This is our advise on how to forgive someone with an understanding of our past life Karmic accounts. Here, a person was fighting a case against someone in court. Their karmic account will be settled ONLY when they both forgive each other.
Original Email ReceivedI watch most of the speeches of Shivani mam and she told that we should not have negative thoughts for anyone and forgive others. I am a working woman and lost my husband after 2 months of marriage. From that time one of my colleague has been torturing me mentally and forcing to marry him. I have lodge a F. I.R. against him. Case is pending in the court. So how can i not have negative thoughts for that person and how can I forgive him? Should i take back my case against him? Kindly show me right path.
Email Response + Guidance
Dear Divine Sister,Forgiveness is a great virtue. It relieves the forgiver. Yes definitely as per Godly teachings, negative thoughts must not be created as it harms yourself first before it harm the other. Also, by sending negative thoughts, you will deepen the karmic account which is already there... So instead, one should learn and master the self instead of trying to have control over others. Forgiveness is simple. Just think - ''The act he performed will only affect his own karma, not mine. But whatever I will respond, will affect me only.''
God has also directed to use methods and means of systems of law to seek justice. If anyone is bothering you or acting in a manner that is causing harm to you in a certain way, do lodge FIR and approach court. But particularly in your case, it can be solved merely by calmly telling and explaining to the person that whatever he is trying is not right and shall will not happen.
Sister, there's no denying that it's all your Karmic accounts with that soul.
You listened to classes and understood well and now u should apply it in practical life. Spirituality is to be practised in real life circumstances and it's a lifestyle.
What you should do is -
a) Seek forgiveness from that soul for all the past and current lives known and unknown mistakes you've done against him and forgive for what he has done against you. Do this for 15 mins daily morning or any other time befitting you. This method has solved worst of worst problems. Use headphones and perform as per this Commentary. Guided Commentary -> https://youtu.be/xO1cRBiauVU
b) participate well in court case and leave no stone unturned to seek justice. But remember always be truthful and respectful. Don't panic, Keep God with you, Be detached observer. Everything is accurately happening.
While performing all the worldly tasks and duty you have to remain free and elevated. Be detached at the mind level. Don't entangle your mind in waste thoughts.
ADVISE: You have the greatest opportunity to walk on path of Godly directions. It is recommended for you to visit nearest Brahma kumaris meditation Center. Take Rajyoga Meditation course and learn Meditation(connection with God). All your worries will come to an end.
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(article) How to seek forgiveness from late family members -> https//bkarticles.blog/2018/12/07/how-to-ask-seek-forgiveness-from-souls/