Most of the times, our belief system directs us to understand Relationships by labels, making us Role conscious. Spirituality explains to go by Soul Consciousness, making it easier to have mutual respect and regard for people as they are, a Human BEING. Here is our advise to a brother who wishes to develop a pure Brother-Sister relationship and get rid of the negative thoughts/feelings he gets throughout the day.
Original Message/Email Received in Nov 2020
I am having sisterly feelings with one of my female colleagues. I do imagine her face while affirming to our Brother Sister relationship. But I am facing a problem of the insecurity of losing her.
While affirming I visualize about us having a pure Brother Sister relationship. But the rest of the day I get negative feelings about her and the relationship. Will having negative feelings impact my affirmation. How to get away with this negative feeling and continue with the positive feeling of the brother sister relationship and make the relationship happen.
Please help me to get rid of the negative feeling of losing the person.
Email Response + Guidance
Divine BrotherWe believe that you are a beautiful pure soul who is little struggling with emotions and maintaining a 'control' over the thoughts inspired by soul (& created by the mind)Yes. As written, our thoughts are inspired by the nature of the soul (the self/being). The soul whose very nature is beautiful, will definitely inspire beautiful thoughts. Mind is only our 'medium'.Now coming to a specific scene - you have a sisterly feeling with someone who works with you. This suggests that you 'definitely' had a relationship (probably a Sibling-Sibling relationship) with that soul in one of your previous lives. That is the reason why you immediately catch that vibrations and thoughts come immediately when you see a person. Isn't it?For example, if you had a bitter relationship with someone in your previous life, then when you meet that soul in even this birth, you will FEEL that vibrations and that can make you feel uneasy in his/her company. This same is true for a soul with whom you had a 'beautiful' relationship.✤ SOLUTION ✤
How To Control thoughts?Well. The most you CAN do is to "be conscious" of what thoughts are being created by your mind. When you become "conscious" you simply "command" your mind to think right.