Realizing And Experiencing The I (Self) Within (Part 1)
We all live our lives at a fast pace, finishing one scene and entering the next one after forgetting the first scene and sometimes carrying its memories into the second one. But have we wondered or stopped to ask ourselves that our identity is what we use to perform our actions one of our professions or roles or how we look or dress up or for that matter our gender or the country or caste to which we belong? 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐦 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐭𝐰𝐨 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 – 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐈.
➤𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢.𝐞. 𝐈, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐚𝐦 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭? Very often I identify with what I am not or what I seem to be but I am not in reality. The looks and the personality as well as the education are acquired but what I am really is what I am before I learn my education and shape up into the physical characteristics that I have. So we need to train ourselves from today to start seeing ourselves in the mirror of spirituality and start observing the real I or me. This is the I that is invisible to the physical eyes but is the core of what we call ourselves – human beings. As in a coconut, the softer inner surface or the core or center is what gives us strength whereas the hard exterior is what is not eaten or is less important.
➤People who are used to the common practice of seeing in the physical mirror before starting their day are reminded of so many physical characteristics mentioned above. As a result, they forget that behind the acquired exterior is a non-visible interior that also requires cleaning up and being dressed up. This is because that is what comes into contact with people’s hearts – people whom we meet every day.
➤Also, it is the inner face that will impress people after they have temporarily been impressed by the clothes we wear and how we look. After all, it is the smile that is more important than the shirt. What use is a good-looking suit if the person wearing the suit is egoistic and jealousy-filled? Living life in the essence of the inner self is a way of reaching out to others with love and compassion and remaining contented with yourself.
(Continues tomorrow...)
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Message for Today
"A balance between assertiveness and love can bring about change in others"
Points to think about:
When we want to bring change to others, we need to speak up. But sometimes, when we don't combine this assertiveness with the right attitude, this assertiveness takes the form of disrespect.
Procedure:
When I want to help someone change, I need to be firm and kind at the same time. When balanced in this way, my words and actions have the greatest impact on others. After that, I can easily bring about the result I want.