Healing a Past Experience
We all carry memories of past experiences that sits heavily on our hearts and minds, shaping how we see ourselves and the world around us. Healing begins when we choose to 'face' these memories with 'compassion' instead of concealing them, turning pain into an opportunity for growth. Whether itโs a heartbreak, a loss, a betrayal, or a regret, unresolved experiences can quietly hold us back, keeping us from experiencing the JOY of the present. But healing isnโt about erasing the past; itโs about transforming its weight into wisdom. In this post, you will read beautiful insight and guidance on the same.
Title: "๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ (๐๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐๐ก ๐ฌ๐ค๐ช๐ฃ๐)"
Subtitle:
๐พ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ก๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ '๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐' ๐๐ก๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ & ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ถ๐๐'๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด (๐ง๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐บ/๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด). ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ, ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จย & ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ๐ด๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ด. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
The following was written in response to a query we received on our Samadhanย WhatsApp group in April 2025. So please read the following in the same context.
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๐ค๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐: I have a fear of boys i cant feel comfortable... I want to fly high but because of my 'childhood incidences' i didn't feel comfortable... Situation got worse in age of 22 and till now i got all mess... I hate boys... at public places and i am not at myself when i see boys... Please find solution... i also consulted doctors.
Response
The problem becomes simple... when you see the 'root cause' of it... the source that arised your this feeling of 'aversion' with boys, as you described.
The root is in your ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ >> you would have went through an "intense" experience surrounding the particular gender--an abuse perhaps... which left this ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐๐ซ๐ค on your soul... which needs to be HEALED.
๐ชปHealing is simple, when you see WHAT needs to be healed.... just as light eliminates darkness... a negative experience can be eliminates with a POSITIVE one.
โคYou know what to do >> first >> charity begins at home >> be more around with 'men' in your family... be more comfortable (do this 'consciously') and also see if you find a male friend who is well-charactered.
โค๐๐๐ฏ๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ with right people of your opposite gender... this will 'naturally' annihilate the feeling of aversion, and help you experience POSITIVITY from this bond.
โคWhen you will feel as good and safe as you feel around your girl friends---with your male friends, your past experience will begin to HEAL within.
Second
'Healing Meditation'
Wake up in early morning and sit for 10 minutes in silence... Focus your energy, all your thoughts at the centre of your forehead... between the two eyes.
๐Now... Visualise a pure white light of ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ flowing on you... now feel --"i am being healed by this light, this energy... all my past experiences are healed... my soul is empowered and filled with this ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐จ๐ '๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐, ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ & ๐ฃ๐จ๐ฒ'
See this animation ๐ฏ๐ข๐๐๐จ for help with visualisation๐ https://files.shivbabas.org/wp-content/uploads/Flow-of-White-light-from-Shiv-baba.mp4
๐ณTo invite you to begin your "inner healing" with help of the following VIDEOS and POSTS:
๐๐ข๐๐๐จ: NDE interview about "past life"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57miEE6sVDA
๐๐ข๐๐๐จ: HOW do i 'heal' my PAST LIFE karma?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Eie9OBQYe4
๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐: Healing & Forgiveness VIBRATION
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-mF55q3ZWM
Post: Heal the Past, Live in the Joy
Post: ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ
โถ๐๐ฑ๐บ๐ถ๐ป: ๐๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ง๐ถ๐ญ, ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ด๐ฆ ๐จ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด (๐ง๐ข๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐บ/๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด). ๐๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฅ๐ช๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ, ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จย & ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ๐ด๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ด. "๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐"
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๐ต๐ ๐ต๐๐๐๐๐๐น..โจ
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