Tolerate With Pleasure, Not With Pressure

We are living in a world of constant change and increasing stress and dealing with many people with different types of personalities who are facing different types of challenges in their lives. In such a world it’s commonly seen that people get angry and easily upset with us at times. How do we deal with such people easily and tolerate them without getting pressurized? Let’s look at 5 steps –

1 ● 𝗙𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗢𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗦𝗼𝘂𝗹 – The moment someone criticizes us, insults us, or taunts us, emerge your soul-conscious vision for them and see them as beautiful souls with beautiful original qualities and remind yourself that their anger and ego a temporary form of impurity, that was not a part of their original, pure nature.

2 ● 𝐒𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐃𝐨 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐉𝐮𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐎𝐫 𝐀𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐲𝐬𝐞 𝐓𝐨𝐨 𝐌𝐮𝐜𝐡 – The moment you face someone’s negative behaviour, tell yourself that you have surrendered all your relationships to God, and you don’t need to think about the person or situation too much. Just be connected to God experience His love and power and feel the right perception of the person and situation from Him.

3 ● 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝗔 𝗣𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁 𝗢𝗳 𝗪𝗶𝘀𝗱𝗼𝗺 & 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗜𝘁𝘀 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 – There are various points of positive self-respect in God’s wisdom, which we read or listen to. Remember any one point and don’t repeat the negative words or actions of the other person in your mind.

4 ● 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 & 𝐂𝐨-𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 – The best way to win the love, support, and cooperation of the other person is to give the same to them through your thoughts, words, and actions. Do this for some time and the other person will transform completely from negative to positive.

5 ● 𝗥𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗩𝗶𝗯𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗧𝗼 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝗜𝗻 𝗠𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 – For a few minutes every day, visualize the other soul with yourself and God in meditation and radiate vibrations of goodness and positivity which you take from God to them. This will change their consciousness bring them closer to you and help them finish their negative perception of you.