Loss of loukik father and a question if Soul's life birth and death is pre-destined or does it get decided at instant in present life situation. Here is our answer.
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I'm the second daughter of my parents. I & my dad were so much attached to each other.I don't think any one has ever loved me the way my dad loved me & I loved him so much too.He was the happiest when something nice happened to me.Unfortunately I had problems in my marriage & was living apart from my spouse for almost a year. My dad was very sad over this.
Very unexpectedly, my dad passed away one morning due to hemorrhagic stroke (internal bleeding; but he didn't have any previous history of high bp as far as I know).Everyone says that the mis happenings in my life has caused a serious toll on him and that's the reason for his sudden demise. Is that the case? Is there a fixed time for every atma to leave the body or it just leaves the body on certain circumstances as I mentioned above (where the mental pain has caused the disease and eventually death).
I very much feel that if I didn't have any marital problems, my dad would still have been with me.
You have partly answered your question. The time of birth and death and even how the soul is going to leave the body is already decided before by the soul itself. No one can change that. He left his body according to his past karmas and at the right time as per the scheme of the grand world drama. You need not think that you are the reason for your father’s death.
You are not a reason of life, nor thus can you become a reason of death. You are just you, the eternal pure soul. Nothing bad can be done without a bad intention behind it. If you in your intention feel god about someone, you cannot, cannot do any bad to that soul. Love is that. Love is freedom and also a bonding thread. So be happy for your father's soul. If you truely love him, send good vibrations.
Read this article in the World Renewal magazine (Page 19) to understand more about life and death :