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Wisdom To End the Struggle

In a world often fraught with challenges, conflicts, and uncertainties; the pursuit of wisdom emerges as a timeless beacon to navigate and ultimately end our struggles. Wisdom, far beyond mere knowledge, is the profound ability to discern truth, create hope, and make greater choices that cultivates harmony and insipires growth.


By cultivating this spiritual wisdom in daily lifeโ€”through reflection, empathy, and a commitment to learningโ€”we can transform adversity into opportunity, division into unity, and despair into hope. This journey toward wisdom is not just a personal endeavor but also a collective one, as it holds the power to heal, inspire, and guide humanity toward a more peaceful and fulfilling existence.


Title: "๐™’๐™ž๐™จ๐™™๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™€๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™Ž๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™œ๐™œ๐™ก๐™š"

Subtitle: ๐šƒ๐š‘๐šŽ ๐šœ๐š™๐š’๐š›๐š’๐š๐šž๐šŠ๐š• ๐š ๐š’๐šœ๐š๐š˜๐š– ๐š๐š˜ ๐šŽ๐š—๐š ๐šŠ๐š•๐š• ๐šข๐š˜๐šž๐š› ๐šœ๐š๐š›๐šž๐š๐š๐š•๐šŽ๐šœ ๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐š‹๐š›๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š‹๐šŠ๐šŒ๐š” ๐š™๐šŽ๐šŠ๐šŒ๐šŽ & ๐š“๐š˜๐šข

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โœถ๐—”๐—ฑ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป: ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ, ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด (๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜บ/๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด). ๐˜๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ, ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จย & ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด. "๐™Ž๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™Ž๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ"

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๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ

This is a 'general' topic. Spiritual insight, wisdom, quotes, and links shared here can guide you in overcoming various struggles of life. This wisdom is a bridge between chaos and clarity, offering not just the solution but a 'deeper understanding' of the roots of our struggles. We recommend everyone to read this response.


The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhanย WhatsApp group in Feb 2025. So please read the following in the same context.

โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”


Tanu, notice the seed of your struggle. Isn't it ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž/justify/defend your point, that you keeps you away from peace? Isn't it the ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ to your own perspective and the 'ego' that is inspiring you to fight for your defence?


๐ŸŒฑLike all of us, you want to live with peace and happiness, and wish the same for your child. I tell you thisโ€”๐™‹๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™š ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ฃ, ๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š '๐™ ๐™š๐™ฅ๐™ฉ'. Just as ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ, ๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š '๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™™'.


๐ŸŒปThe history has many episodes where battles are fought. Why?โ€”to attain peace... But ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ž is the first thing that is lost, when a battle begin. Do you see the wisdom here? Do you see that in order to bring that "peace" and "love" in your life, all you need is to BE THE SOURCE of them and KEEP THEM (not lose them).... ๐Š๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐š๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ž & peace is all that you will experience. ๐๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐œ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž, ๐ฌ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ, and you shall be surrounded by love from all direction. This is not merely wonderful words, but a truth.



Going Within


YOU ARE that source, the source of what you seek. And there is no need to struggle to make yourself clear, or, prove your point. No... In fact, notice that the very act of you trying proving your point, is what invokes anger or resistence, making the situation difficult. โœถRemember: "๐™๐™ง๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™ง๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™–๐™ก ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™› ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ก๐™š๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š, ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™–๐™ง๐™œ๐™ช๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™จ; ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š, ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™š๐™œ๐™ค"


๐ŸŒˆWhat if we simply smile at the scenes of your life... like an ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ does you know. Because the actor knows that ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐š ๐ƒ๐‘๐€๐Œ๐€.... We all are acting here... No one is my enemy, any more than i am theirs. We are all pretending! All of this is but a big world drama and ๐ฐ๐ž ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ž๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ง๐š๐ฅ, ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž, ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐›๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฌ.


I tell you this higher secret:

"๐™€๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™จ๐™˜๐™š๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™จ ๐™– '๐™œ๐™ž๐™›๐™ฉ' ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™š ๐™– ๐™œ๐™ž๐™›๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ค๐™จ๐™š ๐™–๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ง๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™˜๐™š๐™ฃ๐™š"

And now i tell and remind you of this ๐•™๐•š๐•˜๐•™๐•–๐•ค๐•ฅ ๐•ฅ๐•ฃ๐•ฆ๐•ฅ๐•™ of life, understanding which, can end all your struggles:

"๐™’๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™ง๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™จ๐™š, ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™—๐™š๐™›๐™ค๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™—๐™ž๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™"

Therefore, all happens for a reason. It has a purpose, only waiting to be discovered! Have you forgotten that ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž, in order to LEARN and GROW as a spirit. All of your life's circumstances are perfectly designed for you, and by YOU even before you came here.

Tip: This is known and derived through countless Near-Death Experiences (NDE) of people who underwent a clinical death and then came back to life, and told their story in an interview. To learn more on this, please visit our this post.


๐™’๐™ƒ๐™”?

Read this with all your attention, because this is going deep:


We have already touched this many times before. We have explained how in order to experience WHO WE ARE, ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฐ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ! (there is no hot without cold, no up without down & so on)... We are not the ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด, ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ, ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ, ๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ & ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ. But we must experience them in order to fully realise and experience the ๐™ฟ๐šŽ๐šŠ๐šŒ๐šŽ, ๐š†๐š’๐šœ๐š๐š˜๐š–, ๐™ฟ๐šž๐š›๐š’๐š๐šข, ๐™ป๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ, ๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐™ฑ๐š•๐š’๐šœ๐šœ that we are!... And so we create the situations and call upon such circumstances in life which unable us to experience moments of peacelessness or sorrow (to be brief).


๐ŸBut the "purpose" of those scenes of your life is ๐ญ๐จ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ž๐ž from them. No to be attached to the ego, but ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ž๐ซ ๐–๐‡๐Ž ๐˜๐Ž๐” ๐€๐‘๐„ as a spirit. In this, we attain our highest joy. Only amidst the greatest sorrow can we also experience the greatest joy. And when you live & act in this ๐š•๐š’๐š๐š‘๐š ๐š˜๐š ๐š”๐š—๐š˜๐š ๐š•๐šŽ๐š๐š๐šŽ, your greatest ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ become your greatest ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฌ! (you become victorious & life becomes fruitful)


๐ŸŒทSo bless your life. Do not be attached to self-ego, but ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ž ๐š๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ. Life will smile back. Bless the people who come to your life, as they become an instrument for bringing you this experience. They are not your enemies, but your soul-family. They have forgotten this truth, and so did you. But ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ž๐ซ.



Advice

You have heard the spiritual wisdom that can now transform your life. Now lets be specific on HOW you can APPLY this wisdom in every day situations:


โ— When & if someone starts an argumentโ€”be gentle, ignore their harsh words & focus on your inner-being. Source the inner peace and spread it out to your sorrounding. Smile to them, remain silent, and you will observe how they will gradually calm down. They might even realise and regret their behavior, in the moment of silence.


โ— If you wish to HEAL your relationship with them, learn giving ๐™Ž๐™–๐™ ๐™–๐™จ๐™ (positive thoughts/vibrations). For this, please visit our main post: Sakash (meaning, method, purpose).


โ— In order to "conserve energy" as you asked, you can do many things๐Ÿ‘‰ First, avoid thinking about them, focus on your own life & your thought, learn and practise ๐‘๐š๐ฃ๐˜๐จ๐  ๐ฆ๐ž๐๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง & ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ, only watch spiritual content, read the ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ we post on all our groups, watch helpful videos that may guide you in your situation (scroll down to see VIDEOS suggested under "helpful links")

โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”


๐—›๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ๐˜€

The following are links to our ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฌ & ๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ž๐จ๐ฌ specially recommened for you. So please follow them one by one in your free time for maximum guidance:


Post: ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—˜๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ (marriage related)


Post: ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜, ๐—ข๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—”๐˜๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€


Post: ๐—ข๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜


Imp Post: ๐—š๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต/๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ž๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜


VIDEOS: "๐‡๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ" by BK Shivani

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=bk+shivani+healing+relationship


โœถ๐—”๐—ฑ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป: ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ, ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด (๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜บ/๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด). ๐˜๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ, ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จย & ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด. "๐™Ž๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™Ž๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ"

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