How to Help Someone?
On this post, we are writing guidance on "๐๐๐ค๐ช๐ก๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ฅ? ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐๐ก๐ฅ ๐๐ค๐ข๐๐ค๐ฃ๐?"
๐ฑThis is a question of ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐... We all face this situation in life, where we have to choose whether to help a person, and if yes, then HOW to help them?
โ๏ธOf course, this response is general and we are putting the truest words, a pure spiritual understanding using which an individual soul can freely decide by their own will.
๐ดNever to forget that to help is a human being's Dharma (๐ด๐ฑ๐ช๐ณ๐ช๐ต๐ถ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ฃ๐ญ๐ช๐จ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ). So if you are capable to help someone in need, do it... and do it without a second thought.
๐ฟBut remember... help doesn't always hold a straightforward meaning. For example: If a beggar comes to you and ask for money... and you give it. He then use that money for gambling or alcohol or does some other wrong use of money. The burden of that karma also comes on YOU, since you provided the money!
You may have known this wisdom as it is often told by parents and our well-wishers not to give cash/money to beggars. The best way to help them therefore, would be to provide them with food, clothes, a job or shelther (something which cannot be misused and always ๐ด๐ฆ๐ณ๐ท๐ฆ๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ)
In fact, giving them an opportunity is the best way to help.
โ๏ธApply the same wisdom in every situation... To help someone truly, is to give them a "๐๐๐๐๐๐" and "๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ข".
โถ๐ ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด: Giving an "opportunity" to progress... and here "medium" means a straight way which leads to a better life. Knowledge is the best example of giving a "medium" >> that giving someone "knowledge" of what is right & what is wrong would never fail to make that soul realise its fault (wrong decisions) and also adopt the will-power to bring the necessary CHANGE within, and thereby their life elevates.
๐ผDo you understand? Become a medium to give them knowledge (of right vs wrong, of good vs better) and stay "detached" from what and how they respond to your help. Surely keep yourself distant from worries, or trying to CHANGE them! No... Knowledge is given only to bring clarity to someone's mind/intellect. The question of whether they will be able to accept the knowledge, it THEIR choice.
๐ทThis way, do the help/service which is required, yet remain detached from its result. And this is what ๐น๐๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐พ๐๐ฅ๐ teach us (do the Karma, and surrender its result to God)
๐ฑSecondly... if and whenever you feel uneasy of what help you may are giving, by all means PAUSE and self-reflect. You are not obliged to help anyone, but you do that with love and mercy. Keep this clear in mind.
"Love Your-Self First"
All religions ave wrongly taught that "loving your-self" is something "wrong" or "unacceptable in God's eyes" and you must devote your life serving everyone else but yourself.
๐ธNope... Love begins from home ... Everything is first born ๐๐ถ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป... then it radiates out into the world... So by all means: "LOVE YOURSELF FIRST" > then love your family > then go out and help others. Like as they say: "๐พ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐๐ฃ๐จ ๐๐ฉ ๐๐ค๐ข๐" >> For how can you love others, if you cannot love your own self?
๐ป๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฑ๐น๐... while helping someone, if you truly follow the aboveโ๏ธwisdom and ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐ญ๐๐๐ก๐๐... ๐๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ณ that "your help should never make the other person dependant but should inspire them to get up and take charge of life."
๐ณ๐ง๐ถ๐ฝ โค We suggest you to listen to this short clip where God explains the "๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐ " โค https://bksustenance.s3.ap-south-1.amazonaws.com/PG+AG/Principle+of+Helping+(How+to+Help).mp3
"๐๐ค '๐๐ฃ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐' ๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐จ๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐๐"
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