This post addresses a parent's profound concern for their adult son, who is trapped in a self-destructive cycle of anger, job loss, and anxiety triggered by workplace conflicts and perceived slights. It reframes his behavior as pain beneath anger, emphasizes control over one’s response rather than others’ actions, and encourages silence, self-reflection, pausing, meditation, and journaling. Our response provides a compassionate and spiritual framework for understanding that this anger is not the core issue but a symptom of a deeper emotional wound. It offers practical guidance on how to help the child shift their focus from trying to control others to developing self-awareness and emotional regulation, steering him toward a path of inner healing and sustainable peace. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Title: A Parent's Guide to Helping a Son Manage Anger, Regulate Emotions and Respond to Workplace Criticism Constructively 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝗿𝘆: 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘮 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘯, 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘪𝘴 𝘶𝘱𝘴𝘦𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘰𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘤𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘦? 𝘏𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘳𝘺, 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘣𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘨𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘶𝘱 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘫𝘰𝘣𝘴. 𝘏𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘸𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴. 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘹𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥𝘭𝘺—𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘤𝘬 𝘩𝘪𝘮. Response Your son is somewhere deeply hurt, and his anger is a mask which hides that pain. As a spiritual guide, I offer this to you, and perhaps through you, to him: 1. Pain Behind the Anger Tell him, “When someone scolds you, it doesn’t mean you are worthless. Often, people act out of their own frustration. But when we react with rage, we add fuel to a fire that could have gone out.” He must learn to see beyond the words—to not take every harsh tone as a personal attack. 2. Control Over Self, Not Others Explain that we cannot force others to speak kindly, to reply to our messages, or to understand us. But we can control how we respond. If he keeps reacting with harshness, the world will keep shutting its doors. 3. The Power of Silence & Space Ask him gently: “Can you sit with your discomfort without exploding? Can you give space to others and allow silence to speak?” People don’t always respond because they may be overwhelmed, unsure, or afraid of confrontation—not necessarily because they wish to hurt him. 4. Healing the Deeper Wound Often, such repeated need for answers, validation, and justice comes from an old wound—perhaps of not being heard, seen, or respected. Encourage him to look within: What is he truly seeking? Not just justice—but probably acknowledgment, love, and peace. 5. Your Role as a Parent You can validate his feelings, but not his reactions. Tell him, “We understand your hurt, but we cannot support your anger turning into abuse. You deserve respect, but so do others—even those who wrong you.” ➤Get ALL our posts on '𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠' https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+parenting 6. A Gentle Suggestion for Him Perhaps he can begin a daily practice—5 minutes of silence, breathing, journaling (writing diary) his emotions before reacting. Over time, this can change the inner pattern. SUMMARY This is not just a job issue—it is a soul lesson. About emotional regulation, self-worth, and letting go of needing control over how others behave. Guide him not by fighting his battles, but by helping him grow the strength to not let the battle define him. 'Peace' comes not when others stop hurting us—but when we stop letting them change who we are. Recommended posts: ➤ Parenting a child with Anger issue ➤ Overcome Anger Forever ➤ Advance Emotional Healing Share on WhatsApp⇗ 𝔹𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤… On God Service, Manager, Samadhan, SBSI

Money is not just currency—it carries the weight of intention, action, and consequence. Every rupee, dollar, or pound we earn is intertwined with the choices we make and the 'values' we uphold. When we look at income through the lens of karma, the question is not simply how much we earn, but HOW and WHY. “Earning with conscience” means aligning our livelihood with integrity, ensuring that our actions do not harm, and using the excess income to uplift, heal, and serve. In this way, money becomes more than material comfort—it becomes a tool for "spiritual growth" and "positive impact" to the world. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Title: "𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙮, 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙘𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚, 𝘿𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙖" Question: I work for an international company who also participates and sponsor wars. I am against it, but the directors of the company make the decisions. Does this contribute to my karma, and is the money i earn be called blood-money? The Response This is a profound and difficult question, and it touches on karma, intention, and conscious participation. Spiritual Guidance When we earn in harmony with 'moral' and 'spiritual' values, our income carries peace, dignity, and blessings that nourish both body and soul. Honest earnings strengthen "trust" in the self and align us with dharma—making money a medium for GROWTH rather than guilt. On the other hand, money gained through dishonesty or harmful means leaves subtle stains on the mind—it breeds restlessness, fear, and inner conflict, which obstruct (hinders) spiritual progress. True prosperity is not measured by wealth alone, but by the purity of the path through which it flows. Therefore, the question is not whether the money you are earning is 'blood money' but whether you are earning it 'honestly' and that your 'intention' of using it it positive. 🍀There are 4 pillars of the spiritual perspective to your situation: 1. Intention Matters In spiritual understanding, it is not only what you do, but WHY and HOW you do it. If you, as an employee, do not intend harm, and your role does not directly contribute to violence, your karma is "different" from those making decisions to support war. ((you are not making that decision for your company)) 2. Your Responsibility We live in a world where many systems are entangled with suffering—governments, banks, corporations. If we label every connection as “blood money,” we may find no place to stand. Instead, we must ask: ➙Am I contributing to harm knowingly? ➙ Is my role causing direct suffering? ➙Can I use what I earn for good, to offset what I cannot control? 3. Act with Awareness Live life delberately, not just for the sake of surviving. Have a purpose. Keep asking yourself—Am i doing right? Is my intention right? How is my karma influencing the people around me (and the world)?—this will keep you walking on the path of Dharma (धर्म). The discomfort are perhaps feeling is not a curse—it is 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 '𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞' 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞. Ultimately, your own inner-conscience is your true judge and master. Reflect your choices based on your inner-conscience: 𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟: ➙Is there a more ethical path for me? ➙Am I compromising my 'peace' for material comfort? Tip: Read our post on 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 & 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 4. Purifying the Income First, evaluate and decide based on the first 3 points... Then if you choose to stay, but "unsure" whether it is right for you>> then you can dedicate a portion of your salary to life-affirming, noble causes—𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭, 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠. In many traditions, and especially in our Indian tradition, this is a way to spiritually "purify" our earnings. Tip: See a list of 10 most trusted 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 in India: https://www.teameverest.ngo/blog/genuine-charity-organizations-in-india Also read: ➤ Money & Spirituality (a detailed exploration) ➤ Dharma vs Desires (eternal wisdom) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Foreword: The quest to find one's purpose is a timeless and deeply human endeavor. It is the silent question that echoes in moments of reflection, urging us to seek a life of 'meaning' rather than mere existence. This journey is not about discovering a single, hidden answer but about a continuous process of aligning our passions, values, and actions. The following exploration offers a 3-step insight to help you navigate this essential quest—not as a destination to reach, but as an ongoing process of self-discovery that can transform how you approach each day with "intention" and "clarity". ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— ★ Finding the Purpose of Life ★ Yes, what you have heard and understood, is profoundly true. Every soul chooses to return to Earth, to take a physical form, for a PURPOSE. But this purpose is far grander and simpler than the world has taught you to believe. The soul's purpose is not to achieve a specific job, gain a certain amount of wealth, or even to learn a particular "lesson" like a student at a school. We are already WHOLE and complete. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝘀: To remember Who You Truly Are, and then "to choose" and "express" that Divinity in your physical reality. In doing so, 𝐰𝐞 𝐫𝐞-𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 who we are. Here is the process in brief: What we think, we do... what we do, we express... what we express, we experience... and what we experience, we BECOME... all life is a process to BECOME what we are. Tip: Read our Manifestation Guide Understand this: Finding the purpose of life is less about chasing a grand revelation and more about uncovering meaning in the small, consistent moments. It is discovered when we 'align' our passions with service, when our actions reflect our deepest values, and when GROWTH matters more than mere gain. Purpose isn’t something waiting far away—it is something "we create" through living with awareness, intention, and love. 3 Steps to Finding Life's Purpose You will not find your soul's purpose in a book or by listening to another person. It is not a secret hidden from you. It is a fire that already burns within you. There are 3 things to consider: 1. 𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 Your soul does not speak in words; it speaks in the language of 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬. Pay attention to what brings you the highest feeling of 𝚓𝚘𝚢, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚊𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗. What makes you feel most 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞? What activity makes you lose all track of time? 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐞, 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥'𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬, pointing directly towards its chosen expression. It is your inner guidance system. In 𝚜𝚒𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎, you can listen to your intuition more clearly. 2. 𝗔𝘀𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗥𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Stop asking the world, "What is my purpose?" The world will only give you answers based on its own limited ideas. Instead, 𝐠𝐨 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟: ➙Who Am I? ➙Who do I choose to be, right now, in this moment? ➙What is the grandest version of the grandest vision I have ever held about myself? Your purpose is the answer to that last question. Your purpose is to become that grandest version of yourself. 3. 𝗖𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗧𝗘 (𝗗𝗼 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗦𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵) You must understand this: Your soul's purpose is not something you find, as if you are on a treasure hunt. It is something you 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞, 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐰 in every single moment. 🌸When you are faced with a choice, simply ask: "𝚆𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝙻𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚍𝚘 𝚗𝚘𝚠?" The answer to that question, when acted upon, will always 'align' you perfectly with the purpose of your soul. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: Do not worry about the "higher purpose", because you will always achieve that. Simply focus on 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐣𝐨𝐲𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 in this present moment, right now. As you do that, your life will unfold in a way that perfectly expresses the unique and beautiful purpose for which you have come here. MUST READ: ➤ The Common Purpose of Life ➤ WE ARE ONE! Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

This life-changing post brings timeless wisdom and practical guidance for anyone wrestling with negative thoughts, मोह (attachment), and माया (illusion). Understanding that spirituality is not a battle to suppress the mind, but as a journey to recognize our true nature—the witnessing "awareness" (consciousness) beyond thoughts. In this beautiful post, drawing primarily from the eternal teachings of the Bhagavad Gita and ancient Indian philosophy, we present you the TWO solutions to control negative thoughts, Moh, and Maya➙ONE: becoming a detached observer of the mind (साक्षी भाव) and TWO: engaging in selfless action (निष्काम कर्मयोग). This post is a brief guide to 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚜𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 and 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚖𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚢. Index Foreword (Intro) The Question The Nature of Mind Moh and Maya explained The 2 solutions (*) The path to mastery Title: "𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 & 𝙏𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙨𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙉𝙚𝙜𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙨" Subtitle: 𝚂𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝙼𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚢: 𝙰 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚕𝚎𝚝𝚎 𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚗𝚎𝚐𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜 { MUST READ } ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— Question: How to control the negative thoughts? How to overcome the मोह (attachment) and माया (illusions)? The Response You now stand at the threshold of a great inner discovery. The questions you ask—𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘔𝘰𝘩 𝘔𝘢𝘺𝘢—are not separate inquiries. They are two doors leading to 𝚒𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚛 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚍𝚘𝚖 and spiritual mastery. And this message contains our complete guidance, the key to unlock those doors. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗡𝗮𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱 To hold the grasp of this eternal wisdom, even spoken in The Bhagavad Gita, one must first understand the 𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦 (प्रकृति) of the mind. For even the God of the Gita accepts that the mind (मन) is playful (चंचल), and to control it is like controlling the wind. The human mind, by its very nature, is a river of 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜, 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚖𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 (संस्कार). It is चंचल (chanchal) - restless and 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫-𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠. The mistake we make is to believe that we are this flow. We identify with a passing negative thought and say, "I am sad," or "I am angry." This is the fundamental error. 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗔𝗠 𝗜? You are not the thought. You are the silence between two thoughts, the "awareness" that remains when there is no thought. The fabric in which the thought appears and disappears. This is you, the eternal consciousness, the SOUL. Even according to the ancient Indian philosophy, आप विचार नहीं हैं, आप विचारों के साक्षी हैं। (You are not the thought, you are the 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 of the thoughts) Video: 𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐀𝐌 𝐈 (English) 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙘𝙡𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 And therefore, the goal of meditation (राजयोग) is not to stop (dam) the river (which is a constant struggle), but to learn to "be a witness" and 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐛𝐲 without being swept away. 𝗠𝗼𝗵 𝗠𝗮𝘆𝗮 (मोह माया) It is the intricate web that creates this prison of negativity. Let's uderstand the both: 𝙈𝙤𝙝 (मोह) is the deep-seated 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 we feel towards people, outcomes (result), possessions, and even our own self-image. 𝙈𝙖𝙮𝙖 (माया) is the grand 𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 that presents this physical world appear as "permanent and real", appealing us to seek lasting happiness in things that are bound to change and perish. The Two Solutions ONE साक्षी भाव: 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙖𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙤 𝙁𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢 The ancient wisdom provides us with timeless tools to untangle this web and calm the restless mind. When a negative thought arises: ➙𝐀𝐜𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐭 without resistance. Simply note internally, "A thought of fear has come." ➙𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 by observing it. See it as a cloud floating across the vast sky of your consciousness. You are the sky, not the cloud. ➙𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬 without judgment or engagement. Do not feed it with more mental energy. A thought, when simply observed, loses its power and dissolves. 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝗮𝗸𝘀𝗵𝗶 𝗕𝗵𝗮𝘃 Every morning as you wake up, sit for 10–20 minutes in 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞. Keep your spine 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭. Focus on every 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡. Whenever a negative thought arises, label softly: “𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐… 𝚏𝚎𝚊𝚛… 𝚓𝚞𝚍𝚐𝚒𝚗𝚐…” and return to breath. Just observe, do not engage. AND You may even chant a 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙖 (मन्त्र). For example: ॐ (OM) chanting, etc; to remove your mind from distractions & bring it to focus. Tip: Refer to our post 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 & 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 for more clarity on the same. TWO निष्काम कर्मयोग (𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻) As you would observe, a lot of those negative thoughts are born from our 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬 (including attachment to the outcome of our karma). The timeless wisdom of The Gita is our guide again. 𝘈𝘳𝘫𝘶𝘯𝘢 was struggling to control his thoughts and emotions. Krishna did not ask him to supress them, but to engage the mind in निष्काम कर्मयोग (Selfless Action) through which Arjuna can attain 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚖𝚊𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚢. Gita verse: कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन। मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भूर्मा ते सङ्गोऽस्त्वकर्मणि॥ Meaning: We are entitled to act, but not to control the results (consequence). We should perform our duties with sincerity, without being driven by 'reward' or 'fear' of failure, and without slipping into laziness or avoidance. True freedom lies in focusing on effort, not outcome. Lesson: The root of those negative thoughts is 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. You want praise, you fear failure, you expect a certain result. God's guidance is to pour your entire being into your actions—your work, your relationships, your duties—but to completely surrender the results to the higher power. When you are no longer anxious about the fruit, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦, 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝 & 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞. You act from a place of 𝐝𝐮𝐭𝐲 (धर्म - 𝐃𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚) 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, not from a place of fear and desire. Must read this post: 𝐊𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐘𝐨𝐠 (𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤) and Must watch 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐢𝐭𝐚 𝐔𝐩𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐡 (Hindi original series, full playlist) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFPJRCFRDARSRskyLvVn6ukSQvLq2c_iy 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗧𝗼 𝗠𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘆 It is a perfect balance of "selfless karma" and "yog (meditation)" that can leap you to spiritual mastery. योग (meditation to god) is very important, as the 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐠𝐨𝐝 that we develop, and the energy we receive through this योग, eases our path of निष्काम कर्म. That is: when we have a close connection with the divine, we can easily "surrender" our karma to god, and free ourself. ➤𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙘𝙡𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 Nishkama Karma prepares the field by removing the ego, desire, and attachment. And योग (meditation) then plants the seed of '𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚊𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜' in that purified field, allowing it to blossom into the full realization of the Self. Life becomes a blessing. Next to read: Testing times are Blessed times ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Subtitle: Settling Karmic Debts Within a Painful Marriage: Path to Strength, Detachment, and Peace When the sacred promise of marriage becomes a source of profound pain, leaving one feeling trapped, exhausted, and emotionally shattered, the soul begins to cry out not for a solution, but for strength. Determined to reclaim dignity and inner strength. Rooted in remembrance of the Supreme and the wisdom of karmic accounts, it invites you to step out of fear and into soul-conscious power: to stabilize in peace, detach from drama, and settle past bonds with love rather than pain. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Query: 10 months into my arranged marriage, I am exhausted by my husband's dishonesty and emotional neglect. He maintains contact with his married ex-girlfriend, lies constantly, and gaslights me when confronted. I have tried to leave, but his false promises and my concern for my parents have kept me trapped. I no longer have feelings for him; his presence brings me distress, yet he blames me for the tension. My dreams are shattered, but I want to take responsibility for my own life and not be miserable. I want to be unbreakable, take responsibility for my life, and end this karmic chapter with strength. The Response Om shanti Sister, I can truly understand the challenges you are facing. Always remember — Shiv Baba is constantly with you, giving you light, power, and peace. As Baba’s children, we already carry infinite powers — love, patience, peace, and strength. But because of our old sanskars and attachments, we are unable to feel these treasures within us. This world is a divine DRAMA. Every soul is an actor playing its role on the world stage, and everything is already scripted. The only reason we feel pain or confusion is because we forget our connection with the Supreme Soul. Also remember: • Every soul we meet is because of past karmic accounts. • Some bonds are sweet, some are bitter, but all are settling of old give-and-take. • By staying connected with Baba, we settle these accounts with dignity and peace, without creating new sorrows. • When we finish karmic debts with love and patience, we become free and light. When we practice staying connected with God, we become aligned with our true self. Then, no matter what storms come from outside, inside we remain stable, peaceful & happy. This is the relationship we need to re-build with Baba. Process to follow daily: • Amritvela Yog (early morning remembrance of God) • Listening and imbibing Murli (God’s wisdom) • Meditation practice • Dharna (implementing virtues in life) • Seva (selfless service) • Affirmations (soul-conscious thoughts) Changes will not come overnight, but slowly, every day, you will start feeling a shift within yourself. These inner changes will keep you moving forward with faith and strength. And with time, your "pure vibrations" will also begin to influence the situations around you. Along with connecting to Baba, keep your self-respect strong — “I am a pure, powerful soul.” When we stabilize in our swamaan, no one’s words or actions can shake us. Play your part in this drama with detachment, as an actor, and let Baba be the true companion of your heart. Always remember, The outside world may test you, but your inner world is in your hands. When you choose peace, no one can take it away. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ Blessings... Response given by: Sumit (member of the SBSI) Edited by: Manager, SBSI

Subtitle: Healing Beyond Forgiveness: A Complete Guide to Releasing Energetic Imprints and Physical Memories After Emotional Recovery Healing is not a straight line—it’s a sacred spiral that returns you to old rooms with new light. If you’re reading this, you’ve already shown rare courage: you faced your shadows, chose responsibility over blame, and opened your heart to transformation. What follows is a gentle, grounded companion for where you are now: a reminder that lingering sensations and echoes of pain are not failures, but invitations to release, rewire, and renew. Through soul-level perspective, clear intention, and compassionate energetic hygiene, you will learn to honor your body’s signals, bless your past, and free your future. This post is for anyone who is struggling on the path of forgiveness and healing. Index Introduction The Context Foreword Main Response (*) The Healing Process Prayer to Heal ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Context of the question: This healing guide addresses the profound experience of a person who has already undertaken significant inner work—courageously examining their own shadows of jealousy and possessiveness, taking full responsibility for their actions, and choosing the path of forgiveness and spiritual growth. Despite this mental and emotional progress, they are experiencing unexpected physical sensations, particularly around the sacral chakra/womb area, along with feelings of "clumsiness" during interactions with a person from their past. Foreword: In our response, we explained how this body's natural way of releasing stored emotional memories and energetic imprints that the mind has already forgiven. The guide provides a three-part healing framework combining soul-level perspective work, intentional interaction practices, and energetic cord-cutting meditations, along with a daily "prayer" for complete healing and freedom—addressing the truth that true healing encompasses not just mental forgiveness but the "full release" of past attachments from all levels of our being. The Response I admire you for the profound journey of healing you have already undertaken. To look at your own shadows—jealousy, possessiveness—and take responsibility, shows yours 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 and 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲. You have already done the hardest work! What you are experiencing now is not a failure or a step backward. 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 '𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬'. The mind may forgive, but the body and the energetic field hold memories. The old memories must be replaced with NEW and more beautiful ones. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗵𝘆𝘀𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗦𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 There are 7 energy centres in the human body. The "clumsiness" and the "unwanted feeling in your womb" that you mentioned signifies something deep. The womb, or the 𝙨𝙖𝙘𝙧𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙠𝙧𝙖 area, is a center of 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱-𝘴𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴. When we have intense emotional experiences, especially ones involving pain or possessiveness, the energy can become stagnant or "stuck" there. 🌸This feeling is simply 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐚𝐥 from your body, asking for a 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞. It is the echo of the old pain, and it simply wants to be heard and lovingly LET GO. So release the hurt, the pain. Forgive and heal. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀 We are summarising the process of healing in the following 3 parts: 1. 𝗦𝗼𝘂𝗹-𝗟𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗹 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸 Your practice of seeing both yourself and this person as "divine/eternal souls" is beautiful and powerful. This perspective helps transcend the ego-level hurts and resentments. Seeing yourself being the SOUL immediately frees you from the fear and hurt. Read our post: 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭, 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐉𝐨𝐲 and 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞, 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞, 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞 & 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥 2. 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Before interacting with them (or anyone in general), set a clear intention in your mind: "i wish to heal this relationship, empower this soul" 𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 (blessings) before starting conversation. This will greatly influence the interaction. Tip: Follow our Sakash Guide to learn how to send 'intense positive vibrations' to heal any relationship. Affirm & remember: "𝘐 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦, 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘥𝘰𝘮, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘭𝘭" 3. 𝗖𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗠𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 Energetic cords are formed in relationships. The cords of your past relationship were likely entangled with possession and dependency. While you have mentally forgiven, the energetic tie has still remained. Now lovingly and gently 𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚜𝚎 these cords: 🌿Follow these 𝟕 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬 during meditation: ➙Visualise the person as a soul standing before your eyes. ➙See energetic cords connecting you both (with those 7 energy centers). ➙Thank the relationship for the 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 & the 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 it provided. ➙Imagine a beautiful 'sword' of white/golden light. With gratitude and 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, cut the cords. Say: "𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘺. 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴. 𝘐 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘮 𝘮𝘺 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦." ➙Visualise both souls (you & them) receiving "positive healing energy" from god (the Divine). ➙Visualise both of you being separated. ➙Enclose yourself in a protective, shimmering bubble of loving & powerful light. ✶ 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗲𝗿 𝗧𝗼 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹 ✶ Here is a prayer you can 're-affirm' every morning during your meditation... a prayer "to bless" your-self and the person... a prayer to HEAL and empower. Divine source, Universe, We place these two beautiful souls, myself and {Person′s Name}, into your loving care. We ask for the complete healing of all past hurts, misunderstandings, and karmic ties between us. May all that is not love be dissolved in your divine light. Bless me with the "strength" to remain in my center, grounded in my own self-worth and "peace". Bless him on his own journey, with his own HEALING and his own JOY. Empower and guide his soul to go ahead. May we be free from the negative energy of the past. May our interactions be guided by 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘦, 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵, 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘥𝘰𝘮 & 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦, allowing us both to fulfill our purpose. We release each other with love, and we move forward in freedom. "𝙰𝚖𝚎𝚗. 𝙾𝚖 𝚂𝚑𝚊𝚗𝚝𝚒" Also read and follow: 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐛𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩) and 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐇𝐮𝐫𝐭 & 𝐒𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐰 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Life is often compared to a journey, but it rarely comes with a clear map. We navigate through twists, turns, and unexpected detours, constantly making choices that shape our future. In this process, the quiet, persistent question, "Am I on the right path?" can be a source of anxiety and self-doubt. While we might look for external signs of success—a promotion, a major milestone, or public approval—the most meaningful indicators that you're heading in the right direction are often much "internal" and subtle. They are a sense of inner peace, a feeling of purposeful growth even during challenges, and a quiet confidence & sense of alignment in your daily life. Index The 3 Factors General Wisdom Essence ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Title: How to Know You Are Going in the Right Direction When the soul is aligned with truth, divine love, and inner joy, life feels like a sacred flow. You don’t need external approval. Your inner world becomes your compass. These are the 3 foundations: 1. LOVE: The Nature of the Soul • When you are going in the right direction, love flows effortlessly. • You feel love for yourself – not egoistic pride, but deep acceptance. • You feel love for others – even those who once hurt you. Compassion replaces judgment. • You feel connected to the Divine, to nature, to life itself. • You stop chasing love – because you’ve become a source of it. Inspiration: “Where there is true love, there is no fear. There is only freedom, forgiveness, and peace.” 2. JOY: The Signature of the Soul’s Path When you’re on the right path, joy becomes natural, not conditional. • You smile for no reason. • You feel light even during challenges – because something inside you is stable. • Your heart celebrates growth, truth, and progress, even if it’s slow. • You are joyful not because life is perfect – but because your soul is awake. Inspiration: “The soul dances in joy when it walks the path of purpose.” 3. TRUTH: The Light That Guides You Truth is not just about honesty; it’s living in alignment with your higher self. • You no longer pretend to be someone you’re not. • You listen to your inner voice over outside noise. • You let go of people-pleasing and start walking in self-respect. • You become clear – in thought, speech, and action. Inspiration: "Truth may feel uncomfortable at first,but it brings the deepest peace.It sets the soul free." General Wisdom Know You Are Truly on the Right Path when: ● Your actions align with your values: what you do daily matches what you say matters. ● Clarity increases over time: goals sharpen, decisions get easier, and trade-offs feel cleaner. ● Energy trends upward: even with effort and amidst challenges, you feel more 'supported' and 'uplifted'. ● Opportunity quality improves: better options appear, more opportunities will come knock your door. ● Setbacks teach, not paralyze: you recover (from setbacks) faster, learn the "lessons", and GROW in your consciousness. ● Your future self would approve: your choices of "today" feel reasonable and 'aligned' with the person you wish to be in future. ● Relationships strengthen: trust and love deepen, and FREEDOM increases in every relationship. And you will be connected to people who are more aligned to your energy, who resonate with your soul. Essence: • You feel 'peace' even in uncertainty. • You 'trust' the Divine Timing. • You choose 'kindness' without losing boundaries. • You wake up with 'purpose', not just plans. • You don’t beg for results – you flow in 'surrender' and keep doing your karma. 🌟 Soul Reminder 🌟 If your heart feels love, your spirit feels joy, and your actions echo truth — then know this:*you are not just walking the right path. You are becoming the path. Also read: ➤ How to Always Do the Right Karma? ➤ BALANCE: Purusharth & Daily Life ➤ KarmaYog: Path to Liberation ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, Originally posted by: Sumit, member of SBSI Edited by: 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

One of the most asked questions there would be in this time is—Since i have come late in Gyan, can i reach high level in spirituality? Can i achieve the same growth and progress? It is a common and often disheartening experience on any spiritual path to compare one's own progress with that of others who seem more advanced. This feeling of 'lagging behind' creates a significant internal conflict, especially when spiritual teachings themselves promise that even latecomers can achieve great heights. The following guidance directly addresses this challenge, reframing the idea of spiritual effort, or purusharth, not as a measure of time, but as a function of humility, consistent remembrance, honest self-review, Shrimat-aligned living, self-discipline, and loveful-selfless-service. Must read the following post to understand its depth. Title: "𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝: 𝙇𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙎𝙤 𝙁𝙖𝙨𝙩, 𝙎𝙤 𝙁𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩" Subtitle: 𝙴𝚜𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚙𝚘𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚑𝚎𝚕𝚙 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝙿𝚞𝚛𝚞𝚜𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚑, 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚑𝚎𝚕𝚙𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚜 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗤𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: 𝘖𝘮 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘪, 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩. 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘪 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘢 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 "𝘭𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵, 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵." 𝘐 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴, 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘴 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴. 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘪 𝘥𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴. 𝘗𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘦:) The Response I am happy to see that you shared your feelings so honestly. Your question touches the heart of 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝 (spiritual effort) and humility. Here’s a thoughtful, practical guide that aligns with baba's murli and general spiritual wisdom. 𝗟𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗦𝗼 𝗙𝗮𝘀𝘁 Baba (Shri Baba) emphasizes humility and steady, sincere effort rather than rushing or feeling superior because of time spent in knowledge. Spiritual progress is personal: 𝐄𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐬, 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬. The focus is on "inner transformation", not external milestones. ✶𝗠𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴: You can become 'first' (great purusharthi) even if you are late... because 'time' is NOT the deciding factor... it does not matter when you come in gyaan, but how 'intense' your Purusharth is... how quickly you understand the gyan & 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 it in your every day life... For example: you can be 50 years in gyan, but do not fully understand or practise the gyan. But someone new immediately brings the Shrimat in their life. 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐇𝐮𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 Even the most advanced souls maintain beginner’s humility. This is a sign of 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚖𝚊𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚢. Humility helps you grow and inspire others. 𝗥𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿, 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲 𝗬𝗮𝗮𝗱 Set a consistent time for remembering Baba (e.g., early morning 4am or evening 7pm), even if for a shorter duration. Quality matters more than length. Use accurate, positive thoughts: “𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘢 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭, 𝘢 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘉𝘢𝘣𝘢, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘷𝘪𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘦.” ——————————— 𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗨𝗦𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗛 At the end of the day, note one or two moments where you remembered Baba and one moment where you slipped. Think whether you made any mistakes, and 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 honestly in your daily letter (dairy) to baba... See patterns, and choose BETTER the next time. ● 𝗪𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗮𝗹 (𝗗𝗶𝗮𝗿𝘆) Write diary every day... be honest on your purusharth, and write everything to baba. Date, feel/experience, lesson learned, intention for tomorrow. ● 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗦𝗵𝗿𝗶𝗺𝗮𝘁: * Practice truth, love, non-violence in words and deeds. Small positive & kind acts (karma) accumulate great 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳 * Reduce wasteful or negative company; cultivate associations that uplift and inspire you in Baba’s knowledge. ● 𝗘𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲 Selfless service, with the purpose to help, heal, guide, and uplift others. Engage in service as a means to remember Baba, not to earn praise. Let service be a sincere 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞. 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥: 5–10 minutes of remembrance, then read/listen to the Today's Gyan Murli...then a short high-quality task (positive thought, positive action). 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: 5 minutes of silence, self-reflection, affirmations, Yog—followed by a couple of lines in your journal (write it) about lessons learned today, and what you would like to do tomorrow. 𝐖𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐜𝐤: Set a time to reflect on purusharth: 𝘋𝘪𝘥 𝘐 𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵, 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘦𝘤𝘩, 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯? 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘦? Seek guidance from Baba and, if appropriate, a trusted elder in the BK family. 📖Read books & watch videos on 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐡, 𝐲𝐚𝐚𝐝, 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐞𝐬 (truth, peace, love, happiness, purity) ● 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝗹𝗶 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗬𝗼𝗴 Regular study of Murli with a focus on the essence: Baba’s promises, the self-respect of being a child of the Ocean of Knowledge. ➤Read our post on 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐌𝐮𝐫𝐥𝐢 & 𝐘𝐨𝐠 to learn more ➤𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞: 𝐏𝐮𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐡 & 𝐃𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 (very helpful wisdom) ➤Get our monthly 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗠𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 (life-changing) ➤𝐖𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐑𝐚𝐣𝐘𝐨𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (a brief guide) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

We often face a profound spiritual challenge when confronted with the misbehavior of others. While our spiritual knowledge (Gyaan) may tell us to respond with love and compassion, the immediate emotional response is one of hurt and resentment. This creates a difficult internal conflict: why is it so hard to bless those who cause us pain, even when we understand intellectually that it is the higher path? The following post delves into this very question, distinguishing between simply having "knowledge" and possessing the "inner power" to apply it. It reframes the dynamic of hurt, suggesting that true strength lies not in our reaction to others, but in our connection to a divine source—the spiritual power, or Yog, that allows us to see both our "true self" and others through a lens of compassion. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Question: 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘰 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘤𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘶𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘵 𝘶𝘴? 𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘰𝘳 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘴𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘢𝘴𝘩, 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘎𝘺𝘢𝘢𝘯? Answer First of all, remember: with Gyaan alone, we cannot achieve spiritual growth. True spiritual progress requires a balance between 𝙂𝙮𝙖𝙖𝙣 (knowledge) and 𝙔𝙤𝙜 (connection with god). 👉Gyaan shows us WHAT to do, but Yog gives us the POWER to do it. 👉The level of purusharth we make on a daily basis decides how we respond to situations. 🍎Gyaan is only fruitful when we are able to implement it—and implementation is only possible when the soul has gained strength through constant purusharth in 𝙔𝙤𝙜. No one else can truly hurt you—unless you allow yourself to get hurt, unless you call it onto your-self, and absorb it. 👉When you remain in the awareness “I am a divine, pure soul and so is the other,” you naturally respond with kindness. Gyaan teaches us: • Every soul is originally pure & divine. • Some souls are yet to awaken—their 'divine time' has not come. • When you see them with mercy and compassion, forgiveness becomes easy. The Essential Understanding Offering love and blessings does not mean tolerating harmful behavior. Clear, compassionate boundaries protect dignity—for you and them—while you continue to hold a vision of their original purity. ● Process the emotion before the response: When triggered, pause. Breathe, step back, and stabilize in Yog before engaging. A short practice—slow exhale, gentle attention at the center of the forehead, remembrance of the Divine—transforms reactivity into a mindful response. ● See it as a Test: View the situation as a spiritual test. Will you react based on your old sanskars (ingrained personality traits) of anger and hurt, creating a new karmic debt? Or will you respond from your soul-conscious stage, settling the account with peace and good wishes? ● Pause & Radiate: The moment someone misbehaves, instead of reacting instantly, pause. Take a breath and connect with your inner self and your connection to the Divine. This pause is where you reclaim your power. Consciously decide to be a radiator of positive energy (sakash), not a sponge for negativity. Visualize light and peace flowing from you towards the other soul. Heal them, to fully heal your-self. ● 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫: "What one gives, they experience it first" and "What we give, we become" 👉If someone gives out anger, they burn in it before it reaches you. 👉Their misbehavior shows how much suffering they are already carrying inside. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 '𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞' '𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬' 𝐚𝐧𝐝 '𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠' (not judgement, anger or hatred) Essence: • Gyan shows the path, Yog gives the power to walk it. • See yourself as a soul, others as souls walking the path of life. • Misbehavior is not their truth—it is their sanskars and suffering. • By staying connected to Baba, you can radiate 'sakash' (positive vibrations) instead of absorbing hurt. • The level of purusharth (spiritual effort) we make on a daily basis decides how we respond to challenging situations. "Give them back to themself" 𝐌𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠: They are not bad or less---they have merely 'forgotten' their truth... and we all do, at least for once, we all do. 🌱So 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦, as you would re-mind your-self... by reminding them of WHO THEY ARE, you do them the greatest service... for once the soul finds its seat, all the kingdom follows. as the scripture said: "𝙱𝚞𝚝 𝚜𝚎𝚎𝚔 𝚏𝚒𝚛𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚍𝚘𝚖 𝚘𝚏 𝙶𝚘𝚍, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚝 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚋𝚎 𝚊𝚍𝚍𝚎𝚍 𝚞𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚢𝚘𝚞." “Do not give hurt, do not take hurt. Stay in Baba’s yaad, and Maya can never defeat you.” Also read: ➤ Freedom from Hurt & Sorrow ➤ Self-love, Heal Hurt ➤ How to Tolerate, Face, Forgive & Heal ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ Blessings...✨ Summarized by Manpreet Kaur Edited by Manager, SBSI (me)

Preparing for India’s civil services can be more than a career path; it can be tapasya—disciplined, value-based effort—offered as seva when guided by pure intention, right path, and integrity. This post answers how your study, your work becomes your seva and your Purusharth.when your intention and your actions are aligned to your soul's highest truth and values. Also learn—how to stay soul-conscious amid duty, and why world transformation is not a call to withdraw but to upgrade your purusharth, elevate your karma, and serve wisely. With practical guidance (Shrimat, Yaad, and weekly self-inquiry), you’ll learn to align purpose, preparation, and service. Title: "Balancing Spiritual Purpose with Civil Service Aspirations" Subtitle: 𝚄𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚟𝚒𝚌𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚋𝚊𝚋𝚊'𝚜 𝚜𝚑𝚛𝚒𝚖𝚊𝚝 𝚘𝚗 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 & 𝚍𝚞𝚝𝚢 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in September 2025. So please read the following in the same context. Context: The person is preparing for "civil services" in India, and asked questions regarding their path, purpose, and whether this can be considered a Sewa (service) as per the spiritual perspective. And whether they can lead a spiritual life while doing this. And they also asked if this is the right way to lead life, since the "world transformation" is taking place and time is limited. So the following is our complete guidance on the same: ———————————— Question: 𝘊𝘢𝘯 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘗𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘚𝘦𝘷𝘢? 𝗔𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿: Yes, absolutely. Think of your current preparation not just as studying, but as a form of 𝙏𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙨𝙮𝙖 (a dedicated, disciplined effort or austerity). Preparing for Civil Services and performing "administrative duties" can be 𝙨𝙚𝙫𝙖 (selfless service) if your 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 are aligned toward serving others (needy people, the society, the country) rather than primarily seeking personal gain, status, or ego gratification. 𝙎𝙚𝙫𝙖 is not about what you do, but HOW and WHY you do it. The 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (your motive or भावना) behind an action is what transforms it from a simple task into a form of service. 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (भावना) 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬 If your inner motive is 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 society, 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 the vulnerable, and make fair, compassionate decisions, your study time is a "preparation time" for meaningful seva. In general, your intention (𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞) and your way (𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐝) is what decides the outcome of your karma. 𝗢𝗻 𝗞𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘆𝘂𝗴 & 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 It is true indeed that the present time is the 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 of the world cycle. Very soon, the world will shift into 𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐀𝐠𝐞 (𝐒𝐚𝐭𝐲𝐮𝐠) after it undergo a 'spiritual' and a 'physical' transformation. But that does not demand you to stop doing your karma, your 𝐝𝐮𝐭𝐲, your work. In fact, all Baba say is to 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐭, 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐲𝐚𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬. All this, you can do while doing your worldly duties. ☘️In fact, when you renunciate your duties, 𝘔𝘢𝘺𝘢 attacks you even more. Baba know this perfectly, and hence it is baba's shrimat "not to leave your family or your work, but simply 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞 (in your free time) and take your inheritence (of knowledge, love & happiness)" Through this remembrance (yaad), we receive powers to overcome every difficulty or obstacle on our path. Poetically speaking—"Feeling the times are dark (or that the world is to end soon) is NOT a reason to withdraw from your duty; rather, it can be a 'motivation' 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 onto the world, through a more aligned mind, compassionate heart, and responsible action." Read our official page World Transformation Secrets to learn more. 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗕𝗮𝗰𝗸 Once in a while, we forget WHO I AM and get lost in the drama. We may also loose our path, our purpose of life. What i recommend you therefore, is once a week, spend 5–10 minutes asking: “𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘮 𝘪 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨?" and "𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴?” and "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘶𝘭𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯/𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦?"—these are the 𝟑 𝐠𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 to ask, and they will bring you back to your true-self, back to the track of your life. ➤Must read: 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 ➤Must read: 𝐃𝐮𝐭𝐲 (𝐃𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚) 𝐯𝐬 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 (𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧) ➤Must read: BALANCE: Purusharth & Daily Life ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

This is a beautiful explanation of the differences between being a "thinker" (सोचना स्वरूप) and being a "yogi" (स्मृति स्वरूप). MUST READ: स्मृति और संकल्प स्वरुप ● स्मृति‑स्वरूप अर्थात: अपनी मूल पहचान और गुणों (मैं पवित्र, शांत, प्रेम-स्वरूप आत्मा हूँ) तथा शिव बाबा की याद में स्थिर, जागृत अवस्था। यह अनुभव आधारित "awareness" है—श्रेष्ठ एवं शक्तिशाली संकल्प; भीतर शांति, निश्चय और हल्कापन। बीज‑रूप स्थिति: जड़ में शक्ति, विस्तार कम। ● सोचना‑स्वरूप अर्थात: मन में लगातार विचारों का विस्तार— तर्क, तुलना, शंका, अतीत‑भविष्य की उलझन। यह केवल बौद्धिक प्रक्रिया है—बहुत, बिखरे और मिश्रित thought; भीतर हलचल, थकावट, समय‑ऊर्जा की निकासी। टहनियों‑पत्तों जैसा विस्तार, जड़ से कटा हुआ। In Sankalp Swarup (thoughtful state of mind), we search for answers, and in the Smriti Swarup (state of remembrance), we have every answer, there is total clarity. 🪴Murli mein Shiv Baba ne jo kaha hai, "स्मृति स्वरूप बनो, सोचना स्वरूप नहीं" (Smriti Swaroop bano, Sochna Swaroop nahi), usme bahut gehra arth chhupa hai. In dono mein kya fark hai, yeh samajhte hain: ———————————— सोचना स्वरूप (The State of Thinking) Bhavishya ki chinta karte hain: Kya hoga, kaise hoga, yeh sab soch vichar mein lage rehna. Bhootkaal ko yaad karte hain: Gujri hui baaton ko, anubhavon ko dobara man mein chalana, unke baare mein sochna. Vartmaan mein bhi analysis karte hain: Har choti se choti baat ka "kyun" aur "kaise" poochhna, har cheez ko samajhne ki koshish karna, jo aksar mann ko aur uljha deta hai. ✨Yeh sochne ka tarika hamare mann ko vyast rakhta hai, lekin zaruri nahi ki woh humein asli shanti (peace) ya hamari asli pehchan de. Aksar yeh soch vichar 'negativity' aur 'anxiety' ko bhi badhata hai. ———————————— स्मृति स्वरूप (The State of Remembrance/Awareness) ⭐Jab hum "smriti swaroop" mein aate hain, to hum Shiv Baba ki yad mein sthit ho jate hain. Yeh hamari woh avastha hai jab hum: Apni asli pehchan ko yaad karte hain: Hum yaad rakhte hain ki hum ek divya atma hain, shanti dham ke nivasi hain, aur param pita Shiv ke ansh hain. Paramatma se Yog: Hamara dhyaan aur hamari chetna (𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴) ParamAtma par kendrit hoti hai. Hum unki 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐤𝐭𝐢, unki 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐢, unka 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐦 anubhav karte hain. Shaanti aur Ananda: Smriti swaroop mein hum mann ke vicharon se pare, ek shaant aur anandmay avastha ka anubhav karte hain. Yeh mann ki gatividhi nahi, balki atma ki sthirta hai. 🍎Hume umeed hai aapke prashna par ab aapko 'clarity' mili hongi... ➤Adheek gyan praapt karne liye humari eBooks (PDF books) jaroor padhe. ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Losing a job can feel overwhelming and deeply personal, touching on both financial stability and self-worth. While it's normal to experience a range of emotions—from shock and anger to sadness and eventual acceptance—this period of transition also offers a unique opportunity to reflect, heal, and rediscover one's values and goals. Losing a job can feel destabilizing, but it can also open space for reflection, renewal, and unexpected opportunities. This experience is quite similar to the experience of 'failure' after trying your best. Failure is a great teacher. It not only inspires and guide us on becoming better or trying better the next time; but also it develops resilience, sharpens judgment, and builds humility. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in August 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ★ Finding Hope & Meaning ★ (𝚊𝚏𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚓𝚘𝚋) 🌻As i see, this was the only good option for you---to leave the job for which they didnt pay you as promised. Right now, i sense that although you already know what you need to do, the emotion of 'hurt' arising from 'being deceived' is keeping you from moving ahead. Remember: You do not know why this happened... perhaps you were not meant to work that job, at that place, and so Drama (the Universe) guided you out of that... and thus, surely baba have a BETTER plan for you. It is also my own experience>> many times, i did my best to complete a work, obtain something, or to make something happen... gone through the process... but the outcome was not 'desirable'... but with time, i understood why it all happened and how it shaped my life... developed great inner strength in me, made me more detached & selfless and above all, wiser So, you will too learn why this happened for your greater good 👉RIGHT NOW >>all you need is calm yourself, realign with your soul, remember Baba and start applying to other places... But, do not force your entry into any job... just do your best in the process & leave it on god. Remember: "God goes before you" Meaning: His light travels into your future before it happens, and he see whether your this choice would produce what result... and he allows it only if he see your 'highest benefit'... if not, he closes that door & asks you to trust. This is the higher truth... this is why at many times, life doesnt happen as we expect, but in the end, it all makes perfect sense. In the end you see the whole picture and wonder...wow it is beautiful! ———————————— Helpful Links ➤To help you keep 'aligned' to your soul, to hold your FAITH and your life together, i highly recommend you to listen to the VIDEOS on this youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UnstopableJourney1 (also 'Subscribe' for daily videos) ➤Get ALL our posts on 'JOB' related topics https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+job ➤Read: Finding Motivation & Faith ➤Read: Restoring Faith in God ☝️this is all from me... swallow every word into your spirit. Share on WhatsApp⇗ ~ M, SBSI

Introduction: We've all been on both sides of apologies—'offering' them when we've made mistakes and 'receiving' them when others have wronged us. But what actually separates a sincere, meaningful apology from one that feels empty or insufficient? Judging an apology involves more than just listening to the words spoken—it requires evaluating whether the person acknowledges what happened, accepts responsibility, expresses real remorse, and commits to making things right. Both verbal content and nonverbal cues—like tone and facial expressions—play crucial roles in how apologies are received and whether they foster forgiveness or further distrust. This forum post provides you essenceful understanding to correctly judge an apology. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in August 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ——————————— Knowing when someone is genuinely apologetic and how to forgive them can be challenging, especially in the aftermath of significant hurt or betrayal. Here are some guidelines that may help: Signs of a Genuine Apology: ➤𝐀𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲: The person takes full responsibility for their actions without making excuses or blaming others. ➤𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐲: They express sincere remorse and understanding of the pain they've caused you. ➤𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐫: They follow up the apology with sustained changes in their problematic behavior over time. ➤𝐍𝐨 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬: They do not demand or expect immediate forgiveness, understanding that rebuilding trust takes time. Sings that Apology is Not Genuine: ➤Repeat Offense: They continue to engage in the same hurtful behavior despite repeated apologies. ➤Conditional Statements: They apologize only if you agree to certain conditions or "make it up to them." ➤Manipulation: They use the apology to regain your trust and then repeat the offense. The Pathway to Forgiveness Gradually Open Your Heart - If their actions demonstrate genuine change, slowly allow yourself to open up and forgive, one step at a time. ➤To understand & find more help/guidance on forgiveness please read & follow our post: Forgiveness Meditation (step by step) and ➤Also read: Karma & Forgiveness ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Leaving a toxic relationship is never easy—it often comes after a long journey of pain, confusion, and countless attempts to make things work. Yet, choosing to step away is not a sign of weakness but of immense strength, self-respect, and courage. Healing from such an experience is about reclaiming your peace, rebuilding your self-worth, and creating space for growth, love, and new possibilities. In this post, we will explore how to heal the hurt, the relationship, embrace forgiveness, and choose spiritual growth & self-worth to progress ahead in life. Subtitle: 𝙳𝚘𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚝, 𝚏𝚒𝚗𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝙱𝚊𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎, 𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 & 𝚌𝚑𝚘𝚘𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝙶𝚛𝚘𝚠𝚝𝚑 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in June 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐫𝐲: My husband has been having an affair for 5 years, and we both know about it. Despite me giving him so many chances, he continues his behavior. I have done my best to make this relationship work (incl, Affirmations). But now, for a few months, I have gone into silent mode. Now it’s getting intolerable for me to stay with him in the same house. Please guide me what is best for me. ——————————— 𝙍𝙀𝙎𝙋𝙊𝙉𝙎𝙀 Here is our detailed guidance for you👉 As i understand, the most challenging part of this has ended... and you have come through it successfully. Now you have come in connection through this platform, because this was the time for you to "progress ahead" to the next phase of your life. 🌻Your feelings are completely justified. After years of betrayal, broken promises, and verbal abuse, going silent is actually a form of 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. You are to "save your energy" and "redirect it" to your 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞-𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞 (goals) and 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 🍁You are not responsible for fixing him or the marriage alone. A relationship requires TWO people committed to change, adjustment, and healing. As you said, you have tried—𝘢𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗣𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 Your soul is calling for alignment. The intolerable feeling you are experiencing is your intuition saying this situation no longer serves your highest good. 🌷Sometimes love means 𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐨. True love - including 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 - sometimes requires difficult decisions to honor your wellbeing and growth. If nothing is helping your husband to realise the path of 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡, 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐲 & 𝐝𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚... and if there is a lack of love & respect, then it is good also for him if you 'separate' yourself from his life, and gift him some "space" for 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 & 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. 🪻You deserve 𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚎, 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚝, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚌 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎. These aren't luxuries - they're basic human needs. Remember: Love is not meant to break you. True partnership is built on 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 & 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐲, not secrecy and abuse. Part 2 𝗔𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 You are practising affirmations, so i highly suggest you to follow our 3-page affirmations-guide⇗ Affirm: “I deserve peace. I deserve respect. I deserve love that uplifts me.” Besides affirmations, practise 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐚𝐤𝐚𝐬𝐡 (sending 'positive' vibrations/thoughts) with a clear 'intention' to heal or transform someone. Also, follow our detailed guidance on Healing Karmic Account. Find all our posts using this link: https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+settle+karma⇗ 𝗦𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵 You mentioned going into silent mode. Silence can sometimes be a shield, 𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲. But silence is not supression. Instead of silent suffering, 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐞 '𝐬𝐚𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞'—using quiet moments to reconnect with yourself (𝚙𝚛𝚊𝚢𝚎𝚛, 𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚝𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, 𝚓𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐) and ask: "What is my soul asking for now? What is my role here?" 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 & 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗚𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗹 Forgiveness is greatly important in the spiritual journey and growth. Because by forgiving others, you FREE YOURSELF as well as HEAL them 𝐛𝐲 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭... This way, you give them another chance to change and become a better person. 🌈"Be Grateful" for what happened, even when it wasn't pleasant. Because you will realise that 𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝. You will know that "no one is to be blamed, as whatever we experience, is a result of our own past karma & choices". People just become instruments (medium) to bring you what you have earned with your karma. ✶Tip: Follow our post: 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (a step-wise guide) 🌳Lastly, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞. There is LIFE, PEACE, and great JOY beyond this chapter. Stop holding on to what only hurts you—and step into the unknown where 'healing' and 'new possibilities' await. You will be able to release this toxic relationship first by 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 him completely, 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥 for the life-lessons, and then 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 & 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 over attachment and limited desires. The Summary ➙'Forgiveness' is essential, even if you choose to part your ways (give divorce). ➙Bless him so his soul is 'empowered' to change its old habits. Remember: "𝙻𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚜𝚝 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚎𝚛" ➙if you find a POSITIVE CHANGE in him after practising 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (link given above), then you may choose to STAY together... but if not, then choose your peace... 𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 for you. ➙Ultimately, you are guided by your higher self through 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠)... so always listen to that. Follow your natural instinct, the gut-feeling. ✶𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫: I am always here. This divine platform Samadhan is your family. They are truly life-changing. Remember every word you read in this response message and you will cross this easily with God's help. ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

We all carry fragments of the past within us—echoes of joy, shadows of pain, and unresolved chapters that whisper through our present lives. Sometimes, these lingering memories hold us captive, replaying old wounds, scenes, or manifesting as persistent "patterns" we can’t seem to break. And beneath it all, there is a weight of unresolved karma, urging us toward resolution and growth. In this post, we’ll journey into the heart of healing—not just to soothe yesterday’s scars, but to consciously settle the karmic threads that bind us to cycles of repetition. Discover how healing past memories and embracing soul-level accountability can gift us liberation, turning inherited burdens into "sacred wisdom" and freeing you to step fully into the light of your spiritual path. Title: "𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙋𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙈𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙨 & 𝙎𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙆𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙖" Subtitle: 𝙶𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚗 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚜 & 𝚔𝚊𝚛𝚖𝚊 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖 & 𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜 ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in June 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— ☘️You are not alone in this situation—many souls on the path feel this too. And yet, the fact that you know it’s a 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐜 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐚, and you continue to walk it with 𝚊𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜, shows the immense "spiritual maturity" already blossoming within you. Here is 'emotional' and 'spiritual' guidance for you—a garland strung from 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗, 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚠𝚒𝚜𝚍𝚘𝚖, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚘𝚠𝚗 𝚕𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝: ⸻⸻⸻ 1. 𝗛𝗼𝗻𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗜𝘁 Pain is a messenger, not a home. When your mind revisits your husband’s betrayal, don’t resist the memory. 𝐎𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 it gently, like watching a ripple in a pond. Tell it silently: “𝘐 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶. 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶. 𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶.” This simple shift of awareness and perspective—turns suffering into 'witnessing' and 'learning'. Each time you do this, you’re reclaiming a piece of your power. 2. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝗦𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗞𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗮, 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗲𝗱 What feels like “terrible suffering” is the soul burning away past karmic accounts at lightning speed. Think of it like gold being refined. You’re not being punished—𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐞𝐝. Say to yourself often: “𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘮 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺. 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘯𝘰 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦.” 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫: Every time you do this with awareness, you break an invisible chain that bound you for lifetimes. 3. 𝗥𝗲𝘄𝗶𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗚𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗔𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 The heart heals with repetition, like a mantra weaving light into old wounds. Try repeating softly each day: • “I am a peaceful soul. No one can steal my inner peace.” • “This betrayal was a chapter for me to LEARN and GROW spiritually.” • “I now bless those who hurt me. I am free, and they are free.” Even if it feels mechanical at first, the soul hears. Keep whispering until it becomes your inner song. To learn & practise affirmations (Swamaan), please follow our affirmations guide⇗ 4. 𝗘𝗺𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗗𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 (𝗩𝗮𝗶𝗿𝗮𝗴𝘆𝗮) Spiritual detachment is the conscious practice of releasing unhealthy attachment to outcomes, possessions, identities, and even people, while remaining fully engaged in life. It is not being indifferent or cold in emotion, but an inner spiritual stage of "being aware" of your spiritual/true identity. By observing thoughts, emotions, and circumstances without letting them define or consume us, we cultivate profound inner freedom and resilience. This allows us to act with clarity and compassion. Practising detachment 'expands' our consciousness and the presence beyond what is visible. In your case, spiritual detachment doesn’t mean you don’t feel. It means you 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭. You’ve already begun this through your understanding of the 𝘥𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘢. Expand it further—see your husband, yourself, everyone—as 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬. Say within: “His role was painful, but it pushed me into 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨. I now rise, not despite him, but because of him.” 5. 𝗗𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝗼𝘂𝗹 𝗡𝘂𝗿𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 Even five minutes can shift your vibration: • Sit quietly, breathe deeply. • Visualize yourself as "a point of light" at the center of your forehead. • Connect with the Supreme Soul (Shiv Baba), the Ocean of Love and Purity. • Absorb peace and sit under baba's 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚑𝚒𝚝𝚎 𝚕𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝. Let the Supreme wash your wounds. Let that divine love remind you: "𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘦. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘯." Watch this animation video to learn how to visualise receiving this healing white light from the supreme soul (Shiv Baba): "𝙁𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙁𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢" Forgiveness doesn’t mean saying what happened was okay. It means you refuse to carry the poison any longer. It’s the soul’s final act of 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞. Let it go—drop it at the feet of the Divine. Every time you remember the betrayal, place it like a waste material in God’s hand and say, “You take it. I choose freedom.” ✨You are already healing. The pain is proof you’re alive and evolving. Keep walking. Keep breathing. Keep remembering: 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲. 👉This group is here, and I am here whenever you need guidance or support. "stay connected" and do read our 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 that i post on this Samadhan group every day. ———————————— ✱ 𝙃𝙚𝙡𝙥𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙇𝙞𝙣𝙠𝙨 >>> ➤Get all our posts on "𝐒𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐊𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐜 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐬" https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Ashivbabas.org%2Fforum+settle+karma (on Google) ➤Post: 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 ➤Post: 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭, 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐉𝐨𝐲 & 𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 ➤Post: Karma & Forgiveness ➤Post: Forgiveness Meditation (step by step) ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

Meditation is a simple practice of turning your attention inward to find calm and clarity amid life’s noise. In our fast-paced, often overwhelming world, finding moments of genuine calm and clarity can feel like an impossible quest. Meditation is a practical, accessible tool proven to reduce stress, enhance focus, improve emotional well-being, and cultivate a deeper sense of inner peace. ★ Guide To Meditation ★ Meditation is og highest importance in life, as it is the practise when the soul experiences the presence of the supreme soul (god). Through meditation, we can attain self-control on all our sense & the mind. Upon which, the soul attains liberation from Maya (the 5 vices arising from body-consciousness). When the mind is focussed in God, the soul is purified, we receive an abundance of love, joy & powers from the father. Also read: Staying in Soul consciousness General Meditation In common terms, meditation is a simple practice you can do anywhere to help your mind and body relax. Find a quiet spot, sit comfortably with your back straight, and close your eyes or soften your gaze. Focus on your natural breath—inhaling and exhaling deeply without trying to change it. When thoughts or distractions come up, notice them without judgment and gently bring your attention back to your breath. Focus your sight on your nose to remove the distractions in your vision. 🪴Start with just 5 minutes a day and gradually increase to 10–15 minutes as you feel more comfortable. Consistency is key: doing it at the same time each day helps meditation become a helpful habit. RajYog Meditation Raja yoga (राजयोग) is connecting with the divine, the higher power (the supreme soul, Shiv Baba). It is through RajYog that the soul is purified from the karmic debts of many lives. ➤Learn RajYog through our official guide: https://www.shivbabas.org/rajyoga-meditation (with accurate background knowledge, steps & resources) ➤Learn RajYog by using our selected meditation music & guided commentaries (Hindi & English) ——————————— VIDEOS ➤Guided meditation Experience (Hindi) ➤Guided meditation Experience (English) ➤Daily Morning 'energising' meditation by BK Shivani https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WQJOxSViGM ➤HINDI: Guided Meditation by BK Shivani https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnT_cOq_Ba8 ➤ENGLISH: Guided Meditation by BK Shivani https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgChzlOt3XI ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

A must read post: Life and relationships: two inseparable forces shaping who we are and how we experience the world. Understanding ourselves (self-realisation), examining the lessons learned from struggles, self-discovery through relationships, and the spiritual growth that blooms from the journey of life. This post aims to offer perspective on this journey, while explaining the depths of karma, life, and healing relationship with family (parents in this case). Title: "𝙄𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 & 𝙍𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥𝙨" Subtitle: 𝚂𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚘𝚗 𝙺𝚊𝚛𝚖𝚊, 𝙻𝚒𝚏𝚎 & 𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚛𝚎𝚕𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚑𝚒𝚙 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝙿𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚜 Index Insight on Karmic Patterns Greater Purpose of Life Conclusion 4 Practical Suggestions ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in June 2025. So please read the following in the same context. ———————————— 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 The situation of your friend as you have described, suggests that is rather 𝐚 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚 & 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐲 married together. Let me explain: He is born in a well-doing family, but generally lacks the support that he desires and deserves. This is what i understand from what you have written. So he is given one thing and not given another. 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗼𝗻 𝗞𝗮𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗰 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻𝘀 The unusual relationship that you described of your friend with his parents, is a result of a past life karmic account between them, plus the karma that they all jointly created in this life. "𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙪𝙡𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙠𝙖𝙧𝙢𝙖". This is the highest truth. Even when you think it is the parents being harsh, KNOW that it is just the way Karma is getting settled for your friend. 𝗕𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗦𝗶𝗱𝗲: It is more important to notice that the situation isn't as bad on its own, but only 'feels' painful 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐭𝐨𝐨 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐭. Most of the sorrow we experience is a "creation of our own mind" by overthinking and making a situation look worst than it it... and we then miss seeing the "bright side" and the 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 of growth that it has brought. 🌿We know that not all parents are perfect, and although seeking their support is natural, it is not vital for your 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞'𝐬 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞 to fulfil. No... 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐰 𝐢𝐬: "Every soul reaches its life's purpose no matter what happens and what does not". No matter who supports and who doesn't. God has given us no real reason to worry. 🌈The universe works all things for you. All you need to do is FOCUS on your path, 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚 𝐧𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡. All the rest is done by the natural process of life. God helps all his children at right time & in the best way. 𝐈𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐝, you will see how it all worked out 'perfectly' by the grace of god. Always remember this. 𝗚𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 The 'key' to understanding such situations & challenges in life is knowing that: "𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙩, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙜𝙧𝙤𝙬𝙩𝙝 & 𝙚𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣" 🪴𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 happens when the soul goes through all kinds of experiences (both 'pleasant' and 'unpleasant'). 𝐄𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 is the greater spiritual process, which progresses ahead when the soul LEARNS through those experiences and its 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜 expands. 🍁Even in the earthly perspective, look at the life stories of those who achieved 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 in their fields. One thing common in them is the "struggle" and "disappointments" they faced in the path. Those struggles (whether emotional, financial, spiritual, or any) that they faced actually 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫, 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦, and "prepared" them for the work they eventually did. 🪷If life happened all comfortable, they would have not "learned", there would be thus no GROWTH in their wisdom & consciousness... and there would thus be no success. 🌻Also, the reason God allows us to go through this "process" is not to test us, but to PREPARE us for the success, for the 'blessing' he has to offer. Because it is not just about reaching success, but also 𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭. And you can maintain and grow your success only when you are PREPARED in every way---𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 strong & mature, 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 grounded, and 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 'aligned' to your purpose. 𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗖𝗟𝗨𝗦𝗜𝗢𝗡 Now that we have explained the 'spiritual insight' behind what happen in life, you understand why all things happen for a GOOD cause. It is not to stop or trouble you, but to PREPARE and help you GROW in spirit, in your consciousness. Thus, see life this way and you will see the truth. You will see 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 behind the challenges, the 𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐲 behind the uncertainties, 𝐠𝐨𝐝'𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐮𝐫 amidst the struggles, and 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 at the end of the tunnel. Practical Suggestions The following are our suggestions for your friend. He should start following as he can👉 1. 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗔𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 I see you have some EMIs to pay. So you are working a job, and doing the duties of a good son. That is 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞, 𝐚 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐤 on the society (and on the world) that how a good child should be. Do Not worry about other things. You do not need to send money to your parents, unless asked. Rather, try to save money and put it where it is more needed. 2. 𝗗𝗼 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗕𝗹𝗮𝗺𝗲 You have been strong and steady all this way. Now is not the time to be weak, or put blame on your parents. They are how they have become due to the 'society' they affiliate to, the 'culture' and the 'norms' that they follow, and the 'beliefs' they have nurtured. 🪻It's just that they do not understand "your perspective" right now. This is why they go harsh on you sometimes, not being able to see the struggle and hard work you put. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬: Let them know about it, tell them how you are managing with multiple jobs and still able to save money & even send them. Also show them how difficult is to get a job in India right now. They would thus realise how significant your 'contribution' and your 'effort' is. ((But do all this with "peace" in your mind)) 3. 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 This is an essential step and also a 'process' to go through. We invite you to HEAL this special bond with "love" and "patience". You can do this by practising 𝐑𝐚𝐣𝐘𝐨𝐠, 𝐒𝐰𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐚𝐧 & 𝐒𝐚𝐤𝐚𝐬𝐡 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. We know of many people whose relationships are healed when they practised giving Sakash (intense 'positive' 𝚟𝚒𝚋𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜/𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚜 with an intention to HEAL a relationship by sending/seeking 'forgiveness') For this, you need to LEARN and PRACTISE giving sakash. Please follow our article: Sakash: Meaning, Purpose, Method 𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: 3 Thoughts to HEAL any relationship (by BK Shivani) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38lXq_q5D9Q 𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: 'Affirmations' to heal a relationship (BK Shivani) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ii6KPi5S8_8 ➙Also read our specific post on 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 4. 𝗧𝗼𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 Above all, i welcome you to take our "introductory course" called the 7 days RajYog course online on our website, where you will get all resources to understand the spiritual knowledge in greater depth. 🌼Join our WhatsApp group 𝐒𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐝𝐡𝐚𝐧 (𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐀𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐬) and stay in this divine community. You will receive 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 & 𝐮𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬, along with the responses i post regularly. As a member, you would also be able to seek help & support by posting ONE message on the group. Join with this link👉 https://chat.whatsapp.com/E9lli5UrT4u6RE6mM80akO ✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜" Share on WhatsApp⇗ ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)

As temperatures soar during the summer months, extreme heat transforms from a mere inconvenience into a serious health hazard. Often underestimated as a "silent threat," heatwaves can overwhelm the body's natural cooling systems, leading to dangerous conditions like heat exhaustion and heatstroke—illnesses that are preventable yet potentially fatal. Protecting yourself and others requires understanding these risks and taking proactive steps. This brief guide outlines essential strategies for staying cool, hydrated, and safe when the mercury rises, empowering you to navigate the hottest days with confidence and well-being. "𝙎𝙩𝙖𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙎𝙖𝙛𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙩" Subtitle: 𝙻𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚗 𝙷𝙾𝚆 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚔𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚜𝚊𝚏𝚎 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚠𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚜𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚒𝚗 𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚜 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍 𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚗𝚘𝚠 ——————————— ➤To stay safe during a heatwave, follow these key steps➤ 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗛𝘆𝗱𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱: Drink plenty of water throughout the day. Avoid sugar, sweets, spicy food, alcohol and caffeinated beverages. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗖𝗼𝗼𝗹: Spend time in air-conditioned environments, use fans, and take cool-water showers or baths. 𝗟𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘁 𝗢𝘂𝘁𝗱𝗼𝗼𝗿 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗲𝘀: Avoid strenuous activities and stay indoors during peak heat hours (11 am to 5 pm) 𝗗𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗔𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆: Wear lightweight, loose-fitting, thin cotton, and light-colored clothing. 𝗨𝘀𝗲 𝗦𝘂𝗻 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: Apply sunscreen, wear a wide-brimmed hat, cover your skin, and use sunglasses to protect against UV rays. 𝗖𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸 𝗼𝗻 𝗩𝘂𝗹𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲: Ensure the well-being of elderly, young children, and those with health conditions. 𝗞𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝘁-𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗜𝗹𝗹𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗲𝘀: Be aware of symptoms like dizziness, headache, nausea, and confusion, and seek medical help if needed. ☝️By following these precautions, you can reduce the risk of heat-related illnesses and stay safe during this heatwave. ——————————— 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙤 𝙞𝙛 𝙄 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙖 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙠𝙚? Answer: 𝐂𝐨𝐨𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐃𝐨𝐰𝐧 Use any available means to cool them down quickly: ➥Remove excess clothing. ➥Place ice packs or cool, wet towels on their neck, armpits, and groin. ➥Mist the person with water and fan them. ➥Immerse the person in a tub of cool water, if possible. ""This is a general emergency particularly in 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚, 𝐦𝐢𝐝𝐝𝐥𝐞 𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐭, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 𝐔𝐒𝐀"" "help each other by 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 such messages" Godly Greetings & Blessings, From: 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕙𝕞𝕒 𝕂𝕦𝕞𝕒𝕣𝕚𝕤 𝔾𝕠𝕕𝕝𝕪 𝕌𝕟𝕚𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕚𝕥𝕪 www.shivbabas.org

"Bribery: a corrosive practice undermining fairness, trust, and organised system. Yet, the decision to participate often isn't abstract, landing squarely on the shoulders of someone caught between "moral principle" and "perceived necessity". Here is our insight on this matter. ★ BRIBE: To give or Not to give? ★ Q: I need a job... i am told that if i want to keep this job, i need to pay them a bribe & there is no other way... it is a conflict between my mind & heart... Should i pay bribe? Is it morally right? What should i do? The Response Mukesh, i understand the situation.. 🍁So in one hand, you have to secure a job... but in order to do so, you need to pay money (as a 'bribe') which is against your spiritual & moral principles >>which is true, because paying money for something like this, is just as encouraging dishonesty and injustice in the society... and indirectly becoming a part of that. 🍎So i would first suggest you to see for the available OPTIONS you have in hand >> see if you can keep this job without paying a bribe... if that is possible, please THINK and look for that options. Other Ways: For example: See if you can talk to the supervisors, the manager/director of the company and report them about this matter... or perhaps you can rather try to convince them to give you this job on basis on your merits... if both of this does not work, consider "reporting to the local police" and ask them to inspect the matter. 🌻Look—if all you want is to get this job, then most probably, the only way may be just to first give the bribe... and then see if you can get the money back from them by 'reporting' the matter to your supervisor, head of department, managing director, etc. ------------------ IF NOT >> then think about WHY i need this job? ➤if you need this job to sustain your family, pay bills, etc (which cannot be avoided), then we recommend you to pay the bribe & keep the job (because keeping the job is more important for you in this given case) and ➤if you 'do not' need this job that badly, then listen to your heart and 'do not' pay the bribe at first place... and leave. Whether you should or should not give bribe depends on your situation >> whether how important the job is for you & your family. Your DHARMA is to make sure that your intention is pure and you only wish to keep the job so as to take care of your family. But ultimately, it is YOU who would decide... as DHARMA is unique to every human being... All of us may individually decide on what is right for me to do >> What is right for me to do, may not be the best for you to do... understand? Thus, my dharma is to give you 'clairty' and 'show you the right way to think'. ☝️this is our 'insight' and 'advise' for you. ➤Recommended post: Dharma (Duty) vs Passion (Desire) "stay connected" ———————————— 𝐵𝑒 𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹..✨ Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ, 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)