Be The Giver In Your Relationships
Navigating through our relationships today, let us check if we are the givers of care, attention, and forgiveness. Often we start as givers but gradually shift to the wanting side of things. Relationships are strong when we only give…and give. They become business when we expect a give-and-take. In your important relationships, do you see clear evidence where you have given more goodness than you have taken? Even if it’s one-sided, do you radiate selfless love, respect, and care to the other person? If yes, your qualities are conducive to creating lasting relationships.
➤When we take care of ourselves emotionally and spiritually, we recognize our self-worth and discover an unending supply of inner treasures of happiness, peace, and love. We will need nothing from others. We will have so much to give in terms of energy that we naturally radiate it to people. Relationships are about giving and not so much about receiving. We give the right energies not because we need it, but because giving feels good and giving is our nature. And when we radiate goodness, we are the first ones to receive our energy. We are emotionally powerful, self-sufficient, and independent.
➤Remember that you are a loveful soul and the creator of your relationships. Caring for family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, and society is your nature. Relationships are important for you, their happiness matters to you. Choose to be the giver in every relationship. Give love and acceptance and unconditionally be there for them.
➤As you give and receive them you will become full of these qualities. So you don’t need them from anyone else. Do not need people to be your way, they can be your way. Do not think, hear or speak about weaknesses. Thank everyone who loves and supports you. Thank everyone who has not been right to you for giving you the opportunity to increase your patience, adjustment, and tolerance. You need nothing. You only give in your relationships.
Suggested Link âž”
Message for Today
"The trust we place in others earns their cooperation"
Points to think about:
When we trust others, it also means strengthening their trust in them. This naturally boosts their confidence and builds enthusiasm. Then they are better able to respond to honest feelings and use their full potential.
Procedure:
When I notice that someone I work with is not cooperating with me, it is necessary to test my trust in that person. When I can appreciate their unique qualities, my trust in that person grows. As my confidence grows, so does their attitude towards me. Gradually, we get closer and it becomes easier to work together.