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Title: "𝙁𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢 𝙁𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙃𝙪𝙧𝙩 & 𝙎𝙤𝙧𝙧𝙤𝙬"

Subtitle: 𝙱𝚢 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚖𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚊𝚐𝚎, 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛-𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚑𝚞𝚛𝚝 & 𝚜𝚘𝚛𝚛𝚘𝚠. "𝙲𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚕𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝"

✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"

The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in August 2024.

>>"please read till the end"<<

>>visit the 5 given links on this post<<

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🌱The essence of your query-message was "need for healing the hurt with forgiveness"

🌴In one way or another, many souls have asked for guidance on the very same issue "healing past hurt". And we have written guidance on this, which can be found on this forum post titled 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗣𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗠𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 & 𝗠𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗢𝗻 (link 1)

👉Now, please read the following with a clear vision and an open heart:

By forgiving your-self and others, you heal your own hurt. There is nothing you are giving out to the person whom you forgive, and so you are losing nothing but the hurt within. By forgiving, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟.

Second Perspective

🍀Both you and the person who hurt you in past, has 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐝 now. Both of you have grown through 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕔𝕖𝕤𝕤 𝕠𝕗 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖. We all are in this great process. And just as it happens in a process, there will be 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 and there will be 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬. Therefore, it is unfair to keep hurtful feelings for any soul who has progressed on their journye. Instead, we should send them blessings, our well-wishes, and powerful energy. This will not only heal your karmic account with them, but also empower them to heal their hurt—and thus you BOTH shall progress.

Third Perspective

🌈We are all 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬 on this stage. Our work is to make a good drama. If someone makes a mistake as an actor, you will not stop playing your role & start blaming them... Instead, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫—so that the overall drama is not spoiled. So save the beauty of world drama (This is another general perspective to life)

✶𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱—that what they did or what you did a few days, months, or years ago does NOT matter NOW. Your life is running by right now. Therefore, by holding on to hurt-feelings—you are 𝐫𝐞-𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 now what was already over many days, months or years ago.

🌸Moments of life passes by... what remains, is only a 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚙𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 of those moments saved in our memory.

🌿Everyone has different perspection (𝕡𝕠𝕚𝕟𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕧𝕚𝕖𝕨, 𝕠𝕡𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕠𝕟 & 𝕤𝕖𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕒𝕝 𝕧𝕒𝕝𝕦𝕖𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕣𝕦𝕝𝕖𝕤). What is right & wrong for YOU, may not be the same for everyone. Therefore, judge not anyone on the benchmark of your own rules. Everyone has a reason and a cause of doing what they do. We cannot see their past. So, have unlimited compassion for all regardless of who they are & wht they do—that is the best way of living.

Now moving to the second part of this article/response/post.

Now and then, you may experience hurt or pain because of some or other reason. But pause for a moment and ask—𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝗜 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻?

☝️This simple question can change your life right now & 𝐅𝐑𝐄𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠. Because "𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯, 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸 & 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴"

🌻From today—start seeing life as an '𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 & 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰' and you will see no problems, no sorrow—but only 𝕓𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕨𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣𝕤.

You may see someone as your enemy because they did something unpleasant in the past... But ultimately—no one is to be blamed for what you experience... As we have explained ahead on this group, 𝕨𝕖 𝕔𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕝𝕚𝕥𝕪.

⭐To understand this, please read 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐎𝐰𝐧 𝐓𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 (link 2)

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✱ 𝗜𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 ✱

(please visit ALL of the below links one by one to get perfect guidance ahead)

𝙎𝙚𝙚 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚'𝙨 𝙈𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨 (𝙷𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝙵𝚘𝚛𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚎 & 𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏)👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/see-within-life-s-moments

𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝘂𝗿𝘁 (spiritual+practical guidance)👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/overcome-emotional-hurt

𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗔𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 (𝙴𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚛𝚎𝚓𝚞𝚟𝚎𝚗𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐)👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/positive-approach-to-life

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