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Here is our most refined and beautiful guidance for anyone who aims to "keep a balance" between loukik (worldly life, job & responsibilities) and aloukik (spiritual life & efforts) Title: "𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡" Subtitle: 𝙶𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚊 '𝚋𝚊𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎' 𝚋/𝚠 𝚆𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚕𝚢 & 𝚂𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 { Must Read ALL } ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Nov 2024. ———————————— 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 Your question is one of the most commonly asked. Every spiritual seeker or practisioner must learn (at some point in life) to 𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 their 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 & 𝚍𝚒𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚙𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚎𝚜—with their 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚕𝚢 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚝𝚜 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚞𝚒𝚝𝚜. And they must—in order to ensure a peaceful survival. A 𝗷𝗼𝗯 provides the resources for life's maintenance. 🍀But indeed, sometimes, we do feel 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 and 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 working a job, or (in general) doing anything that does not seem to serve our spiritual path and purpose. Does this sound familiar? ☘️If you have the same question, or ever did you go through this phase in your journey—you have reached the right place... God has brought you here. This 𝚑𝚘𝚕𝚢 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎 and your fortune have placed your attention to this message. ——————————— 🪴What you are about to read, might sound familiar to our old members of 𝕊𝕒𝕞𝕒𝕕𝕙𝕒𝕟. I have written some of this in our past answers/responses. I will provide links to our posts where you can read those answers (links are given--end of this message) 🍁The 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 of this response is this message—"𝘈𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭". Reading your message, i pondered whether what title could be given to this question. It occured to me, perhaps "Balance between loukik & aloukik" or "Balance b/w spiritual & worldly life" would be accurate. But as i thought out, i was resassured—nothing could be more accurate than "All life is spiritual" Explanation Life is lived by the soul, the 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭. All our 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (world & worldy experiences) is/are sourced from within. And thus, 𝕒𝕝𝕝 𝕠𝕗 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖 𝕚𝕤 𝕤𝕡𝕚𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕦𝕒𝕝. 🌿Whether it is sitting in 'meditation' on the top of a holy mountain, or taking a 'dive' into the ocean... doing 'tapasya' for years, or living a life of 'selfless service'... raising the world consciousness, or raising children... writing 'spiritual books' or simply keeping a 'smile' on your face... touching millions of lives, or living a life os 'solitude'... I tell you this—none of what you do escapes godliness, as all of life is a '𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚌𝚎𝚜𝚜'. And the aim of this spiritual process, is 𝗴𝗼𝗱-𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻! 🌻Every day (and every moment) is bringing us closer to our ultimate purpose. You asked "how would i focus on spiritual growth" and we told you this—"𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠". Nothing stops the growth. 𝘈𝘴 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘸𝘢𝘭𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘢𝘭. 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱𝗹𝘆 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝘀𝘂𝗶𝘁𝘀 There must be a careful "balance" as you pursuit worldly things—𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙫𝙖𝙡, 𝙚𝙣𝙟𝙤𝙮𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨, 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨, 𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙮, 𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨, 𝙤𝙧 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨. 🍎Everyone knows that in order to make spiritual progress, 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 must be maintained. Since any 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 is only possible when we are here (in this world of duality)—as we have nicely explained on our posts: 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 and 𝗛𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗿𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 & 𝗚𝗼𝗱 🍇You have this 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 which probably everyone once had, including me: "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘧 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴, 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘦𝘥. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘪 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴?" 𝐖𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐲—everyone has to figure our their 'purpose' since we are all 'creator' of our own life! It is not for me or anyone to tell you WHY you should or should not do a job. But we can certainly guide your thinking. Tip: Read our post The Common Purpose of Life 🌼Here it is👉 If doing a job (working at the workplace)—you are 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙨𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙩𝙮, 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙟𝙤𝙗-𝙨𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙨𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙪𝙥 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙨𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙪𝙞𝙩... then GO ON... keep the job. It can provide you the 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 that you can use not only to pay bills and take care of your family, but also can use the money 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 in need. ——————————— ✤ 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 ✤ So money isnt bad, as most of the religions would have you believe. In fact, only by having 'enough money' can you start helping others. And mine is one good example. What if i was short of money...would i be able to give so much of my day and time to run websites, answer queries & write detailed guidance? No... it is because of the 𝕗𝕚𝕟𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕤𝕖𝕔𝕦𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕪 that i have this option open. 🌷Also—by doing these services, do i not grow myself? Indeed, in all 𝟑 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 i grow—𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙙𝙤𝙢, 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚, 𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨. Wisdom is 𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘥, experience is 𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘥, blessings are 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘥. So this job (if you may) became a 'medium' for my 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚐𝚛𝚘𝚠𝚝𝚑, and the growth of thousands of souls who read these responses (not only on our 12 WhatsApp groups, but also on our FORUM and other channels) 🪻So have you heard. 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 the message again & again till you reach complete clarity. And in this clarity will you find the 'balance' you require. And of course—by all means prefer the 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞, if at all you have to decide between the two. Recommended post: Keeping a 'Balance' b/w Loukik & Aloukik life ———————————— Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Are you facing challenges in your marriage? Here is our spiritual insight on how a relationship should be, how to protect your value & dignity; and lastly--our guidance on 'keeping the marriage and healing the relationship' at all levels. ➤Self-upliftment and empowerment begins by acknowledging your capabilities, no matter how small they may seem. Shift your focus toward solution rather than the obstacle, and reframe setbacks as "opportunities" for personal growth. Cultivate resilience by maintaining positive mindest, self-discipline, practicing self-care, and celebrating every step of progress. By approaching adversity with confidence, courage, and adaptability, we can transform difficulties into "stepping stones" toward greater strength and self-mastery. Title: "𝙀𝙢𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝘼𝙢𝙞𝙙𝙨𝙩 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙨" Subtitle: 𝙶𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚝𝚘 '𝚐𝚛𝚘𝚠' 𝚊𝚖𝚒𝚍𝚜𝚝 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚐𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚜𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎 (𝚂𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚝𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, 𝚂𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚎𝚖𝚙𝚘𝚠𝚎𝚛𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Nov 2024. ———————————— 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝗿𝘆: 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘳, 𝘱𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 (𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘦/𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘥𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘺 (𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦) 𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦? 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘢𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘣𝘢𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘦? 𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶. Response Your question is very clear, as "how to strengthen myself in the presence of challenges" and your question is not "whether to even put yourself in the presence of those challenges" 🌴But let me first mention this and clarify your thinking—A lot wrong has been done and endured in the world, in the name of 𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧—whether an obligation at the level of a one-to-one relationship, family, village, culture, religion, or country. Whenever human beings have acted against their inner voice, went against their inner moral compass, and done things in the name of 𝘰𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯—they have hurt another, or endured pain, or started a war. (History is the witness) 🪻In order to keep a vow, 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 have done things that a 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜 person would never. Just as that—in order to keep 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕧𝕠𝕨 𝕠𝕗 𝕞𝕒𝕣𝕣𝕚𝕒𝕘𝕖, and due to 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 or 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 reliance—people come and stay in 'bad marriages' that doesn't serve themself, nor their partner. God Says: "You have no obligation to your family, country, religion, or to the world. You are not to keep your promises, if doing so harms yourself or another. And you shall always have your share of bread, and your share of life" 🍀You are not 'reliant' on any other being, for anything (even when you now think so). If you decide to 'leave' someone, 𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝—if the 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 is right, and the manner of leaving is true to your being (and not running under negative emotions). 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: You are not to victimise yourself. Do not put yourself in a negative situation, and then regret the choice. Always 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, and then 'avoid' getting into arguments. So learn the '𝚊𝚛𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚊𝚟𝚘𝚒𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐' and you will do good not only to yourself, but also relieve the other person from being hurt. 𝙏𝙞𝙥: Please visit, read & follow our beautiful guidance on 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐍𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 ———————————— PART 2 𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 '𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴' 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲 If you seek to "stay" in such a relationship—with a good HOPE that this '𝕜𝕒𝕣𝕞𝕚𝕔 𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠𝕦𝕟𝕥' will be settled one day, and you both shall live in 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐲... And also your 𝕝𝕠𝕧𝕖 & 𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕥 for each other might grow, as you go (together) through this process of '𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐' and '𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐'. Remember: God is with you in this decision. This is a 𝕓𝕣𝕒𝕧𝕖 and a 𝕙𝕠𝕝𝕪 choice. ☘️But you are choosing the difficult way. Walking this path, you must 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙚, 𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙪𝙡, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙥𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩 in every 𝚜𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 and 𝚜𝚌𝚎𝚗𝚎 of your life. You are connected to this divine platform (Samadhan), and so shall you receive beautiful insight & guidance whenever you may need. So 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚗𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛 𝚊𝚕𝚘𝚗𝚎, in any sense. 🍁For such a brave decision, you should be 'proud' of yourself, as i am now. All help shall be given, and believe it—the key to this situation is very 𝚜𝚒𝚖𝚙𝚕𝚎. I can give you that key using ONE word. It is "LOVE" 🍎You are intending to 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 this karmic account, and 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 a deep sanskar in another soul. Only '𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞' is the energy that can make this possible. It is your 𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚑𝚎𝚜, 𝚋𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 & 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 that can HEAL this spiritual bond. ———————————— 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳 Ask yourself the following questions and 'prepare' yourself from within: ➙Can i forgive them immediately & unconditionally? ➙Can i always think 'good' of them, and 'be fair' with them? ➙Can i always show kindness and patience, no matter the situation? ➙Can i never fail to see the 'spiritual purpose' of why things happen? ➙Can i keep this relationship above my personal feelings, needs & ego? ➙Can I express myself around them, completely? ☝️If the answer to ALL above 6 questions is YES, only then should you proceed ahead. And if you can do this, be 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐝 that the relationship will HEAL quickly and peacefully. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: LOVE is the only way. There is no other feeling, force, or way for this magic to happen. 𝙱𝚎 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛-𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏. Only if you truly are 'in love' with the person, should you try to protect this marriage (not for any other reason) 🌈As explained before—Do not try to stay & keep on just because you are 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭. That is not 'true love' and holding on to a person whom you do not truly love, will take away a large part of your soul, and repay you nothing but regret. 𝙏𝙞𝙥: As all human relationships are based and function around 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, it is so very important for us to first know WHAT TRUE LOVE IS. We have given beautiful explanation on the same on our post 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲? 🌷Read the above post, and see if your love is genuine. If you find it so, we welcome you to follow our detailed guidance on 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗞𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗰 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁 and 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘀𝗵 𝗮 𝗸𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗰 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 Please read both above posts one by one to get the complete guidance. ——————————— 𝙁𝙄𝙉𝘼𝙇 𝙒𝙊𝙍𝘿 Everything is said, explained and two links are given for further guidance... Please read this post again, if needed. Try and follow as per your exact situation. Visit ALL links provided in this message/posts and FOLLOW them as well. Remember: 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 '𝐒𝐚𝐤𝐚𝐬𝐡' is a large part of this "healing process" in any relationship (this is included & explained in those 2 posts on 'healing karmic account') Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔.. Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Must Read, a recommended post >> A special, in-detail guidance on handling life situations and challenges. This guidance will be useful in all life matters. ✶Admin says: If this response benefits you, please SHARE this message (page link) to your connections and those in need. The below was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan group. Skip to Content Three Suggestions Further Guidance Guidance to HEAL How to cheat Karma Divine Soul✨ You have mentioned many things... The feeling of "emptiness" and "purposeless life" is indeed the most challenging time/phase of life to pass... But now that God has connected you to the Samadhan group, take this opportunity as we welcome you to this FAMILY... "You are not alone" Three Main Suggestions 1 ➤ Develop a hobby or start doing something which keeps you busy and happy.. There could be many such things... reflect on this. May it be "house-work" "gardening" "painting" or start "work from home" 2 ➤Understand that love only means to "give" and "care" and expect nothing in return... Knowing this, you should be detached from expectations. This would light you up from this burden feeling that "i am unwanted" ✶Watch this Video ➔ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3seEVeM9lk ✨Every soul is special, unique and very much necessary for the world drama to occur perfectly. You also have some or other speciality... discover that and go towards that direction. Leave the rest to in the laps of future... 3 ➤ Refresh your mind with good and light TV programs like "Tarak Mehta" or watch a good film, a comedy film or videos (on YouTube) which keeps you happy and away from depressing thoughts... Do this always, make it a part of daily life, and become your own best friend. Whenever you feel down, try to uplift your feelings with all above mentioned points. Shortly, make GOOD USE of time, energy and internet. Further Guidance 🌱We have finally understood life as a one way film. Event after event... and you are given a set of choices. Make a choice and you proceed to that direction. In this sense, every soul's journey is unique. In simple yet finer words, it is said: "Nothing but Change is permanent" 🌻To begin > in your case, we highly recommend you to watch the Awakening with Brahma Kumaris program. Particularly, its series on "Self Management" would help/guide you in many ways... Here is the collection of all episodes of "Self-Management" series ➤ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLsc5xwFxdoFzdVvaHu2Uhw2X-k9ecVGlR Guidance to Heal It is meaningless to try to content (satisfy) everyone. You are the centre of your life, and at the end of the day, or end of this life for that matter, none of that would make sense. It is the good memories you make, the better decisions you took, the love you shared and the good karma you contribute in this world matters. And only this would add meaning to your life. FOCUS on this. 🌷My dear soul, the clouds of misery cannot stay around a knowledgeful soul. As soon as you become aware, look within, pay little attention, and begin to consciously take right decisions, the "life" as it was gifted by God will be restored. 🌱This is perhaps difficult to fully grasp at once. Take time, and here is guidance for you: 🌴Firstly, if you have any feeling similar to "anxiety" and "depression", we highly recommend you to get help through our complete Article on Healing Depression which will guide you STEP by STEP on how to be healed & recover from this low feeling & achieve a normal happy life again. ☝️If you get benefit from this, please share this to those in need... ➙ Remember that CHANGE is a function of life. Whatever came to our life, was a result of our own previous Karma. Now we again have a set of options/choices. This time, we also have "experience" or making an inaccurate/incorrect choice. Therefore, now we make better decisions. This is ofcourse, generally speaking... Right decisions only means to be conscious/aware of your deeds, your thoughts and the way you handle your close relationship. Take care only of these, and you will witness a large benefit. 🪴Today, we are sharing a great secret of life, and i want you to fully understand this: How to cheat the Law of nature? We know that ups and downs are part of life. Since no one would have made all the right choices in their past. But how do we make the most of this life? Answer: "VALUE EVERY DAY AS THE VERY FIRST DAY OF YOUR LIFE" ✱Now understand this carefully: The good way to make the most of life, is to take every single day as the most important day of your life. HOW? ✶Before Sleep ➤ Revise what you have done today and judge your choices. Forgive anyone who may have hurt you, and seek forgiveness from others whom you hurt today. ✶Next Day Morning ➤ Wake up & imagine/visualise yourself (soul) coming down to this world with a aim.. This is the aim of your life. Remember this aim. This is why you came down to this world!! Now imagine yourself entering this body.... Enjoy the process. You are just born... ☝️This is incredible fun way to remind yourself every day, the reason of your existence. The MEANING & AIM of your life... Doing this will keep you away from distractions & disturbances which may come due to your past karmic accounts and your present 'state of mind'. ✦ GOD HAS COME ✦ To learn more, please visit our Introduction page Blessings... On Godly World Service, Samadhan, Shiv Baba Services Initiative

This is our Spiritual Guidance to deal with the emotional hurts, cheating, betrayal faced by human souls who are not in 'Gyan'. "As we sow, so shall we reap" - suits best to the situation according to the Law of Karma Suffering in relationships is to settle our past karmas with them. That is: if a soul has betrayed you in this birth, most probably you both shared such a “karmic account” since past birth. This karmic account is now settled in this birth in so and so way. Understand Law of Karma You are advised to keep patience and learn online RAJYOG MEDITATION (7 day's course). Demonstrate the 'Power to Face and to Tolerate' and seek an apology from the souls that betrayed you and had hurt you. See 8 powers of soul 🌴 Selected Videos for You 🌴 1. Heal yourself to forgive people (BK Shivani -> Hindi)➤ https://youtu.be/OH_1YTm5J4M 2. Forgive and Forget (BK Jayanti -> Hindi)➤ https://youtu.be/n4OSXVcgWlo 3. Unhappiness is the result of our own deeds (BK Suraj Bhai -> Hindi)➤ https://youtu.be/TbtnrHpsSxQ 4. Guided meditation for karmic settlement (BK Rahul -> Hindi)➤ https://youtu.be/a8aWtA0PgJU 5. How does forgiveness work? (BK Shivani -> Hindi)➤ https://youtu.be/W0ExNx0qzXQ ☝️Please watch all above videos one by one. Blessing… On Godly Service, Samadhan, The Shiv Baba Services Initiative

This is our Spiritual Guidance on helping people having 'difficult behaviour' overcome their weakness. Clarification: Narcissistic personality is nothing but a desire/expectation of excessive admiration, attention and being self centred. This comes into behaviour only when you constantly become an object of ridicule from people/souls close in your relationship circle. This leaves such impressions on soul with course of time. Understand, that we ourselves are responsible for this behaviour of theirs and they need our help. If not taken care conservatively, it may lead to a Personality Disorder. Now, coming down to "How to deal with it?" It is honestly not difficult to deal, but requires patience and time with a little love and acceptance. Sanskars can be changed. Recognise and exercise our original nature, our innate powers > 'Power of Tolerance' and 'Power of Acceptance'... Practice these virtues or say powers in every relationship. Send blessings... and have good feelings for that soul and help him/her to overcome this weakness. Learn > 8 Powers of Soul and 7 original Virtues of Soul -------------------------------------------------------------- ★ Selected Videos for You ★ (Speakers: BK Shivani & BK Shilpa > Hindi & English) 1. How to change someone you love 👉🏻 https://youtu.be/0p5pVXZ2iz8 2. How to accept people 👉🏻 https://youtu.be/UIHIuPNi0YA 3. Get work done with patience 👉🏻 https://youtu.be/Pn6X2lnvMd0 4. Tolerance and change 👉🏻 https://youtu.be/wa1ko97lyzg Watch the above 4 videos one by one for further guidance. Blessings... On Godly Service, Samadhan, The Shiv Baba Services Initiative

There are many newcomers who wish to properly know the process or precedure to get "surrendered" in the Yagya and become a Brahma Kumari/Kumar and live permanently at a centre. The 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 of this should be pure and elevated. Living in God's home would be a great responsibility and one is required to follow the 𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚙𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚌𝚒𝚙𝚕𝚎𝚜 and 𝙱𝚊𝚋𝚊'𝚜 𝚜𝚑𝚛𝚒𝚖𝚊𝚝 completely. Skip to 3 Steps or Skip to Rules & Shrimat 🌻Your intention should be greater than merely getting to live at a BK centre >> Your intention should be to get this spiritual knowledge, connect to God, enhance your life, and to service others >> Now the following is our complete guidance with STEPS for anyone who wish to surrender & live permanently at our BK RajYog center. Steps to Surrender The following are the three categorised steps, following which, you will become a BK (Brahma Kumar/Kumari) and shall be able to be permanently surrender to the Yagya. STEP 1 It is advised for everyone to first take the RajYog 7 days course 'online' or by visiting your local BK centre. Then after, stay connected to your local BK centre (RajYog Sewa Kendra) and study/read/listen to Baba's Murli regularly... A minimum of 6 months of daily studying Murli should be given to properly understand all points of Gyaan. Only after that you should think of “surrendering to the Yagya” 🌷Everything is mentioned and explanied in-detail on our official guidelines page: How to Join Us STEP 2 After taking this our introductory RajYog course & becoming a "godly student" > you can approach your regional BK centre and ask the incharge sister to give you the 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕔𝕖𝕤𝕤 & 𝕣𝕖𝕢𝕦𝕚𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕤 to be followed in order to surrender (stay) at that centre. To get fully surrendered (to live at a BK centre), you must complete at least 6 months in Gyan and get a signed permission letter from your parents/family/gaurdian if you are a minor. Even otherwise, permission from family is required in most cases. Take this signed permission letter and give it to the ‘centre incharge’ of your local/regional BK centre. Ask the centre-incharge sister to guide you ahead. STEP 3 (optional) Read and sign this "𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿" & send it via email to sbsteambk@gmail.com with email subject “𝚂𝚞𝚛𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛 𝙻𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚎𝚛” OR send the letter through post to our Mount Abu HQ (or give it to your regional BK centre) The "Surrender Letter" in English ➤ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/The-Surrender-Letter-for-BK-souls.pdf (improved) or in Hindi ➤ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Surrender-Letter-to-Shiv-Baba-Hindi.pdf NOTE: Print above PDF, then sign, then Scan or take Photo & send us via email. Otherwise, print & submit it to your regional centre or directly send it to Mount Abu. ——————————— Rules & Shrimat After being accepted as a member and allowed to stay at a local BK centre by a regional authority or an incharge sister, you must follow complete "𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 (𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗯𝗮𝗰𝘆)" and other Divine Guidelines called "Shrimat" which is given directly by Shiv Baba (god) every day through the murlis. 🌱Generally, there are only 2 requirements: 1. You should have taken the 'course' & are studying the daily 'Murli' 2. You are following the 'Shrimat' (the first shrimat is "purity in life") The shrimat is simple, but one needs a clean & clear mind to understand; and WILL POWER to follow the daily routine from Amritvela (4am) to night. The first shrimat is of purity (cleanliness of body, mind & spirit) which is the base of our Brahman (BK) life. Learn about Murli 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/what-is-murli Read our Rules & Guidelines 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/post/rules-and-guidelines and Shiv Baba's 108 Shrimat article 👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/post/shiv-baba-and-bapdada-108-shrimat (to read or print) Godly Gifts Get daily sustenance through our Online Services & get all things at ONE place on Godly Resources section. 👆 Save (bookmark) these 4 links on your phone to visit any time later whenever you need. Follow the given 3 steps to fully surrender and live at a BK centre (to Join Permanently as a BK brother/sister) "𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙬" You are in our connection, and you have taken a course into 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚢 and 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐭𝐨𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐆𝐨𝐝. "𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙; 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙛𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚" "just keep going" 🌷Everything is mentioned and explanied in-detail on our official guidelines page: How to Join Us Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴

This is a beautiful guidance and spiritual wisdom given to a lady whose mother had a NDE (Near-Death-Experience) when she was hospitalised. (MUST READ: Recommended) Original Query: Doctor has declared that there’s nothing more we can do to save my mother from her Lung cancer, while my mother says “I will cure myself from my will power.” I have two questions: 1. If our Bhagya is already written by Karma and is predestined then why do we do affirmations and try to write a better future? 2. How to make peace with something so bizarre as losing your parent? Response ★ Answer of 2 ★ Answer to the second question👉 "How to make peace with something so bizarre as losing your parent?" You have written here, what was very important for me to know... Your mother herself has this intuition and she denied medications for this. You see here... This is quite the pattern which we have seen from those souls who passed through a Near Death Experience (NDE). Leaving this body, the soul can see its past-present-future all together... this the soul remembered as a form of "intuition" even after entering back in this body. Understand this clearly... Your mother's intuition may be an assurance she received from Shiv Baba, or from what the soul saw from above while in that pure state of higher consciousness. Now you be assured... If the soul has a part to play, nothing can force it to leave... Nature would make a way for her... Body would be healed. With this, also accept the fact that if it is in the welfare of the soul to leave, it would. Nothing can stop. Detach your emotions from this drama... See it with the light of knowledge. Simply remember: Whatever is destined to happen, will happen... and will happen for a GOOD cause. There is a BENEFIT in whatever happen in this Drama... so it is the wisdom of a wise soul, to ACCEPT and ENJOY the outcome of every situation. I do understand you are covered by emotions... love for your mother. But do NOT be governed by emotions! Take help from your intellect and try to remain practical is such situations. Ask yourself: Does love hold, or should it LET GO? Should I forcibly hold her to live, or let her take the decision? What does true LOVE mean? The soul is all powerful... Body is only a "medium" for our life-experience! Take this simply as it is... Do your dharma of being a good daughter... take care of her nicely and give her all love you want to give. By all means, pray for her recovery... but do not be attached. ☝️This is our spiritual advise. Reflect on this... and do as you choose. Answer of (1) Answer to the first question: "If our Bhagya is already written by Karma and is predestined then why do we do affirmations and try to write a better future?" The Bhagya (fortune/destiny) is created by our "KARMA" and not by any affirmation. The only way therefore, to shape our future, is to change the PRESENT... This is simple. Say you want to become a doctor, than what you should do? Answer is: Learn medicine and practice it. Our karma we should careful perform... as it leads us to the destiny of the same nature. For general benefits in life, we surely recommend you to practise Swaman/Affirmation. Follow our guide letter (pdf⇗) to learn and practise affirmations. Perform actions out of love, wisdom, morality, compassion and selfless motive. This would lead you to the highest good... Of this, I am sure. Blessings... On Godly Service, Samadhan, The Shiv Baba Services Initiative

Title: "𝙁𝙞𝙭𝙚𝙙 𝘿𝙧𝙖𝙢𝙖 𝙊𝙍 𝙒𝙚 𝘾𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙍𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮?" Question: 𝘈𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘯 𝘚𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘩𝘢𝘯, 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘢𝘯 '𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨' 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘺 𝘰𝘶𝘵. 𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘧 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 (𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘦) 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘰 '𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩'. 𝘚𝘰 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘺, 𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘰𝘵𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘥𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘢 𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘺 𝘢 𝘴𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘨𝘦. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in Nov 2024. 𝗔𝗡𝗦𝗪𝗘𝗥 i see you are 'encircling' around the same point, even as you declared that you do understand. So let us take a visit again and explain in more clear terms >> First The entire point is—"𝕐𝕠𝕦 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕓𝕠𝕦𝕟𝕕 𝕓𝕪 𝕟𝕠-𝕠𝕟𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕟𝕠-𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘, 𝕓𝕦𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕚𝕔𝕖𝕤" God has given this "free-will" to every soul on Earth and in heaven. No one comes here only to experience a role in a fixed drama, but to CREATE it!... We are not just a 'part' of this drama, but the 'creator' of it. You are not only the 'actor' but also the 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐨𝐫 of this drama. 🪴No force of the universe makes you do what your soul did not 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐝. Simply because all our experience is born from the original thought of 'intention'. You are "always at choice"... in fact, when you make a choice, the universe's job is to "help you manifest it"... so the question of "drama makes me do this or that" must disappear. 𝗘𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Our every thought is a "magnet" that pulls our reality closer... the more you THINK, SPEAK, WRITE, and ACT towards a reality, the more REAL it becomes in your life. ☘️so even as we say DRAMA REPEATS, that only means "whatever choices you make NOW, is 𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐝 in your soul for eternity" (( so make better choices, for which you shall never regret, and always find harmony with them )) All there is is NOW... there is no past or future that exist somewhere out of your mind... Both past and future are 'inner experiences'. All that exist outside, is the PRESENT MOMENT... the moment in which we have 'free-will' and 'free-choice' to think, speak, do, and experience whatever we choose. 🪻if you get a 'leser thought' about someone, THINK AGAIN... 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 in your mind... house many such thoughts (for yourself & others), and you will grow 𝐚 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 & 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲 which would bear its fruit for a long time. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: "𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘳𝘮, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘶𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘴". And the farm remembers what was grown on it, for a long time. ——————————— 🍁Finally—the question of "whether we can only change a percentage of our life after taking birth"—then here is the answer to that👉 We have already explained this in greater detail when we wrote on '𝐍𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬' (NDE) through which we received this information (knowledge) on how the soul prepares its "life story" before taking the birth, in order to reach its 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞. 🌈The important part here is that—we get to choose 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 before taking the birth... BUT, the 𝚌𝚑𝚘𝚒𝚌𝚎𝚜 & 𝚍𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 we make in 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 are not necessarily inspired from the "original choice" we made before taking birth. Our daily decisons are more or less purely backed by FREE-WILL... We choose what we think will serve us, ins't it? or, do you ask God what choice to make? Most people dont... They only PRAY to god after making a choice (not before)... and God do not interfere with the 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭 of your karma. The prayer therefore, should be made 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 making the choice, before taking the first step. ☝️I think all points are now cleared through the above paragraphs.... Now, does this make home in your heart now? is it more clear. ✶For 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕚𝕟𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕞𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 & 𝕗𝕦𝕣𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕕𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤, please visit our post 𝗜𝘀 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 & 𝗗𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗮 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗲𝗱? ———————————— Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Foreword: A true friendship is grounded in trust, honesty, and genuine care, where both individuals feel seen and valued for who they truly are. It does not demand perfection but embraces imperfections of each other, while definitely offering insight, opinion, and support to each other whenever needed. A true friendship nurtures growth through understanding and empathy. In a true friendship, comfort and security allow for openness, vulnerability, and support through both highs and lows. Ultimately, it reflects the freedom to be oneself without fear of judgment, creating a bond that flourishes and strengthen over time. The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in June 2024. Query: I have a friend who is lazy and always gets late in everything. Sometimes i get agitated and speak harsh words to her. I want to know how to handle this friendship the right way. Response: 🌴Like any other relationship, the core of friendship is "love" and especially in this relationship—"unconditional love & acceptance" 🌷This is what YOU would expect from a good friend, wont you? Someone with whom you can be yourself without worrying of judgements and criticism... Won't you enjoy that kind of friendship? 🪻If you truly are a good friend > that is > if you truly love your friend, then let them (her/him) be themself (herself/himself) >> Taking time, more of less, is taking time none the less... but she would be much 'happier' and 'comfortable' in your company if you stop judging her for this little aspect of "being late". 🍀Your friendship will flourish and strengthen if you appreciate her qualities, comfort her in your presense and help her to do things quicker (instead of criticising her for being late) Essence of Friendship: "Be The Friend, As You Wish A Good Friend Of Yours To Be" Quotes on Friendship ✱𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧 "𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽" 𝐛𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬: A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you. A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. A friend is someone who makes it easy to believe in yourself. A friend is someone who knows the song of your soul, and sings it back to you when you have forgotten the words. Friendship is not about whom you have known the longest; it is about who came and never left your side. ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Being an 'introvert' means feeling energized by spending time alone or in quieter settings rather than actively seeking stimulation from large crowds or constant social interaction. Introverts often engage in reflective thinking, preferring deep, meaningful conversations over small talk. They value 'solitude' as a means of recharging their mental and emotional batteries, which helps them thrive in environments that respect personal space and privacy. Introversion: A Virtue Introversion, often misunderstood as shyness or aloofness, can be seen as a 'virtue' because it develops self-reflection and genuine understanding in relationships. Instead of scattering their energy, introverts channel their focus inward, cultivating richer inner lives and creative insight. This quality can lead to thoughtful decision-making and meaningful connections, as introverts tend to more genuine, real, and intelligent; rather than artificial and emotional. Title: "𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙑𝙞𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙚 𝙊𝙛 𝘽𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙄𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩" Subtitle: 𝙻𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗 𝚊𝚋𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚊𝚢 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚚𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚊𝚗 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚛𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚝 (𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚟𝚎𝚍) 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚘𝚗. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in June 2024. ———————————— 🌴First of all, nothing is universally good or bad. And surely 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐭 (or) be able to 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 is a "virtue" (quality) of a human being. 🍀𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝—just living alone (or being alone) does not mean you have failed in creating good relationships. Just as being around dozens of people would not mean that you are great in maintaining relationships, or that you are very virtuous (a nice person). ☘️Just as anything else in life, 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 "𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞". In fact, those who are mostly alone (or with very few close relationships) are the ones who are 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 (compared to those who are surrounded by dozens of people) 🪴The simple reason is that—"𝙒𝙚 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙬𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨" (the lesser close relationships we keep, the more we value and nurture them). Therefore, 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐑𝐄... you are this for a reason. Do Not try to be like someone else. Do Not lose your-self in the process of life... Indeed, 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙤𝙛 "𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙚 𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛". ✚To understand life & its process the deeper way, please read our post 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 ———————————— 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘁 Now we will touch the second part of your question: 🌻Being introvert must be seen as a "virtue" of any human being. Because you will find that those who are introvert have constant conversation with their "inner self" (call it the 𝚜𝚒𝚡𝚝𝚑 𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚜𝚎 or 𝙶𝚘𝚍'𝚜 𝚟𝚘𝚒𝚌𝚎) and thus 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡—they are more likely to 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫—𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁𝘀 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙚, 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙙𝙤𝙢, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙥𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚. 🌈Therefore, 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭. Do not get carried away by the false light of the world. Do not force yourself to be extrovert or be like someone else. Remember: No one has aciheved success by being or doing something that they did not want to. ———————————— ✱ 𝗨𝘀𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 ✱ We have a lot many articles and forum posts that can help & guide you. I would highly recommend you to read & follow them one by one: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀? (practical suggestions) 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗥𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀? AudioBook: 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗚𝗼𝗱 (highly recommended for advance spiritual understanding) ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Raising teenagers as they move toward selecting a career path can be both exciting and challenging—especially as they start exploring their unique interests, talents, and ambitions. Offering guidance requires a 'balance' between helping them identify genuine passions and allowing them the autonomy (freedom) to experiment and learn through trial and error. Parents can support this journey by encouraging open, judgment-free discussions about various professions, connecting them with resources and mentors, and helping them develop key soft skills like communication, critical thinking, and adaptability. Ultimately, by providing encouragement, structure, and the freedom to explore, parents can foster a supportive environment that empowers teenagers to confidently shape their future careers. Remember: Adolescents crave independence, yet still need guidance, emotional support, and a direction. Striking the right balance involves open communication, active listening, self-discipline, a loving atmosphere at home, and wisdom imparted by parents. Title: "𝙂𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘼 𝙏𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙪𝙚 𝙖 𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙧" Subtitle: 𝙳𝚎𝚝𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚎𝚍 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎, 𝚊𝚍𝚟𝚒𝚜𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚒𝚙𝚜 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚊 𝚝𝚎𝚎𝚗𝚊𝚐𝚎 𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚍 -𝚐𝚒𝚛𝚕 𝚘𝚛 𝚋𝚘𝚢 𝚝𝚘 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚞𝚎 𝚊 𝚌𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚛 𝚒𝚗 𝚂𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚜. ----read till the end---- ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" ——————————— The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2024. 🌴Firstly, along with the following detailed response >> i highly recommend you to follow our beautiful guidance post titled 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙞𝙥𝙨 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙏𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 🌷Deriving from your message—𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕒 𝕘𝕠𝕠𝕕 𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕥. You are actively engaging in your daughter's upbringing. That is very good. Having a 'positive' relationship with your children is necessary if you are to 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 them or 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 them to make better choices in life. 🍁However, you should ASK your daughter is she at all is interested in sports anymore. Interests may keep changing with new knowledge she gain & new preferences she makes in her life. ——————————— ☘️𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 is uplifting. But it is not about writing, as much as it is about "feeling" and "being". Let me explain: 🪴Writing affirmations is suggested for the beginners, as it helps them to 𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐒𝐎𝐔𝐋... even listening & watching our animated videos on these affirmations will help. 🌿But as you progress, writing will not be necessary... Now you can come into "being" in a matter of seconds... Now you can "feel" 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 within a moment. And as you do this, that is, as we become soul-conscious—we naturally connect to God, the Supreme Soul... This is what we call 𝗥𝗮𝗷𝗬𝗼𝗴 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 🌱That is the difference. Writing "I AM A PEACEFUL SOUL" is one thing, and "being" PEACEFUL is another... 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦, 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙙𝙤𝙢. 𝙎𝙀𝘾𝙊𝙉𝘿 Now we come to your question: "How can i guide/help her to focus back & have a connection with Shiv baba (the supreme soul)" 🌻The most important point is >> "𝘽𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙣 𝙚𝙭𝙖𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙" >> 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: There is no better way to teach others, than to learn & practise it perfectly. Let her see your nature changing, you becoming 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎, 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚖, 𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚎𝚏𝚞𝚕... Ask her to start "𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗" and see the benefits herself. ((we have provided you with all resources—see the end of this message)) ———————————— 🌼Now > Instead of me answering, it would be even better when YOU can find our the answer. We will tell you how: "𝙋𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙'𝙨 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙚𝙨" >> see their perspective and enter their world. You will see that she has 𝕗𝕒𝕞𝕚𝕝𝕪, 𝕤𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕠𝕝, 𝕗𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕤, 𝕙𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕜, 𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕟𝕖𝕥, 𝕤𝕠𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕞𝕖𝕕𝕚𝕒—all these are prime aspects of her life right now. 🪻Now if you were your daughter, HOW would you like your parent to help you connect to God? How would you be convinced on who God is... and what our relationship with god is? How would you like to be taught? ☝️Ask these questions to yourself, and you will get the answers. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: Sometimes, the best answer to a question—is asking a better question. 𝘾𝙊𝙉𝘾𝙇𝙐𝙎𝙄𝙊𝙉 As we observe, your daughter is still 𝐨𝐛𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭, whilst many children turns disobedient in teenage years... So you should never do anything that spoil this relationships. 𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝. Become an "example" of a good human being & your children will follow you even without you needing to teach them. Your 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚎 𝚟𝚒𝚋𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 will touch them. ———————————— ✱ 𝙇𝙄𝙉𝙆𝙎 𝙁𝙊𝙍 𝙔𝙊𝙐 ✱ Here are some useful resources for you to use: See ALL our videos on "Parenting" by sister Shivani 👉 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw4vwEuI7Q3ov6mIbEPNbb9W5YS2WIDBj "Parenting Tips" by Sandeep Maheshwari 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcw5cK9kOCU 𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗠𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝘃𝗮𝗻𝗶 in HINDI 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnT_cOq_Ba8 in ENGLISH 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgChzlOt3XI Learn 𝘼𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 (Swamaan) with our 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 👉 https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf 🍀Read again the response message and do follow the given links one by one for a complete support. NEXT >> Parenting Tips for Teenage Children ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

You might have this question in mind, after listening to or reading the gyan Murli... Baba has said in the Sakar Murlis: "The father gives you his inheritance of peace, purity, love, and happiness. Ravana gives you his inheritance of vices and sorrow". But it is important to understand what this Ravana is, and how it all happens from the copper age. Q: Who Gives Us Vices & Sorrow? The following was our written answer to the above question, posted on our WhatsApp group Samadhan (God Answers) in May 2024. Join group Ravana gives us the five vices and sorrow. ☘️Nope... that was a pull, not the answer. But that is how children are taught. Stories are made with a hero (the good side) and a villain (the bad side) > in order to give a message. Here, entity called Ravana is made up in stories to represent the "vices" and "weaknesses" present in all human beings. While Rama represents the "goodness" and "virtues" in all of us. 🌱The right answer to your question is: "ℕ𝕠 𝕠𝕟𝕖 𝕘𝕚𝕧𝕖𝕤 𝕦𝕤 𝕗𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕧𝕚𝕔𝕖𝕤 𝕠𝕣 𝕤𝕠𝕣𝕣𝕠𝕨" 👉Just as no one can give you "darkness" > because darkness does not exist >> it is merely an absence of light > where light does not reach. But darkness can be created--by restricting the flow of light. 🍁When the soul "forgets" its original nature, that it is "light" (𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕔𝕚𝕠𝕦𝕤𝕟𝕖𝕤𝕤)... and falsely identifies itself as the physical body (matter) which is visible outside > it is just like restricting that light. This creates the seed of all illusion (Maya). Body-consciousness is the root of all vices. 🪻The light of the soul is the virtues of 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐣𝐨𝐲. When we do not act with these original virtues, we create 𝚜𝚙𝚊𝚌𝚎 for darkness to exist (as an absence of this light) 🪴This darkness is what we call vices (absence of virtues). We allow these mainly 5 vices (anger, lust, greed, ego, attachment) to make home in our mind when we forget our true identity >> 𝔽𝕠𝕣 𝕖𝕩𝕒𝕞𝕡𝕝𝕖: Unless you forget that "𝚒 𝚊𝚖 𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚎" > you cannot experience what anger is. 🌿Therefore, a good way to not experience sorrow >> is by not acting under these vices. ★HOW? Answer: By having a constant "remembrance" of WHO AM I and with experiencing this soul-conscious stage. As long as you remain in this stage, Maya (the vices) cannot enter your mind. For this reason affirmations (swamaan abhyas) is very helpful. This practise keeps us in the "𝚊𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜" of being the SOUL and also aware of the virtues (𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚢, 𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚎, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚓𝚘𝚢). 🍎Good... so we have explained this in simplest terms so a child can understand. There are broader concepts to understand, so i ask the members of this group to always read all of my responses (they are meant for everyone) NOTE If you have any more such questions, or you need help & guidance on a 'personal' issue--please 'search' on this forum to find posts (our responses), or use our free get help form. ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)