Beautiful Relationships is Success (Part 2)
2 ● Along with creating affirmations for the self, a very important virtue which makes relationships stronger and more beautiful is respect for others. Why is it that nowadays either 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 is lacking or even if its present, it is not constant? Why have people become so egoistic and even a small negative circumstance can make all the respect shared between two people to be forgotten. Today, you see two people respecting each other immensely and after a year or two, they don’t see eye to eye. What is it that is not working in relationships?
➤𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀, 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝘀𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗸𝗮𝗿𝘀, 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘀, 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝗼𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀, 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆𝗹𝗲𝘀, 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 and not only thinking about oneself will make relationships lovely and they will work longer. Remember the one who respects oneself or has good and positive self-respect, is the one who respects others more. A first step to a good relationship is a positive self affirmation every morning – I am special and unique in this world and so is the other. I respect myself and respect the other. I give the other space to be themselves. That is true respect.
3 ● A beautiful characteristic of each soul in this world is 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐮𝐦 𝐨𝐟 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞. Sometimes some people’s love is conditional and based on selfish desires. As long as their desires are fulfilled, they are full of love for the other. The moment the other person is unable to fulfill their desires, they can become revengeful and bitter. This is false love. So, becoming full of true and unconditional love is the key to long-term and positive relationships. This kind of sharing of love will resolve differences with others and keep you united and strongly connected always.
(To be continued tomorrow...)
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Message for Today
"To be a giver means to give according to need"
Expression: The one who is a giver would be sensitive to the needs of others and will be able to give what the other person needs at the right time, instead of giving what he wants to give. Also such a person is able to give without expecting anything in return.
Experience: When there is even a little thought to share with others whatever I have, I would naturally be able to perceive my own inner treasures and experience being full. Sharing with others, whatever I can, enables me to get their good wishes also. I thus find myself experiencing the richness of life.