, operating and experiencing LIFE using/through the sensory organs (इन्द्रियाँ), the mind (मन), and intellect (बुद्धि) ⭐Imagine: Visualise a point of light (or 'a ball of light')... and the light is radiating out... The further you go from the centre of this light, the lesser its 'intensity' becomes. 🍁Now, what we call HEART, is the closest component of the soul... the deepest part of the soul (the 'essence' THAT YOU ARE) which always knows and is informed through feelings >> "feeling is the language of the soul" and what we call HEART receives and transmits these feelings. It is the heart that "remembers" and "recalls" what the soul always knew and experienced even many lifetimes ago. Heart is the depth from which our intuition (𝚍𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚒𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚛 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠𝚒𝚗𝚐) is born. Then comes intellect (बुद्धि) 👉 a deeper faculty of the soul through which the soul discriminates (judge what is GOOD and what is BAD, what is RIGHT and what is WRONG) and thus, what to DO and what NOT to do. As you can understand, the intellect is a very important part of human experience, as it separates us from animals and birds... We can THINK and CHOOSE between good and bad, even between good and better. 🪻Then comes the mind (मन) 👉 another part of the soul through which the soul can THINK (create thoughts) >> and you know that thoughts hold creative energy >> hence it is through the faculty of mind that we CREATE our life, our reality. The furthest faculty is sensory organs (इन्द्रियाँ) 👉 through which the soul 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕, 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎 & 𝚘𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚎 the physical body. This includes the 5 senses (see, hear, touch, smell, taste) Conclusion We have explained the 4 faculties of the soul (heart, intellect, mind, senses) and how they relate and function. ☘️Now putting this into a perspective: ➙When you touch someone with your hand (a physical touch), you are touching the soul through its "senses" ➙When you touch (or influence) someone with your thought (intellectually), you are touching their "mind" ➙When you touch someone with deeper feelings & emotions you are touching their "heart" ➤Recommended post: Soul & Soul-consciousness and The Healing Embrace of God ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Introduction: The eternal dance between duty (dharma) and passion (the heart’s call) lies at the core of human existence, a dilemma as ancient as philosophy itself. Dharma, rooted in traditions of Hinduism and Buddhism, embodies the moral principles and cosmic order—the responsibilities, ethics, and roles that bind individuals to society and the universe. Yet, equally compelling is the heart’s calling, an inner pull toward authenticity, creativity, and purpose that defies rigid structures. This dichotomy raises a profound question: Must we sacrifice personal longing for collective obligation, or can these forces coexist harmoniously? From Arjuna’s crisis in the Bhagavad Gita to modern existential dilemmas, humanity has sought pathways to honor both the soul’s fire and the weight of earthly duty. This article post beautifully explains how aligning dharma with passion is not a compromise but a sacred integration—a journey to live fully and responsibly. Title: "𝘿𝙪𝙩𝙮 (𝘿𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙖) 𝙫𝙨 𝙋𝙖𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 (𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩'𝙨 𝘾𝙖𝙡𝙡)" Subtitle: 𝙱𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝙱𝙰𝙻𝙰𝙽𝙲𝙴 '𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚢' 𝚊𝚗𝚍 '𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗' 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚑𝚕𝚢 '𝚍𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚜' { MUST READ } Index Post Introduction Foreword Dharma (duty) Arthat (wealth) Kama (purpose) Career Advise Purusharth & Spiritual Growth Actionable Steps ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Foreword This would be our most helpful guidance given on 'finding a balance' b/w life and spirituality. Please read this with utmost attention. Read it again and again till it fully dissolves in your heart. This will feel relevant to many and most of you, so please 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝 this message to others. Managing family responsibilities (earthly duty), personal aspirations (heart's call), and spiritual growth (life's purpose)—requires a 'balanced' approach. Your situation is quite pivotal. What you choose now will impact your 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 & 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚓𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚎𝚢. Hence, in order to give you a complete & helpful guidance, i am going to use the THREE basic principles of life as mentioned in the ancient Indian scriptures: 𝗗𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗮 (धर्म - 𝗗𝘂𝘁𝘆) Supporting your family during a financial crisis aligns with the principle of DHARMA (धर्म), as it embodies the moral principles and cosmic order—the responsibilities, ethics, and roles that bind individuals to societal order and the universe. Dharma is your 𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎’𝚜 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎. Spiritually speaking, a human being's DHARMA is mainly divided into 4 parts: • सत्य (Living with Truth, in your speech and vision) • अहिंसा (Non-violence in your actions/behavior & thoughts) • प्रेम (Selfless love for all beings) • दान (Charity/Generosity to the needy) 𝘿𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨: "Talk". Open a heartfelt dialogue with your parents to understand their perspective and needs. They may value your emotional well-being over immediate financial contributions. See if they need your help and ask them HOW. 𝗔𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗮 (अर्थ -𝗪𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵) Money is surely important, as it ensures a comfortable survival and a financial freedom. At times, money helps you in fulfilling your dream and even in helping others. Artha is 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚞𝚒𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚠𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚝𝚑, 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚕𝚢 𝚜𝚞𝚌𝚌𝚎𝚜𝚜. 𝘿𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨: Consider 'practical steps' to contribute—such as 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵-𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬, 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘦 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 (e.g., graphic design, digital arts, or art therapy). These fields offer income while keeping you connected to your passion. This is called balancing the heart and the mind. Refer: Manifesting Wealth 𝗞𝗮𝗺𝗮 (काम-𝗗𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗿𝗲) 𝙹𝚘𝚢, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚒𝚛𝚎. The persuit of your desire (heart's calling and life-purpose) is all embodied under this third Purusharth of human life. Kama (desire) is the pursuit of emotional, sensory, and aesthetic fulfillment, encompassing love, pleasure, creativity, and the enjoyment of life’s beauty. When you listen to your inner voice, your intuition, the heart's calling—you are going with the natural flow of life. Living this way, you source your joy from the process, live in the moment, and learn to enjoy every scene of life. As they say: "Do what you love and enjoy" 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗿 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲 Since you are at early stage of life, we can advise you on career options that can help you 'balance' your passion, and also ensure a good income. Let's call it a 'hybrid' path. ➤𝗛𝘆𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗱 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗵 Pursue art (listen to your heart's call) while also developing popular 𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐡𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐤𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐜𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠—to enhance employability. Use the internet to earn money 'displaying' and 'selling' your art: 𝙾𝚗𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚏𝚘𝚕𝚒𝚘𝚜, 𝚜𝚘𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚊 & 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚜𝚒𝚝𝚎𝚜. Part 2 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝘂𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗵 & 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 Understand that spirituality does not ask you to give up the earthly duties. But indeed, when you become more 'aware' of your spiritual identity, when you GROW spiritually, you also become more 'aligned' to your 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎-𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎 and—life will become simpler, struggles will begin to end, and you will grow out stronger & wiser from every experience of life. Therefore, BE BRAVE... Do not see life's struggles as an 'obstacle' to your spiritual growth, but they are catalysts. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 '𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫'. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 '𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐫'... 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐡! God has never left you alone, and never will. You only need to "surrender" and let the 𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚌𝚎 guide you through the lights and shadows of life. "LET GO & LET GOD" ➤ 𝙏𝙍𝙐𝙎𝙏: Trust that you are always safe. There is no way you will miss your 'spiritual growth' in trying to provide for your family, or in chasing your dream... 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦, 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞. That is why you are here. Trust that IT WILL HAPPEN, no matter what struggles otherwise suggest. According to the ancient Indian philosophy, there are four main Purushārthas for a human being: • Dharma (धर्म) – "𝚈𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎’𝚜 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚎." Like the North Star, it keeps your actions just, your word true, and your heart aligned with cosmic order. • Artha (अर्थ) – "𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚞𝚒𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚠𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚝𝚑, 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚕𝚢 𝚜𝚞𝚌𝚌𝚎𝚜𝚜." Not greed of wealth, but honest prosperity—so you can feed your family, do charity, support community, and save for the time. • Kāma (काम) – "𝙹𝚘𝚢, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚍𝚎𝚜𝚒𝚛𝚎." From the laughter of children to the poetry of romance, it reminds you that life without 'pleasure' is a song without melody. • Moksha (मोक्ष) – "𝙻𝚒𝚋𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚢𝚌𝚕𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚋𝚒𝚛𝚝𝚑 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚑." The ultimate exit door, where the soul flies free of all earthly bondages (the cycle of birth & death) and merges back into Brahman (the infinite 𝚜𝚞𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚖𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜). "𝙏𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝘽𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨" It is when the soul is tested to its limit that it GROW beyond the limit... And you will feel the 'closest' you ever did to god during these times. You will feel 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝, 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐝, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝. When you follow this path, amidst chaos you will be 'at peace' and that god will do all your work, bring you out to the light. This is the holy promise. 🍀So go on, 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐮𝐭𝐲, 𝐛𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 '𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬' 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞. Trust that there is 'light' at the end of this tunnel, awaiting the BEST OF YOU... And that this 'process' of life is blessed to awaken THE BEST IN YOU. Tip: Read our post Testing Times are Blessed Times (after reading the current article) ———————————— 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽𝘀 Here are our practical suggestions you should immediately follow: 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙧𝙩-𝙏𝙚𝙧𝙢 Explore flexible income sources (𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚊𝚛𝚝, 𝚝𝚞𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝚍𝚒𝚐𝚒𝚝𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝) to 𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 the financial-stress without giving up your passion (long-term goals). 𝙇𝙤𝙣𝙜-𝙏𝙚𝙧𝙢 Research creative industries with 'growth potential' and build a 𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐨. Find inspiring people in 𝐚𝐫𝐭 and stay connected to 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲. Connect with like-minded people through social media and forums. 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 Dedicate time daily to 'meditation' (RajYog). Self-empowerment, connecting with the supreme, giving Sakash to your family, following spiritual principles—this is your priority. Everything else is second. Through meditation, seek 𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 & 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞. Bring out 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 into your creative work (job) to merge art and spirituality. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Family, the cornerstone of our lives, can also be a source of profound emotional turbulence. Anger—whether sparked by misunderstandings, unmet expectations, or unresolved past wounds—can fracture even the strongest bonds, leaving loved ones feeling isolated and disconnected. Yet, within this tension lies an opportunity—not only to 'heal' but also to 'strengthen' the bond. Healing relationships is not merely done through words, but more with positive thought/intention and willingness. This article-post gives guidance on a specific family situation, where a grand-daughter feels for her grandfather, and enters into a conflict with her uncle and rest of the family. She approached us for guidance to overcome her anger issue, heal herself, and mend the relationship. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Title: "𝙎𝙤𝙡𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖 𝙁𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙎𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣" Subtitle: 𝙸𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚘𝚗 '𝚊𝚗𝚐𝚎𝚛' 𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚞𝚎 & 𝚘𝚗 '𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐' 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏 & 𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚑𝚒𝚙𝚜 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗 𝚏𝚊𝚖𝚒𝚕𝚢 ———————————— Original Query >> Om Shanti 🙏🏻 Today morning....I saw my grandfather who was requesting my uncle to connect the fan connection through an inverter so that he could sleep...my uncle and aunt who were awake yet pretending to be sleeping..... My grandfather kept calling out his name...so I went and knocked on the door to come out but they didn't come...when my grandfather came downstairs my uncle came out and said the inverter couldn't take the load of two fans. I was there to offer morning tea to baba...I suggested baba to buy an inverter for himself and not to rely on anyone.....as he is already getting a good amount (around35000/-) as pension then he showed me a bank slip in which uncle took all the money from his account (around 2.5 lacs) and he has just 2700 left in his account. At the same moment he gave three statements for what reasons he took money. I don't know why...I just said "chor hai sb" and came out of the room. Then Uncle was blaming my grandfather that you have me the money and forgot and she is saying me 'chor' (a theif) I don't know why but I wasn't able to control my anger in that situation... And I argued with everyone who was coming to call me down. All day long I'm crying...and not be able to keep myself calm down... though I'm very peaceful person never ever get involved in anything but this happened today. Please help me to come from this 🙏🏻 The Response Firstly, it is good that you have wrote down your feelings... This itself would make you feel light and free. Now, 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 yourself what has happened. You saw a scene, and it did not please you seeing that your grandfather was not treated with the 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 & 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 he deserve. You saw this as "injustice" and this immediately sparked emotions in your heart... This then trailed long and caused you anger. ((Anger is the final outcome whenever you become too emotional.. no matter what emotion is in the beginning, but it would all lead to 'anger' in the end)) Because anger has many open doors to enter... Observe this >>Whatever makes you unhappy, and whenever you are 'agitated' or 'feeling helpless' or especially when something doesn't happen as per your expectation or will—this will lead to disappointment and anger... and anger takes away "clarity" in thinking. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: One cannot make the best decision (in a given situation) in favour of 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 & 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, when their mind is covered by anger. What is the Solution? ANSWER: "𝘾𝙡𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙮 & 𝙋𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚" ...and these both reciprocate each other (if you find 𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 you will attain 'peace' & 'patience'... and when you keep 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 you will also gain 'clarity' with time) 🌳Hence all we need to keep is "patience" when dealing with situations or people. Just 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲>> that is all you need. 𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 and then process it using your 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦 & also be open to the 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭. 𝗜𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: What you missed here, was an opportunity to see the other side... Maybe it is not what you THINK it is... as there are things that you do not know (and cannot see)... The kind of relationship they both (your grandpa & uncle) share is their own 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐜 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭 >> we cannot judge that without having the "complete picture" (which only god have) 🍁"𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘺"... A big picture makes no sense when only a small part of it is seen. 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝗽𝗶𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 isnt it. We see but a small part of it at once... 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 will make a complete sense when you will see it as WHOLE... Same is true for every life of every person alive. "Think" 𝗦𝗢𝗟𝗨𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 Practically, yes suggest your grandpa to buy an inverter for himself (or anything cheaper that ensures he gets 'cool air' during summer)... And spiritually, you can help yourself to HEAL, to find PEACE... and to heal the relationships within your family. (Perhaps this is the purpose why you got connected to this divine platform 'Samadhan') 🌈We have detailed written guidance already published on our FORUM... So please read & follow the below-given posts one by one: How to Tolerate, Forgive, Face & Heal? Specific: Overcome Anger Forever Healing from Past & Living in Awareness 🌟We highly recommend you to start practising "Sakash" meditation for your family & yourself: SAKASH: Heal body & soul ➤➤ 𝙈𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 Testing times are 'blessed' times Finding Motivation & Faith Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

In today’s age and time, smartphones have become a part of daily life—even for children. While these devices offer educational and social benefits, excessive screen time can lead to phone addiction, impacting a child’s social skills, emotional well-being, and cognitive development. Every parent should be conscious of this. Parents and guardians often face the challenge of 'balancing' technology’s advantages with its risks. This article explores practical suggestions & insight to help children build healthier relationships with technology and devices, developing mindfulness, positive habits, encouraging offline engagement, and creating a supportive environment where technology serves as a tool for personal overall growth—not a distraction from your life and purpose ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. We understand, as this is a very common problem with the new generation of children, who are born and brought up around technology (mobile phone, computers, and more) 🌳It is very easy to get addicted to social media, seeing what others are doing...and thus get distracted from your own natural life... your goals and purpose. Even natural talents hids or fades away when not recognised, used and exercised... So while technology is supposed to be used for making our life better (comfortable) and work easier, if not used for this purpose, it brings "dependency" and quickly become a habit. 🍁While we understand that 'phone' and 'computer' is needed to do school work and research, and even for entertainment... but it must be done under self-discipline and following a timetable >> Prepare a timetable for HOW LONG should phone or computer be allowed and FOR WHAT purpose... This way, develop discipline in your child... make him/her understand the meaning and importance of such discipline in life... by giving moral wisdom, being an example, and even exploring helpful videos (related videos on 'phone-addiction' and 'importance of discipline' >> please search by yourself on YouTube). Parents should limit their own screen time, especially during family interactions. "Inspiring is the highest way of teaching" 🌈A very simple but effective way of overcoming dependency on technology (phone, computer, etc), is that—we deliberately spend ONE DAY every week without using any of it... This has to be done consciously with the 'purpose' to experience the natural life (go for a walk, exercise, paint, read a book, spend time with family..) 🪴We also understand that at this age, your child is also going through mood swings due to her/him going through "puberty". They will behave 'agitated' and 'rebellious' during these years. You need to remember this while helping. ———————————— Helpful Links We highly suggest you to go through & follow these 4 POSTS to gain more clarity & get more 'detailed' guidance on this same topic: ➤ Helping Someone to Overcome Phone-addiction ➤ Overcoming Phone-addiction ➤ Improving Focus (concentration) ➤ Guidance on STUDY and EXAMS Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Karma is often misunderstood as a cosmic scoreboard of reward and punishment, but its essence runs far deeper—it is the 'living energy' of our choices, rippling through time and space. Every thought you create & hold, every word you speak, and every deed you act—sends off a ripple to the universe, which them comes back to you. The "intention" behind the karma is what decide its result. This article/post explains the idea that karma is not fate, but a dynamic force we co-create with every thought, word, and deed. Drawing from ancient wisdom and spiritual understanding derived through various sources—we will explore how aligning with karmic energy can transform patterns of suffering into opportunities for growth, and mainly that "how does karma come back to you" The following was written in response to a question we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2024. Question: I have heard that the souls with whom we have the deepest karmic accounts often returns to us in this life as 'spouse'. So my question is: What if i decide not to marry in this birth? Would it stop the karmic cycle? and if no, then how else would my karma be settled? Answer We are going to make everything very clear to you, in this brief response: Lets begin from KARMA: "The energy you send out to the universe is returned to you" (This is what people call "law of karma" in common view) That returning energy can come through people in your connection. And it could be anyone (doesn't have to be a spouse or children). Human being here becomes a medium for that energy to come back to you. Now imagine you separate yourself from everyone, literally. Do you know what would happen?---You will still receive the energy back (you always do), but this time it would be directly to your door. Your mind and heart will go through those emotions and feelings (which you given out to others in past). And this could be both POSITIVE and NEGATIVE. When it is 'positive' it is all good... but when negative experience visits you when you are living alone, you would not even realise WHY this is happening. Because you cannot see the 'source' of it... This is the secret why people go mad (loose their normal sense) when they live alone for a long time. Because the energy is returning, but invisible. (When that energy was coming through a person, it was visible and made sense. Even the intensity is lower, as the medium absorbs some of it) This is why relationships are the greatest gift from god. Only we human beings have this gift. Good and healthy (positive) relationships with everyone around can make your life a living 'heaven' ----------------------- Part 2 MARRIAGE Now we come to your enquiry on 'marriage'. No, marriage is not a compulsion. Whether for man or woman. What is important is that you correctly understand the 'purpose' of marriage. It is not for a man to find 'stability' and the woman to find 'security'---but for both of them to find a lifelong companion with whom you can SHARE your abundance, to whom you can express yourself fully, and you can support, helping eachother to navigate life with joy and growth. Marriage is indeed a HOLY COMMUNION, if you could keep it that way. But yes, there is another aspect of marriage >> "household responsibilities" >> that can certainly deviate you from intense purusharth (spiritual journey) >> But with time as you keep on the spiritual path, you will see how situations become easier and you become STRONGER... Those responsibilities are not meant to deviate you, but to bring you back >> Not meant to take a part from you, but to complete you... Sometimes challenges come, not to break you, but to strengthen your trust (faith) and to make you completely dependent on GOD alone... ➤We have explained this on my post 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙤𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙'𝙨 𝙀𝙢𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙚 (must read) ➤But more accurate and relatable guidance can be found on our post: BALANCE: Spiritual & Family life ➤Explore all our posts on "KARMA" (settling karma, healing relationships, etc): https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+karma More Related Posts: ➤ Testing Times are Blessed Times ➤ End all Struggles & Embrace God ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

End of hurt, sorrow, and struggles with this spiritual knowledge, this knowing... and discover a NEW way of thinking, being, and living. This post is lifechanging, as it gives a beautiful perspective on life—to embrace all scenes and situations of life as a part of 𝚊 𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚗—a preparation for your spiritual growth. "All happens for a good cause". In moments of brokenness, when life weigh us down, there exists a love deeper than despair—a divine embrace that mends fractures of the heart, mind, and spirit. The Healing Touch of God’s Embrace is not about escaping pain, but discovering sanctuary and a divine purpose within it. Whether you are navigating grief, doubt, or feeling lost, this article-post explores how faith can transform suffering into sacred ground, where god's grace whispers 'strength' into our weakness. Read this and find hope, strength, love, and wisdom. Title: "𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙀𝙢𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙" Subtitle: 𝙴𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚑𝚞𝚛𝚝, 𝚜𝚘𝚛𝚛𝚘𝚠 & 𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚐𝚐𝚕𝚎𝚜 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚠𝚊𝚢 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 { MUST READ } Index Introduction Foreword Healing the Past Changing Perspective Life Resolves Itself Direct Advise Helpful Links ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 This one message gives you a glimpse into all wisdom you need to live life joyfully. You must read this message with a 𝚌𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚛 & 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚖 mind. So stop reading now and come back to it in the early morning time. Wake up, wash your face and then read this. And this read again and again until 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕠𝕗 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕞𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕒𝕘𝕖 fills you with the 'wisdom' and the 'power' you need to cope up and overcome this situation. This is one of the most enlightening post we have written. Lastly, must follow the "helpful links" given at the end. Begins » Glad to read that you have found help and guidance through this group earlier, and you always will. Now today, we make this clear to you: The following message does not promise you any external miracles, but rather 𝐚 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦... Freedom from every hurt and worry... Remember: 𝘎𝘰𝘥'𝘴 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘴𝘰𝘭𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘦. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦 you will hear now, will 'shine' every corner of your heart, and can 'upgrade' every aspect of your life. Healing the Past Understand—that what they did or what you did a few days, months, or years ago does NOT matter NOW. The past is only in your memory, while the 'blessed' PRESENT moment is running away... Therefore, by holding on to hurt-feelings—you are 𝐫𝐞-𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 now what was already 'over' many days, months or years ago. Tip: Read our post Healing a Past Experience Changing Perspective I tell you this—Every moment of life either bring us a "blessing" or an "opportunity". A blessing that fills you with 'joy' and helps move 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝 in your life-journey; or an opportunity 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥, 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐭 𝐠𝐨, 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰. For no wound can pain forever, and there is no pain on Earth that 'heaven' cannot heal... We are but only '𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬' 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞. God and time can heal the deepest of wounds. And indeed, if you 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 with this wisdom completely, then you would not be wounded at all. For what you now see as hurt & pain, is 𝐚 '𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧' 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡. "Every scene of your life is preparing you for the next scene". Those challenging times/moments are not a punishment, but a preparation. To make you stronger and wiser than you ever thought you are... For GROWTH happens not when everything is fine and sweet, but 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧. You come to God not when everything is okay, but when you are broken, feeling lost, and need help. "𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙝𝙞𝙙𝙙𝙚𝙣 𝙙𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙝𝙨." 🌈Every moment of life is bringing you either a blessing, or an opportunity to 𝚛𝚒𝚜𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕. Now and then, you may experience hurt or pain because of some or other reason. But pause for a moment and ask—𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝗜 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻?... and take it from me—"Once you LEARN the intended lesson, the situation will fade and disappear" "𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚𝙨 𝙞𝙩𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛, 𝙞𝙣 𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨" When you do nothing more than you must/should, when you touch every soul POSITIVELY, and when you hurt no one... "𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖 𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖 𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚" This is a great wonder of life, and a divine invitation—"𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞—even those who you say harms you. Even when you are taken for granted, can you grant them your peace & love?" 🍁This wont be easy, but when practised, promises you 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐨𝐧 𝐄𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐡. There is no better way to "live" than to "love"... Love not only those who love you back, and not for a reason (or a cause)... But love 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 '𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞' and you are expressing yourself... BLESS all because you know that they are hurt themself. They need healing more than you. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: 'The attacker is more hurt than the victim, for the attacker is injured first'. (Only when you are hurt, will you think of inflicting the injury onto another. And you cannot be hurt by anyone for anything, when you are 'complete' and 'healed' by the touch of your inner divinity) 🌸You share what you have in excess, isn't it? So if someone is giving you their hurt, should you take it? or should you give them back what YOU have in excess? What is the natural way? 🍇But WHEN would you have the 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐣𝐨𝐲 & 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞?—The answer is: When you "explore" and "experience" them within, through 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 (𝐠𝐨𝐝) who is a powerhouse. Connecting to him through 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 & 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜, you will receive' the abundance and also 'experience' the abundance you already have within. (Refer to helpful links to find Guide To RajYog Meditation) 🍎So have you heard? Do you now understand that they are not trying to hurt you, but only 'sharing' the hurt they have in excess. But you can experience 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 and 𝐣𝐨𝐲 even at such times. Because what is 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐭 within is much much stronger than what is 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐧 outside. What is inside you, is much greater than what is outside of you >> You can light FIRE inside even when it is RAINING outside (just stay in the house). You can be at PEACE within, even when there is chaos outside (just go within). 𝗗𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗲 Now we come to your exact situation. Here is our direct advise for you: I think this can be solved with a "verbal communication" with your husband, explaining him that 𝐦𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 is the core and base of every relationship, and so he should respect your parents (go into details as per your exact situation). "𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳". Do it with "self-love" and also "respecting his perspective". 🌳But before that, we would highly suggest you to work on this at the "thought" level >> Sending your husband and your in-laws family vibrations of peace and love... "visualise" this... your light & vibrations are reaching them and they are receving it. NOW: Start doing Forgivess Meditation (follow this post) for youself & your in-laws... This is sending thoughts of forgiveness & resolving the karmic bond at the thought level. (THIS WILL WORK... and you will see its POSITIVE result within a few weeks) ———————————— 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 Please visit, read & follow all posts selected for you: ➤𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 "𝐢𝐧-𝐥𝐚𝐰𝐬" 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 (with brief guidance & many 'helpful links') ➤𝐓𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 '𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝' 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 (the wisdom & motivation you need during those challenging times) ➤𝐄𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐆𝐨𝐝 (the end of life's struggles by embracing God's divine plan) We highly recommend you to watch the videos on this YouTube channel: Playlist of Neville Goddard's audiobooks on FAITH, PATIENCE & PURPOSE (very empowering & motivating wisdom). 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