Parents often have concerns for their children, especially when one is a special child. Parents' priority should be to adopt a healthy mind-style (a meditative lifestyle) to keep themselves charged (in high-frequency energy). The children will automatically get powerful nourishment. Children need unconditional love & acceptance to raise their own vibration. Provide them a high energy atmosphere.
From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To: Everyone reading this
Hello sister, we have two children, but we are struggling to guide our older child, possibly due to his ADHD condition. He is 9 years old and struggles with his social/ emotional and executive function skills. Our normal parenting strategies don’t seem to work for him. How do we enable him to help himself when we are not able to help him see that if he is struggling with something, following our and the teachers' advice and directions will be good for him? It seems that we are struggling to maintain a connection with him. How do we help him to help himself?
-------------------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all"
Our Email Response + Guidance
Good Morning Archita Ji,
What advice the child would be given by you or his teachers might be right, but the child needs the power to do it. Any person needs two things: (1) knowledge [what & how to do], (2) the power to do it. In reality, anyone needs the right instruction just once, not more than that. If s/he's not able to do it then he's lacking the power. Your child's power/energy is at present low already. He needs people who could help him increase his inner power, who could love him unconditionally...
YOUR EVERY THOUGHT NOURISHES YOUR CHILD
A child is closely connected with his parents, to be precise - he's very closely connected with his parents' energy. We might be taking care of the child in terms of words, & actions but we hardly pay attention to what thoughts we create. Every thought that we create radiates energy/vibration to the person we think about. If the thought is of a high frequency, it increases the energy of the person the thought was created for. If the thought is of low frequency, it depletes the person's energy. Today almost everyone understands the importance of thinking positively, but they think that remaining positive means thinking what-so-ever for minutes & at last saying "No, No, everything will be fine". Say for example, about a situation 50 of our thoughts are of negative quality (fear, uncertainty, worry, hopelessness, rejection, impatience) & 2-3 thoughts are of positive quality (feeling certain about success, carefree/certain, patient, calm, loveful), the situation will get worse, because we radiated more negative energy to it. We need to pause & pay attention to our thoughts throughout the day, check what quality of thoughts are we creating & elevate its quality.
ELEVATED INFORMATION - THE RIGHT FOOD FOR MIND
We can think positively only when we fill our minds with higher frequency food. What we Read, Watch & Listen is the food for our minds, a raw material based on which our mind creates thoughts. Consume only & only the highest energy information, at least in the first hour in the morning. We carry out multiple tasks in a day - we take care of our health, we look after our kids, we take care of household chores... But we do not take care of the mind that performs all these tasks. In Brahma Kumaris, first thing in the morning we study Murli (the Knowledge given by God Himself) & meditate (connect ourselves with the Supreme Being) to fill ourselves with Peace & Powers, this energizes us and prepares us for the day. The way we charge our phones daily, we need to 'charge' our minds. And the only way is - learning RajYoga Meditation.
MEDITATIVE LIFESTYLE: A Unique & Enriching Lifestyle.
Get up an hour earlier than your usual time & spend one hour of 'Me' time to fill yourself with Peace, Love & Powers (Come & Learn RajYoga Meditation, more details are given below)
Spend some time sitting in silence to bless your child with elevated energy (consciously creating beautiful positive thoughts)
Energize your food and water that you consume
Half an hour of meditation before sleeping
Take this as an experiment for 3 months, you'll 100% see positive changes in your life! As the parents practice meditation, children automatically get connected to high-frequency energy. The house's energy becomes positive. You'll be able to deal with your older child much patiently, & love-fully. The child himself may not be able to understand RajYoga knowledge, but taking him along in the meditation center for a while will definitely help. Even if a person spends 30 minutes just sitting in such a high-frequency vibration, he feels Peaceful & his energy increases.
POWER OF GIVING VIBRATIONS
Spare some time in your meditation for your older child. Connect yourself with the Supreme Power (through RajYoga), fill yourself with Peace & Powers & then visualize your child getting love & powers from God. Visualize him getting stronger, peaceful, patient... Your child originally is full of Peace, Happiness, Love, Bliss, Purity, Joy, Knowledge & Powers! The more you think about his original virtues & powers, the sooner he will be able to emerge it practically! [Read: Our innate 7 Virtues]
My child is full of calmness, peace & powers... We unconditionally accept him, love him...
We're concerned about him, but we do not create a single worry-full thought for him...
We accept him as he is... We do not expect him to match anybody's expectations for him...
We do not compare him with anyone else...
It's ok if he's not able to follow what we advise/guide... We accept him with love... Our acceptance increases his power, which then enables him to perform better...
God is showering his love over him... We, his parents, share a great, comfortable, loveful bond with him...
About learning RajYoga Meditation: Brahma Kumaris has more than 8500 branches in over 140 countries today, find a nearby center for you here. You can learn RajYoga Meditation for free, take benefits of the high vibration atmosphere daily & learn to energize your home's vibration.
* USEFUL VEDIOS *
Unconditional Love & Acceptance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuXzSPtgYpM
Give Children Right Vibrations At Home: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ynda6_hs-4w
Parenting in the Modern World: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lCuQerNV9z4
Empowering Children: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJlsxhZFxEQ
Meditative Lifestyle: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJFZaOO_i9o
Energize Your Home's Energy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Pn0NenlkPQ
Energize Your Food: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SIpVdKaCPw&t=19s
Water For Happiness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a_OySuuXTlg
How to Keep Your Aura White: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkQNyFQ6o9E
This is God's creation for the New World (Heaven). We welcome you to learn ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us
Here is our Further advice ->
You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas'
Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful.
HOW TO DO?
Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist)
While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside.
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