How to Live Happily?
The following was our response written on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2023. Title: "How to Live Life Happily at Fullest?" (in-general guidance, applicable to everyone)
๐ฑYou mentioned a few things about your husband and your good wishes for life. Words weren't clear so i had to go through your message a few times. What became clear is that you want to do something worthwhile in life, to help others... which demands financial help from your husband, who is money conscious. He does not spend money easily.
๐Well, we would not say that spending money lavishly is wise. But yes, use your money in right things which gives you happiness.
โฅ Going to trips and holidays
โฅ Spending time with family & friends
โฅ Making memories
โฅ Buying things which are useful in daily life
โฅ Doing what you truly love!
โ๏ธThese are good use of money
Tip: Also please read our beautiful post on How to Enjoy Life (with steps, videos & examples)
๐นComing to your goodwill to help everyone >> this noble service you can do without need of money, or with a little money. Help is not always financial... Service simply means 'sharing' what you have in excess. You can share love, peace, joy, empowering words, time (moments of life), good advice (like we do) and much more... all of which does not need any money to begin. Giving HOPE to someone is also a GREAT service.
๐บNow coming to >> how to be happy? >> "change your attitude to life" >> there are 100 good things, 1000 right things happening in your life RIGHT NOW... focus on them >> be grateful for the gifts of life >> and if you need something else too, work towards it and stay assured that God always and will always provide whatever your soul desire.
โ Please read our post Affirmations and Manifestation
โถ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ: "Secrets of a Good husband-wife relationship" โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0uLLuodEFhE (by Sandeep Maheshwari)
and
โถ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ: "How to Not get affected by others?" โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpuZtSDaOtw (by BK Shivani)
๐ธHave good wishes for your husband >> he has his own point of view & what he does is justified >> also that spending money wisely is equally important.
๐ชดIf you wish to CHANGE his sanskaar, only love and spiritual empowerment is one sure method. Only LOVE can change someone for good.
๐๐๐ข๐๐๐จ: "How to CHANGE a person?" โค https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HcTwOoZFe88 (by sister Shivani)
๐ณNever be angry on your husband. If he comes home with anger, your PEACE and LOVE is powerful enough to calm him down and uplift his mood. Wife is also like a Mother.
Remember: "The Light of your Love is all he need to become the best version of himself"
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So if you wish to truly enjoy life, learn to:
โฅ understand the situations
โฅ adjust sometimes
โฅ love all-ways
โฅ act with "peace" in mind
โฅ take decisions with "patience"
โฅ do Not worry about "past"
โฅ take "lessons" from past mistakes
โฅ keep your "intention" positive & clean
โฅ send "positive" thoughts to your family
โฅ "bless" yourself & all others
โฅ be "hopefull" for the future
โฅ take every day a NEW beginning
โฅ Live as if Today is the last day
โ๏ธThat is all you need to become the best version of yourself, and thus to live the life at its fullest.
Tip: Also please read our beautiful post on How to Enjoy Lifeย (with steps, videos & examples)
On Godly Service,
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