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At some point in life, you will discover that there comes two choices to you, and both of them seems to be right. Whether to preserve/protect self-respect and move away from the situation, OR to tolerate and move into in order to resolve the matter. This is an important question and a very common situation we all would have faced at some point in this life. So here is our 𝕤𝕡𝕚𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕦𝕒𝕝 𝕚𝕟𝕤𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 and 𝕘𝕦𝕚𝕕𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕖 for you.

Title: "𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛, 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝘿𝙞𝙜𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙮"

(𝚐𝚞𝚒𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚘𝚗 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚝𝚘 𝚔𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚊 𝚋𝚊𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚝 & 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚝 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚜)

✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘢𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"

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🍀The broader question is: "𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘪 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘮𝘦 V/S 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵"

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬: "Always choose dignity & self-respect. As in respecting your-self, you also contribute positively in lives of everyone around you"

🌳𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱: By protecting your self-respect, you are harming no one... 𝐃𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 is a fundamental right of every human being. You are 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚎, 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚍 & 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚎𝚍 for who you are.

✶𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱: By getting away from a situation, not only you protect your-self, but also protect the other person from harming you, doing wrong to you.

Now...your situation here is very commonly seen in the world, and especially in India. You have chosen to part from your husband with whom you had clashes. You are certainly not supposed to tolerate physical violence. But the answer to any violence, is ᑭEᗩᑕE, ᒪOᐯE & ᑭᗩTIEᑎᑕE. (Keep Peace in your mind, Love in your hear, and Patience in all your doings)

Protecting Dignity

Surely you should 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫-𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 from being harmed by any means... But do not harm others for this... Simply 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 (go away). Then come to PEACE... and send the vibrations of PEACE to all... And then come back... And that is exactly what you have done... So we say you "well done" for that wise decision.

🌻To love someone, is to do what is good for them, isn't it? And in the same light, to love the self, is 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 & 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟'𝐬 𝐝𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲.

🌈We would like to teach you something here, if you allow >>

"𝘋𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘶𝘴𝘣𝘢𝘯𝘥... 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘣𝘦 𝘢 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘒𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘤 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴"

✶𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: "Every soul is in the image of God. We all are originally 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬"

No one does something bad intentionally. It is simply that they are 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞 of what is truly right and wrong (at that moment). And when you know this, you are able to 𝐛𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 naturally.

𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗪𝗶𝘀𝗱𝗼𝗺

We have explained this many many times on this Samadhan group. This life is a planned DRAMA for us 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 & 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 who we are... We come here only for that...

🌿So whatever happens in your life, is not by chance... But 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐝 in order to bring you closer to your final purpose of life. In simple words, "𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙃𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣𝙨 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙂𝙤𝙤𝙙 𝘾𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚"

🌷𝗜𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝘀𝗲, you have got an 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 right now to become FREE from all attachments, to discover your self-potential, and find your purpose of life.

🌟You see, 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐫-𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐖𝐞 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐍𝐨𝐭... Understand this once again and clearly. When you left your husband, you must also stay away from his 𝚖𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚜 & 𝚟𝚒𝚋𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜... And ask the questions to your self, rather than pointing outside... 𝘞𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘴.

Inner Work

🍁This is what we call "𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤" and this is what you need to do right now, and in a few weeks or months when you feel that you are ready 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 with your then husband, then go ahead and give him another chance. Remember: By giving him a chance, you are giving your-self a chance too.

🍎Therefore, as we said and explained, doing the "inner work" is your aim right now. Life has given you this opportunity to become FREE from all attachments & find your-self within.

🌱𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲. Bless everyone who caused this to happen. Bless your husband for his role in your life... And become a blessing to him by showing him also, the 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗚𝗼𝗱.

☝️This is God's answer for you, my opinion. Think on this, and do as you choose.

🍇Finally, we highly suggest you to follow our program Awakening with Brahma Kumaris (by BK sister Shivani) and particularly watch the series on "Healing Relationships" and "Soul-Connections". They will guide you ahead.

𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 (Hindi) 👉 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt551HqVGwRL1hqVi9TQD-03Hp

𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥-𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 (English) 👉 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL457FB082F908E197

𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 (𝗛𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶) 👉 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8BCGs3ul_7R1j_LBAa7oaJMBEWVGr_55

Summary

Assure your husband that you will come back in a few weeks or months... During this time, you need to do the "inner work" (as we explained) and also inspire your husband to follow spirituality through our "Awakening" program... Do this for him too... His nature will improve as well.

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𝐵𝓁𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈...

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