Title: "๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐ก๐๐ง๐๐ฃ"
Subtitle: "๐ณ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐."
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด (๐ง๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐บ/๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด). ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in May 2024.
๐ฑSujudharan, there are only 2 main responsibilities of a parent:
to LOVE and NURTURE the child
to HELP them 'grow' with life-experience & discipline
๐ชดFor the first 5 years โgive your children unconditional love & nurture them all you want as a parent.
๐ฟFrom age 6 to 14 โslowly by slowy teach your children life-values and virtues. Give them the "essential lessons" of life--not only by your words but also by your behavior. Become an "example" for your children.
๐ทFrom age 14 and above โ"become a friend" to your children. Have regular conversations, do not judge them but offer them your valuable experience & advice whenever they ask or need.
โ๏ธThis is the right way of parenting.
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๐ชปNow, if you have not followed this and you find that your child has fallen victim to the today's atmosphere of materialsmโthen it is time to get your children back.
Practical Advice
๐Depending on how you prefer, you may have to be strict if you are to save your children from bad company of friends or the bad effects of internet. And this you can do by taking their phone or making strict rules on how much time they are allowed to spend on the internet or games.
๐Speaking of which, it is more so important to not let them play violent games. Most of their bad behavior is caused by playing such games. If they want to play for entertainment, then ask them to play nice, cognitive & sports-related games. There are many of them. Even better is to play outside. Playing outside is not only good for physical health, but more so emotional. Children develop cognitive skills as their senses are involved in the activity.
Remember: All this can be done also by "talking with them & explaining the importance of life" >> life should not be wasted like this, and there is nothing you will gain from playing those games. You will be much happier if you play outside or do something resourceful.
Being Careful
๐ป All this you explain as a parent & make sure they understand and implement. If they resist, just ask them to implement this for a few days and see how their life and their mood is enhanced. Explain them like this: "Only for a few days, you stop playing video games, and play outside, read books, listen to good music, go for evening walks, and do some exercise." Let them find out and see the good result.
โถPlease read our forum post on ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐น๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ and ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ-๐ถ๐๐๐๐ฒ
Useful Videos
See ALL our videos on "Parenting" by sister Shivani ๐ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw4vwEuI7Q3ov6mIbEPNbb9W5YS2WIDBj
"Parenting Tips" by Sandeep Maheshwari ๐ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcw5cK9kOCU
Conversation with Jaya Kishori ๐ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeB4l_UNVSo
โ๏ธPlease visit all above given links one by one.
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