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Overcoming Jealousy with Self-Respect

This is another of our detailed response where many topics are covered within this title. We all would have struggled somewhere in life when we find it hard to know what we truly want from life. So we compare our life with others. Jealousy is a blocker of self-progress. In this post, you will learn about all this, our spiritual insight & guidanceย to overcome this weakness forever.


Title: "๐™Š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™…๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฎ ๐™—๐™ฎ ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™Ž๐™š๐™ก๐™›-๐™๐™š๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™˜๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™š๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ"


โœถ๐—”๐—ฑ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป: ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ, ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ต & ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด. ๐˜š๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ. "๐™Ž๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™Ž๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ"

โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”


๐Ÿ‡Overcoming jealousy begins with acknowledging and understanding the root causes of this feeling. It is ๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•ค๐•–๐•”๐•ฆ๐•ฃ๐•š๐•ฅ๐•š๐•–๐•ค, ๐•”๐• ๐•ž๐•ก๐•’๐•ฃ๐•š๐•ค๐• ๐•Ÿ, ๐• ๐•ฃ ๐•—๐•–๐•’๐•ฃ ๐• ๐•— ๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•’๐••๐•–๐•ข๐•ฆ๐•’๐•”๐•ช. Practice cultivating ๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐š-๐šŠ๐š ๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ๐š—๐šŽ๐šœ๐šœ and ๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐š-๐š•๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ, recognizing your own strengths, qualities, and achievements.


๐ŸShift your focus from what others have to ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ. When you feel heavy, SHARE your feelings with family or a trusted friend... This can bring ๐šŒ๐š•๐šŠ๐š›๐š’๐š๐šข and ๐šœ๐šž๐š™๐š™๐š˜๐š›๐š. Instead of feeling bad about other's progress, get "๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ข๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง" from them and do even greater in your own life.


๐ŸŒˆWe would like to tell you some truths about the "๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ" and of "๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž" and then you can help yourself to achieve the state of "๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ-๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ญ" and "๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ฒ" with all existence.


๐ŸŒณAlong with, you may also benefit from our recent post Overcoming Jealousyย and also our complete Guide to Successย (for all)



NOTES

I would like to put in notes. Read every point of wisdom with ๐šŠ๐š๐š๐šŽ๐š—๐š๐š’๐š˜๐š—ย and absorb in your ๐•ž๐•š๐•Ÿ๐••, ๐•™๐•–๐•’๐•ฃ๐•ฅ, ๐•’๐•Ÿ๐•• ๐•ค๐• ๐•ฆ๐•.


1โ— Soul is eternal and all-knowing. We are not limited to this bodily existence. We come here only to ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ & ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ. For this, we set a "purpose" for every birth we take.


โœถThis is explained deeply on our forum post ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐‹๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž & ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž


2โ— We all have ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ (virtues) and we are all loved by the spiritual fatherย (creator)... Our value does not depend on what we have achieved in this world. But rather, ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ of those with whom we spend time (moments) here in this world.


3โ— Worldly achievements does not count to the soul's real purpose... None of us is here to make worldly achievements... NO... The real purpose is always "spiritual" since the core purpose of coming to this world is ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ-๐๐ข๐ฌ๐œ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ (to learn, to experience & to re-create our-self)


4โ— Remember the second point "We All have unique qualities" >> So when you keep ๐ฃ๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฒ for someone, you are forgetting that "You are Special" and "๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฒ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฒ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด & ๐˜ข ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™ง๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™จ๐™š ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ"


5โ— Jealousy keeps us from seeing our own ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜๐˜€ (talents, virtues, qualities, capabilities) and reduce our energy... Leaving jealousy is simple >> "๐๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž, ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐ข๐š๐ญ๐ž & ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ฌ"


6โ— You are a part of "Samadhan" group for long enough to understand that "๐ฐ๐ž ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐š ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž & ๐š ๐ฃ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐ž๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž" >> and ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—น๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜๐˜€ (๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€) ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†.

(This point can be explained using MANY examples >> but rather yourself you can think deep and find that this is true for all of us...)


Yes you will see that externally, some have many ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ... and even good relationships... But, it is so because their purpose of this birth is such & their Karmic accounts are such... Yet, those who are poor are more blessed... Because they are constantly in the care of God... and they get to experience the joy of "creating"ย their own gifts rather than enjoying what was created by others.


7โ— ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป always helps to get our thoughts calm, clear, positive, and organised. We highly suggest you to learn & start practising "RajYog" (meditation) every day whenever you get time.

Learn RajYog meditationย (official guide)


๐ŸŒปFollow as much as you can... ๐‹๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ก๐ž๐š๐... Just do not stick to external situations... stay detached from thoughts... always see what YOU can do better... Have "well wishes" and "blessings" for every soul, for we all are ONE family.


โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”

๐ต๐“๐‘’๐“ˆ๐“ˆ๐’พ๐“ƒ๐‘”๐“ˆ...

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