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Title: "𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚, 𝙊𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝘼𝙩𝙩𝙖𝙘𝙝𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨, 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡 𝙃𝙪𝙧𝙩"

Subtitle: 𝙻𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚝𝚝𝚊𝚌𝚑𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝, 𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚑𝚞𝚛𝚝, 𝙵𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛-𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏.

✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"

The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in August 2024.

Original Query:

How should i live without the love of my husband? We have kids and since 20 years i am living like this and suffering emotionally and physically. Please guide.

We are going to address your message in brief words, and then suggest you some useful links that can help/guide you ahead.

How can you live without something, that is always 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧 you. Yes, you may forget that you already have it. And so will you search it outside and from others.

⭐"Self Love" is not just a concept for self-pampering, but a REAL moment which, when experienced, can transform your life forever.

🍁FIRST:

"Self-Love & Detachment"

Let go of the attachments that makes you demand 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬. Instead, derive JOY from 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧 & what you are doing for yourself & for others. YOU know what you are doing, and WHY you are doing it. Remember: "Healing begins with self-love"

➕Get guidance on 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝘂𝗿𝘁 through this post👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/overcome-emotional-hurt

and

𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗔𝘁𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁

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🌱SECOND:

"𝘿𝙤 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙛𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙟𝙤𝙮. 𝘿𝙤 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙡𝙮 𝙚𝙣𝙟𝙤𝙮"

This is very important. When you enjoy your work, enjoy your choices in life--the life is enhanced! Just by 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, will you derive great joy. Practise and find out.

➕To learn this way of living, please follow our post 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗘𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 (recommended to all)

and

Must Read: 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗮 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗲

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☘️THIRD:

"𝙎𝙩𝙤𝙥 𝙊𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜"

On my recent response, this point is explained beautifully. "𝘔𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨"

🌈Outside events happens for a moment...and they 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲. But what you keep of it, by thinking about it again and again, 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭....and your heart thus feel heavy.

➕Visit our forum post 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 & 𝗪𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 to get detailed guidance on this subject.

🌻Have a moment for your-self, every day. Sit in quiet and go within.... 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 >>> In this 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 & 𝐣𝐨𝐲--now send such POSITIVE vibrations to everyone (to your husband, family, relatives, the world itself)

🌟This is called 𝗦𝗮𝗸𝗮𝘀𝗵 (𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬). LEARN this method step-wise through our SAKASH post👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/sakash-meaning-purpose-method

Doing this rightly can change your life for good.

☝️This is all from us. You are given the advise. Now please help yourself by following this advise & visit ALL given links.

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𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈...

On Godly Service,

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