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Title: "𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙠𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙀𝙮𝙚𝙨 𝙊𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙙𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙈𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣?" Subtitle: 𝚄𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 '𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚜𝚘𝚗' 𝚠𝚑𝚢 𝚂𝚑𝚒𝚟 𝙱𝚊𝚋𝚊 𝚍𝚒𝚛𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚜 𝚞𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚔𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚎𝚢𝚎𝚜 '𝚘𝚙𝚎𝚗' 𝚍𝚞𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚈𝚘𝚐 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Nov 2024. ———————————— Thank you for asking this—one of the most asked questions on "yog" (meditation) 🌿If you are connected with "Samadhan" for a long time, you would know how we have touched this topic many times before. ➕But let us answer this question briefly, using clear reasoning so that everyone reading this can relate and welcome it into their heart. Please read the below points and sync them together: 1● Our mind is a constant 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐞... We are creating our reality (our 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎-𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎) in every moment, using the faculty called "mind" 2● When eyes are closed, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩𝐬 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲. Because it looses access to 𝚗𝚎𝚠 𝚍𝚊𝚝𝚊 (𝚒𝚗𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚖𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗). The mind needs a constant supply of information in order to keep creating new thoughts. 3● The fullest experience of 𝐘𝐨𝐠 (𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐧) with God (the supreme soul) happens when we are experiencing our own reality to its fullest. In other words—you can experience God only when you first experience your-self. 🪻Thus, it is very helpful to keep the eyes open, as 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐘𝐨𝐠, and the 'experience' of Yog (union or connection with God) is thus intensified. 🌳You will notice this is true—when you sit in meditation. Try to meditate first with eyes "open" and then with eyes "closed". ℕ𝕠𝕥𝕚𝕔𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕕𝕚𝕗𝕗𝕖𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕔𝕖. You will feel much more "𝐢𝐧 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐧" and "in the moment" of Yog when your eyes are open. When our eyes are closed, the mind wanders here and there, but when the eyes are open, the mind comes back to the PRESENT moment. ⭐This is because 𝐞𝐲𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥... "𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭." 🌈In other words—when you keep your eyes closed, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲. ((windows are closed)) and When your windows are open, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐆𝐨𝐝 and experience it along with your worldly reality. Eevrything is thus alligned. ✱ 𝗨𝘀𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 ✱ ➤The Right Method of Yog (meditation) ➤Learn RajYog meditation (official guide) ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔.. Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

The following is taken from our Hindi response to a query asked on our Samadhan WhatsApp group relating to the explanation of the original 7 virtues and 8 innate powers of the soul. Please read and visit the given links to the source reference to learn in more detail. प्रश्न अच्छा है >> इसे जानना भी ज़रूरी है। अच्छा, तो जैसे जानती हो, जो 7 गुण गाये गए है उनमे से आख़री गुण शक्ति (inner power) को 8 parts में समझाया गया है। 🌳तो आत्मा के 7 मौलिक गुण जाने गए है ➤ ज्ञान, शान्ति, पवित्रता, प्रेम, आनंद, सत्य, शक्ति ☘️आपका प्रश्न है की क्या जैसे "शक्ति" के गुण को 8 parts में divide किया जा सकता है, तो अन्य को भी किया जायेगा? ✱𝘼𝙣𝙨𝙬𝙚𝙧 👉 हां > लेकिन हम ऐसे नहीं कहेंगे की सभी गुण को divide किया जा सकता है। इनको देखो👉 ✶ ज्ञान ➥ 2 parts >> रूहानी ज्ञान, जिस्मानी ज्ञान (spirituality, science) ✶ शान्ति ➥ एक शान्ति जब आत्मा शरीर में होती ही नहीं, तो यह real शांति है। फिर है वो शान्ति जो हम शरीर में रेहते हुए योग (meditation) द्वारा अनुभव करते है। ✶ पवित्रता ➥ purity के stages होते है >> हम कितने हद तक आत्मा conscious बने है। ✶ आनंद ➥ (same as शान्ति) >> शरीर के प्रभाव से परे, जो आत्मा की परमात्मा के साथ की ख़ुशी की स्टेज है। ✶ सत्य ➥ इस गुण का अर्थ ही है की आत्मा इस सृष्टि चक्र के पुरे सत्य को जानती है। ⭐ऊपर हमने सभी 7 गुणों को समझाया है। यह सभी गुण आत्मा के गाये गए है >> इनसे ही मनुष्य आत्मा की पेहचान है। 🌿हम यहाँ reference देंगे👉 आत्मा के 7 गुण (https://www.shivbabas.org/7-virtues-of-soul-hindi)(Hindi course: Day 6) आत्मा की 8 शक्तियाँ (https://www.shivbabas.org/8-powers-of-soul-hindi)(Hindi course: Day 6) ☝️तो ऐसे गुणों को समज सकते है। समझा भी सकते है। अच्छा On Godly Service, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴

This is our advise on how to solve problems related to overthinking and finance. Read on Original Email Received from you my question is I overthink a lot because we are suffering financially I am 18 years old. When I think to start a business, then a thought comes that in business if you don't do dishonesty you can't be a rich businessman. I want to buy a new house , I want to be rich, I want to come in the shiv Baba's list to get the top position in satyug. My 4 members family have done 7 day course..but my parents don't listen . I don't have friends I think due to my past karmas. Sometimes I feel that I have took birth on this planet to do a very big job. But I don't know the job.... I m suffering mentally ill PLEASE HELP ME !!! PLEASE! Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalya Dear Divine Brother, See, you are aware that it is OVERTHINKING. So you can take the step to overcome and end this weakness. Put a Full Stop. Obviously thinking more than needed is not serving us, hence one should take control of its mind. Our mind is our own creation, our child. Such as you explain what is right and what is wrong to your child, in same way - explain everything to mind. Know that mind is a great and quick learner. Always Remember, these kind of thoughts are the gates for maya to enter. By reading your email, it seems you're new in Gyan. So here is our advice for you. 1. First of all be free from all these kind confusions (झमेलामुक्त). Always have faith in Baba (निश्चयबुद्धि). Drama is accurate. Surrender yourself to baba (in yog-Amritvela and numasham). When you completely surrender- yourself, your body, all your lokik responsibilities and relations, everything to baba, you will automatically feel light and free from confusions. And Magical result will be that everything will solve automatically. To solve financial problem do 21 days yog bhatti. see here-> 21 days bhatti. Also see-> Earn money with blessings - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxDNVslYvRk (bk shivani) 2. There is no harm to own a house or car etc. With aloukik gyan and sewa, we have to fulfil our loukik duties also. But always remember, your goal should always be towards serving for world transformation. Always keep baba first. And remember one slogan "इच्छा मात्रम अविद्या – Ignorance of Desire" because desires never end. Keep in mind baba has promised- मैं अंत तक तुम्हे दाल रोटी खिलाऊंगा. Be Content with what you have right now. You are the luckiest soul. In satyug, you will have everything that you cannot even think of now. Prepare for that. Everything you see now with these eyes will END soon.  Do listen this Audio Sandesh on  ''Balance in Purusharth & family responsibilities'': https://drive.google.com/file/d/1O1emkO2aZrA5YVe4VxTxiOLq91P44nBT/view 3. You said your parents did 7 days course but don't listen to Gyan. In this case, you should be firm in your Dharnas. Starting from Regular Murli class, Regular Amritvela and numasham yog, purity of food, and Purity of mind. You will start to see changes within you and everyone who comes in contact with you. Baba will be proud of you. And this way you will come in baba's list to be number one. Refer: The Yogi's Diet 4. You have Supreme Friend with you (Shivbaba, God Himself). Your past karmas have rewarded you with such a wonderful gift. As far as loukik friends are considered, baba always say be away from bad company. Choose your company wisely. Wherever you go spread the vibrations of peace and purity. This will earn you real friends and an opportunity for sewa.  5. Yes you think right. You are born to do to a big Job. And God has already Chosen you for that job. Your job is to be right hand and a helping hand of Baba. Your job is to serve on baba's direction. Your job is to transform this world. But now you need to have faith. See brother, time is very less. Don't entangle yourself with Low quality of thoughts. God has chosen you from a vast population on this planet. Listen the audio on this page-  Scenes at the time of destruction: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/destruction-or-transformation This birth of yours is very valuable, so why waste it? Out of so many births taken, can't we give just one life to Baba?  Complete your studies. Baba will use your talents in the most efficient way.  As you said, to earn food you need to work. Baba never says Don't work or don't earn. But he says to do every work in his Remembrance. Always be Combined with him and surrender to him mentally.. when You are in Remembrance of baba, anything can never go wrong.  ADVISE: Read Books. Here is the place to access PDF books (free): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/books Need anything? Search on BK Google -> www.bkgoogle.com or  contact us On Godly World Service 00

How to tolerate a family member? How to bring and keep good vibrations around me? How to adjust in family life? Here is a email response from BK Shivani. Original Email Received Hello sister, My name is Varinder. I need help. What should i do so I can stay with my in-laws without stress? I live in canada. My husbands parents are here , i dont really want to see them especially father in law. I cant get along. I tried my best. They are near 60 years old. Never clean house watch tv all day long, loud, I feel negative energy around they came 2 weeks ago. I was active , got up early do meditation , loved my kids, danced was happy and full of energy, had feeling too close to God. Father in law is heavy drinker. I sometime feel like moving out with my kids. If i tell My husband about my concerns then he gets upset and says its our culture to stay with parents and to serve them. What should i do?? I feel like i am wasting my life I feel negative vibrations around. I dont get up early any more. I eat food fast feel like emotional eater. Gaining weight. Keep my self in room dont spend time with kids. Please guide me through. Thanks Our Email Response TO: Varinder & you reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, There seems to be no real problem in your life. Good husband and kids, own house, job. Sometimes problems are created in our own minds and we allow them to grow so big that it reaches a point where we do not know how to come out of it. You are getting irritated by your in-law’s way of living. If there is a way of live separately then fine, otherwise you should accept your situation and mould yourself. Tell them gently and with respect if something goes wrong but you cannot really change one’s habits by getting angry and sending bad vibrations. It will affect your kids as well. Your mind is the only thing you can control. So, first step would be to accept the situation, be happy and slowly you can win their hearts. Then things will start to happen as you wish. With a good intention, you make food for them in which you fill peaceful vibrations. HOW? Learn meditation (rajyog) and practice. Also listen these Divine songs while cooking food -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/bk-songs-playlist Simple life is always a happy life. Be simple and down-to-earth. You can say sorry even when not faulty. This will surely bring peace around. But with that have Self respect. You are a divine soul. Full of peace, purity and love of god. These are our original virtues. See 8 powers of Soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/8-powers-of-soul * Listen to this talk by BK Shivani on this -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7MUA0N00mM If you wish to put more effort to make things right, then start getting up early in the morning and practice Swaman (Self-affirmation) Swamaan Abhyas with guided commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gAbZtHPtGk&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 * Related Post * Healing Relationship within family -> https://bkarticles.blog/2019/01/30/heal-relationships-within-family/ If possible visit nearest Brahma Kumaris center, you will be very sweetly welcomed and you will surely experience peace. You are most welcome to know more about us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Namate On Godly World Service 00

Here is our complete (detailed) guidance for parents whose children shows sign of hyperactivity, lack of respect or ill-behavior that is harming their own growth. Parents (mother & father) are the first teachers of a child. You can help your child to HEAL with the spiritual wisdom we shared here and with a balance of love and discipline. Please read this post till the end. Title: "𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘼 𝘿𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙩 𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙" Subtitle: 𝙻𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑, 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚊 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚝 𝚘𝚛 𝚒𝚕𝚕-𝚋𝚎𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎𝚍 𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚍 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 & 𝚞𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚕𝚊𝚠 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" 𝙄𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙭 (skip to) * Foreword (introduction) * What does a good parent do? * Children Are Painting * STEP ONE (be example) * STEP TWO (be wise) * Useful links ———————————— Firstly, we highly recommend you to also read our recent response titled "𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝘿𝙖𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙚𝙧" (originally written as a response to a query on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2024) Foreword As we can observe, 𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕥-𝕔𝕙𝕚𝕝𝕕𝕣𝕖𝕟 relationship in today's time is can very easily be spoiled—because of many reasons. Mainly because of children's world expanding from an early age...as they make 𝕗𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕤 at school, and the entire world being accessible to them through the 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚗𝚎𝚝. You see... the more 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 we make, the quicker we detach from the relationships we already hold. This is basic human nature. It is important that parents restrict the use of phone and internet for children from an early age, not let them be habitual of it, and teach the right use of internet. Remember: More than your words, children will follow your actions and behavior. ☘️The main issue that comes up through your message is—𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝'𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞. He has not seen a difficult time, and thus takes for granted everything given to him. 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗮 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗱𝗼? 𝔸𝕟𝕤𝕨𝕖𝕣: A good parent would definitely love their child, but in the right way. They will not spoil the child with everything provided at ease and thus not let the child learn the basic lessons of life. 🌈The good lessons of life are learned 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬, 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲. All this makes us 𝙝𝙪𝙢𝙗𝙡𝙚, 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙚, 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙗𝙡𝙚, 𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙙, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜. These are the real lessons and treasures for the soul. "𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙋𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜" You must have heard the old axiom: "𝘊𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴". The more 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞, 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 the painter gives to their painting, the more beautiful the painting comes out. Parenting is just that. Just as a painting begins with a blank canvas, children start their lives full of potential, shaped by the experiences, guidance, and love they receive. Like the careful brushstrokes of an artist, every interaction, lesson, and moment of play contributes to the development of a child's character and personality. ★ 𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗣 𝗢𝗡𝗘 ★ 𝗕𝗲 𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻 🍁There is no better way of teaching than to "become an example" yourself. Children may not listen to their parents all the time, but 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰/𝐜𝐨𝐩𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐝𝐨, in one way or another. This is the reason we can observe that children who are raised in a 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚏𝚊𝚖𝚒𝚕𝚢 grows up to be 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞. The same is true for children who saw their parents in conflict, or seen irresponsible parenting. Such children will seek the "love" from outside, the love which they should first get from the parents. 🍇Do you understand now? Do you see that your painting is not a bad one, but only needs finishing with some beautiful 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐣𝐨𝐲, 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦. Do you see that you can do all this just by giving time to your painting? ———————————— 🍀Advice: 𝐒𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐢𝐦... 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞... 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞. Even if he resist or does anything you may not like, jut do not react and keep listening. 🍎As you become good friends, your son himself will come to you for your guidance. There will be no need to force him. And you can never force him anyway. When there is TRUTH, LOVE & TRUST in your relationship, 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰. 🪻Remember these 3 attributes: 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙩𝙝, 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚, 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙩. All your 𝕒𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤 and 𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕚𝕔𝕖𝕤 in any form of relationship (not just this one) should be sourced from truth, love, and trust. 𝐁𝐞 𝐚 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 and give the right advice in a way your child can understand and follow. 🪴You see... doing all this will not only benefit your child, but also YOU... you are learning deep wisdom of "parenting" through this process... and you are giving this wisdom also to your son. ✱ 𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗣 𝗧𝗪𝗢 ✱ 𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙫𝙞𝙡𝙚𝙙𝙜𝙚 𝙝𝙚/𝙨𝙝𝙚 𝙞𝙨 It is very important for them to KNOW how privileged they are compared to children born to poor parents and the orphans. You can do this by showing VIDEOS available on YouTube... videos of orphanage children, videos of life's struggle, and mostly the 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨𝐬 of people who overcame the struggles. Motivational speakers like 𝐒𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐌𝐚𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐡𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢, 𝐃𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐤 𝐂𝐡𝐨𝐩𝐫𝐚, 𝐆𝐚𝐮𝐫 𝐆𝐨𝐩𝐚𝐥 𝐃𝐚𝐬, 𝐒𝐡𝐢𝐯 𝐊𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚, etc can help (please search them yourself) 🌻Besides, you can surely 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝘁𝗼 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘁 𝗮 𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗼𝗿𝗽𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲. This would be much more impactful, as he will see for himself how the children live without parents. No words will be needed. ✶𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: Your intention should NOT be to teach him a lesson, but give him the right parenting with love and care. Do not treat them like a patient, but like a dear child, a student, and a friend. "𝙇𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝘼𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨" Do what you do with awareness of WHAT and WHY you are doing it... what is your INTENTION? and what is your PURPOSE? ☝️This may sound light, but this is 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚏𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 that if you could follow accurately in everyday life, can bring you great fulfilment. ——————————— 𝗨𝘀𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 I have found a good article for you👉MUST READ this 𝗧𝗼𝗽 𝟭𝟬 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗶𝗽𝘀 👉 https://www.indiaparenting.com/top-10-positive-parenting-tips-every-parent-must-follow.html Also read our forum post: 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐀𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫-𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐞👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/parenting-of-a-child-with-anger-issue ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Can I share Gyan myself with my friends or family? Can I give them the 7 day course myself? What is the good way of doing this service? Here is the complete guidance and answers to these questions. Question is asked by BrahmaKumari Preeti (Bombay) Original Question/Email Namaste Thanks for making me the part of family... On 18th September 2018 I have completed my seven days course in Bombay Colaba center... I am so fortunate that my supreme father found me and made my life like heaven. As I got immense love, peace and happiness from my baba. I want to share my baba 's gift with all... There are many friends with whom I want to share this knowledge but the problem is that I am unable to take them at nearby center.... But I want them to know about their father and get connected with baba forever... So may I know if at my home can I give them seven days course? Please guide me because I don't want to let them go without giving baba's introduction.... I will be highly grateful if you could grant me the opportunity for the job. Thank you Bhramakumari preeti Our Email Response with guidance Brahma Kumari Preeti Your letter is received and read. You are in Gyaan since September 2018 and done the 7 day course at centre. You have clarity also that it is the supreme father, the supreme soul who is teaching us children and making us like himself. This is the ''spiritual' knowledge that purifies the spirit (soul). Thus the first stage of this Gyan is 'Soul consciousness'. Without the consciousness that I am the soul (atma), everything else is baseless. To answer your question - Yes you can and should do what you can to give the inheritance of Shiv baba to all your connections. Whether they first like or not to go at the centre, atleast they can listen the Murli once or twice and if they get time, they may take the 7 day course also. It is free and every guidance is given from the centre. Then after this, Preeti you do not need to worry. When a soul takes a drop of knowledge, it becomes of God and hence baba himself takes care after this. You have done your service. When we call 'Shiv baba', we know that name of my spiritual father (baba) is 'Shiv' (ever benevolent) + when we say 'Om Shanti', we know that I ('om') am Shanti ('peace') You also consider yourself lucky to be one of the very few souls who get direct sustenance from God. Otherwise, all the souls of the world are calling and begging. You do not need to beg, just sit and understand. Baba sits with you and explain - 'Child, this is your last birth. Now you have completed 84 births since your first birth in Satyug. Now I have come to purify you and take you back to our sweet home. Before that, you need to become pure. Only pure soul can enter the home. I have taught you Raja Yog through which you my child will become a Raja, master of all senses.'' You need much purusharth to cope up with knowledge. Knowledge is an ocean. Here is guidance for your life from Shiv baba: Baba has made this website for you children. See: www.brahma-kumaris.com See selected videos: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos OR Mobile view: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/videos-Films-and-Documentaries-1 History of Yagya: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history Explore Sitemap: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything? Search on BK Google: www.bkgoogle.com (A personal divine search engine for BKs) Surrender Letter (English) : https://drive.google.com/file/d/1uWWAdsiosMrw_0CtTTRsCLFcx0UwyINt/view Save all above links and visit when get time. Contact us for anything else. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

★ Increasing (Growing) Acceptance for the Self, People & Situations ★ Acceptance of the self, other people in our life, or accepting life’s uncertainties—is a practise of releasing resistance and embracing reality as it unfolds. 1● Mindfulness practise ➤Mindfulness is the intentional act of paying attention to the present moment —without judgment, interpretation, or resistance. It’s about observing your thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, and surroundings as they are, rather than how you think they should be. Mindfulness helps you stop battling reality. It develops the ability to "coexist with discomfort" (difficult people or situations) without letting it define you. This non-judgmental awareness fosters self-compassion and empathy for others, while also providing the clarity needed to approach life's challenges with a calm, centered perspective. 2● Practice self-compassion ➤By speaking to yourself as you would a 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝, acknowledging imperfection as part of being human. Reframe resistance by asking, "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴?" instead of "𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦?" Create and feel "gratitude" for what is rather than fixating on what’s missing. ➤Finally, surrender the illusion of control—𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞. Acceptance grows when we stop fighting reality and "trust" in our capacity to adapt and grow through life’s ups and downs. ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Health of the family has always been a major concern for most of us. This is a guidance to a sister who shares regarding her daughters illness and depression, feeling helpless and left alone in times of need. She also wishes to know how to stay strong and not get affected by people's behavior. This is our advise on how to cope up with similar situations, overcome loneliness and find peace. Original Message/Email Received in Aug 2020 Good evening , Om shanti. I am just saddened by so many little things. I have been constantly trying to listen to videos for guidance. Distressed about my daughters health issues , autism , hyperactivity and depression. People around me. My friends have let me down. They have used me. Betrayed me. Hurt me. Completely changed their behavior. I am just so fed up. I wish I was not affected by people. Can you please show me a way for peace. Email Response + Guidance Divine Sister, I would ask you to immediately consult a psychiatrist for your daughter if her situation is serious. Because sometimes when brain is low on certain chemicals such disorders arise and which can be treated with medicines. And moreover along with Medicine, Meditation will work great for her. So ask her to sit in silence and start meditating. You seem to be in a better condition, but still when the mind is weak , we are easily disturbed and affected by someone`s behavior. The solution is to Empower the Mind. How do we do that ? ➤ Answer Mind is like a small child. It has certain needs , demands and cravings too. Now you need to take care of this child with love. Give it what it actually needs but not everything it demands or crave for. Discipline it. So next time whenever your Mind is crying like a child next time tell him with love " No my dear child, they cannot hurt me , it is me who is taking their words seriously". Also we need to understand that if the appreciation uplifts us their criticism will destroy us. So we should not be attached to someone's perspective about us. And start meditating seriously to gain extraordinary results. Meditation is something that has overtaken this generation as a mandatory routine in the life of most of the people. It is helping the souls around the world to transform themselves into a being of Pure Love, Purity, Bliss and Power. We at the Brahma Kumaris practice Raj Yoga Meditation daily and radiate the vibrations of Peace , Purity and Love for all the worldly souls. Raj Yoga Meditation is simple and an easy to do meditation which can be practiced anywhere and anytime. It is full of Spiritual Wisdom about the subjects like Soul, God, Cycle of World, Secrets of Self transformation etc. which shall definitely help you both to transform yourselves. ◈ Sharing a few important links below. Please do follow them for the best results:- Video ➣ Raj Yoga Meditation : BK Sister Jayanti Article ➣ Raj Yoga Meditation - 7 Days Course online Video ➣ Stop getting affected by Other people : BK Shivani Video ➣ Empower the Mind : BK Shivani Video ➣ One thought to finish Depression : BK Shivani ⍟ Thank You! ⍟ -- On Godly World Service The 'Shiv Baba Service Initiative' team BKGSU

PART 2 -> Guidance on: What is real compassion and real HELP? What is our great nature? Do not judge others quickly. Even if it seems wrong, wait and watch. Learn for yourself and guide others towards God. Here is an email letter recieved from a new godly student Jonali. They already wrote letter and we gave a detailed response. Access that conversation here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/do-not-judge-someone-quickly-higher-vision About an event happened around a centre which she believes was a mistake by Sisters/brothers at that centre. Here in this 'Response' we do not judge anyone, but give a higher vision. We hope, this response will guide you also in many ways possible. Further Conversation Email Received from Jonali on 9 Jan 2019 Good morning I already mentioned that I was not present that day when the incident happened. So how could I mention about that I asked for help from them. And is it necessary that I should have present that day just to ask for help from the centre's brothers-sisters? Wasn't it their responsibility too as a human being for the sake of humanity? Something happening in front of someone, suffering in front of own gate; it's not a small event. If ignorance is the best policy, then sorry I didn't know about this. I am not asking for illogical love for no reason, but love which is essential for others also. There are lots of stray dogs, sadly suffering from hunger and pain, because we human beings have exploited everything from the nature and left nothing, not even compassion for them. There are some places and country who eat dogs. I have nothing to say. But someone is suffering in front of someone's own gate, then that someone must try to help that helpless one. Someone is hugry near us or when we cross a place, we should give them something to eat,be it a human or stray animal. I am not saying to go, find and help everyone who need it. Human being are intelligent, so we should use our intelligence to lower anyone's suffering. People have adopted "don't care" nature, because they can't feel other's pain. Once all people will start to feel others pain, that day the world will be most beautiful place to live. I believe in karma, what goes from us, come to us again. Even one day's small event also changes someone's destiny. So karma will decide . But as a human being, I couldn't stay silent regarding this. Anyways thank you for the reply. Om shanti. Our Email Response Jonali Good morning You have a kind and precisely compassionate heart. That is a good nature. There are 3 types of nature in human souls. 1. Great 2. Good 3. Bad Not that bad is a nature, but souls who become body conscious and forgets the true identity, falls down in vices. That nature is opposite to the ''great nature''. Hence called bad. Now listen. The category your nature seems to be the GOOD. Know that more than 90% of souls comes in this category. Basically, souls who have virtues, who have good feelings for others or who atleast doesn't wish to harm others, etc - those comes in this category. Great souls are rare. They described greatness in every act. Their act should not reward anyone, nor should it punish - if said in common words. That means - they will not descriminate anything. They know, that all are beings derived from God's image. All souls have their own speciality, which is unmatched. Hence they respect everyone. But with that, they inspire and support all to become better. They do not judge others. Never because they know the secrets. Great souls does not only do good to others, but their very presence will inspire others to do good actions. This is a Godly act. They serve through mind. You can become a great soul. You already are good. In your experience, saving the dog is a good act. But judging others, is that good? Unless we know the EXACT drama happened (which is not possible to know for us human souls), we must not create the final judgement. See, here do you know how must service those souls does or did in the name of God? Only God knows. Ok. If they made an inaccurate decision (there is no such thing as a WRONG decision. That is a beauty of life ), then if you are stable in Yog, then you can instead power them and explain the better way. This is how we children of God should live - loving everyone equally and empowering those who need. Always remember, we all children are unique, are good. No one is bad really. They just have different degree of body consciousness. Souls with more soul consciousness, does make better decisions. Here, we have a nice gift for you. Do hear this Audiobook - ''Conversations with God'' in English - https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/conversations-with-god-book-1-audiobook-part-1 You will certainly be benefitted. I personally listen this. Also always remember, when you have 2 choices (there are always atleast 2 choices), then choose the one which reflects your original nature (of Peace, purity, love, bliss and power). When we do what reflects the self, we experience Bliss. Clear? For a start to your journey, here is commentary of 5 forms of soul (Panch swaroop) by BaapDada - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4UKNoa2ARQ Murli (video) on 5 swaroop abhyas - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqRQGDAe5tw 5 forms of Soul (explained with pictures); https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/10-methods-for-practicing-5-forms-of-Soul-Panch-Swaroop Do watch provided videos and also read the above post. Tell us your experience after this. Waiting for your response. namaste In Godfatherly (Godly) Service 00

Introduction: Experiencing every relationship with God is a journey of the heart, where 𝕕𝕚𝕧𝕚𝕟𝕖 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 with god (the source) becomes the foundational support of all our life-ventures. He is a friend in moments of solitude, a parent in times of need, a guide through uncertainty, and a constant companion in both joy and sorrow. We may see god as the sun and the moon, both of which moves with us, everywhere we go. To walk with God is to embrace trust, and surrender to his divine ways and divine timing... It is discovering that His presence transforms ordinary moments into sacred experiences—a whisper of intuition guiding you in the quiet, a force stoping you from making a wrong choice, a feeling of peace amidst chaos, a balm in pain. Through prayer, gratitude, and stillness, we learn to see His love not as distant or abstract, but alive in every breath, relationship, and challenge. In this dance of FAITH, every struggle becomes a lesson, every joy a shared celebration, and every act of love an extension of His grace. Here, we find not just a higher power, but a home—a boundless, intimate relationship that roots us in peace, purpose, and assurance that we are never alone. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ★ Experiencing Every Relationship with God (Supreme Soul) ★ Your question partly answers itself... Remembering Shiv Baba in different ways is a good way to keep renewing the love and affection every day. How To Do That? Simple... We can experience every close human relationship with god/creator/shiv baba. And you can start this in the morning >> it is the best time for 'new beginnings'. So during your amritvela (morning meditation), you can create a thought: ➙my beloved baba ➙my beloved teacher ➙my beloved friend ➙my beloved lover ➙my beloved child ➙my beloved guide shiv and so on... 🌷You can pick any ONE relationship every day... and affirm it during morning meditation >> and then keep that in mind throughout the day. This will help you naturally feel the 'connection' with the supreme soul in the form of a parent, a friend, a child, a teacher, a guide. 🌈The key to experience every connection with the divine (god) naturally, is "GRATITUDE" ✶Meaning: Find the gifts you have received in your life... then 'categorise' those gifts into: Gifts from Shiv baba: as 'father' as 'mother' as 'teacher' as 'friend' as 'lover' as 'guide' 🪻Then you can THANK him for every gift, and experience 'closeness' to god with every relationship mentioned above. For example: Today, you can thank shiv baba for the KNOWLEDGE (gyan) that you have received from him as a TEACHER... So you are experiencing 'closeness' to him as your TEACHER. ➥Then tomorrow you can thank shiv baba for all the love, blessings & help that you have received from him as your PARENT. 🍀We hope you have understood the picture now... Go on and practise this every day (plant the 'seed' during morning meditation) ✶Recommended post: Restoring Faith in God ✶Recommended Audio playlist: MUST listen to this crafted audio playlist of selected audiobooks & speeches that can 'inspire' and 'invoke' the best in you: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/motivational-faith-feeling Video: STRONG relationship with god ('Awakening' episode by BK Shivani) Strong Relationship With GOD: Ep 75 Soul Reflections: BK Shivani (English Subtitles) Video: CREATING a 'personal' relationship with god (a class by BK Shivani) Create A Personal Relationship With God : Sister BK Shivani I Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

The following was our response to a query we received by a mother about her son having difficulty in learning and speaking. This was a case of Autism. We suggest to use the below guidance in the same way for either your son or daughter. Our response remains the same. You mentioned many issues about your son including autism (learning disability) and him being hyperactive <> Do not worry now, we are giving you a complete spiritual guidance and if you follow this, there are high chances of "quick recovery" and your son will re-develop his nature and start learning everything as normal. ✶𝕮𝖑𝖆𝖗𝖎𝖋𝖎𝖈𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓: From what you wrote above, it is clear that you are only creating "negative thoughts" for your son... This is like cursing the child who needs nothing but your SUPPORT and uncondional LOVE... Children are like flowers... Every thought you create does influence their state of mind, wellbeing... Child learns from its parents... As a parent, your duty is to NURTURE the newborn flower and not curse it! The flower (your son) is different in some sense & that is fine... but he can surely become normal, if you help him. 🌴First >> Know that every such birth issue (relating to body and health) has a "spiritual cause" >> the soul has got this (learning difficulty/Autism) as a result of a previous life's Karma debt which gets settled in various ways which includes such conditions. The solution therefore is not giving medicine or thinking that your child is abnormal, but healing the Soul with meditation. Medicine and doctors can do only what is in their hands. ⭐When the SOUL is healed thus, the body will be healed too. And the simple way to HEAL THE SOUL's wound is to connect to the Supreme Soul (Shiv Baba/ God) >> This is '𝓡𝓪𝓳𝓨𝓸𝓰𝓪 𝓜𝓮𝓭𝓲𝓽𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷'. 🌺But in this case, the child (your son) cannot LEARN this Yog (meditation) and hence you can help him indirectly by the following this👉 Giving Sakash Sakash (giving light to the soul) is a simple method in which we send positive thoughts (vibrations) to a soul and visualise that its body is healing under the flow of this white light >> this is entirely on how accurate and powerful your visualisation is... Tip: Visualise the white light of God falling on you like this ➔ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Flow-of-White-light-from-Shiv-baba.mp4 (https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Flow-of-White-light-from-Shiv-baba.mp4)(watch this video) METHOD ➥First learn & practise Swamaan abhyas (affirmation) using this guide ➤ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf (https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf)(first learn this nicely & practise every morning & before sleep) ➥As you experience 𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜, now imagine your son in front of you (𝚟𝚒𝚜𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚜𝚎) and create POSITIVE and GOOD thoughts about him. Create thoughts: This child is powerful... his/her body is healthy... Brain is healing... he is a Divine Soul... he can speak... he can understand me... he/she is divinely intellegent... is a Loveful and Peaceful Soul... ➥Create such thoughts every morning... after Swaman Abhyas for 5 minutes >> do this every day. You will see the POSITIVE results in a few weeks or months. A positive transformation in your child is gauranteed if you follow what is written above. Must watch the VIDEOS below: 𝕊𝕖𝕝𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕖𝕕 𝕍𝕚𝕕𝕖𝕠𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕐𝕠𝕦 Note: Below videos are in Hindi, unless stated "English" 1. How to Help a child with Autism? (BK Shivani) 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bclr2Jblgu0(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bclr2Jblgu0) 2. HEAL other soul with GOD's energy 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyLGfi8shT8(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyLGfi8shT8) 3. How to Change Habit in your child? 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Tz8sa1BBCs(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Tz8sa1BBCs) 4. What to do if your child has Autism? (Sadguru)👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLw_fBwKsK8(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLw_fBwKsK8) (English) 5. Attention Deficiency in children? 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSFtKjdhBTk(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSFtKjdhBTk) 6. TIPS on "Parenting" by Sandeep Maheshwari 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcw5cK9kOCU(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcw5cK9kOCU) 7. ONE rule for Parent-child relationship 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--rPh7hytYU(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--rPh7hytYU) (BK Shivani) 8. Overcome Attention Deficiency in children 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSFtKjdhBTk(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSFtKjdhBTk) (Sadhguru, English) Guided Meditation for parents 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LVi05OeYyw(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LVi05OeYyw) ☝️Watch the above 8 videos one by one for more guidance. Use the "guided meditation" for yourself. Please follow our "𝒜𝓌𝒶𝓀𝑒𝓃𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝐵𝓇𝒶𝒽𝓂𝒶 𝒦𝓊𝓂𝒶𝓇𝒾𝓈" program for daily spiritual wisdom. Subscrib(https://youtube.com/bkshivani)e to this YouTube channel for regular videos. ————————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Dealing with in-LAWS is sometimes difficult because they are new to you. You are new to them. There lacks an understanding or acceptance. There can occur a difference in opinion. Thus here is our advice on How to deal with everyone of your New family with love and patience. Do listen till end. Original Email Received OM SHANTI! I am listening to BK Shivani from long back. I am facing some problem to which I am requesting a solution. I am married (arrange marriage) since 3 years, me and my husband's job is also in chandigarh now from last 1.5 years. My parents and in laws are not sharing a good relationship which is affecting my personal life with my husband and my stress level. My mother in law is having some problem with depression so we have to ask each and everything before doing anything, i.e. we cant do anything of our own. I am not able to think what to do? how to do? How to handle situations tactfully without hurting anybody and without letting do whatever only my mother in law wants. Please provide me solution of this. Many thanks. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our answer. Become light. You are a light. Soul is a point of light. YOU ARE A SOUL. So let us begin. Your situation is fairly sensitive and it needs you to become very 'sensible' to stablise the life. So if you explain your mother in law about that you need to go to your family, if you can convince them with your extra good behavior and some smile. See this works. If they are sensible and give respect to your thoughts, then there is no reason to stop you. OK? You seem to be in a position which feels like it is suffocating you. As you cannot discuss your situation with anyone, it is the right time to make the real connection with God. He will listen to you and you can share all your problems with him. He hears you and even gives you solution, provided you are ready to listen to it. Meaning that, your mind must be silent, not in turmoil to hear what he has to say. He will start guiding you as to how you should handle this situation at home in the right way. You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Rajyog guided commentaries + music https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 3. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00