Wife came in Gyan and the husband write us email about this. She was unable to practically follow Shiv baba's Shrimat and thus a small disturbance happened. Husband is supportive and understanding. The shrimat is explained - How to keep a balance in spirituality and family life (as directed in Murli)
Original Email Received
My wife has been following Brahmakumaris teachings for a while now and what I noticed is that she is getting away from family life. We have two kids - 5 yrs and 2 yrs old. She takes care of kids but not me and whenever we had a fight she wants to leave home and live by herself. I am not sure if this will lead to divorce with her the way she is thinking. She keeps on saying that "SHIV BABA" is only in her life and not anyone. Please advise me what to do with my issue. I am not sure what should I do now. If she has chosen to take a spiritual path then my kids and myself have to live separately. Please advice.
Our Email Response+ Guidance
To: Anyone who is concernedDear Divine BrotherGood morningAs you said, you feel that wife is taking less care of you after joining the Yagya (bk). You are unaware of the reason why she thinks like this, but is very nice that you supported, respect your wife and not atleast make a big issue.We listen to the same Gyan Murli everyday, which is read at all BK RajYog centres. In this Godly teachings, it is well explained and directed that - 'Live in your family life, fulfil your responsibilities and become pure.' We teach peace and coexistence. Maybe your wife needs some more time to learn all this.Now you have to know about the truth. 'Shiv Baba', we lovingly say - the Supreme Soul (father of all souls) has come. It is the message of God himself which your wife is trying to follow. It is God's direction - ''Now you become Soul conscious, stay in the family life but with purity (celibacy) - you all are my dear children and when you are in this body, you are Brothers and Sisters.''
Try to understand the point of your wife. She is trying to keep away from you so that such bodily relationship cannot be developed which are against the GOD's directions (Shrimat of Murli). To know this, please visit our official page - What is Gyan Murli? and also 108 Shrimat of Shiv baba (Hindi)
This itself that a Soul is trying to follow the directions of God (the supreme father) is worthy of appreciation. You also know that Purity is very good. We respect 'sanyasi' and 'Brahmachari' because they are pure. God also says - ''Purity is the mother of all virtues''. Meaning - if you bring purity in life, every other virtues will also come. We will become a perfect human being. Please visit: Celibacy - A way of Living (article)
Yes, this is a ''journey''. You wife also is 'learning' and as a student, she (that soul) will also make some mistakes. If you wish you also follow GOD's advice (shrimat) and make your life great. But atleast you must respect your wife that with caring 2 children, she is doing her best to follow God's directions. If she make any mistake, PLEASE forgive her and respect.