Overcome Emotional Attachment

In this response, we are puting light on the spiritual wisdom understanding which, you will be able to free yourself from the unnecessary emotional attachments to others which is not serving you. And with this, a brief guidance on How to recognise the 'compulsion' created due to such emotional attachments.

Om Shanti, while practising teachings, it's so happening that in order to think "it is my responsibility for whatever happens to me" I am in a way criticising myself more, judging more. Secondly, if I say it's better for me to stay away from a person or thing, then after a short time I again go back there or to the person trying to talk and mend things which may not be okay always and in most cases our value gets underrated as we do not have any decision power or value or self respect...please put light on this.

✶𝓐𝓭𝓶𝓲𝓷/𝓦𝓻𝓲𝓽𝓮𝓻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘢𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱.

🌱Glad to learn (from your message) that you are reading the answers that i regularly post on Samadhan group. Your new question perhaps, is born out of this curiosity.

🌼I find that the base of your query is "𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝚙𝚛𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚜𝚎 𝙳𝚎𝚝𝚊𝚌𝚑𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝" and this is addressed at the 𝚕𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚝 of this message👉

🌸The first thing i noticed was a compulsion forced by 𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚝𝚝𝚊𝚌𝚑𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 to a person. To learn 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗱 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆, we suggest you must watch this Video (by Sadhguru) 👉

Spiritual Insight

🌷Now, the subject in discussion is '𝕝𝕒𝕨 𝕠𝕗 𝕂𝕒𝕣𝕞𝕒' or '𝕝𝕒𝕨 𝕠𝕗 𝔸𝕥𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟' if we may. To which you derived that "𝘐 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘮 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦, 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦" >> which is intuitively true.

🌻But this spiritual knowledge is not meant to make you unhappy or powerless in any way... This should empower you, as it gives all the power to YOU the soul,.. to create the life you want to experience.

☘️It is so simple and clear >> but they are human emotions which covers dust around the truth, which is otherwise very clear to the SOUL.

🍀It is a human-like thinking which sposors the thoughts of judging, worrying & attachment to others as another person. Then you would constantly think of them. And this way, a new & unnecessary karmic account is created.

🌳What we are explaining you, what you call teachings >> they are meant to give all the power to you-self >> you see, religions are meant to disempower you. They say "God decides everything" (which is false) >> and spirituality simply says "𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘰𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦" >> and once you hear this, you feel "THIS IS SO TRUE" >> ofcourse 𝚒 𝚊𝚖 𝚌𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚜𝚎 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚜.

✱ What is Detachment?

𝔸𝕟𝕤𝕨𝕖𝕣:

The sense of 'detachment' does not restrict you from loving • In fact, it only widens your intellect/buddhi, your inner world. Detachment DOES NOT mean indifference (lack of concern) but it means to do the right thing without getting attached to the person (soul) or the situation. Only a detached person can get to the 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗹𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

🌻The message of Geeta was such. With an example, Gita says: "Just as a tortoise, amidst a threat, finds a shelter within... a human being will find shelter in Detachment"

🌴This makes detachment a VIRTUE, an innate POWER of soul. Please visit and read our article on 8 powers of Soul (visit this page and read the 𝕡𝕠𝕨𝕖𝕣#𝟠 '𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁')

🌺This spiritual wisdom therefore, also teach us to "𝐿𝑜𝓋𝑒 𝐸𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓎𝑜𝓃𝑒 𝒜𝓈 𝒯𝒽𝑒𝓎 𝒜𝓇𝑒". Meaning: SEE THE ORIGINAL VIRTUES OF SOUL, see the TRUTH without any external/wordly glasses.

ᒪOᐯE & ᒍᑌᗪGEᗰEᑎT

You see both love and our sense of judgement plays independently. We love the soul for what it is: ᑭᑌᖇE & ᗪIᐯIᑎE... BUT, we must take the right decision at right time. This sense of judgement is independant of our love and care for that person. We should do what is RIGHT to be done for the good of the self and of the other person involved.

✤ Selected Videos for You ✤

𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕣: BK sister Shivani

1. Love, yet be Detached

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fsm0TlaI2gM

2. Detachment from 'expectations'

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3seEVeM9lk

3. What is art of detachment?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCCx-x3vrN4

4. What is 'unconditional' love?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jteT82DHMmk

☝️Please watch ALL 4 given videos one by one... All are helpful.

✶𝗔𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀/𝗦𝘄𝗮𝗺𝗮𝗮𝗻 Guide letter ➤ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf (practise Affirmations every morning and before sleep and see its benefits)

𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈..

Oᑎ GOᗪᒪY SEᖇᐯIᑕE,

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