Does Your Self-Esteem Rely On Winning & Losing? (Part 2)

2● 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐒𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐄𝐲𝐞𝐬 & 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐀𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐕𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 – Spiritual wisdom teaches us to see ourselves with spiritual eyes or the eyes of wisdom. Our physical eyes show us our physical self and all our physical realities like age, gender, looks, outer personality, nationality, relationship, religion, degree, role, wealth, etc. When we see ourselves as spiritual beings or souls and start realizing and understanding our spiritual importance and also the importance of God in our lives, a new depth enters our lives and instead of living life on the surface, we go deeper and understand ourselves better.

➤We also begin to see the roles of other souls and life’s events differently realise their temporary nature and understand how we don’t need to make our happiness dependent on them. Lastly, by imbibing and listening to God’s wisdom every day, our beliefs change from winning and losing physically to winning everyone’s heart including God’,s and losing or leaving our weaknesses and becoming perfect human beings, who are loved by God and everyone else, based on inner goodness and not on outer victories and defeats.

3● 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 & 𝐎𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐕𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐎𝐫 𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐧 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 – From today, whenever your child or your office colleague, or your favourite sports team is trying its best, say positive words to them and have positive thoughts and feelings for them. Also, start giving every little good thing you or others do important and don’t think about its result. Spiritual wisdom says to perform your positive actions nicely and not think about their fruit, which you get in return.

➤𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞– perform every action in God’s remembrance feel happy after doing it and give happiness to others through it. Don’t make your self-esteem and happiness dependent only on big victories, which the world has defined as big, because those big victories are temporary and they will not be with us always. The more we start enjoying every action, irrespective of its result, the more we will feel victorious like never before and we will transmit the same energy to others in our home, workplace,s and society, which is required urgently everywhere. Otherwise, human beings are dying a slow spiritual death by being over-competitive and are neither happy themselves, nor giving happiness to others.