The following was our response written on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in March 2023. Title: "How to Live Life Happily at Fullest?" (in-general guidance, applicable to everyone)
🌱You mentioned a few things about your husband and your good wishes for life. Words weren't clear so i had to go through your message a few times. What became clear is that you want to do something worthwhile in life, to help others... which demands financial help from your husband, who is money conscious. He does not spend money easily.
🍀Well, we would not say that spending money lavishly is wise. But yes, use your money in right things which gives you happiness.
➥ Going to trips and holiday with family
➥ spending time together
➥ making memories
➥ buying things which are useful in daily life
☝️These are good use of money
🌹Coming to your goodwill to help everyone >> this noble service you can do without need of money, or with a little money. Help is not always financial... Service simply means 'sharing' what you have in excess. You can share love, peace, joy, empowering words, time (moments of life), good advice (like we do) and much more... all of which does not need any money to begin. Giving HOPE to someone is also a GREAT service.
🌺Now coming to >> how to be happy? >> "change your attitude to life" >> there are 100 good things, 1000 right things happening in your life RIGHT NOW... focus on them >> be grateful for the gifts of life >> and if you need something else too, work towards it and stay assured that God always and will always provide whatever your soul desire.