In this response, we are shinning light on the spiritual wisdom understanding which, you will be able to free yourself from the unnecessary emotional attachments (to people or things) which is not serving you. And with this, a brief guidance on How to recognise the 'compulsion' created due to such emotional attachments.
Query
Om Shanti, while practising teachings, it's so happening that in order to think "it is my responsibility for whatever happens to me" I am in a way criticising myself more, judging more. Secondly, if I say it's better for me to stay away from a person or thing, then after a short time I again go back there or to the person trying to talk and mend things which may not be okay always and in most cases our value gets underrated as we do not have any decision power or value or self respect...please put light on this.
Full Response
โถ๐๐ญ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ท/๐ฆ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ด๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด, ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ช๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐ข๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ.
๐ฑGlad to learn (from your message) that you are reading the answers that i regularly post on Samadhan group. Your new question perhaps, is born out of this curiosity.
๐ผI find that the base of your query is "๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐" and this is addressed at the ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ of this message๐
๐ธThe first thing i noticed was a compulsion forced by ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ to a person. To learn ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น๐น๐, we suggest you must watch this Video (by Sadhguru) ๐
Spiritual Insight
๐ทNow, the subject in discussion is '๐๐๐จ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐' or '๐๐๐จ ๐ ๐ ๐ธ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฃ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ ๐' if we may. To which you derived that "๐ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด๐ช๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฆ, ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ" >> which is intuitively true.
๐ปBut this spiritual knowledge is not meant to make you unhappy or powerless in any way... This should empower you, as it gives all the power to YOU the soul,.. to create the life you want to experience.
โ๏ธIt is so simple and clear >> but they are human emotions which covers dust around the truth, which is otherwise very clear to the SOUL.
๐It is a human-like thinking which sposors the thoughts of judging, worrying & attachment to others as another person. Then you would constantly think of them. And this way, a new & unnecessary karmic account is created.
๐ณWhat we are explaining you, what you call teachings >> they are meant to give all the power to you-self >> you see, religions are meant to disempower you. They say "God decides everything" (which is false) >> and spirituality simply says "๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ" >> and once you hear this, you feel "THIS IS SO TRUE" >> ofcourse ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ก๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐.
โฑ What is Detachment?
๐ธ๐๐ค๐จ๐๐ฃ:
The sense of 'detachment' does not restrict you from loving โข In fact, it only widens your intellect/buddhi, your inner world. Detachment DOES NOT mean indifference (lack of concern) but it means to do the right thing without getting attached to the person (soul) or the situation. Only a detached person can get to the ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐๐ผ๐น๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป.
๐ปThe message of Geeta was such. With an example, Gita says: "Just as a tortoise, amidst a threat, finds a shelter within... a human being will find shelter in Detachment"
๐ดThis makes detachment a VIRTUE, an innate POWER of soul. Please visit and read our article on 8 powers of Soul (visit this page and read the ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐๐ฃ#๐ '๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐')
๐บThis spiritual wisdom therefore, also teach us to "๐ฟ๐๐๐ ๐ธ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐๐". Meaning: SEE THE ORIGINAL VIRTUES OF SOUL, see the TRUTH without any external/wordly glasses.
แชOแฏE & แแแชGEแฐEแT
You see both love and our sense of judgement plays independently. We love the soul for what it is: แญแแE & แชIแฏIแE... BUT, we must take the right decision at right time. This sense of judgement is independant of our love and care for that person. We should do what is RIGHT to be done for the good of the self and of the other person involved.
โค Selected Videos for You โค
๐๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ฃ: BK sister Shivani
1. Love, yet be Detached
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fsm0TlaI2gM
2. Detachment from 'expectations'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3seEVeM9lk
3. What is art of detachment?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCCx-x3vrN4
4. What is 'unconditional' love?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jteT82DHMmk
5. MASTER the art of detachment from 'people' & 'situations'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jn7iSaCxmGQ
โ๏ธPlease watch ALL 5 given videos one by one... All are helpful.
โถ๐๐ณ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐/๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ป Guide letter โค https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf (practise Affirmations every morning and before sleep and see its benefits)
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Oแ GOแชแชY SEแแฏIแE,
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