Beautiful Relationships is Success (Part 1)
We are all living in a close knit world where relationships are an important medium of life which connects all of us closely. Today, sadly but truly, relationships are no longer as 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐟𝐮𝐥 as they used to be earlier. We are commonly hearing of early divorces and sudden breakups in friendships and so many other types of relationships at the workplace or with loved ones in the family and outside family. Where are we heading? Why are relationships so weak today? There are many 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 we have from each-other. People are lesser content with each other than before and there is anger, ego, jealousy, possessiveness and insecurity surrounding relationships much more than before. There are also people who do not disclose their relationship problems with others but are silently suffering. Let’s look at a few basic methods to make our relationships stronger and based on the correct foundation of constant peace, love and joy.
1 ● Give a few minutes everyday to 𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐣𝐨𝐲 through beautiful affirmations. Reaffirming to yourself regularly about 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗻𝗮𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲, 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗷𝗼𝘆 will strengthen that nature further. The more your sanskars are full of these three qualities, the more your thoughts, words and actions will be full of these qualities. As a result, your 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬. The most important cause of relationships collapsing is inner emptiness and inability to share these qualities with the other person. Expectations are the seed of most problems in all relationships and all expectations exist because the qualities of peace, love and joy are not present adequately inside people.
(To be continued tomorrow...)
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Message for Today
"Honesty brings success in relationships"
Expression: Honesty means being the same inside out. Honesty with oneself helps one to bring about constant improvement in the self. Honesty with others enables one to relate positively under all circumstances. There is no rudeness but there is an openness that brings about love towards the other soul.
Experience: When I am honest, I am able to experience progress in my own life and others are benefited too with my own self-progress. I am able to maintain harmony in my relationship with others because I am open with them and I find myself successful in my relationships.