We also receive such questions. About love, relationship and how to handle feelings and overcome situations and explain someone. Here, a Kumari, who is received Gyan recently asks for advice upon her past life and how to explain someone that she doesn't wish to marry. Gyan is clear in mind, need is of Yog. The power of Yog will erase the impurity and the intellect becomes divine. We can make right decisions. Soul has to leave behind all body consciousness to recognise and obtain God, the Supreme soul.
Original Email Received
Om Shanti. I have a question to ask. I'm facing a problem recently. There's is a boy in our class in college,with whom I went in a relationship a year ago & few months back I broke up with him. Now as a classmate we still talk to each other.I talk to him just as a good friend,but he insists me to be in a relationship with him,to marry him in future.I have clearly told him about my non willingness to relationship/marriage
But day by day he is more & more insisting me. How can I make him feel that we are soul brothers & not meant for now-a-days lustful love relationships.He never wanted to come to rajyog centres. How can I make him understand right thing? Please help me providing proper suggestion.
Our Email Response
Good Morning Rima
Your letter is received on behalf of Shiv baba. Here is the response and guidance.
Firstly, because you are studying in loukik college and while this, you have received the message, you have received the Gyaan. It seems that you are a wise soul. Understanding that love and marriage are not for the present time. If you want to love, then love God. We fall in love with the one who is more virtues, one with more power and one who is all understanding. In every regard, Shiv baba is most virtues, most powerful and an ocean of all knowledge.
You are his child. You have to remain pure from within and out. You cannot explain Gyaan to everyone. Only those who have a little of pure intellect will be attracted. Those who has done good karma will only come and stay in God's home, sit in his lap.
Purity attracts and also repels. Rima, understand this clearly. You have to do Purusharth within to become pure/ holy in your thoughts. As you get such stage, no one can look at you with impure feeling. This will solve your problem automatic. Source: Celibacy
You have to keep a balance in loukik and aloukik study. In you mind, you know that this loukik study is not going to help the soul to attain any fortune. But the aloukik study (Murli) is a fortune for many many births.. So likewise you keep a balance so that you never miss reading or listening Shiv baba's murli
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