Here is our complete guidance on How to finish the Karmic cycle or to overcome bondage due to past Karmas. Especially within family, many faces such situations in which Sanskaras collide among family members creating intolerance and odd behaviour which lead to dismiss the loving relationship. Hence here is our guidance to not only resolve this but also come out of the Karmic account cycle and bondage and shower peace and unconditional love on our near ones.
Original Email Received in Feb 2019
There are lot of worries regarding our home condition. My mother's emotional state is declining and it eflects in our family relationships. Home we are living in was given by my grandmother (that elderly-my mother's mom) who became a cause of problems in our home. My mother's brother doesn't keep his mother. Means we're trapped and how can I see my mother and whole family sucked in pain all time because of my elderly grandmother... I meditate for them but there is always tension and torture in everyone's minds because of her. How would we study or focus if atmosphere is always same. My mother doesn't want to quit even though her health isn't too great.
There's a record that where ever that elderly lives for certain time creates nuisance and disrupts peace .Please please help.
Our Response + Guidance
To: Everyone reading this
From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfatherly University)
Dear Divine Sister/Brother
This is complete guidance for your life. So please preserve this email letter.
After thinking about your situation, the best advice we can give is the following.
You need to first understand the karmic cycle here. It is another matter that the Soul (your grand-mother) had a deep karmic account especially with your mother (since they are in a close relationship in this birth). Hence there is certainly a reason of such behavior of her towards you all.
Also, the present time is the time when the weakness deep present in souls are getting emerged. Not threatening you, but definitely you can see around in the world how the 5 vices are prevailing. This only adds to the past karmic account. Now you know the cause of their behavior. Later we shall talk on how to finish the karmic cycle. Lets now talk about this present birth and life in your family.
Firstly the soul (your grandmother) was weak and hence created chaos and unenjoyment at home.
Secondly that after seeing this from her, you all sent to her a thought that she isn't doing right or that she is a PAIN.
Since that soul was already weak, and now receiving this thought from you all, the pain increased within her and that she returned to all of you.
So this is the cycle here.
How to finish the cycle?
By re-creating peace and loving relationship. Firstly by sending pure and peaceful thoughts to her soul. Think good about. Give blessings. I know it is difficult in the beginning as this doesn't reflect her actual behaviour. That's why you need to practice Good thinking. When you are full of peace, then only you CAN donate it. However you must do this peace donation with willpower and love for everyone. Forget the past and start a new. Maybe this video will help you to - Sunrise at Beach
For example - become like a doctor. A doctor faces a critical patient who has a little hope of recovering. But the doctor MUST ALWAYS think positive and make efforts. At last the good-will doctor will success.
~ GUIDANCE ~
1. Swamaan Abhyas - Wake up and sit for 10 mins with eyes open and mind focused. This is the first step of meditation you see. In these 10 minutes, go deep within. Practice introversion. To become 'Soul conscious', you may take help of link given in (2).
( Swaman means having recognition of our TRUE nature. That is Peace, Purity, love and powerful. These above commentaries helped a lot of souls )
Swamaan (Positive Affirmations) guided commentaries:
2. Now to learn RajYog (meditation), take guidance from these ''RajYog guided commentaries''
3. Take audio & visual help from the RESOURCES section -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources
Above 3 steps are for your life and will definitely show you practical results. However, keep in mind that you the Soul are in a journey of life where favourable and unfavourable situations may and will come which will test your''patience'' and ''will power''. You have to have patience and faith.
Give sakash to your mother - She definitely need power to tolerate. Refer to The 8 Powers of Soul
* Useful Article *
How to Give Sakash?: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/01/18/how-to-give-sakash/