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Raising teenagers as they move toward selecting a career path can be both exciting and challenging—especially as they start exploring their unique interests, talents, and ambitions. Offering guidance requires a 'balance' between helping them identify genuine passions and allowing them the autonomy (freedom) to experiment and learn through trial and error. Parents can support this journey by encouraging open, judgment-free discussions about various professions, connecting them with resources and mentors, and helping them develop key soft skills like communication, critical thinking, and adaptability.

Ultimately, by providing encouragement, structure, and the freedom to explore, parents can foster a supportive environment that empowers teenagers to confidently shape their future careers. Remember: Adolescents crave independence, yet still need guidance, emotional support, and a direction. Striking the right balance involves open communication, active listening, self-discipline, a loving atmosphere at home, and wisdom imparted by parents.

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"𝙂𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘼 𝙏𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙪𝙚 𝙖 𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙧"

Subtitle: 𝙳𝚎𝚝𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚎𝚍 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎, 𝚊𝚍𝚟𝚒𝚜𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚒𝚙𝚜 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚊 𝚝𝚎𝚎𝚗𝚊𝚐𝚎 𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚍 -𝚐𝚒𝚛𝚕 𝚘𝚛 𝚋𝚘𝚢 𝚝𝚘 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚞𝚎 𝚊 𝚌𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚛 𝚒𝚗 𝚂𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚜.

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✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"

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The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2024.

🌴Firstly, along with the following detailed response >> i highly recommend you to follow our beautiful guidance post titled 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙞𝙥𝙨 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙏𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝘾𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣

🌷Deriving from your message—𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕒 𝕘𝕠𝕠𝕕 𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕖𝕟𝕥. You are actively engaging in your daughter's upbringing. That is very good. Having a 'positive' relationship with your children is necessary if you are to 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 them or 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 them to make better choices in life.

🍁However, you should ASK your daughter is she at all is interested in sports anymore. Interests may keep changing with new knowledge she gain & new preferences she makes in her life.

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☘️𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 is uplifting. But it is not about writing, as much as it is about "feeling" and "being". Let me explain:

🪴Writing affirmations is suggested for the beginners, as it helps them to 𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐒𝐎𝐔𝐋... even listening & watching our animated videos on these affirmations will help.

🌿But as you progress, writing will not be necessary... Now you can come into "being" in a matter of seconds... Now you can "feel" 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 within a moment. And as you do this, that is, as we become soul-conscious—we naturally connect to God, the Supreme Soul... This is what we call 𝗥𝗮𝗷𝗬𝗼𝗴 𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻

🌱That is the difference. Writing "I AM A PEACEFUL SOUL" is one thing, and "being" PEACEFUL is another... 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦, 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙙𝙤𝙢.

Now we come to your question: "How can i guide/help her to focus back & have a connection with Shiv baba (the supreme soul)"

🌻The most important point is >> "𝘽𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙣 𝙚𝙭𝙖𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙" >> 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: There is no better way to teach others, than to learn & practise it perfectly. Let her see your nature changing, you becoming 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎, 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚖, 𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚎𝚏𝚞𝚕... Ask her to start "𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗" and see the benefits herself. ((we have provided you with all resources—see the end of this message))

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🌼Now > Instead of me answering, it would be even better when YOU can find our the answer. We will tell you how:

"𝙋𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙'𝙨 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙚𝙨" >> see their perspective and enter their world. You will see that she has 𝕗𝕒𝕞𝕚𝕝𝕪, 𝕤𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕠𝕝, 𝕗𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕤, 𝕙𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕜, 𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕟𝕖𝕥, 𝕤𝕠𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕞𝕖𝕕𝕚𝕒—all these are prime aspects of her life right now.

🪻Now if you were your daughter, HOW would you like your parent to help you connect to God? How would you be convinced on who God is... and what our relationship with god is? How would you like to be taught?

☝️Ask these questions to yourself, and you will get the answers.

𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: Sometimes, the best answer to a question—is asking a better question.

𝘾𝙊𝙉𝘾𝙇𝙐𝙎𝙄𝙊𝙉

As we observe, your daughter is still 𝐨𝐛𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭, whilst many children turns disobedient in teenage years... So you should never do anything that spoil this relationships. 𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝. Become an "example" of a good human being & your children will follow you even without you needing to teach them. Your 𝚙𝚞𝚛𝚎 𝚟𝚒𝚋𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 will touch them.

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✱ 𝙇𝙄𝙉𝙆𝙎 𝙁𝙊𝙍 𝙔𝙊𝙐 ✱

Here are some useful resources for you to use:

See ALL our videos on "Parenting" by sister Shivani 👉 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw4vwEuI7Q3ov6mIbEPNbb9W5YS2WIDBj

"Parenting Tips" by Sandeep Maheshwari 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcw5cK9kOCU

𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗠𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝘃𝗮𝗻𝗶

in HINDI 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnT_cOq_Ba8

in ENGLISH 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgChzlOt3XI

Learn 𝘼𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 (Swamaan) with our 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 👉 https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Swaman-Abhyas-Guide.pdf

🍀Read again the response message and do follow the given links one by one for a complete support.

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