Encourage & Appreciate Children
We need to appreciate children when they bring values into their thoughts, words, and actions and show them that values always work. Every child has a unique set of values and virtues that need to be appreciated and nurtured. Teach them that values are the biggest and most important success in their lives.
1 ● Values are more often caught by children rather than being taught to them. When as adults you live values consistently, children absorb them. Display honesty in simple acts like admitting to mistakes, paying taxes, paying fines if you break traffic rules, and so on. Respect family members, friends, neighbors, office colleagues, and domestic help, which children notice.
2 ● Teach children to meditate every morning and read at least a small paragraph of spiritual content before beginning their day. This will keep them calm and make them emotionally strong. They will take the right decisions and stick to their values and principles.
3 ● Prioritise values over academic and other achievements. If children admit to having bunked classes to go for a movie with their friends or making any other mistake, first appreciate them for being honest, and then tell them what they did was not right.
4 ● Help children create their own value compass. Encourage them to choose any one value and then use it with everyone, everywhere, and every time for a week. Ask them to notice how it feels to use a value and what benefit it brings.
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Message for Today
"Whether a situation feels difficult or easy, depends on your own mindset"
Points to think about:
When we experience a difficult situation, we often feel overwhelmed by it. We are so caught up in it that we cannot think about anything. When this happens, even a small problem becomes a big obstacle and success becomes more difficult.
Procedure:
The extent of any problem depends on my state of mind. In practice, it doesn't matter how big or small the problem is. What matters is how I deal with it. When my mind is calm and balanced, my confidence grows. When I believe I can conquer the problem, I will.