The Invisible Support System Of Life (Part 3)
The most important and primary influence on our relationships and making them full of love and happiness is our own mental state. Very often, we talk very positively with people or act very sweetly with people but our minds are full of emotions like jealousy, revenge, hatred, and even doubt, suspicion, and insecurity. This can harm our relationships immensely and make them internally weak.
➤Sometimes the effects of these hidden emotions don’t show up very soon but they keep harming the relationships internally, without us realizing it. So, 𝐚 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐨𝐟 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, gets the same energy back in all its relationships. This makes relationships full of success and free of obstacles that arise primarily from different personalities and different viewpoints.
➤Lastly, all of us live our life in this world and we play different roles. One person will play different roles of father, son, husband, brother, engineer, etc. in one’s life and all these roles require different qualities and powers as well as skills and attitudes. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐣𝐨𝐲, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞.
➤As a result, it can not only choose the right qualities for every role but also implement them in action. Also, the mind saves a lot of its energy and can remain powerful in every situation when it is charged with positive thoughts full of these three virtues. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘀, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗹𝘆, which is the primary key to success. So, roles benefit immensely, under the influence of the mind.
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Message for Today
"Each reaction reflects one's own self-esteem"
Points to think about:
When we have low self-esteem , even the smallest situation can trigger a powerful negative reaction. We constantly blame circumstances and use them as excuses for not taking responsibility. We feel helpless and unable to do anything about our circumstances. Such negative behavior only makes things worse in difficult situations.
Procedure:
When my self-esteem is high , I can stay positive even in the most negative situations. It allows me to control the situation, instead of the situation controlling me.