The following was our response written on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2023. Title: "How to Live Life Happily at Fullest?" (in-general guidance, applicable to everyone)
🌱You mentioned a few things about your husband and your good wishes for life. Words weren't clear so i had to go through your message a few times. What became clear is that you want to do something worthwhile in life, to help others... which demands financial help from your husband, who is money conscious. He does not spend money easily.
🍀Well, we would not say that spending money lavishly is wise. But yes, use your money in right things which gives you happiness.
➥ Going to trips and holiday with family
➥ spending time together
➥ making memories
➥ buying things which are useful in daily life
☝️These are good use of money
🌹Coming to your goodwill to help everyone >> this noble service you can do without need of money, or with a little money. Help is not always financial... Service simply means 'sharing' what you have in excess. You can share love, peace, joy, empowering words, time (moments of life), good advice (like we do) and much more... all of which does not need any money to begin. Giving HOPE to someone is also a GREAT service.
🌺Now coming to >> how to be happy? >> "change your attitude to life" >> there are 100 good things, 1000 right things happening in your life RIGHT NOW... focus on them >> be grateful for the gifts of life >> and if you need something else too, work towards it and stay assured that God always and will always provide whatever your soul desire.
★Please read our post Affirmations and Manifestation
✶𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: "Secrets of a Good husband-wife relationship" ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0uLLuodEFhE (by Sandeep Maheshwari)
and
✶𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: "How to Not get affected by others?" ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpuZtSDaOtw (by BK Shivani)
🌸Have good wishes for your husband >> he has his own point of view & what he does is justified >> also that spending money wisely is equally important.
🪴If you wish to CHANGE his sanskaar, only love and spiritual empowerment is one sure method. Only LOVE can change someone for good.
👉𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: "How to CHANGE a person?" ➤ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HcTwOoZFe88 (by sister Shivani)
🌳Never be angry on your husband. If he comes home with anger, your PEACE and LOVE is powerful enough to calm him down and uplift his mood. Wife is also like a Mother.
Remember: "The Light of your Love is all he need to become the best version of himself"
𝕮𝖔𝖓𝖈𝖑𝖚𝖘𝖎𝖔𝖓
So if you wish to truly enjoy life, learn to:
➥ understand the situations
➥ adjust sometimes
➥ love all-ways
➥ act with "peace" in mind
➥ take decisions with "patience"
➥ do Not worry about "past"
➥ take "lessons" from past mistakes
➥ keep your "intention" positive & clean
➥ send "positive" thoughts to your family
➥ "bless" yourself & all others
➥ be "hopefull" for the future
➥ take every day a NEW beginning
➥ Live as if Today is the last day
☝️That is all you need to become the best version of yourself, and thus to live the life at its fullest.
On Godly Service,
𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖗, 𝕾𝖆𝖒𝖆𝖉𝖍𝖆𝖓, 𝕾𝕭𝕾𝕴
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