We all carry memories of past experiences that sits heavily on our hearts and minds, shaping how we see ourselves and the world around us. Healing begins when we choose to 'face' these memories with 'compassion' instead of concealing them, turning pain into an opportunity for growth. Whether it’s a heartbreak, a loss, a betrayal, or a regret, unresolved experiences can quietly hold us back, keeping us from experiencing the JOY of the present. But healing isn’t about erasing the past; it’s about transforming its weight into wisdom. In this post, you will read beautiful insight and guidance on the same.
Title: "𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖 𝙋𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙀𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 (𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙬𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙)"
Subtitle:
𝙾𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚠𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚊 𝚗𝚎𝚠 '𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚎' 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎 & 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛 𝙶𝚘𝚍'𝚜 𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚛𝚐𝚢
✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"
The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhan WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context.
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𝗤𝘂𝗲𝗿𝘆: I have a fear of boys i cant feel comfortable... I want to fly high but because of my 'childhood incidences' i didn't feel comfortable... Situation got worse in age of 22 and till now i got all mess... I hate boys... at public places and i am not at myself when i see boys... Please find solution... i also consulted doctors.
Response
The problem becomes simple... when you see the 'root cause' of it... the source that arised your this feeling of 'aversion' with boys, as you described.
The root is in your 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 >> you would have went through an "intense" experience surrounding the particular gender--an abuse perhaps... which left this 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐤 on your soul... which needs to be HEALED.
🪻Healing is simple, when you see WHAT needs to be healed.... just as light eliminates darkness... a negative experience can be eliminates with a POSITIVE one.
➤You know what to do >> first >> charity begins at home >> be more around with 'men' in your family... be more comfortable (do this 'consciously') and also see if you find a male friend who is well-charactered.
➤𝐃𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐩 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 with right people of your opposite gender... this will 'naturally' annihilate the feeling of aversion, and help you experience POSITIVITY from this bond.
➤When you will feel as good and safe as you feel around your girl friends---with your male friends, your past experience will begin to HEAL within.
Second
'Healing Meditation'
Wake up in early morning and sit for 10 minutes in silence... Focus your energy, all your thoughts at the centre of your forehead... between the two eyes.
🌈Now... Visualise a pure white light of 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 flowing on you... now feel --"i am being healed by this light, this energy... all my past experiences are healed... my soul is empowered and filled with this 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐨𝐟 '𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 & 𝐣𝐨𝐲'
See this animation 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨 for help with visualisation👉 https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Flow-of-White-light-from-Shiv-baba.mp4
🌳To invite you to begin your "inner healing" with help of the following VIDEOS and POSTS:
𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: NDE interview about "past life"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57miEE6sVDA
𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨: HOW do i 'heal' my PAST LIFE karma?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Eie9OBQYe4
𝐌𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐜: Healing & Forgiveness VIBRATION
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-mF55q3ZWM
Post: Heal the Past, Live in the Joy
Post: 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐮𝐫𝐭
✶𝗔𝗱𝗺𝗶𝗻: 𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘶𝘮 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺/𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴). 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘶𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 & 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. "𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜"
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