Speak Less, Speak Slowly and Speak Softly

Many of us feel we need to be talking to people to make ourselves heard or to sound interesting. This anxiety makes us over-think and over-talk. So we don’t take time to pronounce words clearly, we use more words than needed, and we even speak louder to make a point. Even if we have all the wisdom, just the way we speak can make our listeners irritated and they stop paying attention to us.

1 ● In any conversation, do you pay attention to 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐞? Do you sometimes find yourself speaking to people, for the sake of saying something? Do you tend to speak without organizing your thoughts, and realize you could have said it so much better?

2 ● Throughout the day we constantly 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝟐 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐞𝐬: 𝚃𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚛𝚐𝚢 which then comes out as 𝚆𝚘𝚛𝚍 𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚛𝚐𝚢. So, if we have too many thoughts, we tend to talk too much. That hurry to speak doesn’t leave us with the margin to choose our words carefully or speak pleasantly.

3 ● If we want our words to be 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥, they need to be fewer and carry high-energy vibrations. When we do this, we naturally speak right, speak less and speak softly. We will not just impress people but influence the conversation.

4 ● 𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐯𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐯𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮. Remind yourself - I choose words that create my perfect world. I speak only what is right, in the right manner and radiate the highest vibrations.