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- Healing Mind with Spirituality and SwamaanIn Question Answers·28 May 2021This is our advise ( Baba's Shrimat ) to individuals with serious mental illnesses and challenges faced by the concerned family - how to overcome it and heal the mind with the practice of Swamaan. Original Message/Email on 2 January 2020 My 36 years old son is having schizophrenia for last 22 years. Can I come to your ashram along with my son for his healing and my spiritual health also. Waiting for your support. Thanks. God bless you. ----- "We at Prajapati Brahma Kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, love and power. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhylay (Godly University) Good morning Dear Divine Brother, Schizophrenia is condition in which one images somethings which are not true or real. That means - that Soul is having difficulty in having a stable connection with the brain & eyes - that why the mind imagines things which are not visible outside. NOW, such things can be easily cured if your son learns TO CONTROL the mind and to focus in present. To control and direct the thoughts is often called 'meditation'. You see 'spiritual knowledge' gives all cures - the medicine is one - a direct intellectual connection with GOD. When we connect to him, the energy of him flows in our soul. This pure divine energy solves everything... This is experienced by many! You may also bring your son to Mount Abu centre of Brahma Kumaris where he will get a divine/ positive atmosphere which itself is great. Plus, we also have our own Hospital called - Global BK Hospital where you can meet a doctor. ~~ Here is Our Advice First ~~ Your son should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5am and listen to these commentaries : FULL Playlist on Swamaan Abhyas While he listens to the guided commentaries above, he should focus the attention to the middle of forehead (The Seat of the Soul). ✿ Here is an Extra Gift For You ✿ - Watch below given videos by BK Shivani & selected Article Thoughts to Heal mind/body Create perfect Health Also Listen to Lectures by Doctor Girish Patel An Article on BE POSITIVE Please do watch the videos to get valuable guidance. Namaste, On Godly World Service, The 'Shiv Baba Service' Initiative BKGSU, Madhuban.00177
- Husband Wife and AngerIn Question Answers·28 May 2021A sister facing relationship problems with husband after 25+ years of marriage. Asks for guidance on how to give good vibrations to life partner so that they can heal the anger. This is our advice. Original Email Received Om Shanti, I have been having strained relations with my spouse for over last two months ( this is after 27 years of marriage). He is a good soul but is not ready to reconcile /does not want to reconcile, does not want to talk. I have apologized many times ( for things that I felt right at given situations and I did not mean any ill will) but he still holds anger towards me. I have been seeing and following videos by sister Shivani, BK Suraj Bhai and have been following the advice to send him the vibrations of peace and love. I have been trying but many times it hurts thinking about it and thinking about the reason why such a drastic reaction. I want him to be peaceful and happy and free from anger. How can I make myself powerful to create a positive aura and send peace to him and help him heal? Om Shanti, Our Email Response+ Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidyalaya Topic: Relationship with life partner Dear Divine Sister It is good that you have been learning from videos of Sister Shivani and BK Suraj bhai. You have mentioned that he (husband) is a good soul and yes all God’s children are good souls. But, your Spouse’s behavior changes after 27 years of marriage and he was not behaving in this way before. We advise you to follow these steps to overcome the situation. 1. First of all you must understand the Karmic pattern of Relationships. Due to our past Karmic account two souls come together to perform the role of spouse. Hence whatever we had given in the past either in the past lives or present life we do not know when it will return back to us. This is the energy exchange between two souls that we are unaware of. Watch the following video on: Relationship are an Energy Exchange of Thoughts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rY7uVY5En4U 2. You have mentioned that as per your Sanskar you find that some of the behaviors are not appropriate. But different people have different Sanskars and whatever is wrong for you may be right for him. But you should remember there is a folder of original Sankars of each soul. Try to open that folder through giving positive vibrations. For this watch this video on 5 Types of Sanskars we all carry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8v722i8WS3Q 3. You want to heal him, but when you think that you do not want to absorb any negativity from other soul, itself is a negative energy that you are sending to the other soul. Do not focus on his negative reactions. From the mind itself you need to clean that feeling. If possible sit silently and write down all his good qualities and good times that you have spent together during last 27 years, and be grateful. Do watch/listen the below videos: a) When relationship breaks (Bk Suraj bhai)- https://youtu.be/ZDPSkLITUhQ b) Thoughts create a relationship- https://youtu.be/jrHV3jW-PCk c) Cure your relationships- https://youtu.be/LucIJ6Usw4M d) Steps for a strong relationship- https://youtu.be/1CHHfwtEMr8 e) healing relationship- https://youtu.be/hWvWT3zdXa8 4. It is recommended for you to send him healing vibrations daily. Start with half or one hour daily. This is called SAKASH.. Choose an appropriate hour of day, either Amritvela(between 2 am to 5 am) or 3:30 am to 4 am is recommended or any other as per your convenience. You can also do it in evening- between 6:30 to 7:30.. You must do both in Amritvela and evening for fast results. Refer: How to Give Sakash: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/01/18/how-to-give-sakash/ (article) 21 days Yog Bhati: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/why-21-days-yog-bhatti) Follow the links on our forum (QandA) Husband and Wife -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/husband-and-wife If you have not taken any Raj Yog meditation course, Join in any of our centers nearby your area. Follow these steps. Contact again if needed. On Godly World Service 0000317
- Last So Fast, Gyan & moreIn Question Answers·28 May 2021Q: Last so fast kaise jaye? Koun From: On behalf of Godfather (Shiv baba) Divine Soul Last so fast jaane liye - accurate Shrimat par chalo. Bahut Atmae ab aati hai unka part abhi ke samay me ''vishesh'' hai. Chahe vo mansa ho, Karmana ho ya ho vacha (awaaz dwara). To aise shresth bane hue ko phir sewa' ki field milegi. Aap aisi hi ek vishesh last so fast wali atma ho na..? ''So how knowledge leads to purity and purity leads to peace and peace leads to happiness and bliss.'' Jaise murli me kaha hai - ''Ab tumhe dahi (makhan/butter) mil raha hai - arthat bana banaya hua bhojan sirf khana hai.'' Is benefit ke saath maya bhi abhi kam nahi. Full force me hai na. England is next to Bharat. Ek chote se England ne kitna bada rajya kiya.. Bharat ke baad England me hi bada 'center' hai. Yeh kyuki England se bahut sewa honi hai. Abhi plot (base/adhar ban raha hai, phir iske par building banegi. Aapko jo RESOURCES section send kiya hai, vo ek bahut badi chiz hai. Audio services hai. Selected classes, Sakar aur Avyakt murliya, aur bahut kuch. Daily use kare. Koi bhi WhatsApp group join karne liye, visit kare -> https://www.bkgoogle.com/whatsapp-group Another gift -> Revelations from Murli (advance): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations ________________ Email 2 -------------------- ''I have a question to ask- I saw briefly baapdada milan dates for 2019-20 season and for Rajasthan zone it is perhaps 15 December. I just wondered, to whom to contact to go to madhuban and serve there for Rajasthan zone. Actually I am from Jaipur and I did course from Jaipur Vaishali Nagar Center (Sushma didi and Chandrakala didi are main centre incharge and Divya did taught me 7 days course). I did my course in 2018 January. Since then I have been listening murli and doing morning and evening meditation and following guidance given in shreetmat. Should I be contacting my centre first or ??? I go to Jaipur once in a year during Christmas break so wondered if I could take advantage and do some service at madhuban during Rajasthan zone service turn.'' Our Email Response 2 Q: How to join in turn for Avyakt milan (Baba milan) in madhuban? To join this zone, you have to be a regular student from a regional centre or as you said - would have taken the 7 days course from there. You will need a permission letter from the sister in charge at that centre. They know and will guide you ahead also. To know more about this, visit https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Mount-Abu-Madhuban-Accommodation (Guidelines) One can stay for 5 days during this milan. Sewa of your choice you can do... It is shrimat for this time not to be attracted to any comforts. Shrimat is to live in loukik and stay in Yogyukt stage, do both loukik and aloukik service. Keep a balance. Balance will bring ''blessings'' of baba. So even if you go to madhuban, do keep in mind that boost in Purusharth is the reason of this visit. Madhuban is a place of blessings for those souls who are really surrendered. To forget everything and remember the truth - Shiv baba and our New world (Satyug) Revelations on New world - https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/revelations-of-coming-new-world-golden-age-by-bapdada You should have an aim for anything you do. Now that baba is calling you to madhuban, remember that you have nothing to do with outward pleasures of eyes or beautiful gardens and comforts - you are going to visit Baba's home for blessings and a boost in Purusharth. This is a sign of great soul - that always keep focus on the aim. (like Arjun) * These articles will help much in Purusharth -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Also, have you got the mobile apps: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps Our Email Response 3 How is dadi Gulzar ji's health now? Answer: It would be good. Now Baba's Avyakt part has also ended. So there is better time coming... how can people who are not in gyaan abroad watch 'God of gods' Brhamakumari movie? Answer: I am not aware of this. However if you contact your nearby BK RajYog centre, they can arrange a CD of this movie which you can watch at home. * ADVICE for You * You may also listen original clips from Avyakt Murlis here -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/avyakt-bapdada-murli and Original Sakar Murli - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sakar-murli-bapdada-madhuban Also, to understand the Gyan accurately, do listen a personal audio series - ''Soul Talk'' -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/soul-talk On Godly Service 0000157
- Daughter's Mental Issue, How to stay Stable?In Question Answers·28 May 2021A mother writes to us asking for help for her daughter who was born with autism, and is now showing hyperactivity. She also had other issues related to personal life. We guided her on How to keep mind stable while solving the problem, crossing day to day challenges. We invited her to learn RajYoga meditation and practice it daily whenever gets time. This will make mind calm, focussed and powerful to overcome any and every challenges. Original Question asked: Om shanti. I am just saddened by so many little things. I have been trying to listen constantly to videos for guidance. Distressed about my daughter's health issues , autism & hyperactivity. People around me. My friends have also let me down. They have used me. Betrayed me. Hurt me. Completely changed their behavior. I am just so fed up. I wish I was not affected by people. Can you please show me a way for peace. Response+Guidance Divine Soul, We understand that you are concerned about you daughter who is suffering from mental health issues. And you are also disturbed because certain friends of yours hurt you. And you wish to learn how to become unaffected by someone`s behavior. ➥Sister, i would ask you to immediately consult a psychiatrist for your daughter if her situation is serious. Because sometimes when brain is low on certain chemicals such disorders arise and which can be treated with medicines. And moreover along-with medicine, meditation will work great for her. Just as medicines heals our physical body, meditation heal our inner self. So we invite you to learn and practice RajYoga meditation daily. How to Heal your Daughter? ➥ Even easier practice is what we call Swamaan Abhyas (Self-respect affirmations) which is quietly the first step to RajYog meditation. We advise you to practice this in early morning as you wake up (and night, before sleeping) and then send powerful healing vibrations to your daughter, visualising her also as a soul. This works, as we have thousands of people benefitted by this practice in various ways...So keep complete faith. What is Swaman Abhyas? In Swaman Abhyas, we visualise the self (Soul) sitted in the centre of forehead (see below picture) and visualising the soul, we revise positive powerful affirmations (in mind) and thus experience them. For example: As we revise in mind "I am a Peaceful Soul", we also 'experience' the same "I am Peace" Guided: Here are our guided Swaman Abhyas commentaries (YouTube playlist) ➤ Swaman guided in Hindi ➤ Affirmations guided in English You seem to be in a better condition, but still when the mind is weak, we are easily disturbed and affected by someone`s behavior. The solution is to empower the mind. How do we do that? Answer: Mind is like a small child. It has certain needs , demands and cravings too. Now you need to take care of this child with love. Give it what it actually needs but not everything it demands or crave for. Discipline it. So next time whenever your mind is crying like a child next time tell him with love: "No my dear child, they cannot hurt me , it is me who is taking their words seriously". ➥We need to remember that if the appreciation uplifts us then criticism will destroy us. So we should not be attached to someone`s perspective about us. ➥Start meditating seriously to gain extraordinary results. Meditation is something that has overtaken this generation as a mandatory routine in the life of most of the people. It is helping the souls around the world to transform themselves into a being of Pure Love, Purity, Bliss and Power. ➥We at BhramaKumaris practice RajYoga Meditation daily and radiate the vibrations of Peace , Purity and Love for all the worldly souls. The Raj Yoga Meditation is a simple and easy to do meditation which can be practiced anywhere and anytime. It is full of spiritual wisdom about the subjects like Soul, God, Cycle of World, Secrets of self transformation etc which shall definitely help you both to transform yourselves. ✱Sharing useful links below. Please do follow all videos/links to get maximum benefit: ➤ (video) Raj Yoga Meditation (guided) by BK Sister Jayanti ➤ Raj Yoga Meditation 7 Days Course online ➤ (video) Stop getting affected by Other people (BK Shivani) ➤ (video) Empower the Mind (by BK Shivani) ★ V.useful: Guide to finish Depression Please follow all above given videos to take maximum benefit. Learn and practice RajYog and experience peace. Talk to your mind and empower yourself with powerful Swamaan (affirmations)... doing this will make you the soul powerful enough to overcome all challenges. ✱Then, we welcome you to learn about Bhrama Kumaris (ABOUT US, purpose, history) namaste On Godly Service, SBSI team00525
- Husband Wife - Healing RelationshipIn Question Answers·28 May 2021Husband was not taking financial responsibiliy and wife needs to tolerate his behavior. Which is the best way to handle the situation and save the relationship? Here is our guidance. Original Email Received Om shanti, I m vandana, n i m very confused to take right decision, even i so depressed that wanted to suicide, but i have a small 5 year baby so i m really very upset please help me. My husband is not taking responsibilty financially n everything i m doing , jb bi paise mango to bus ladayi n ulta mujhse paise lete. Bus sab kuch sehti rahu aur jiti rahu ya divorce le lu but i have a baby uska kya hoga. Please please guide me. Thank you. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Anyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Good morning Aapka patra mila. This is the response to your email letter received on 8 March 2019. Jaise aapne kaha ki aap financially independent ho, to aise acchi sthiti me bacche ke saath reh sakte hai. Lekin isse bhi accha hai ki pati ko samjhaya jaye. Parivaar ko ek saath rehna chahiye. Usually, sisters and mothers have to tolerate because of being financially dependent. Power to tolerate is needed. But it is understood that each soul is different. This power is not seen in the majority nowadays.! Hence the only solution remains is to abandon the relationship - that is divorce. Please refer to 8 powers of Soul page However, this is not the best solution. The better solution is to heal the relationship in a spiritual way. So instead make convince your husband to sit and listen to the awakening series on ''Relationship'' which is VERY beneficial for you both. Shortly saying that each and every talk guides the family relationship - How to manage, tolerate, love and transform... Awakening series on 'Relationship': http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-03.htm How to have Happy relationships (Hindi): http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-18A.htm (video) Healing Relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWvWT3zdXa8 ADVICE: Do watch the series and videos with your husband together. They will surely like the way of explanation. This is easy and will uplift both of you. However, the key is with you. Always be maturated, tolerating and accept him. Love begins with acceptance. Healing begins with loving. All Souls are unique and are loveable in God's eyes. If explained with love and wisdom, anyone can be brought to the right path. Weakness can be 'transformed' into virtues. We all have virtues and today we all are some or other weakness. So what is needed? Acceptance is needed. Helping each other, being a support and guide with a feeling of true and unconditional love. This is the direction of GOD. We also welcome you to please come and know About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us (introduction) God has come. If you are following Awakening series, you would know the task of God and our relationship with him. Please please come and know your Spiritual father who is waiting for you. Series on GOD's revelations: http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-14.htm *About GOD - Supreme Soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba Hope you are completely satisfied with this response. The main aim of this was to bring you near to God, your Spiritual father. Come now he says. Do visit and watch given 2 series and 2 videos. Do email us about your progress in 15 days * Healing Relationships (article): https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/16/healing-past-relationship-hurt/ Get & use our Mobile apps: For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Need anything? Contact us again. namaste On Godfatherly Service 0000280
- The Art of ParentingIn Question Answers·4 April 2025Introduction: Parenting is one of life’s most rewarding yet challenging journeys—requiring a balance of love, patience, and wisdom. The Art of Parenting explores how to nurture a child’s growth—not just physically, but also emotionally, spiritually & morally—while also 'growing as a parent' yourself. This detailed article-post offers simple yet meaningful 'insights' along with related links & helpful videos. The following was written for the parents of a 12-year old child, but it holds meaning and value for parents with children of any age. Title: "𝙍𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 12-𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙤𝙡𝙙" Subtitle: 𝙵𝚘𝚛 𝙴𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝙿𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝: 𝙻𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚍𝚛𝚎𝚗 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚋𝚎 𝚛𝚊𝚒𝚜𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚠𝚊𝚢. 𝙶𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚗 '𝚎𝚍𝚞𝚌𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗' & '𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚎𝚛-𝚋𝚞𝚒𝚕𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐' { A must read for EVERY parent } Index Introduction Foreword How to Raise Children Children & Education Moral, Ethical, Spiritual Teaching Honesty Helpful Videos ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱 Parenting has growing impact in this time. Since the surge of the internet & social media, the new generation of children have access to all the world's information. Having everything one click away is a great power, which, if not understood and used correctly, may easily spoil their childhood & the rest of life. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 in the present time, is to "be a role model" and "earnestly engage" with their child's life. To inspire and bring out the best in your children. This response-article is for every parent. 🍀There are several things I must point for you to remember, before we get to the main part of this response: In the present time➙ ● Children have a lot many 'distractions' ● Children are more 'sensitive' than ever ● Societal 'norms' are changing ● Children are surrounded by technology from a young age ● Schools & education system is more competitive & fruitless than ever ☝️Keep this in mind in order to fully understand 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝'𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞. They are seeing a very different world. The 𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 (age 2 to 10) is when parents are closest to their children (emotionally). Children immitate their parents. This is how they learn in the early childhood. ———————————— 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗧𝗼 𝗥𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻 We believe, and as per the traditional knowledge written in the ancient Indian texts—parents should raise their offsprings 𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐲 (with great love) in the early years (𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝟖 𝐨𝐫 𝟗)—after which they would teach them "life-lesson" and "moral values" (𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝟏𝟓)... And finally, as children become mature, parents should "befriend" them—unconditonally support & advise them as a friend, recognise their 𝚒𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚍𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚢, treat them as your 𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐬, and give them 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞. 🪻This, according to me, is the best way to raise children, no matter the time & age—First give them 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 & 𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 (till age 8), then 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐬, 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬 & 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 (the 'wisdom' that you have acquired), and finally as they learn and mature by the age of 15 or 16, 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 '𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝'. 🪴If you follow this way, you will raise 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠, 𝐚𝐝𝐚𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧 who would not only excel in education, but also in the real life. They will create meaningful, lasting relationships, and contribute 'positively' to the society. 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻 & 𝗘𝗱𝘂𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 I firmly believe, that children should be allowed (and supported) to study and pursue the subject they truly 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐞𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲 studying. This is the only way to a positive growth. Education should NOT be centred around academic performance and exams; but teaching children '𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠'... Education is not teaching "what" to think & what to remember, but "how" to think. Fostering 'curiosity' & 'creativity' is the purpose. 🍁So 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧—it is either because the subjects doesn't interest them, or it is the way of teaching. Sometimes, you may love a subject, but not your teacher's way of teaching... Therefore, as a parent, the first thing you should ask and learn from your child, is how do they to be supported, WHAT exactly interests them. It could be anything, even art or sports, as long as they are serious about it. But do advise them to consider taking one of the "main subjects" and then explain them the 𝐟𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞/𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐭𝐬 of studying it. 🍇Sit with them and have them "explore the internet" to find the possibilities with each subject. See what appeals them. 𝐄𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 '𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞' 𝐚𝐧𝐝 '𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦𝐬'. Because you know that only when we LOVE and ENJOY doing something, can we achieve success in it. Lastly, do not pressurize them to take instant decisions. Intead, 𝐥𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡, and then come to you for further guidance. This way, you can raise thoughtful and responsible children. 🌈In this way, the perfect approach is—"keeping a balance" between 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐞 & 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭, and also allowing your children 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭. Once you teach your children moral values, principles and life-skills, your role as a parent remains of providing support and guidance (not directing & controlling their life) 🌳Remember—𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 & 𝐞𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 is a good thing. Children should act like children, not adults. They are meant to 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞, 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐢𝐬𝐞, 𝐫𝐮𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐚𝐥𝐥. This is the natural way. So instead of keeping them indoors all day, do allow and 'encourage' them 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐨 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 or do any form of 𝐩𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲. But of course, also keep the 𝙗𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 (as we explained). ———————————— 𝗠𝗼𝗿𝗮𝗹, 𝗘𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 & 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗘𝗱𝘂𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 In my opinion, there is no bigger role of a parent than to 𝕔𝕦𝕝𝕥𝕚𝕧𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕧𝕒𝕝𝕦𝕖𝕤 & 𝕡𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕔𝕚𝕡𝕝𝕖𝕤 in their children. They are 'values' that define us as a human being, not our social status, education, or appearance. 🌼Moral, ethical, and spiritual principles does shape the 'character' of every child. Parents and caregivers can foster empathy and integrity 𝐛𝐲 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 in their own every day life, while encouraging children to reflect on their choices, actions & its consequences (by being an example of honesty & integrity) 🍎Parents should engage in age-appropriate 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭—explaining with the help of 𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚜, 𝚌𝚞𝚕𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜, 𝚘𝚛 𝚏𝚊𝚒𝚝𝚑-𝚋𝚊𝚜𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜. This is a practical way of imparting values & virtues in your children. 🌷Encouraging them to help you in daily work, helping community, volunteering, and acts of service—nurtures 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐟 '𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲' 𝐚𝐧𝐝 '𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧'. Perhaps most importantly—parents should practise 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, and also encourage children. Learn Mindfulness meditation⇗ Learn RajYog Meditation 𝗧𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗛𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆 Parents can inspire honesty in children by themselves being a role model of honesty and integrity. The way is— ● Create a 'welcoming space' for telling the truth without fear of judgement or criticism. ● 𝙰𝚌𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠𝚕𝚎𝚍𝚐𝚎, 𝚙𝚛𝚊𝚒𝚜𝚎 and even 𝚛𝚎𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚍 their honesty. ● Engage in 'open conversations' about the impact of dishonesty on mutual trust and relationships, showing 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 as a 'strength' rather than a burden. ● Encourage critical thinking by asking questions like, “𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘪𝘧 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶?” to foster empathy and inspire them to open up. ———————————— Helpful Videos Please watch the following 'selected' videos for you on 'parenting' guidance. ➤BK Shivani's videos on "parenting" (playlist) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw4vwEuI7Q3ov6mIbEPNbb9W5YS2WIDBj ➤Sadhguru (Jaggi V) on "parenting (playlist) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3uDtbb3OvDPSk1Cb47oi4cl8EgZL2BxL ➤3 Tips on Parenting (by Sandeep Maheshwari) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcw5cK9kOCU ➤The 'Art' of Parenting (Sandeep M) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vSZPfZ-SSdU ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹...✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)00116
- Husband cheating (affair)In Question Answers·28 May 2021Husband got found cheating and having an extramarital relationship with a colleague. Wife requests us to provide spiritual help to this so as to bring out her husband from this, to heal and to get him on the right path with the help of spirituality. Here is our detailed guidance (We advise you to read this guidance if you have a similar problem in family. This is suppose to help you in many other ways also.) Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Sister Good morning You very well explained your story and what help you expect from us. Since you emailed here, we take that you would be connected via a regional BK RajYog centre OR via 'Awakening' TV series of Sister Shivani OR via our Peace of Mind TV We do get such emails which reflects the happenings in the world. Do you know that GOD has already concluded in one line - ''Lust or body consciousness is the root cause of all evil, and thus of all your sorrow''. This I remember and realised better when read your email. The question is more accurate that since you both are married and have children. Marriage usually promotes and makes sex look natural (which is not). Our original nature (of Soul) is ''purity''. This purity sponsors 'peace', which brings 'happiness'. Thus this virtue of celibacy or purity is the mother of all other virtues. This is the origin of a good meaningful life. On the other side, even if lust is limited between husband and wife, it is still a cause of downfall (spiritual). Yes, the body feels pleasure, but the soul cries. The soul says - the other is also a Soul - we are Brothers. We both are originally pure. Some religious people feel guilty after sex. Because initially when they did Bhakti (worshipping), they felt very near to God, very divine. But after they did this, they felt caught up in bodily feelings and no longer could connect to the holiest (God). ''Purity is worshipped''. See why the Devi-Devta are worshipped in Bharat (India) - because they are pure. God explains - ''When you are pure, there is an aura of divine light around'' --- Your Question --- Your email reflects that the husband is or was really honest. But this vice of lust destroyed his virtues and brought his image down. See this is why God himself has to say - 'Become Soul consciousness. See every other as your Soul brother'. One mistake led him to a downfall, while he has so many virtues. You should not leave him for this reason. But definitely ACT and show him that you made this mistake. Now see how honest and pure you were before. Did you feel good about yourself? Ask this. You have to be very gentle and calm in your tone. This can happen to anyone today. The world is such. Internet allows all dirty things on 1 click. It is not his great mistake. But always restrict him to remain alone and put his interest in spirituality and other positive aspects of life. This is YOUR DUTY as a good wife. Isn't it? HOW TO FORGIVE? Easy. Now you know his perspective. Also now that at the end, he himself realised that it was wrong. This means -this was not intentional. Now watch given videos - Hurt in relationships - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWxhhkHWRhk Forgive and Trust again - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9p8garDIgM How to stop doubting - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9zfrJWc1d0 ( watch all 3 videos ) * Conclusion * Lust is our enemy. Greatest enemy. Your life is so good. You have no clear struggle, have a good relationship, have children, money, so why pollute the life with this sex lust?! You may find it unusual, but it is true that 80% of healthy relationships are broken because of this only. Life was peaceful & after this bodily attraction, it became unrewarding. Since you have now realised this, we welcome you to a NEW WAY OF LIVING - please read our article on Celibacy - A way of Living Purity should also be in thoughts and words. When you will follow 'celibacy' for 1 month, you will observe a clear betterment in within and outside. Remain in family life, but become Soul conscious. First you have to understand the Godly knowledge. So we welcom you to take our online 7 days course. We then welcome you to know ABOUT US (introduction) - God's creation of new world & the aim of BKWSU. Please MUST learn on page ABOUT US. If have any other question, email us. Do visit all given links. Let us know your progress after 15 days. ** Gifts ** Refresh your mind with these Nature scenes -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdpBRZ0dZhw (Add to a Playlist) and Listen our audio songs while cooking food, etc. -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/bk-songs-playlist (Bookmark) Accha On Godly World Service 0000173
- Overcome Social AnxietyIn Question Answers·9 November 2023Do you feel uneasy when surrounded by people? Do you feel nervous while speaking? Do you find it difficult to speak in public or make friends? This is the post for you. Here is our step-wise guidance on "𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙊𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙎𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝘼𝙣𝙭𝙞𝙚𝙩𝙮" ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘗𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (friends/family) 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘣𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦. 🌴Social anxiety disorder, also called 𝕤𝕠𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕡𝕙𝕠𝕓𝕚𝕒, is a long-term and overwhelming fear of social interaction or social situations. ✶𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 (about meaning, symptoms, causes & cure) on this website 👉 https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/social(https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/conditions/social-anxiety/)-anxiety/ (NHS UK) 🌈Overcoming social anxiety/phobia is a gradual process that involves 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 in social situations. The BEST method to overcome this is 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐬 with known people. Practise this with "𝚊𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜" and keep trying to continue the conversation and actually 𝕗𝕖𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕒 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 with other people. When you feel a "connection" you will gradually feel more confident. 🍎𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 (𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬) and then as you feel more 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚏𝚒𝚍𝚎𝚗𝚝, engage with a class or group of people you may be in touch. It could also be a phone conversation to begin with. What matters is that you 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 with other people. Suggestions Please follow the below written 8 suggestions that can help you overcome social phobia and make life better. 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 Recognize and understand your social anxiety. Pay attention to the situations and triggers that make you anxious. Knowing (acknowledging) is the first step of "self-tranformation" 𝗡𝗲𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 Identify and Challenge every negative or irrational thought related to social situations. Replace it with more realistic and POSITIVE one. 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘅𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗧𝗲𝗰𝗵𝗻𝗶𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀 Learn relaxation techniques such as 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 to manage anxiety when it arises. Listen to 𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚖𝚞𝚜𝚒𝚌 or a 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘺 for easier and better experience. ☁Audio Playlist: 𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙭𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙎𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙨: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/calming-relaxing-music-of-na(https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/calming-relaxing-music-of-nature-hd-sound)ture-hd-sound 𝗦𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗦𝗸𝗶𝗹𝗹𝘀 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 Improve your social skills by practicing 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘺𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘵, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 in conversations. The more confident you become in your social abilities, the less anxious you'll feel. 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗥𝗲𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀𝗲 Prepare for social situations by researching topics, making notes, creating conversation starters, and practicing what you might say. Rehearsing will boost your confidence. 𝙑𝙞𝙨𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙯𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 Use visualization techniques to imagine successful social interactions. This can boost your confidence and help you feel more prepared. 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗚𝗼𝗮𝗹𝘀 Set achievable goals for social interactions. Instead of aiming for perfection, focus on progress and small accomplishments. 𝗝𝗼𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗽𝘀 Joining a support group for individuals with social anxiety can help you connect with others who understand what you're going through and provide a sense of community. ☝️Please give importance to all above written points and see what ones YOU can follow in your life. See the good results. ———————————— 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈 & 𝑅𝑒𝑔𝒶𝓇𝒹𝓈 Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)0072
- Why Dont We Remember Past Lives?In Question Answers·24 October 2023After getting introduction to the some deep secrets of 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚢, and after learning that I AM A SOUL, a point of 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜 𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚛𝚐𝚢 who never cease to exist. When I exit from my physical body, it is called "death" and that is not an end. I then go and take another body to continue my spiritual persuit. After knowing this, many of us would have a good question: "If the soul never dies, 𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝘿𝙤𝙣𝙩 𝙒𝙚 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧 𝙋𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙇𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙨?" ★Admin: 𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘵𝘰 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸. (𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸) 🌱Before we go to explain WHY the soul does not remember its past birth/s, it is important to first understand how we come in the cycle of birth and death. 🌴We come here to experience what we are. This physical world is a platform on which we perform. We come here to play our part/role in this eternal world drama(https://www.shivbabas.org/world-drama-cycle). (much is explained on this before) 🍀Right from the first time we enter the physical universe (world) >> right from our FIRST birth, we start forming relationships & memories > and yes the soul captures all them and does remember. This is but the soul's memory. We Choose to Forget A very important conclusion we could make after hearing the experiences of Near-Death survivors, is that as we leave the body (death) and then before we take a birth with another body, we also choose to forget the memories of past lives. After bringing the understandings from NDE interviews, I learned that we choose to forget because we cannot experience life as it was meant to be, unless we forget our identity of being eternal. Source: Near Death Experiences (NDE)(https://www.shivbabas.org/post/near-death-experiences-nde) 🌳But as said, the SOUL remembers everything. Soul's memory is stored eternally. It is never lost. Now having said that, 𝚠𝚎 𝚍𝚘 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚊𝚌𝚌𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚖𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚠𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚎 𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍 >> simply because we are not 100% soul-conscious here >> the more body conscious we become, the lesser we can access the eternal memory of soul. ♾️Therefore, when the soul leaves its body, it does remember all its lives (all births) and can access all details of that eternal memory. ⭐The only method/way to achieve an access to that memory while here in this world, is that we become 100% soul-conscious >> BUT when the soul becomes perfect, it has to leave an imperfect world. 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕛𝕠𝕓 𝕚𝕤 𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕡𝕝𝕖𝕥𝕖𝕕. 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕡𝕦𝕣𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕖 𝕠𝕗 𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕚𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕝𝕕, 𝕚𝕤 𝕗𝕦𝕝𝕗𝕚𝕝𝕝𝕖𝕕. And so the soul leaves. ✱Conclusion We can not access that memory because our vibrations/frequency does not match to the vibration/frequency at which that memory is stored. 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘱𝘩𝘺𝘴𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘣𝘰𝘥𝘺, 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘷𝘪𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘥 compared to when we are without a body, limitless pure consciousness/energy. Also this world is a different dimension altogether. We souls come from our higher dimensional world, the soul world (paramdham). 🎶 In simple words >> 𝕨𝕖 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕝𝕤 𝕠𝕗 𝕋𝕍 >> at once, we can only see 1 channel. We do not access the channel whose frequency our TV cannot catch. All channels are streaming at different frequencies. 🌺This is universe's truth >> 𝒜𝓁𝓁 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝑒𝓍𝓅𝑒𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓃𝒸𝑒𝓈 𝑒𝓍𝒾𝓈𝓉 𝒶𝓁𝓁 𝒶𝓉 𝑜𝓃𝒸𝑒 > but we only experience what we tune in >> we can be HAPPY at ANY moment >> you are only 1 step away from choosing to be at peace, choosing to be happy. 🌻Nature does not allow us to remember our past life, because the DRAMA is beautifully created in this way >> 𝚠𝚎 𝚘𝚗𝚕𝚢 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝙿𝚁𝙴𝚂𝙴𝙽𝚃 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 >> the past or future cannot be experienced in the NOW moment. This is the only way LIFE can be possible. Think about this. Video: Life After Death (BK Shivani) Tip To learn more about Life After Death and about HOW the soul leaves and what happens exactly, we highly suggest you to watch the videos on this YouTube channel: The Other Side NDE(https://www.youtube.com/@TheOtherSideNDEYT) Oᑎ GOᗪᒪY SEᖇᐯIᑕE, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴0066
- Source of Money Affects Health?In Question Answers·28 May 2021'Does the source of the money I earn affect the health of me and my family members?' - A brother asks us through our contact form. This is a general question. However, in this case, we concluded that the source of money he is earning (market share investing) is pure. There was nothing that was morally wrong. Thus we give the understanding of Law of Karma and some guidance to solve the present condition. A snippet of Original Message received on 10-02-2020 I am in Share market business where I earn money by doing Trading... someone's loss is your profit. 50% of my earning or profit from share market goes to my trust. My trust works for the distribution of free medicines to poor patients in hospitals... one of my children has started getting seizure problem (epilepsy). She got 3rd episode in this month. I am now feeling guilty and unable to continue my work. --- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love and power. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance Dear Divine Brother We will also provide the exact answer to your innocent question. But also know that you yourself if think with a clear mind, will understand some secrets of Karma. FOR YOU Firstly, it is a very good task you are doing - by arranging for free medicine for poor people. This earns you many blessings... Become aware that it is God who inspires us and makes us to do good karma. You would know that mostly in our Bharat (India) people start their business in the name of God or Goddess, whichever they believe in. This is to show that he is the support of our life. YOU ALSO DO THE SAME. Continue this good work, but now in the name of ''Shiv Baba''. You may give your name, but consider that it is Shiv baba's task and you are only an instrument/medium. So you do business. It is not cheating anyone or willingly making a loss to someone. No. You are only investing your money and earning a profit. Everyone involved in 'share market' knows that they will either get a good profit or a good loss. So they take this risk. If they go in loss, it is nothing to do with your karma... We hope this is clear at first. Yes as long as you keep good relation with others and not do any cheating, this business is purely a business. For Your Child Daughter is having an illness which you think might be because of your business. No - this is not. Every soul gets the result of its own actions (karma). Your karma cannot affect anyone else. That soul (your child) also have her own past life karmic account which can cause illness. Karmic accounts has to settle in one or other way. Plus the present atmosphere lacking clean air and water also affects the body. On other hand, the food which is prepared at your home is earned by your business. That food is eaten by the family. Food must be earned with clean karma. That is - money with which you buy the food, should be earned by righteous path and to earn that money you must not damage anyone. This is the rule. One should not become greedy and not take risks in order to get more money... This simplifies our life... If your wealth is clean, the vibrations in food are pure and so good will be the health of family members. TAKE CARE OF THIS. Advise: Watch our ''Awakening with Brahma Kumaris'' episodes with your family -> ALL episodes -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm or Watch on YouTube -> https://www.youtube.com/bkshivani You will see the difference while listening/watching Awakening series. -------- This is God's creation for New world. We welcome you to learn ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us (Introduction) ------------- For your Daughter ------------- Here is our Further advice -> Your daughter should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. Namaste On Godly World Service 0000140
- About Murlis & Animal Soul WorldIn Question Answers·30 October 2023We are posting 3 questions and answers given on the Samadhan (https://www.shivbabas.org/services/samadhan-whatsapp-group)WhatsApp group, our official platform to give guidance and answers to all life's and metaphysical questions. Q1: Are daily murlis told by shivababa every day or past murlis are revised? Answer: "𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘮𝘶𝘳𝘭𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘣𝘰𝘵𝘩 𝘚𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘢𝘳 & 𝘈𝘷𝘺𝘢𝘬𝘵 𝘮𝘶𝘳𝘭𝘪𝘴" Sakar Murlis: Original murlis spoken by Shiv baba through Prajapita Brahma were recorded from January 1963 to January 1969. These versions were then written and refined over the years as Gyaan (knowledge) became more and more clear. The most refined version of those murlis are released from madhuban (Mount Abu: Main centre of BK) every month and is published on the internet and is sent to all subscribed BK centres through post or email. Gift: Listen to the original voice recordings of the Sakaar Murlis on this page.(https://www.shivbabas.org/sakar-murli-bapdada-madhuban) Avyakt Murlis: When God's physical medium (Brahma baba)(https://www.shivbabas.org/brahma-baba) reached his final stage (became Avyakt) Shiv Baba (https://www.shivbabas.org/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba)started speaking through a Kumari (unmarried or pure girl) named Hriday Mohini (now famously known as Gulzaar). Shiv Baba started speaking murli only 2 days after Brahma baba's demise. Avyakt Murlis are abundant source of raw spiritual knowledge and a greatly deep insight to human consciousness and a guide to self-transformation. Gift: Listen to the original voice recordings of Avyakt Murlis on this page.(https://www.shivbabas.org/avyakt-bapdada-murli) 🌳Learn more about murli on our official page: Gyan Murli and Shrimat(https://www.shivbabas.org/what-is-murli) Q2: Who is next chariot (rath) of Shiv Baba after dadi Gulzaar? Answer: "𝚠𝚎 𝚍𝚘 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝚢𝚎𝚝" 🌷But as time has later revealed and as the intuition says >> there must be a medium through which Shiv Baba will give his final directions, the FINAL WORD from GodFather, the Supreme Soul. This chariot, may it be any, definitely be in a male form, and will be prepared first before he is revealed. This medium is so much more important, since he will be seen not only by a small group of souls (Brahma Kumaris) but by the entire world, containing all kinds of souls, religions, and beliefs. This medium/person will be the first perfect sample as Baba told in an Avyakt murlis of 1980s. He will pass all kinds of challenges, attain the highest spiritual wisdom, and do the highest service to the world in order to prove its right on the world empire. 🌻To learn more, we suggest you to read our official page: The Advance Party(https://www.shivbabas.org/advance-party). Q3: Is there any other soul world for animal souls? Answer: "no" ☝️There is only 1 physical world where this eternal DRAMA plays... and there is only 1 SOUL WORLD, where all the souls stay/live... Souls from high vibrations and gifted with intellect/buddhi (𝕙𝕦𝕞𝕒𝕟 𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕤) to those souls without intellect (𝕒𝕟𝕚𝕞𝕒𝕝 & 𝕓𝕚𝕣𝕕) >> the only abode is p(https://www.shivbabas.org/images/paramdham-soul-world)aramdham/soul world, our SWEET HOME. On Godly Service, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴00102
- Law of Karma for Animal's SoulsIn Question Answers·28 May 2021How does an Animal soul follow the Law of Karma? How does it get decided -Happy or struggle life? -Revelation on the life of souls of animals and birds, upon how their life is lived. Question was asked by P V Laxmi on 27 Aug 2018. Original Question via Email: Why some animals get comfortable living while some have a very difficult one, for example some stray dogs r not getting food and comfort properly whereas some livs in comfortable houses , get good food and luxury .How can we judge there karmic account when they have no proper brain to think like human beings. what and how does the karmic account work in animals?. Our Answer (response) Dear Divine Sister, Your letter was received and read. Here is the explanation. Your thinking is right in terms that animal's soul is not got the property of ''Intellect'' (buddhi) to think and decide . They only do what other animals do. They grow up, eat, sleep and give birth. HOW IS LIFE of animals decided? Answer: Every soul of animal and bird, will get happiness (a good birth at a good place or enviournment) for half the lifetime and other half births in sorrow (struggle). For example, if a soul of dog have to take 2 births , then 1 birth it will have in a good place and may be somebody adopts the dog and the dog gets to live at a palace. The other birth will then be at streets, etc. The first birth is the best birth . This is universal law - for all beings. Hope your question is answered. The Law of Karma (course page) Explore About Us page to learn about Prajapita Brahma Kumari IshwairyaVishwa Vidhyalay About Us - Introduction Accha namaste 0000385
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