Break Free from "Need Of Approval"
We are each unique individuals and so is our journey of life. Getting approval for who we are and what we do certainly feels nice, it tells us we are doing something right. But being a people-pleaser and constantly seeking validation makes us live in bondage, on other peopleโs terms. We ultimately waste our potential and feel emotionally drained.
โฆ Start living as per your desires and your potential. Life is so much easier ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ. ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ โค I am a wise being. I am not dependent on peopleโs validation or approval for my choices. Itโs my life. I am free to choose what is right for me, not what people approve of.
โฆ Do you compromise on your ๐๐ก๐จ๐ข๐๐๐ฌ, ๐๐๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ, ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ก๐๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ when someone you admire, does not like them? Is getting peopleโs approval a higher priority than doing what feels right for you? Not easy to recognize or admit, but some of our behaviours may reflect an approval addiction. The biggest traps most of us fall into, is trying to please people close to us.
โฆ Who we are, what we do or what we have are, should always be our decision. We need not tweak our personality to gain someone elseโs approval. Letโs focus on living our values and do what feels right. We have all the answers within us. We only need to activate our intuition and follow our conscience. When we approve of our being and doing, we stop asking people to certify our worth. Otherwise our self-esteem crashes. And then, neither we nor others will respect us. You donโt need to copy anyone. Be yourself all the time. You donโt need people to approve of you, feel grateful for whoever shows you love or appreciation, but donโt seek approval.
โฆ Care selflessly, help without conditions. You need nothing from anyone. Inculcate the art of remaining stable in appreciation and in criticism. Teach your mind not to seek external validation, to only remain focused on your purpose, goals and plans that make your life meaningful.
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Message for Today
"Concentration on Positive Thoughts brings Power and Growth"
Expression: Whatever thoughts are concentrated upon, those thoughts become powerful. It is like the growth of a seed. When a thought, a positive thought, is planted in the mind and it is concentrated upon, it becomes like sunlight adding energy. The more the concentration on them, the quicker and better these thoughts grow and manifest to reality.
Experience: When I am able to create a positive thought, each morning and water it with attention throughout the day, I am able to find myself becoming more and more powerful. Negative circumstances or people with negativity do not influence me but I become a powerful source for finishing that negativity. I am able to maintain this positive thought under all circumstances.