Question Answers

When someone newly comes in contact with the Brahma Kumaris Godly University (organisation), or in general, starts walking the path of spirituality—they always come across this question: "does god prohibit marriage, love, or sex?" "can i be spiritual if i marry?"—the answer to this question lies within a greater question that humanity have always faced—the question of good and evil, the question of right and wrong. So come and read the following enlightening lines.

Title: 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙝𝙞𝙗𝙞𝙩 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚?

Subtitle: 𝚄𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚕𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚘𝚏 𝚊 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎

((read with attention—till the end))

✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"

The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in October 2024.

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ANSWER

Just like you, many people think that 'love' is prohibited for those who walk the path of spirituality. And any form of expression of love must be avoided.

⭐Yet, it is not 'love' that is prohibited. In fact, nothing (in its 𝕙𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕖𝕤𝕥 𝕤𝕥𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕠𝕗 𝕖𝕩𝕚𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕟𝕔𝕖) is (or can be) prohibited in this path.

☘️Yes, the physical (and limited) expression of love in the form of 'sex' is not practised by most souls who have attained a certain height in spirituality.

✶𝗡𝗼𝘄 𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱: This is not because sex is bad or impure, but because as we evolve spiritually, the source of our joy becomes "the joy of the soul" and not "the joy of the body" >> we no longer seek to experience 𝕕𝕚𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕛𝕠𝕪 from these 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐬. You see >> the 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 "𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐬" because the soul is bliss itself >> when the soul is at lower vibration, it becomes body-conscious... and so bodily pleasure (sex) is what it finds pleasuring. But, as we evolve, 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭 𝐨𝐟 "𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐬" 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬—𝐚𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝙒𝙃𝙊 𝘼𝙈 𝙄 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬..

This is the reason we consider the 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐬 diminishing and worthless. Because it is uncomparable to the supersensual joy of SOUL >> when we are in our full 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜, bliss surrounds—we are 𝚖𝚎𝚛𝚐𝚎𝚍 and 𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚎𝚍 in the 𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐬.

🌈LOVE is a pure emotion of 𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 with another soul... 𝐈𝐧 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬... HOW can this be prohibited by God?

Yes >> this pure love is not experienced with someone's bodily existence, but with the eternal soul. "love the soul" "love all souls"

🍁Surely most human beings do not understand 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝘀—they have forgotten. So here is a 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 with this beautiful post >> 𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝👉 https://www.shivbabas.org/forum/question-answers/what-is-true-love

➕Hence—it is a false understanding that we cannot love more than one person at a time... Indeed if you are incapable of loving more than one person at a time, you will produce 'a 𝐆𝐨𝐝 of your imagination' who loves YOU more than others, and who loves one group of people more than another.

🌻Yet, God loves everyone, 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥, 𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬, 𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 & 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲... So is that immoral in your eyes? Perhaps you are falsly identifying 'love' with 'romance' and 'sex' alone >> yet, they are only a small part of what LOVE makes up to be.

🌷Why not can i love the entire world—every soul at once? Isn't that the HIGHEST expression of spirituality, and the greatest quality of a spiritual person?

☝️You have your answers in these questions. I am here to guide your thought. 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫: "𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦'𝘴 𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴—𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘰𝘭𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘵𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧."

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