True Friendship
Foreword: A true friendship is grounded in trust, honesty, and genuine care, where both individuals feel seen and valued for who they truly are. It does not demand perfection but embraces imperfections of each other, while definitely offering insight, opinion, and support to each other whenever needed.
A true friendship nurtures growth through understanding and empathy. In a true friendship, comfort and security allow for openness, vulnerability, and support through both highs and lows. Ultimately, it reflects the freedom to be oneself without fear of judgment, creating a bond that flourishes and strengthen over time.
The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in June 2024.
Query: I have a friend who is lazy and always gets late in everything. Sometimes i get agitated and speak harsh words to her. I want to know how to handle this friendship the right way.
Response:
🌴Like any other relationship, the core of friendship is "love" and especially in this relationship—"unconditional love & acceptance"
🌷This is what YOU would expect from a good friend, wont you? Someone with whom you can be yourself without worrying of judgements and criticism... Won't you enjoy that kind of friendship?
🪻If you truly are a good friend > that is > if you truly love your friend, then let them (her/him) be themself (herself/himself) >> Taking time, more of less, is taking time none the less... but she would be much 'happier' and 'comfortable' in your company if you stop judging her for this little aspect of "being late".
🍀Your friendship will flourish and strengthen if you appreciate her qualities, comfort her in your presense and help her to do things quicker (instead of criticising her for being late)
Essence of Friendship:
"Be The Friend, As You Wish A Good Friend Of Yours To Be"
Quotes on Friendship
✱𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧 "𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽" 𝐛𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬:
A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
A friend is someone who makes it easy to believe in yourself.
A friend is someone who knows the song of your soul, and sings it back to you when you have forgotten the words.
Friendship is not about whom you have known the longest; it is about who came and never left your side.
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𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈...
Oᑎ ᘜOᗪᒪY SᗴᖇᐯIᑕᗴ,
𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝖍𝖎𝖛 𝕭𝖆𝖇𝖆 𝕾𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖎𝖈𝖊𝖘 𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 (SBSI)
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