Wife and Husband had problem to live together where the wife wanted to live with some other person. Note that they also have a son and yet wife has this desire. Here the husband writes to us asking the solution to this problem, otherwise, How to explain his wife that this is a very wrong decision or get her to change her mind. Here is our many emails written as a guidance.
Original Question asked via Email by Anit :
Thank you for your kind response, my issue is that: - Me & my wife Nupur are married since last 15 years having 2 sons 14 & 10 years.
My wife got into other relationship & now she says that I haven't given that much value, respect, love in last 15 years, she adds that There is no compatibility between us.
She says that finds herself very comfortable & real feeling of soulmate with that person.She is not ready to listen to any logic, justification.
She is an strong follower of SGI ( buddhism practices) since last 5 years & says that all this whatever happening in life is the manifestation mystically.
I kept myself calm and has handled matured manner. But she says that she will surely leave and will marry that person, this person was also introduced in SGI practises and my wife was mwntoring him. Probably this person has also divorced his wife and now being smart enough & close to my wife knows everything well, keep suggesting her the ways to just be with him.
Sir I request you to kindly help me with enlightenment and pls help me with solution.
Thanks & regards
Our three Responses to Email
Now what is the state to your relationship with wife and family? It is better?
Also you can practice this Swamaan - Swamaan means self respect. Our Swamaan are - I am a peaceful soul, Pure soul, Powerful soul, Loveful Soul.. (Pavitra Atma, Shanti Swaroop Atma, Shakti swaroop Atma...)
* Every morning - wake up early (around 5 am) and listen these above commentaries.
Here are more Raja Yog music & guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary
(save above link)
Shiv baba is always with you untill you chose to be Pure (celibacy). Pluse we always are with you, to guide you. ok? Here is a guide to Celibacy in life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life
How to handle and sustain family and family life, is all explained in the Awakening with Brahma Kumaris TV program by Sister Shivani. To know know visit: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes
Sit together (you and your wife) to watch these awakening TV episodes. You may also watch on their YouTube channel here: http://youtube.com/bkshivani
Awakening Website (for TV program times): http://awakening.in/
Awakening episodes in Audio: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes
*** Email 3rd (last) ***
As guided in previous emails, do you wake up early and practice Swamaan and do you both watch Awakening together?
Because understanding is a nature and needs virtues of calmess and tolerance. Meditation is a way to develop this virtues naturally within.
What is Raja Yoga meditation?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation