This is a beautiful guidance and spiritual wisdom given to a lady whose mother had a NDE (Near-Death-Experience) when she was hospitalised.(MUST READ: Recommended)
Doctor has declared that there’s nothing more we can do to save my mother from her Lung cancer, while my mother says “I will cure myself from my will power.”
I have two questions:
1. If our Bhagya is already written by Karma and is predestined then why do we do affirmations and try to write a better future?
2. How to make peace with something so bizarre as losing your parent?
★ Answer of 2 ★
Answer to the second question👉 "How to make peace with something so bizarre as losing your parent?"
You have written here, what was very important for me to know... Your mother herself has this intuition and she denied medications for this.
You see here... This is quite the pattern which we have seen from those souls who passed through a Near Death Experience (NDE). Leaving this body, the soul can see its past-present-future all together... this the soul remembered as a form of "intuition" even after entering back in this body.
Understand this clearly... Your mother's intuition may be an assurance she received from Shiv Baba, or from what the soul saw from above while in that pure state of higher consciousness.
Now you be assured... If the soul has a part to play, nothing can force it to leave... Nature would make a way for her... Body would be healed.
With this, also accept the fact that if it is in the welfare of the soul to leave, it would. Nothing can stop.
Detach your emotions from this drama... See it with the light of knowledge.
Simply remember:Whatever is destined to happen, will happen... and will happen for a GOOD cause.
There is a BENEFIT in whatever happen in this Drama... so it is the wisdom of a wise soul, to ACCEPT and ENJOY the outcome of every situation.
I do understand you are covered by emotions... love for your mother. But do NOT be governed by emotions! Take help from your intellect and try to remain practical is such situations.
Ask yourself: Does love hold, or should it LET GO? Should I forcibly hold her to live, or let her take the decision? What does true LOVE mean?
The soul is all powerful... Body is only a "medium" for our life-experience! Take this simply as it is... Do your dharma of being a good daughter... take care of her nicely and give her all love you want to give.
By all means, pray for her recovery... but do not be attached.
☝️This is our spiritual advise. Reflect on this... and do as you choose.
Answer of (1)
Answer to the first question: "If our Bhagya is already written by Karma and is predestined then why do we do affirmations and try to write a better future?"
The Bhagya (fortune/destiny) is created by our "KARMA" and not by any affirmation. The only way therefore, to shape our future, is to change the PRESENT... This is simple. Say you want to become a doctor, than what you should do? Answer is: Learn medicine and practice it. Our karma we should careful perform... as it leads us to the destiny of the same nature.
For general benefits in life, we surely recommend you to practise Swaman/Affirmation. Follow our guide letter(pdf⇗) to learn and practise affirmations.
Perform actions out of love, wisdom, morality, compassion and selfless motive. This would lead you to the highest good... Of this, I am sure.