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Nowadays unstable love relations have become very common. This is our advise to tackle. Original Email Received I love and believed him a lot, but went wrong by doubting him. I asked him apology many a times. But he's just sticked to it n not understanding the situation why i did? what should i do? How should i resolve? He's not ready to listen anything. U am trying from 6 months. pls help. pls. Email response + Guidance To:  shweta and everyone reading From:  Prajapati BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa-Vidhalaya (Godly Spirituall University) 1. Firstly, it is highly recommended for you to attend 7 days Rajyoga course at your nearest Brahma Kumaris Center. This will answer all your questions about your relationships and help you a lot to solve everything. 7 days course online: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course 2. While and After attending the course, make it a routine to Meditate atleast twice a day.  Timing: morning between 4 am to 5 am and evening between 6:30 to 7:30 Meditation is a way to connect God (incorporeal God Shiva, sweetly called as Shiv baba. Baba means - father) Do you know? God, the supreme father of all souls has come to earth. He is your father and calling you to meet Him. He is your only companion and partner who will never leave your hand. Visit your nearest Brahma Kumaris center to know God and his divine deeds. Once you will establish a connection with God, all your questions including the true definition of love, trust , peace will be answered. And after all when you've God with you, who else you need more? It is a promise all your worries will vanish the moment you'll know God. - Related videos - 1. Attachment & detachment: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3NRMm452JbQ 2. Love in relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE * Related POSTS * a) love relationship and breakups- https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/love-relationship-and-break-up-our-guidance b) How to overcoming feelings- https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/love-relationship-and-how-to-overcome-the-feelings c) Hurt in a relationship - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/hurt-in-love-relationship Do visit all given links and watch videos. They will surely help. On Godly world service 00

ब्रह्माकुमार विजय से यह पत्र मिला जो उन्होने शिव बाबा प्रति लिखा - की आज यज्ञ में कुछ आत्माए ज्ञान, योग व धरना पर पुरुषार्थ न करके डायरेक्ट सेवा में उतर आती है। इसके लिए शिव बाबा की श्रीमत क्या है ? Original Email Received प्यारे बाबा, मेरा ब्राह्मण परिवार ऐसे होना चाहिए जिसमें बहुत कम आत्माएँ हों तो भी एकएक रत्न ब्रह्माबाप समान त्यागमूर्त,गुणमूर्त बने रहे. पाण्डव गवर्मेंट मेजारिटी दिखाने के लिए नहीं. आजकल मैं देख रहा हूँ जो ऐसे ही हो रहा है ज्ञान, योग, धारणा - यह एकदम पीछे हो गया सीधा सेवा में लग जाए.. तो Quantity बड़ा सकते लेकिन Quality ? देह अभिमान नहीं होना चाहिए - यह मैं जानता ही हूँ ,सिर्फ मेरे लिए थोडेही बाप आकर ज्ञान देते समय नहीं है - यह कारण भी हो सकता है लेकिन ऐसी सेवा करके कुछ फायदा तो नहीं है न बाबा ? Our Email Response बाबा कहते है - यह तुम्हारा परिवार है।  गर कोई आत्मा से माया के वशीभूत कोई गलती हो जाती है, तो उसे शक्ति दो और समझाओ।  आप तो बाबा के मधुर बच्चे हो, तो विशेष बच्चो को क्या करना चाहिए?? जो कमजोर है, उनको शक्ति देना - जिसने गलती की उसको सही रास्ता बताना और जो गिरे हुए है, उनका तुम सहारा बनो। बाप से सुनो क्युकी बाप बैठ सुनते है। वो ज्ञान का सागर है।  किसी भाई बेहेन पर फ़िदा कभी नहीं होना।  बच्चे अंन्त में जान जायेंगे की सेवा तो सब बाबा ने की - यहाँ होगी बाप की प्रत्यक्षता।  यह तुम्हारा अंतिम जनम है।  यही जनम अनमोल है।  अभी ही आप विशेष बच्चो का बड़ा पार्ट है।  आपको सभी आत्माओ में विशेषता देखनी और दिखानी है।  तुम्हारा केवल एक लक्ष्य है -मनुष्य से दैवी गुणों वाला देवता बनना।  तुम्हारा केवल एक विरोधी दुसमन है - माया रावण। और कोई नहीं।  बाप तुम बच्चो का संगम में साथी है ही।  याद किया और हाज़िर है।  दूसरी साथी है यह ज्ञान की मुरली।   बच्चे योग में बैठते है - शिव बाबा निराकार है, बच्चे साकार है। आत्मा अभिमानी स्थिति चाहिए।  देह अभिमान नहीं होना चाहिए - हर बात में स्वयं को आत्मा समझो - यही सहज उत्तम पुरुषार्थ है।  अच्छा  नमस्ते  00

Parents are also a teacher who teach the child the way of living. In today's time some parents do not or could not give enough time in upbringing of their children due to variety reasons. Here was such case where a girl child born in a wealthy and educated family feels if she is not loved or cared enough by her parents. Here is our guidance for upliftment. Original Email Received Hello ma'am, this is padmasna. I m highly inspired by your thoughts .I always look for your videos whenever I am trapped in any situation .To start with, I m a 24 yr old girl and I am so much trapped in my thoughts and I cannot find a conclusion. I have been staying in Delhi (India) since last 9 years but I come from Bihar... my parents stay in Bihar only. My parents were never there in a needful time. Neither physically nor emotionally... like not even 4 words of generosity on phone. Not understanding is one thing but they don't even try to understand the problems I face... infact it feels like they r not interested. They just want to give money nd escape all other responsibilities of being a parent. Sometimes I also feel pichle janam ke karm honge... I will be really grateful to u if u guide my thoughts and give it the right direction. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Asker & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Good morning Aapka patra mila. This is the response to your email letter received on 8 March 2019. Described your story but you didn't clarify the reason of having any problem. Yes it can be understood that every child should and must receive love and acceptance from their parents. You have written your thoughts and now you are in safe hands. Dear Divine Sister You concluded by saying that you feel ''Yeh ichle janam ke karam honge..'' Yeh satya bhi hai. Har atma me yeh andruni shakti hai - jise ''6th sense'' ya sadharan shabdo me ''atma ki aawaz'' kaha jata hai. Aap apne prasno ka javaab pehle se hi jaante ho. Yeh dekho ParamAtma ki wonderul gift hai. Kisi ko bhi puchne ki zarurat nahi. Lekin aaj aapko Sandesh jaroor denge ki aap apne Jeevan ka faisla kar sake. Kaha jana hai... Dekho jo beet gaya so beet gaya. Aaj behtar hai aur Purusharth karke aane wale kal ko aur bhi behtar banana hai. Jo bhi hua, acche ke liye hi hua. Jo bhi hota hai, vo humare pichle karma ka 'result' hi hai. Yeh universal law hai. Reference: Karma - Law & living Jab aapko apne loukik mata-pita dwara pyaar na mila, tabhi to aap sabhi atmao ke pita (Parampita ParamAtma) ke connection me aayi na. Aise hi samjho ki jo bhi hua, accha hi hua. Abhi aapko yeh Paramatam Sandesh diya ja raha hai ki ''Vo aa chuka hai, jisko sabhi manusya khoj rahe hai, prarthna karte hai..'' Vo hai humara Baap (father) - unka yeh part hai - vo aate hai vishwa me Satyug ki sthapna karne - sukh ki duniya banate hai. Phir usme koun ayenge? Vo ayenge jisne Baap ko pehchana - Those souls will come in the new world who recognised the father when he came at the end of Kaliyug. MahaBharat Geeta me bhi likha hai - ''Yada Yada Hi Dharmasya...'' Jab duniya me adharma ki pradhanta aur dharma ki glani hoti hai, tab aata hu... Sab kuch yaha nahi likh sakte. Yeh website par sab jaankari hai - About Us (Introduction): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Bhagwan humara mata-pita hai (Spiritual parent hai). Yeh Geet sune: Tu Pyaar Ka Sagar Hai To aap ab Pyaar ke sagar dwara unlimited Pyaar ka anubhav karo. Yeh humara par-loukik mata-pita hai. Bhavna se sabhi bhagwan ko yaad karte hai. BK Shivani ko aap sunte honge. ''Awakening with BrahmaKumaris'' ke sabhi episodes aapko yaha milenge -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm Audio episodes (playlist) -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes * Videos Gallery (must visit): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Mobile apps -> For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Waiting for your response. Namaste On Godly World Service 00://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us

Many feel a sense of fear of leaving parents alone while moving to new place for education or job. Here is our guidance on this. Original Email Received I feel a bit incomplete in my life. my family pays more attention to other members than me and they don't even appreciate me when I do great. I have got a job in banglore but I fear of leaving my parents alone. Should I be strong enough to land to unknown city away from home and leave my parents alone. Our Email Response + Guidance Dear Divine Sister, We understand your concern. It is advised that you and your family first take our 7 days Rajyoga Meditation course either at bk center or online. Getting the spiritual knowledge given by God, your incompleteness in your life will vanish. Everyone wants to be loved and appreciated. This is Because original sanskar of soul is love. Whenever you feel like you are not appraised enough by family members, always remember God is watching over you. And He is proud of who you are and what you are accomplishing. God is ocean of love, bliss, peace, happiness, knowledge and power. Connect to God-> Learn first: Introduction of GOD? Every child fears of leaving his parents alone. But this doesn't mean fear shall empower over us. Love towards parents should not convert into attachment. ''Love is beautiful as a flower but attachment is painful as a thorn.'' Never ever let your spiritual progress or career progress or any other progress hamper just because you fear to leave your 'Nest'. You parents will always be well off. Take a step ahead in your life. Sister, even before moving to a new place you are sending negative vibrations. Don't do that. Think of how this new place will grow you as a person. Just ponder for a second , has at anytime in your life your negative feelings turned out the way you thought? No. Life has a lot more to offer and everyday is a new beginning. Just be happy and alert for what's coming and keep God with you. You will Win. * Useful Videos for you * Overcome fear- https://youtu.be/rGUTDgszCbw Irrational fear- https://youtu.be/H3qeb5TgZL4 Freedom from fear- https://youtu.be/SB2qExLtFyw Need anything else? Contact again or use BK Google www.bkgoogle.com for more information & resources. On Godly World Service 00

Depression is caused either to due overthinking, derived from either loneliness or feeling of failure (without Hope). So here is an upliftment or encouragement given for those who are feeling 'little bit depressed'. Learning lesson from life. Original Email Received Om shanti! my name is karan bahety and i am a student. my problem in my life is no one loves me. i do everything for everyone but i dont have any friends even i am so frustrated that i shout on my family members means in anger. and i have burn marks all over body that also decrease my self confidence. so i am totally a lonely person and no one cares about me whether i die aur live. my mom and dad always fights with me. i dont reply to them but sometimes in anger i replied and then fight begins. please suggest me what to do???😔😔😔😔 Our Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother, Your email is received and read. Here is our response. Depression, loneliness, temper problems and suicidal tendencies are becoming most common mental health issues of today. Especially among the youth. This is widespread and will continue to increase in the future. But the good thing is you have identified it and reached out for help. Identification of the problem is the first step towards healing. So fret not. A person can be depressed due to many reasons, sometime we are able to identify the cause, sometimes we just cannot pinpoint and for no reason you are down in life. This is due to past life karmas. Do you know who is it that is actually feeling all those feelings? Is it the body(brain) or the soul(mind)? Let me tell you, it is the soul which is uses the sense organs to see, hear, talk, walk, feel and so on. Everything that you do is originated in the soul. Now why you are always angry and depressed is because of many many years (Births) of doing wrong karmas. Whenever you produce a thought or perform an action which goes against the basic nature of the soul, it becomes heavy. It has now reached a point where it is almost completely filled with a heaviness that you are not able to control it. At present times, our surrounding atmosphere is also filled with negativity which further weakens the soul power. This is experienced by many but surely there is help available if you accept it. Watch and understand more about what is depression, how it is caused and how to overcome it in this beautiful ''Awakening'' TV series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt552Ft9Vm_U8evbLPQf9cyq9i Do you know how we know all these things? It is God himself who revealed the secrets of the mind and the universe to us. Because we are all his sweet divine children and he is who is our father is an ocean of knowledge. His loves us unconditionally no matter who you are, what you have done in the past, how good or bad your behaviour is. He doesn’t judge us, it is we humans who judge good and bad. He only knows one thing, to love us children. So connect with him and receive pure energy of sweet love. This is going to transform your life. You will then no longer look for love outside. You will be filled with it and you will start showering it to others and then it comes back to you multifold. This is a universal law. The more you give, the more you get. Have a relationship with god -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/a-relationship-with-god-awakening-with-brahma-kumaris Now don’t be so harsh on yourself. There is a way out of your situation. It requires only small steps that needed to be taken by you. Step 1. Understand Who am I in depth. Self realisation - Day 1: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Step 2: Get up early in the morning or first thing when you get up, listen to self-affirmation (swaman) commentary -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan Step 3: Try to avoid the company of people or substances which will bring your mental energies down. Try to always eat fresh good vegetarian food, listen to uplifting music to calm you down and listen to talks that instil positivity in you. Listen to nature sounds daily to Relax and Refresh your mind -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds Video gallery (Selected most useful videos) -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos (advice) Visit your nearest Brahma Kumaris center and learn Raja Yog meditation. Centre has a spiritual atmosphere. (video) Healing through RajaYog - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUkfBB1xd4M * Related Post * Self healing -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/healing-and-transforming-the-self ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us 7 days course online -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course We invite you to know more about our spiritual organisation and the work we do. Hope it benefits you. Please let us know your progress and do not hesitate to contact us if you need more assistance/guidance. Namaste On Godfatherly service 00

Dear Brother/Sister, There have been many updates to this website and many new pages are added in About and Knowledge sections mainly. Includes: World of Peace, Maha Shivratri, Shri Krishna birth, karma, 8 powers of soul, RajYoga meditation, Videos, RajYoga music & commentaries and Biography. All above pages are added since last 2 months. Do visit them and see hthey helps and guides you to this spiritual journey. Namaste Website admin Anand

A lot of seva can be done when you represent a group of people. Read ahead to know more.. This is our guided advise. Original Email Received What is the role of a principal to bring the spirituality among the teachers and specially the students in one school? Email response + Guidance To: Somnath kundu and everyone reading From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa-Vidhalaya (Godly University) First of all Congratulations to you as a step taken to improve lives of many that too by the way of spirituality is the biggest service. Now you're at an influential position in School. You can do a lot of service... 1. You can conduct yog shivir, seminars or प्रदर्शनी (exhibition) for Rajyoga Meditation course in your school. Approach Centre for this. Know more about here -> 7 days course 2. Imbibe spirituality in daily routine of school. Consider these- after every one or two hours in school play traffic control song or a short Commentary. Guide everyone to meditate. So that student and teachers can take out 1-2 minute to refresh their minds. Above said step can also be done in daily assembly.. commentary  of 5-10 minute should be played so that everyone connect their minds to supreme..  We have been doing Morning prayers since ages but it has become a merely routine and no one really remembers God in the process.. if possible replace morning prayers with Godly Versions i.e Murli. Excerpts from daily murli should be recited so that everyone can note good points in mind and this will definitely change everyone as a person. if it is not possible to replace prayer in assembly, then murli can be done for about 5-10 minute after prayers and meditation exercises.  And morning prayers song should be replaced with more meaningful songs that are much understandable with soothing spiritual music. 3. Regular counselling session and teaching everyone Godly manners by seminars like how to purify food/water, why to remember God, how to practice soul Consciousness, spiritual activities, spiritual games.. 4. Just like we have Games period, there should be Meditation period. And in lunch period, meditation should be done to purify food and make it powerful through Commentary. 5. You must take everyone for a PICNIC to nearest Mediation Retreat centre of Brahma kumaris.. I promise it will be life changing experience for everyone. There you will get food, place to stay, everything and cost will be almost negligible as compared to worldly resorts .. Contact directly to Retreat centre or your nearby centre. Some of the BK Retreat centres in India- madhuban, the headquaters at mount abu Omshanti retreat centre, gurugram shanti sarovar 6. Show meaningful videos to kids and teachers (search YouTube for more videos) -  bal naitik shikshaye how to meditate bacho k baba *Related Post* Guidance for teachers -> http://bit.ly/2JVKwNN ADVICE: You should get connected to your nearest BK Rajyoga Centre. Search for nearby centre. Contact again to know more On Godly World Service 00

A question was asked by 'unknown' on our website's chat service box on 8 Oct 2018: 'How to be detached? How can one not be attached to their children or parents? What is meaning of detachment?' Our Response From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) To: Everyone who are reading Now your question is: Attachment and Love There is one thing - attachment to someone. Second is love. They are not same. When there is attachment, there is feeling of receiving something from others, getting their love, acceptance, support and time. One will feel as a dependent on them for happiness. Second is love. Love means to give and JUST TO GIVE. Not to accept any returns. Nor a feeling of pain when someone else is in pain. Who is a good doctor? 1. Doctor who feels pains and injury of their patient and become a patient himself. 2. Doctor who heals the pain while remaining stable. Attachment can be with many and even with non-living things. But love can only be with living BEING. That itself clarifies the difference. Love is when two beings find a feeling of being more complete when they both are together. But when separated, they will not feel pain, because they are connected from inside, in their deep feeling and thoughts. This is love and purely a love in which there is no vice or weakness. Hope your doubt is clarified. Essence: 1. Love > A natural feeling of belongingness, to sacrifice for the other, to always support and empower. Love means TO GIVE without expecting any return. 2. Attachment -> A human made feeling of possessiveness for someone (person) or something (a thing), where there is always an uncontrolled fear or happiness, or both. Attachment is when there is expecting of love from others. Understand more on this Awakening episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE (BK Shivani will explain) Now you are welcome to our website for all service: www.brahma-kumaris.com :) Do save some time for God and self realisation daily and watch this life transforming videos: This is a special gift from your Godfather (Shiv baba): RESOURCES section: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources Videos Gallery: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Search anything you want on www.bkgoogle.com (a personal search engine for BKs) Accha Namaste 00

Self transformation through focus hard work on thoughts. Help of Swamaan commentaries and RajYog guided commentaries are given. plus healing body disease with Rajyoga meditation. Original Email Received Hello sister shivani Im a 19 year old boy and Ive been facing a lots of problems in my life. Everyone in my family loves me. I have been suffering from IBS bowel disease due to which I couldnt complete my class 12 . Im from sikkim. It started from 2016 and I was so depressed and I missed my classes due to it. I failed last year and I stayed in my home for almost 2 years and I went into anxiety and I thought this will never be over. I started overthinking and everything messed up . And lately Ive been watching ur videos and Im filling up myself with a little bit of positivity. Didi Im bit confused about my thoughts and life... Diidi I will change myself. Please give me some suggestions Our Email Response Shailendra Good morning Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response and guidance. * You can do this and See the result * - Practice Swamaan - Daily wake up in the early morning. Then practice becoming Soul conscious. This has the first step to develop concentration or focus in thoughts. Create a peaceful thought. Now ready and listen the below given Swamaan commentaries and you will experience a powerful stage. How? Imagine the self as a soul shining in the centre of forehead. A tin point of divine light. Experience deeper silence (music below shall help to experience this), then further imagine that You the soul is going detached from this body. Then listen the below Swamaan commentaries on peaceful, pure, loveful and powerful soul stage. Swamaan commentaries - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 RajYog music + guided commentaries - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Healing through RajaYog - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUkfBB1xd4M Healing RajYog (English) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xJFqdal8p8 Healing RajYOg (Hindi) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztVhqbQmYrs Do watch all above given videos You can practice this Swamaan anytime in day - afternoon, evening and before sleep. Whenever get free. Try first 3 times a day for 10 to 15 minutes each. ---- Useful links ---- Need any resource? Search on our BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com Get mobile apps (android) - https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Do visit the useful links. Do use the mobile apps for more guidance. Namaste In Godly World Service 00

Title: "𝙁𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢 𝙁𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙃𝙪𝙧𝙩 & 𝙎𝙤𝙧𝙧𝙤𝙬" Subtitle: 𝙱𝚢 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚖𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚊𝚐𝚎, 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛-𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚕 𝚑𝚞𝚛𝚝 & 𝚜𝚘𝚛𝚛𝚘𝚠. "𝙲𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚕𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝" ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in August 2024. >>"please read till the end"<< >>visit the 5 given links on this post<< ——————————— 🌱The essence of your query-message was "need for healing the hurt with forgiveness" 🌴In one way or another, many souls have asked for guidance on the very same issue "healing past hurt". And we have written guidance on this, which can be found on this forum post titled 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗣𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗠𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 & 𝗠𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗢𝗻 (link 1) 👉Now, please read the following with a clear vision and an open heart: "𝙁𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖 𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙙𝙞𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙚, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙝 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙮-𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛" By forgiving your-self and others, you heal your own hurt. There is nothing you are giving out to the person whom you forgive, and so you are losing nothing but the hurt within. By forgiving, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟. Second Perspective 🍀Both you and the person who hurt you in past, has 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐝 now. Both of you have grown through 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕔𝕖𝕤𝕤 𝕠𝕗 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕖. We all are in this great process. And just as it happens in a process, there will be 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 and there will be 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬. Therefore, it is unfair to keep hurtful feelings for any soul who has progressed on their journye. Instead, we should send them blessings, our well-wishes, and powerful energy. This will not only heal your karmic account with them, but also empower them to heal their hurt—and thus you BOTH shall progress. Third Perspective 🌈We are all 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬 on this stage. Our work is to make a good drama. If someone makes a mistake as an actor, you will not stop playing your role & start blaming them... Instead, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫—so that the overall drama is not spoiled. So save the beauty of world drama (This is another general perspective to life) ✶𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱—that what they did or what you did a few days, months, or years ago does NOT matter NOW. Your life is running by right now. Therefore, by holding on to hurt-feelings—you are 𝐫𝐞-𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 now what was already over many days, months or years ago. 🌸Moments of life passes by... what remains, is only a 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚙𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 of those moments saved in our memory. 🌿Everyone has different perspection (𝕡𝕠𝕚𝕟𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕧𝕚𝕖𝕨, 𝕠𝕡𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕠𝕟 & 𝕤𝕖𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕞𝕠𝕣𝕒𝕝 𝕧𝕒𝕝𝕦𝕖𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕣𝕦𝕝𝕖𝕤). What is right & wrong for YOU, may not be the same for everyone. Therefore, judge not anyone on the benchmark of your own rules. Everyone has a reason and a cause of doing what they do. We cannot see their past. So, have unlimited compassion for all regardless of who they are & wht they do—that is the best way of living. Now moving to the second part of this article/response/post. "𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙢𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚" "𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙤𝙨" Now and then, you may experience hurt or pain because of some or other reason. But pause for a moment and ask—𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝗜 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻? ☝️This simple question can change your life right now & 𝐅𝐑𝐄𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠. Because "𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯, 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸 & 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴" 🌻From today—start seeing life as an '𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 & 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰' and you will see no problems, no sorrow—but only 𝕓𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕨𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣𝕤. "𝙉𝙤 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙢𝙮" You may see someone as your enemy because they did something unpleasant in the past... But ultimately—no one is to be blamed for what you experience... As we have explained ahead on this group, 𝕨𝕖 𝕔𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕝𝕚𝕥𝕪. ⭐To understand this, please read 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐎𝐰𝐧 𝐓𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 (link 2) ——————————— ✱ 𝗜𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 ✱ (please visit ALL of the below links one by one to get perfect guidance ahead) 𝙎𝙚𝙚 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚'𝙨 𝙈𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨 (𝙷𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝙵𝚘𝚛𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚎 & 𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏)👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/see-within-life-s-moments 𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝘂𝗿𝘁 (spiritual+practical guidance)👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/overcome-emotional-hurt 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗔𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 (𝙴𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚛𝚎𝚓𝚞𝚟𝚎𝚗𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐)👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/positive-approach-to-life ——————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... On Godly Service, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Question: Using the power to co-operate at Work place? Our Answer with Guidance: John came over to my desk. He needed a substitute teacher for the after-school training in two hours' time, as the trainer had rung in sick. I knew I was free to help, but, in my heart, there was reluctance. I could sense right now I was not filled with any spirit of co-operation and was searching for an excuse. Then I remembered my predicament last week – a flat tyre on the motorway - and the brave driver who pulled up to assist me. This quick reminder reset my thinking and I found a path of no resistance, and said a hearty, "Yes, I can be there." True co-operation comes where there is no resistance, no wishing for something different in any shape or form, where I am happy to help in whatever way I can, no matter what. I am glad I found that space. —DS

Introduction: Developing the wisdom to avoid false judgments begins with acknowledging the limit of our own perspective. By cultivating open-mindedness and empathy, we learn to question our assumptions and recognize that what appears outside may be deceptive. Practicing self-awareness, listening to what the other person has to say, keeping an unbaised view, and exploring all possible sides of the situation—are the keys to avoiding false judgements. In doing so, we promote fairness, reduce misunderstandings, and foster deeper connections. Title: "𝙊𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙁𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙚 𝙅𝙪𝙙𝙜𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨" Subtitle: 𝚁𝚎-𝚊𝚏𝚏𝚒𝚛𝚖 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖 𝚘𝚏 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎, 𝚔𝚊𝚛𝚖𝚊, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕; 𝚝𝚘 𝚋𝚎𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚎 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚓𝚞𝚍𝚐𝚎𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜, 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚒𝚜𝚘𝚗 & 𝚓𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚢 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝗿𝘆: When i see people with physical disability or deformation, judgemental thoughts come and i feel guilty and shame. How to become free from these thoughts? Response I see... yes, these thoughts naturally arise when you have freshly found this 𝕤𝕡𝕚𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕦𝕒𝕝 𝕨𝕚𝕤𝕕𝕠𝕞... Seeing people with 𝘱𝘩𝘺𝘴𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭, 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭, 𝘰𝘳 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 difficulties—judgmental thoughts like "they must have done bad karma" 🌱But is that even true? You must have learned about the universal LAW OF KARMA... but that is a small part of the 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞. All you need in order to not have such thoughts, is 𝙖 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚. ☘️You might be surprised to know—"Not all struggles of life (physical, emotional/mental, or financial) are a result of a past karma" 🪴Indeed, karma brings its own 𝐟𝐫𝐮𝐢𝐭, and karma is 'settled' at the levels of 𝘱𝘩𝘺𝘴𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 & 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩, 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴, 𝘦𝘵𝘤... But above all other laws, the soul, every soul has been given "free will" 𝚝𝚘 𝚌𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚎 𝚊 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚌𝚑𝚘𝚘𝚜𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚜. 🌼Therefore—first we must see it all in the right light >> The person with a physical disability may have 'choosen' such a life, in order to attain 𝐚 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞... Perhaps the soul wanted to experience something out of this situation, or 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗲 others by 'being an example' of perseverance, tenacious, and gratefulness towards life. They may be 'special souls' who come 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡, 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐭 𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥, 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥, 𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐬. See around. 🍁It is a little difficult to understand the "spiritual side" of life. Because we can only see the outside (out-side) and whilst the inside (in-side) remains hidden. We do see the 'imperfections' of the body, but fail to see the "perfection" of the soul. 🌈The soul, every soul, all of us, are 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙚, 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙩𝙚, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩 as we originally are. No one is above or below another. No one is more fortunate or less fortunate than another... We 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 our own life, with the god-given 'free will' and with the tools of 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙞𝙧𝙚, 𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙠𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙖. 𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗻 ➙Every soul is unique and important for the world. So, avoid comparison—𝚋𝚎 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚔𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 & 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚝 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚜𝚘𝚞𝚕 for who they are. ➙𝐅𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 and recognise your unique qualities and strengths. ➙𝐏𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 to appreciate what you have, which shifts attention away from others. Check out this guide to practising gratitude⇗ ➙Limit exposure to 'social media' or environments that trigger comparisons, and instead—engage in activities that bring you joy & fulfilment. 𝘾𝙊𝙉𝘾𝙇𝙐𝙎𝙄𝙊𝙉 🪻When you have this understanding clarity of wisdom, your heart will be 'free' from judgements, pity, and jealousy. Let the light of your soul, the light of this knowledge, 𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐣𝐨𝐲, 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧. 🌳Also remember—there is no 'sin' in thinking, but there are consequences (result).. With every thought you create and keep, you delare WHO YOU ARE... That is, you are defining YOUR-SELF with every 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 you hold, every 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝 you speak, and every 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐝 you enact. "𝙒𝙚 𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩 & 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙝𝙖𝙩𝙚, 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙨 𝙬𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙩𝙚" This is a practical wisdom of every day life. Know this, understand it deeply, and come free from false or limited judgements, negative criticism, or hate (for any reason & at any level). Consciously choose to '𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞' '𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞' and '𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐡' the goodness in yourself and in everyone, all others. 🌷The more 'goodness' you see in others, the more will you 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 them in your own nature/personality and life. Not only see the goodness and qualities in others, but 'appreciate' and 'adopt' them in your own being. ☝️Live life like this, you are helping god in creating the NEW WORLD. Also read our post titled 𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗝𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗼𝘂𝘀𝘆 Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈... Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)